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By *BelfastGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

Belfast

Do's and Don't for Fabbers

Looking advice on what should and should not be on profiles. How to approach people on here.

How to get notice more.

See how this goes. This a good or bad idea?

1. Be Respectful

2. Be Nice

3. Be Kind

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By *oshSardineMan
over a year ago

Castleknock


"Do's and Don't for Fabbers

Looking advice on what should and should not be on profiles. How to approach people on here.

How to get notice more.

See how this goes. This a good or bad idea?

1. Be Respectful

2. Be Nice

3. Be Kind "

Everyone’s profile should be different. If we were all the same, it would be a boring old world of mediocre. No one size fits all anyway and your profile is your shop window into what you have to offer and why, you shouldn’t be showing someone else’s shop and I’m not sure about the be respectful and be nice and be kind part. You are either respectful and kind in nature or you’re not. If you try and be something else on Fab, you’ll be found out fairly rapid. Or am I missing something completely different here?

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

The forum is replete with advice threads.

Best advice is to do a forum search and have a good read.

And ignore the begrudgers.

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By *llthewaysMan
over a year ago

City centre/Naas

It is important not to give advice when not asked though, as that can lead to a forum ban.

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

Ballsbridge, City Centre


"Do's and Don't for Fabbers

Looking advice on what should and should not be on profiles. How to approach people on here.

How to get notice more.

See how this goes. This a good or bad idea?

1. Be Respectful

2. Be Nice

3. Be Kind "

This is not playschool

Being respectful, nice and kind is not going to blow the ladies legs wide open

Treat people as you would in any real life social interaction and see if interests align, it’s not that difficult

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Do you.

Don't do as others tell you to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just treat people as respectfully as you would like them to treat you.

Don't treat women as if they are gagging for a meet. Just because we are on fab doesn't mean we have low standards and will meet just anyone. Asking on a first message. are you free now ?

Are you up for fun ?

Can you come to my hotel now.?

I'm in your area now.?

They all are messages that I hate and ignore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don't see the point of coaching people on how to behave when messaging. If they don't have respect and consideration for others, a few polite messages isn't going to change that, or fool anyone for long

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"I really don't see the point of coaching people on how to behave when messaging. If they don't have respect and consideration for others, a few polite messages isn't going to change that, or fool anyone for long"

It's fab.

You can fool some of the people all of the time.

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By *arrot_in_a_boxCouple
over a year ago

kinda dublin

1. Be attractive

2. Don't be unattractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice

Don’t take advice

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Like others have said be yourself. There's no point in pretending to be what others think you should be.

Being fake nice to get the ride on here usually won't work anyhow,well if you're a man anyhow.Women,well that's a different ball game they can be all sorts of a nasty person and they will still find someone who will meet them.

Do fab your way and you will find people who want the same things.

Don't be generic and try and fit what people say especially on the forums as they are a tiny minority of fab in general and are not a true representation of fab overall.

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
over a year ago

City Centre


"Like others have said be yourself. There's no point in pretending to be what others think you should be.

Being fake nice to get the ride on here usually won't work anyhow,well if you're a man anyhow.Women,well that's a different ball game they can be all sorts of a nasty person and they will still find someone who will meet them.

Do fab your way and you will find people who want the same things.

Don't be generic and try and fit what people say especially on the forums as they are a tiny minority of fab in general and are not a true representation of fab overall.

"

Great advice Bo

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By *BelfastGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

Belfast


"Just treat people as respectfully as you would like them to treat you.

Don't treat women as if they are gagging for a meet. Just because we are on fab doesn't mean we have low standards and will meet just anyone. Asking on a first message. are you free now ?

Are you up for fun ?

Can you come to my hotel now.?

I'm in your area now.?

They all are messages that I hate and ignore.

"

Was thinking more along these lines. What in an mail that makes you want to read it. There's a fine lines between short long and boring.

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West


"Just treat people as respectfully as you would like them to treat you.

Don't treat women as if they are gagging for a meet. Just because we are on fab doesn't mean we have low standards and will meet just anyone. Asking on a first message. are you free now ?

Are you up for fun ?

Can you come to my hotel now.?

I'm in your area now.?

They all are messages that I hate and ignore.

Was thinking more along these lines. What in an mail that makes you want to read it. There's a fine lines between short long and boring. "

I find a polite hello with a follow on line that shows your interested and friendly is usually enough.

All your doing is creating an opening to start a conversation. Most will read your bio and make a decision based on that.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"Just treat people as respectfully as you would like them to treat you.

Don't treat women as if they are gagging for a meet. Just because we are on fab doesn't mean we have low standards and will meet just anyone. Asking on a first message. are you free now ?

Are you up for fun ?

Can you come to my hotel now.?

I'm in your area now.?

They all are messages that I hate and ignore.

Was thinking more along these lines. What in an mail that makes you want to read it. There's a fine lines between short long and boring.

I find a polite hello with a follow on line that shows your interested and friendly is usually enough.

All your doing is creating an opening to start a conversation. Most will read your bio and make a decision based on that."

They will also look at your public photos and if you have none, they probably won't bother replying.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Do's and Don't for Fabbers

Looking advice on what should and should not be on profiles. How to approach people on here.

How to get notice more.

See how this goes. This a good or bad idea?

1. Be Respectful

2. Be Nice

3. Be Kind "

You do you !!! And ignore anyone who says otherwise.

The most obvious thing on fab to anyone here a few months or more... is a profile that dosnt seem genuine .

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"It is important not to give advice when not asked though, as that can lead to a forum ban."

Really

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West


"Just treat people as respectfully as you would like them to treat you.

Don't treat women as if they are gagging for a meet. Just because we are on fab doesn't mean we have low standards and will meet just anyone. Asking on a first message. are you free now ?

Are you up for fun ?

Can you come to my hotel now.?

I'm in your area now.?

They all are messages that I hate and ignore.

Was thinking more along these lines. What in an mail that makes you want to read it. There's a fine lines between short long and boring.

I find a polite hello with a follow on line that shows your interested and friendly is usually enough.

All your doing is creating an opening to start a conversation. Most will read your bio and make a decision based on that.

They will also look at your public photos and if you have none, they probably won't bother replying."

I meant to write 'look at your profile' but my brain did it's own thing there so I just went with it. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just treat people as respectfully as you would like them to treat you.

Don't treat women as if they are gagging for a meet. Just because we are on fab doesn't mean we have low standards and will meet just anyone. Asking on a first message. are you free now ?

Are you up for fun ?

Can you come to my hotel now.?

I'm in your area now.?

They all are messages that I hate and ignore.

Was thinking more along these lines. What in an mail that makes you want to read it. There's a fine lines between short long and boring. "

I just answered as to how I felt in regards what your post was asking.

You can't tell anyone what makes a good message. As each person is looking for something different and responds differently.

If a message gets my attention I read their profile verifications and look at their photos too.

Generally I would reply to a polite well worded or funny opening message.

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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago

City Centre


"Just treat people as respectfully as you would like them to treat you.

Don't treat women as if they are gagging for a meet. Just because we are on fab doesn't mean we have low standards and will meet just anyone. Asking on a first message. are you free now ?

Are you up for fun ?

Can you come to my hotel now.?

I'm in your area now.?

They all are messages that I hate and ignore.

"

Exactly this...

Also most of all be yourself. Fake people get nowhere.

Lastly, don't take what everyone says in Forums too seriously, whilst there is some good advice, people are extremely opinionated and only a small percentage of the Community interact here.

Do what is best for you.

B x

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