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"Right so my bosses wife is really proper flirting rubbing my arms and shoulders... oh you seem stressed ill give ya a rub.. so Right will I or won't I rub back..." Get yourself some pineapple socks 
Maybe they’re into this scene and she’s waiting for you to innocently flirt back….”you look stressed too maybe I should return the favour?” Or maybe it’ll cost you your job lol | |||
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"Think a bit of flirt back and see She is wearing a summer dress all week... can't stand up for a few minutes after she pops in ...." Imagine wearing a dress to work that suits the weather Feckin cheek of her | |||
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"Where's all the sexual harassment comments?" How is it sexual harassment if the op dosnt fell harassed!!!!   | |||
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"Where's all the sexual harassment comments? How is it sexual harassment if the op dosnt fell harassed!!!! "But... equality! | |||
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"Where's all the sexual harassment comments? How is it sexual harassment if the op dosnt fell harassed!!!!
But... equality!"Butt equality  | |||
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"Right so my bosses wife is really proper flirting rubbing my arms and shoulders... oh you seem stressed ill give ya a rub.. so Right will I or won't I rub back..." Stop watching porn at work  | |||
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"Where's all the sexual harassment comments? How is it sexual harassment if the op dosnt fell harassed!!!! "How do you think this thread would be going if it was a woman being rubbed by her bosses' husband? | |||
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"Right so my bosses wife is really proper flirting rubbing my arms and shoulders... oh you seem stressed ill give ya a rub.. so Right will I or won't I rub back..." Yeah rub her 3rd tit then ride her in the back of your flying car (I’m assuming this scenario is totally imaginary) | |||
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"If that woman was creating a thread on a swinging website and suggesting she would like to fuck him... then no it's probably not harassment. " You sure? Think about who is in the position of power and whether that person knew their prey wanted to fuck them before they began the rubbing! | |||
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"If that woman was creating a thread on a swinging website and suggesting she would like to fuck him... then no it's probably not harassment. You sure? Think about who is in the position of power and whether that person knew their prey wanted to fuck them before they began the rubbing!" Certain...if shes posting about it in a sexy manner on the internet. | |||
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"Where's all the sexual harassment comments? How is it sexual harassment if the op dosnt fell harassed!!!!
How do you think this thread would be going if it was a woman being rubbed by her bosses' husband?"Be going the same way if she peotrayed it as flirting!!!! Ffs | |||
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"If that woman was creating a thread on a swinging website and suggesting she would like to fuck him... then no it's probably not harassment. You sure? Think about who is in the position of power and whether that person knew their prey wanted to fuck them before they began the rubbing!" Ahh ffs.... unless you feel harnessed or prayed upon ... then its clear the op finds it flirtatious... Why do you assume it must have an undertone? | |||
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"He wants it to be different for a female bosses partner, rather than a male, so that he can claim how hard men have it vs women. Men are discriminated against blah blah" We are!!! And we did the same for decades... suck it up as the pendulum swings ... it will settle
It this situation... the only thing suffering is the right to flirt or feel flirted with .  | |||
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"If that woman was creating a thread on a swinging website and suggesting she would like to fuck him... then no it's probably not harassment. You sure? Think about who is in the position of power and whether that person knew their prey wanted to fuck them before they began the rubbing! Ahh ffs.... unless you feel harnessed or prayed upon ... then its clear the op finds it flirtatious... Why do you assume it must have an undertone? " So you condone touching in the workplace by a person in a position of power. How it is received is irrelevant. Let's take the example of the Spanish football boss. Would it be acceptable for him to kiss the footballer if it turned out she enjoyed it? | |||
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"He wants it to be different for a female bosses partner, rather than a male, so that he can claim how hard men have it vs women. Men are discriminated against blah blah" It's no different. It's sexual harassment and for sure if it was the other way around there would be uproar on this thread but there isn't because most men would welcome the flirtation but it's the minority who wouldn't welcome it that makes it wrong and something that should not be done. The welcoming of it is irrelevant. For example most 15 year old boys would welcome an approach from an attractive school teacher. It doesn't mean it's not harassment! | |||
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"Someone needs to feel harassed for it to be harassment. " Haha so many people in jail now thought that. | |||
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"Someone needs to feel harassed for it to be harassment. Haha so many people in jail now thought that." If they are in jail then they wouldn't have needed to be a complaint of harassment.. which only happens if someone feels harassed. My point is correct | |||
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"If they are in jail then they wouldn't have needed to be a complaint of harassment.. which only happens if someone feels harassed. My point is correct " Sorry just to correct that... If they are in jail then they WOULD have needed to be a complaint of harassment.. which only happens if someone feels harassed. My point is correct | |||
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"Think a bit of flirt back and see She is wearing a summer dress all week... can't stand up for a few minutes after she pops in ...." Definitely rub back if you're sitting and she's standing near you just slip your hand up that summer dress and have a good feel ..report back to us what happens next | |||
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"If they are in jail then they wouldn't have needed to be a complaint of harassment.. which only happens if someone feels harassed. My point is correct Sorry just to correct that... If they are in jail then they WOULD have needed to be a complaint of harassment.. which only happens if someone feels harassed. My point is correct " So the Spanish soccer boss did not sexually harass the player if she comes out and says she didnt feel harassed? | |||
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"He's not a minor though. He's a grown ass man and clearly stated that he has no problem with it. Is it inappropriate for a person in a position of power to flirt with an employee? Yes it is. But it's not harassment unless the the person in question feels it to be so. That is the actual definition of harassment. " An incident can be classed as harassment if it happens more than once and in this case it's touching his shoulder chest area and yes it happened more than once..he has to feel alarmed and distressed for it to be classed as harassment too and I suggest he is alarmed and distressed so much so that he can't concentrate on his work properly, sexual tension is not always welcomed | |||
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"He's not a minor though. He's a grown ass man and clearly stated that he has no problem with it. Is it inappropriate for a person in a position of power to flirt with an employee? Yes it is. But it's not harassment unless the the person in question feels it to be so. That is the actual definition of harassment. An incident can be classed as harassment if it happens more than once and in this case it's touching his shoulder chest area and yes it happened more than once..he has to feel alarmed and distressed for it to be classed as harassment too and I suggest he is alarmed and distressed so much so that he can't concentrate on his work properly, sexual tension is not always welcomed" Finally someone else who has done harassment training! | |||
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"Update.. She's just very flirthy.. Fella just in from I.T company same craic with him ... Ffs" missed your chance | |||
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"Update.. She's just very flirthy.. Fella just in from I.T company same craic with him ... Ffs" is he rubbing against you too? | |||
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"Update.. She's just very flirthy.. Fella just in from I.T company same craic with him ... Ffs" They’re the worse, worked with a woman before in a previous job, the most flirty person ever! Went on for years and I don’t nothing until one day I flirted back and boom, instant shutdown and never spoke to me again! | |||
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"Update.. She's just very flirthy.. Fella just in from I.T company same craic with him ... Ffs They’re the worse, worked with a woman before in a previous job, the most flirty person ever! Went on for years and I don’t nothing until one day I flirted back and boom, instant shutdown and never spoke to me again! " Imagine if she was the boss' wife what would have happened! | |||
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"Plot twist: It's a family buisness!" He’s self employed, it’s his own wife rubbing him….. | |||
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"Update.. She's just very flirthy.. Fella just in from I.T company same craic with him ... Ffs" So did she turn him off first...and then turn him on again | |||
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"Update.. She's just very flirthy.. Fella just in from I.T company same craic with him ... Ffs They’re the worse, worked with a woman before in a previous job, the most flirty person ever! Went on for years and I don’t nothing until one day I flirted back and boom, instant shutdown and never spoke to me again! " Jeez us ladies can't be friendly without your filthy minds thinking it's something else entirely  | |||
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"Update.. She's just very flirthy.. Fella just in from I.T company same craic with him ... Ffs They’re the worse, worked with a woman before in a previous job, the most flirty person ever! Went on for years and I don’t nothing until one day I flirted back and boom, instant shutdown and never spoke to me again! Jeez us ladies can't be friendly without your filthy minds thinking it's something else entirely "There’s a noticeable difference between friendly and flirty and I’m smart enough to recognise the difference! | |||
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"Well I had my bosses gf and his daughter. Not at the same time though lol. " then you woke up lol | |||
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"Update.. She's just very flirthy.. Fella just in from I.T company same craic with him ... Ffs They’re the worse, worked with a woman before in a previous job, the most flirty person ever! Went on for years and I don’t nothing until one day I flirted back and boom, instant shutdown and never spoke to me again! Jeez us ladies can't be friendly without your filthy minds thinking it's something else entirely "lmao | |||
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"Update.. She's just very flirthy.. Fella just in from I.T company same craic with him ... Ffs They’re the worse, worked with a woman before in a previous job, the most flirty person ever! Went on for years and I don’t nothing until one day I flirted back and boom, instant shutdown and never spoke to me again! Jeez us ladies can't be friendly without your filthy minds thinking it's something else entirely "I'm grateful in this case that I have spent almost my entire life completely oblivious to the advances of women. Why once I was kissed goodbye, right on the lips, by a very attractive women and I thought she was just being polite! | |||
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"If that woman was creating a thread on a swinging website and suggesting she would like to fuck him... then no it's probably not harassment. You sure? Think about who is in the position of power and whether that person knew their prey wanted to fuck them before they began the rubbing! Ahh ffs.... unless you feel harnessed or prayed upon ... then its clear the op finds it flirtatious... Why do you assume it must have an undertone? So you condone touching in the workplace by a person in a position of power. How it is received is irrelevant. Let's take the example of the Spanish football boss. Would it be acceptable for him to kiss the footballer if it turned out she enjoyed it?" I condone flirting between adults ... in the park , at work , in the church... adults can choose to flirt in work if they want . | |||
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"He wants it to be different for a female bosses partner, rather than a male, so that he can claim how hard men have it vs women. Men are discriminated against blah blah It's no different. It's sexual harassment and for sure if it was the other way around there would be uproar on this thread but there isn't because most men would welcome the flirtation but it's the minority who wouldn't welcome it that makes it wrong and something that should not be done. The welcoming of it is irrelevant. For example most 15 year old boys would welcome an approach from an attractive school teacher. It doesn't mean it's not harassment!" Yes cause thats like for like
Grooming vs consenting adults flirting without any issue from either party involved.
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"If they are in jail then they wouldn't have needed to be a complaint of harassment.. which only happens if someone feels harassed. My point is correct Sorry just to correct that... If they are in jail then they WOULD have needed to be a complaint of harassment.. which only happens if someone feels harassed. My point is correct So the Spanish soccer boss did not sexually harass the player if she comes out and says she didnt feel harassed?" Wtf has that got to do with the ops situation.... nothing | |||
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"He's not a minor though. He's a grown ass man and clearly stated that he has no problem with it. Is it inappropriate for a person in a position of power to flirt with an employee? Yes it is. But it's not harassment unless the the person in question feels it to be so. That is the actual definition of harassment. An incident can be classed as harassment if it happens more than once and in this case it's touching his shoulder chest area and yes it happened more than once..he has to feel alarmed and distressed for it to be classed as harassment too and I suggest he is alarmed and distressed so much so that he can't concentrate on his work properly, sexual tension is not always welcomed Finally someone else who has done harassment training!" Maybe , yet clearly didn't understand the training | |||
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"A man is measured by values and nobility. Although these days it seems that those words have lost all meaning. Just the fact of premeditatedly thinking about that is the most lowly and cowardly. Although possibly, it is just a very sad fantasy that raised your morale on a day like today, to which you are dedicating time and that will never come true. If you lose your job, send me your CV, I remember a former boss who would be happy to give you good training before giving you the job of being his wife's personal assistant. Take It easy and don't work too hard lol" Are you ok ? | |||
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"Update.. She's just very flirthy.. Fella just in from I.T company same craic with him ... Ffs" The fella from IT was touching you too? | |||
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"If they are in jail then they wouldn't have needed to be a complaint of harassment.. which only happens if someone feels harassed. My point is correct Sorry just to correct that... If they are in jail then they WOULD have needed to be a complaint of harassment.. which only happens if someone feels harassed. My point is correct So the Spanish soccer boss did not sexually harass the player if she comes out and says she didnt feel harassed? Wtf has that got to do with the ops situation.... nothing "Was more answering the ridiculous suggestion that there is only harassment if the is "complaint of harassment". | |||
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"If they are in jail then they wouldn't have needed to be a complaint of harassment.. which only happens if someone feels harassed. My point is correct Sorry just to correct that... If they are in jail then they WOULD have needed to be a complaint of harassment.. which only happens if someone feels harassed. My point is correct So the Spanish soccer boss did not sexually harass the player if she comes out and says she didnt feel harassed? Wtf has that got to do with the ops situation.... nothing
Was more answering the ridiculous suggestion that there is only harassment if the is "complaint of harassment"."There is a complaint of harassment in that situation!!!! | |||
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"If they are in jail then they wouldn't have needed to be a complaint of harassment.. which only happens if someone feels harassed. My point is correct Sorry just to correct that... If they are in jail then they WOULD have needed to be a complaint of harassment.. which only happens if someone feels harassed. My point is correct So the Spanish soccer boss did not sexually harass the player if she comes out and says she didnt feel harassed? Wtf has that got to do with the ops situation.... nothing
Was more answering the ridiculous suggestion that there is only harassment if the is "complaint of harassment"."How can you not understand that if somebody doesn't feel harassed intimidated overpowered manippulated and isn't too young or naive not to realize then it's simply isn't harassment? I will be straight the reason this annoys me so much is there actually is a lot of real harassment in the world and real people who are in difficult situations. Making out that they are all that just lessons the serious ones... thats a real risk . | |||
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"Update.. She's just very flirthy.. Fella just in from I.T company same craic with him ... Ffs They’re the worse, worked with a woman before in a previous job, the most flirty person ever! Went on for years and I don’t nothing until one day I flirted back and boom, instant shutdown and never spoke to me again! Jeez us ladies can't be friendly without your filthy minds thinking it's something else entirely
I'm grateful in this case that I have spent almost my entire life completely oblivious to the advances of women.
Why once I was kissed goodbye, right on the lips, by a very attractive women and I thought she was just being polite!"That way is much more preferable  | |||
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"Update.. She's just very flirthy.. Fella just in from I.T company same craic with him ... Ffs They’re the worse, worked with a woman before in a previous job, the most flirty person ever! Went on for years and I don’t nothing until one day I flirted back and boom, instant shutdown and never spoke to me again! Jeez us ladies can't be friendly without your filthy minds thinking it's something else entirely
I'm grateful in this case that I have spent almost my entire life completely oblivious to the advances of women.
Why once I was kissed goodbye, right on the lips, by a very attractive women and I thought she was just being polite!
That way is much more preferable "It isn't if you're one of those guys let me tell you!!!!
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