FabSwingers.com forum: Couple profile might only be the male?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Relatively new on here. Been chatting to some couples recently where I'm suspecting or have a hunch that it's only the male side on here and female has limited knowledge of her fab lifestyle!! As more experienced fabbers, what are the giveaways or telltale signs that this is the case?

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By *ergalMan
over a year ago

East Cork

Yep, lots of that happening.

Just pics of him would be a basic red flag, check if photo verified as a couple

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

- No public photos or photos that look like she is unaware

- No public veris or just one veri from a single male

- Very old veris may suggest they have split up

- He is chatting about meeting up alone

It's a minefield out there. Always meet for a social before committing to booking a hotel and always split the cost.

Heed red flags and don't be afraid to ask relevant questions.

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
over a year ago

The West

"- No public photos or photos that look like she is unaware

- No public veris or just one veri from a single male

- Very old veris may suggest they have split up

- He is chatting about meeting up alone

It's a minefield out there. Always meet for a social before committing to booking a hotel and always split the cost.

Heed red flags and don't be afraid to ask relevant questions."

All of the above!..Also photos that look more for Insta and Facebook than Fab! Whether they are sent privately or on the profile.

If it looks to good to be true, it probably is!

A wise man once told me, it takes a very intelligent person to be a good liar, most lads at this craic are not very intelligent.

Gets easier to pick them off the longer your here!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

If she has a very big clitoris she may well be a he.

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By *llthewaysMan
over a year ago

City centre/Naas

Do a reverse Google image on their pictures, but that should be done with all profiles you have any doubt about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or if verification says he showed me pics of herself and can't wait to meet again lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks all, plenty to watch out for so.

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By *om TangoMan
over a year ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

At least 2 couples profiles local to me are male only.

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By *oodOmensfor2Couple
over a year ago

Ennis

Also check how long ago the last verifications were and if they have met both or only the male part.

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By *ung guyMan
over a year ago

kildare

"Relatively new on here. Been chatting to some couples recently where I'm suspecting or have a hunch that it's only the male side on here and female has limited knowledge of her fab lifestyle!! As more experienced fabbers, what are the giveaways or telltale signs that this is the case?"
i think the biggest giveaway that it’s a male only profile is when you get a reply and a sure sign of a genuine couple profile is when they state not looking for single guys. Here since 2018 and still can’t find a couple and that’s what I came on looking for.

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By *arbie2020Man
over a year ago

Dublin 9

"Do a reverse Google image on their pictures, but that should be done with all profiles you have any doubt about."

Yes defo but I have noticed some of these profile pics have been altered aswell.

Open source searches everyone should know about. Its completely legal and encouraged in cyber security and policing

There are alot of OSINT Framework sites out there . Some are pay but most are free with some of the sites being pay. I would suggest to any genuine people on here to get familiar with this if not already.

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By *dlucyTV/TS
over a year ago

cork

This is happening A LOT lately, I was fooled a few times, but when you ask for a photo

And voice note from both parties suddenly silence, even fake female profiles on here..

hard to find a genuine couples or females that are interested in girls like myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Relatively new on here. Been chatting to some couples recently where I'm suspecting or have a hunch that it's only the male side on here and female has limited knowledge of her fab lifestyle!! As more experienced fabbers, what are the giveaways or telltale signs that this is the case?i think the biggest giveaway that it’s a male only profile is when you get a reply and a sure sign of a genuine couple profile is when they state not looking for single guys. Here since 2018 and still can’t find a couple and that’s what I came on looking for. "

These couples looking to play with males only are on fab.

They usually advertise as Hotwife on their profile.

The woman will 9 times out of 10 state she is straight.

Recent verifications. Who they are verified by.

Just coffee meet verifications are a big no.

If I want to meet a couple socially. Always meet socially before any play.

Insist on both being there. If the couple are genuine they won’t have an issue with this.

Couples are quite popular on here and are more inclined to go to organised events or be very verified by well known players on the swinging scene.

Always trust your instincts on fab. If it feels off it is

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By *ot_your_average_fabberMan
over a year ago

dublin

It’s hard these days, I’ve a single page and a couples page last veri for our couples page was over a year ago as my wife has a weekly meet with a lad (I call him her Boyfriend) so

She’s happy out with that so not looking to meet, most females think it’s me alone on the page but best way to prove it is to offer a phone call/Video where myself and the wife will chat to clarify if the person doesn’t take that…not much you can do other than ask for proof if they are real they will gladly give you proof to put you at ease …. If I wasn’t to do that I wouldn’t have any luck here at all.

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