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Ten commandments of NSA

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok this is a little tongue in cheek but so many people have different ideas on what exactly NSA is.

Let's shed some light on the ideas that go into NSA. Have heard some feel kissing is out of the equation well ok but if u take away kissing that rules out fucking for many.

Others meet once and only once no repeats meets. Fair enough but surely if u find that sexual compatibility it can only get better the more u do it

Some people don't do over night meets isnt that a little limiting think of all the fun u can have all through the night

Right so there are a few ideas would love someone else to throw in their views on what really makes a meet NSA.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well my view is that I don't believe in it!

Surely there has to be "real" interaction, the Craic etc before and after the deeds.

I'm not saying become best friends onvioualy I could text/call/flirt leading up to the meet and have fun on and off the field.

I can however if the other party just wants Sex and no other contact when ya leave I'm ok with that too but it's not my ideal.

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By *requent VisitorMan
over a year ago

City Centre

My personal view is NSA is all the fun that goes with sex without the emotional and relationship ties ie kissing is essential for it to be passionate and proper sex but then thats it, have the fun and then go our separate ways back to our mundane lives!. The overnight thing is too personal though so feel doesnt suit with a no strings kind of setup as dont want to be actually sleeping n waking up beside the person no matter how fit they are as ruins the whole setup between the fab and reality lines n lives!. Am sure alot will disagree but everyone to their own!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want true NSA I think it has to be a once off.

I'd rather have repeats, so for me.. It's (modified) NSA. As in no texts all the time, they are on my bold phone so I can "switch them off" if needs be.

But sometimes you can meet someone that you just click with that understands life gets in the way sometimes and is cool enough to become a regular. No strings but great friends..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you want true NSA I think it has to be a once off.

I'd rather have repeats, so for me.. It's (modified) NSA. As in no texts all the time, they are on my bold phone so I can "switch them off" if needs be.

But sometimes you can meet someone that you just click with that understands life gets in the way sometimes and is cool enough to become a regular. No strings but great friends..

"

BINGO!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nsa to me just means just no emotions. Enjoying someones company isn't emotional. Saying that your always going to develop a kind of fondness for someone.

Kissing is big part if sex for me. All nighters are rare but are always enjoyable. Love waking up and waking the person beside up in some naughty way. Always put a smile on your face for the day. Also agree with linksjinx. They become friends with added benefits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that maybe could that not lead to more. Surly if your friends with someone and have the friends with benefits and have regular sex and is an attraction there could lead to more. Expecially if both single

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By *omcattyMan
over a year ago

Local


"I think that maybe could that not lead to more. Surly if your friends with someone and have the friends with benefits and have regular sex and is an attraction there could lead to more. Expecially if both single"

Sounds like your lookin for a hubby there wex ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think that maybe could that not lead to more. Surly if your friends with someone and have the friends with benefits and have regular sex and is an attraction there could lead to more. Expecially if both single

Sounds like your lookin for a hubby there wex ? "
hell no how u figure that out I am just saying fb scenario could lead to it.

When it works it works good.

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By *omcattyMan
over a year ago

Local

Any way would be too much of a challenge explaning to auntie bridie how exactly you met,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any way would be too much of a challenge explaning to auntie bridie how exactly you met,, "

The Awkward Moment hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think that maybe could that not lead to more. Surly if your friends with someone and have the friends with benefits and have regular sex and is an attraction there could lead to more. Expecially if both single

Sounds like your lookin for a hubby there wex ? hell no how u figure that out I am just saying fb scenario could lead to it.

When it works it works good. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any way would be too much of a challenge explaning to auntie bridie how exactly you met,,

The Awkward Moment hahaha "
could be me awkward when she tells ya ywH me and uncle paddy have a couple profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any way would be too much of a challenge explaning to auntie bridie how exactly you met,,

The Awkward Moment hahaha could be me awkward when she tells ya ywH me and uncle paddy have a couple profile. "

I reckon something like this happened to me I went to a party meet in limerick in October and wa told I Had to go because I was recognised when I walked in by someone that really knew me well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohhhhh awkward to say the least.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ohhhhh awkward to say the least. "

Big time and I still don't know it is! They ran straight out to smoking area (couple) when u walked in so I had to bite my lip and go.

I need taking care of now who's going to comfort me?

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Any way would be too much of a challenge explaning to auntie bridie how exactly you met,,

The Awkward Moment hahaha could be me awkward when she tells ya ywH me and uncle paddy have a couple profile.

I reckon something like this happened to me I went to a party meet in limerick in October and wa told I Had to go because I was recognised when I walked in by someone that really knew me well. "

Awkward I know but as U both are there for the same reason NSA get over it laugh and if U click gud if not say hi and bye. I am going to the next one in limerick and because its local and of my job I am sure someone will reconise me we are both there for the same reason so I don't see a problem this country is to small not to at some time ffs being to 80 000 seated stadium and meet people I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something i never understood was running into people you knew at a swingers party or event. Both there for same reasons, not like your there for different reasons. People would be embrassed fair enough. Unless you have something to hide i.e. a wife or husband who didn't know

P.s. not a swipe at anyone on this thread

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