FabSwingers.com forum: Sapiosexual

By *panishRebel OP Man
over a year ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

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By *panishRebel OP Man
over a year ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

After meeting a lady on tinder, I found out she was sapiosexual. I passed the basic requirements of attraction. She is also bi. We are genuinely friends and with benifits. She would never come on this site or just have sex without a long process.

It got me thinking.

How many people on fab if any are sapiosexual?

Definition being;

Sexually attracted to intellectual or mental qualities over appearance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It got me thinking.

How many people on fab if any are sapiosexual?

Definition being;

Sexually attracted to intellectual or mental qualities over appearance.

Depends can she sing the langer song also

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By *panishRebel OP Man
over a year ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

It got me thinking.

How many people on fab if any are sapiosexual?

Definition being;

Sexually attracted to intellectual or mental qualities over appearance.

Depends can she sing the langer song also

I'd have to teach her..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It got me thinking.

How many people on fab if any are sapiosexual?

Definition being;

Sexually attracted to intellectual or mental qualities over appearance.

Depends can she sing the langer song also

I'd have to teach her..

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
over a year ago

City Centre

I'm very much sexually attracted to what goes on in the mind and intelligence. It's a fantastic place to start

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

Don't kill me now, because I do actually advocate for more granular descriptions for sexuality.

But is sapiosexual not just a fancy word for nerdy people.

I'm a card carrying nerd and am mostly attracted to people to have interesting brains.

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By *astelloWoman
over a year ago

Far far away

Ice-cream.. Dont break the Internet on definition and forum extraordinaire of sapiophiles...

I like big boys with brains...

Boys is a terms of 18 plus btw....

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

"Ice-cream.. Dont break the Internet on definition and forum extraordinaire of sapiophiles...

I like big boys with brains...

Boys is a terms of 18 plus btw....

You're my favourite nerd Castello. I mean sapiophile

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

How does sapiosexual work on a picture based app like Tinder? Does she only swipe right if the guy is reading a high-brown in one of his photos or something?

When she turns up on a first date does she bring an IQ test with her?

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By *on Draper2.0Man
over a year ago

Maynooth

Far too many on here claiming the tag but not really understanding it.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Are we talking about street smarts or someone using big words?

I prefer the former.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are we talking about street smarts or someone using big words?

I prefer the former.

I'm greedy, I want both

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"Far too many on here claiming the tag but not really understanding it."

They don't fuck thickos. Simples

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By *panishRebel OP Man
over a year ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

"Don't kill me now, because I do actually advocate for more granular descriptions for sexuality.

But is sapiosexual not just a fancy word for nerdy people.

I'm a card carrying nerd and am mostly attracted to people to have interesting brains. "

The term nerd is subjective. One man's meat is another man's poison.

In fairness, sapiosexual is as fair a term as any, for those who are not attracted by looks, until their mind is I gaged first.

Some are sucker for tattoos, or big breasts, or whatever!

Most men, myself included are attracted by the looks first.

But I can be turned off, by a combination of character and or lack of brain. Now I don't know if there is a noun or verb for that.

But there is for for the type of attraction. I swear, if Don Juan himself turned up, this lady wouldn't be interested, until she found his mind interesting.

Having said that..... After a few pina coladas.... Who knows

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By *panishRebel OP Man
over a year ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

"Are we talking about street smarts or someone using big words?

I prefer the former.

I'm greedy, I want both "

Yeah both is good

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By *panishRebel OP Man
over a year ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

"How does sapiosexual work on a picture based app like Tinder? Does she only swipe right if the guy is reading a high-brown in one of his photos or something?

When she turns up on a first date does she bring an IQ test with her?

No swiping on pictures only, careful reading of bios.... Easy, not just swipe right on everything you see.

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By *ingerNNutsCouple
over a year ago

dublin

When I first heard of it it reminded me of people saying they want to be able to have banter with people. Everyone’s humour is different and so is everyone’s intellectual interests. Makes sense to me. I wouldn’t be one to be able to play with anyone with legs, if the conversation doesn’t flow somewhat my brain clocks out. Hats off to those that can, probably have it a lot easier lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I first heard of it it reminded me of people saying they want to be able to have banter with people. Everyone’s humour is different and so is everyone’s intellectual interests. Makes sense to me. I wouldn’t be one to be able to play with anyone with legs, if the conversation doesn’t flow somewhat my brain clocks out. Hats off to those that can, probably have it a lot easier lol

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
over a year ago

City Centre

"Far too many on here claiming the tag but not really understanding it.

They don't fuck thickos. Simples"

They try not to

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

I'm blonde, my brain was never fully formed - and the rest is busy with puppies and children

... what was the question again?

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By *panishRebel OP Man
over a year ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

"I'm blonde, my brain was never fully formed - and the rest is busy with puppies and children

... what was the question again?

Enjoy your puppies!

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"I'm blonde, my brain was never fully formed - and the rest is busy with puppies and children

... what was the question again?

Enjoy your puppies! "

We all enjoy those puppies

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"I'm blonde, my brain was never fully formed - and the rest is busy with puppies and children

... what was the question again?

Enjoy your puppies!

We all enjoy those puppies

Cum again

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

Im attracted by beauty, but will lose interest if there's no mental connection.

Yes, I'd say I'm sapiosexual, with a blend of specific kink and fetish.

No wonder its so hard to find a match.

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By *XlalaXXWoman
over a year ago

tipperary

So that’s what it means

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By *ingerNNutsCouple
over a year ago

dublin

Anyone else interested to know what’s on his tinder profile that caught the gals attention

Or OP did you ask? Was it simply your job she was attracted to? Or the content in your bio?

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

I’d be more humo-sexual, those with a good sense of humour and can make me laugh are more likely to get my attention

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By *uteirishaWoman
over a year ago

ghost town

Many are attracted to the mind first...yet still won't engage in a conversation, basing their attraction on the physical appearance.

For the self proclaimed educated( even those with student debt, 5 kids, a wife, a mistress and 4 dogs) may be hypocritical

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By *heelofTimeCouple
over a year ago

Two Rivers

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By *heelofTimeCouple
over a year ago

Two Rivers

Unfortunately most truly intelligent people (IQ) are very socially awkward. I think on a lot of the sites people are looking for people who can hold a conversation which is EQ. Most people with higher percentile IQs get bored with the average conversations, leading to them not being attractive to people who are looking for truly intelligent people as they look awkward in social situations.

I think the term sapiophile on here is not used correctly when you read through some profiles which state they are sapiophiles as they typically contradict the statement further down in the profile.

Personally I prefer brains over matter aka personalities and being able to hold a decent conversation in relation to simple statements like “why is the sky blue?” or more complex “we are 99.9999% empty space the world is made up of mostly 68% dark energy, 27% of this being dark matter……….. I won’t bore you with the rest of the physics lesson or philosophical lesson. But essentially being able to discuss topics like this and not get a blank stare back or the flip side of the coin a blank stare from me when people discuss famous people, makeup or other topics which most people find interesting.

I more than likely have this typed incorrectly but I do see why the lady in question has a comprehensive interview process as if she truly gets turned on by intellectual minds then the discussions online and build up prior to meeting are extremely important.

Missy xxx

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By *panishRebel OP Man
over a year ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

"So that’s what it means "

I can't remember what I had on that profile. I opted out for a while. But 2 year's on the contact remains. Definitely wasn't my high earning power... I was broke fresh out of a divorce coinciding with Covid

and still providing for kids.

But I don't lie, and I like to chat about most things like any attention deficit person..

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By *panishRebel OP Man
over a year ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

"Unfortunately most truly intelligent people (IQ) are very socially awkward. I think on a lot of the sites people are looking for people who can hold a conversation which is EQ. Most people with higher percentile IQs get bored with the average conversations, leading to them not being attractive to people who are looking for truly intelligent people as they look awkward in social situations.

I think the term sapiophile on here is not used correctly when you read through some profiles which state they are sapiophiles as they typically contradict the statement further down in the profile.

Missy xxx"

Well put. We met a few times before we jumped into bed. I enjoy the journey and while I love the sex, (wouldn't be on here if I didn't

), I am not pushy about it. It takes two.... or more as I now know

She intelligent, has a high mensa score etc, has a high powered job, the kind I have little interest in. While we will never be partners, no conversation is off the table, weather quantum physics or dick size..... I am sure theres a needy joke in there somewhere

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Mensa scores should be a thing on here. You should be able to filter out those who are lower down the IQ ladder. Also search for those who are Mensa level standard. That way nobody would have to waste time with anyone who isn't intelligent enough.

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By *panishRebel OP Man
over a year ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

"Mensa scores should be a thing on here. You should be able to filter out those who are lower down the IQ ladder. Also search for those who are Mensa level standard. That way nobody would have to waste time with anyone who isn't intelligent enough."

We can put the rest into Ghettos!

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Yes! I'm sure after a while we will think up some kind of "final solution" to them

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By *heelofTimeCouple
over a year ago

Two Rivers

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By *he zephyrCouple
over a year ago

The Sol

Jesus this took a dark turn

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By *panishRebel OP Man
over a year ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

"Jesus this took a dark turn

Dark Banter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can say I'm not intelligent it used to get me down not anymore , I do ask a fab Friend what does it mean if any questions on thread , yes it's embarrassing. I hated school, what I lack in intelligence I make up in real life I've good manners and a good person no school can teach

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

Maybe I should add my IQ to my bio. I don't want to scare anyone off though. I qualified for mensa when I was 13.

That said I work as an artist and creative and my friends would say I am emotionally intelligent.

Would that cause conflict for potential play partners?

I should probably do one of those kink tests too just to round it out and then my bio can just be a list of stats and very informative data.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

I'm not trying to be smart ( no pun intended ) but do most people not want to meet someone and have sex with them especially at a party

Its not rocket science ( pun intended )

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"I can say I'm not intelligent it used to get me down not anymore , I do ask a fab Friend what does it mean if any questions on thread , yes it's embarrassing. I hated school, what I lack in intelligence I make up in real life I've good manners and a good person no school can teach

There are many different kinds of intelligence and you just showed a level of openness and self awareness that most don't have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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I'm just been honest

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"I'm not trying to be smart ( no pun intended ) but do most people not want to meet someone and have sex with them especially at a party

Its not rocket science ( pun intended ) "

Some do, others prefer something more personal.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

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I'm just been honest "

That's rare enough also. Don't go changing

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

"I'm not trying to be smart ( no pun intended ) but do most people not want to meet someone and have sex with them especially at a party

Its not rocket science ( pun intended ) "

At the moment I'm more into more personal, intimate liaison's. I've discovered, in the last four months, that I have the patience to wait for that match to happen too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are many different kinds of intelligence and you just showed a level of openness and self awareness that most don't have."

Thank you

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

Are Mensa tests actually still a thing?

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford

There are many different kinds of intelligence and you just showed a level of openness and self awareness that most don't have.

Thank you

Your not the only 1 Lou that hated School. I was the same as that about it.

I'm very far from intelligent. I am who I am.

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

I pretty much dropped out of school and got the bare minimum in my final exams. My attendance was probably about 40% in my last year. So many people don't fit into a regular school system.

It took me years to get over feeling like I had failed somehow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Goodnight all x

Chat soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

System education is for some not all that doesn’t mean someone isn’t intelligent

Intelligence is staying afloat in what ever a person has chosen to do in life sometimes life deals you a tough hand

Your intelligence sometimes keeps you afloat

And sometimes you need a little help from family or friends

Just because you’re not system educated does not mean you’re not smart

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By *heelofTimeCouple
over a year ago

Two Rivers

Ouch this became very different topic of conversation……. in terms of the ethos of this site someone mentioned it. The site is for XXX. For animalistic XXX IQ isn’t required. For a relationship it is.

For the people who decided to take what was wrote and turn it onto something different I was trying to make a point about how the intelligence people are looking for on here is in fact EQ.

Additionally who cares about Mensa why would this have anything do with this site?

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By *heelofTimeCouple
over a year ago

Two Rivers

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"Are Mensa tests actually still a thing?"

They exist... but I'd really wonder on the motivation to join. I fear it's bragging rights and wanting to feel superior. It's probably a good 1-up at dinner parties arguments

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

I was joking about mensa in fairness. It's something I would discount out of hand along with IQ.

Wasn't meant as a dig or anything. I just thought it was funny.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"I was joking about mensa in fairness. It's something I would discount out of hand along with IQ.

Wasn't meant as a dig or anything. I just thought it was funny."

I'm 95% teasing. There are very few intellectuals who would behave badly towards those who aren't...but I have spotted it in the past. I don't mean to suggest you are at all

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

"I was joking about mensa in fairness. It's something I would discount out of hand along with IQ.

Wasn't meant as a dig or anything. I just thought it was funny.

I'm 95% teasing. There are very few intellectuals who would behave badly towards those who aren't...but I have spotted it in the past. I don't mean to suggest you are at all"

Oh I didn't think you were referencing me at all.

My message was just in case anyone thought I was having a go at them. All good here

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By *uteirishaWoman
over a year ago

ghost town

I feel, as stated in a previous comment, there are varying forms of intelligence. Some may be book smart,or not. There could be certificates hanging in homes or offices depicting the IQ. However..those certificates( they may also be in drawer beside the fridge) do not express the knowledge of how an individual can read a person..and it could be out of sheer laziness. Not down to being socially awkward

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By *arrot_in_a_boxCouple
over a year ago

kinda dublin

Personally, I don't see sapiosexual as a genuine sexual preference, and when I used to see it on dating profiles I would roll my eyes.

It comes off a humble brag that they are ever so intelligent and can only connect with people on their level.

But come on!! You could have a high IQ and still be an asshole, or boring personality, or be physically repulsive to them.

What they really mean, is they want to meet someone who they can connect with on same topics as them, and who isn't an idiot, but thats no different from literally anyone looking for a longterm partner.

SapioSEXUAL is not a SEXUAL preferance, its more a personality preference, and literally everyone values different aspects of personality higher than others.

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

Interestingly the opposite of sapiosexual is apparently morosexual.

Being attracted to morons.

I didn't make this up. I googled it.

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By *arrot_in_a_boxCouple
over a year ago

kinda dublin

"Interestingly the opposite of sapiosexual is apparently morosexual.

Being attracted to morons.

I didn't make this up. I googled it."

I used to be morosexual. But then they rebranded as Boost

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"Interestingly the opposite of sapiosexual is apparently morosexual.

Being attracted to morons.

I didn't make this up. I googled it.

I used to be morosexual. But then they rebranded as Boost"

And they made them smaller and put the price up .....

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"Interestingly the opposite of sapiosexual is apparently morosexual.

Being attracted to morons.

I didn't make this up. I googled it."

That's fucking brilliant

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
over a year ago

City Centre

Emotional intelligence is the sweet spot.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Just be sound, that's it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it was John Cleese who said, we need a certain amount of intelligence to realise how stupid we are.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

This is post number 69. That's all I'm saying.

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By *angtasticallyMan
over a year ago

Drogheda

Intelligence and be able to control both Intelligence and emotional being is very important there more to sex then sex remember keep the I over the E

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
over a year ago

City Centre

"I think it was John Cleese who said, we need a certain amount of intelligence to realise how stupid we are. "

I like that

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"This is post number 69. That's all I'm saying.

Someone tell Lou he's back cause she was worried

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

"Just be sound, that's it

I'm soundosexual

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

"Just be sound, that's it

I'm soundosexual

I'm curlyhairandbeardosexual

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By *panishRebel OP Man
over a year ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

School as we have it doesn't really measure intelligence. It prepares people to be compliant for the workforce and industries.

Emotional intelligence, is practically side stepped.

Artistic intelligence is subjective in its value.

There are whole areas where intelligence just can't be measured.

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By *panishRebel OP Man
over a year ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

"Maybe I should add my IQ to my bio. I don't want to scare anyone off though. I qualified for mensa when I was 13.

That said I work as an artist and creative and my friends would say I am emotionally intelligent.

Would that cause conflict for potential play partners?

I should probably do one of those kink tests too just to round it out and then my bio can just be a list of stats and very informative data.

ChatGPT can help you put it together.....

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By *panishRebel OP Man
over a year ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

There are many different kinds of intelligence and you just showed a level of openness and self awareness that most don't have."

Yep. I agree.

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

It's important not to confuse intelligence with education. There are plenty of idiots with PhDs.

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By *panishRebel OP Man
over a year ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

"Ouch this became very different topic of conversation……. in terms of the ethos of this site someone mentioned it. The site is for XXX. For animalistic XXX IQ isn’t required. For a relationship it is.

For the people who decided to take what was wrote and turn it onto something different I was trying to make a point about how the intelligence people are looking for on here is in fact EQ.

Additionally who cares about Mensa why would this have anything do with this site?

I totally love the tangents of this thread. It keeps me interested.

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By *panishRebel OP Man
over a year ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

"I was joking about mensa in fairness. It's something I would discount out of hand along with IQ.

Wasn't meant as a dig or anything. I just thought it was funny.

I'm 95% teasing. There are very few intellectuals who would behave badly towards those who aren't...but I have spotted it in the past. I don't mean to suggest you are at all

Oh I didn't think you were referencing me at all.

My message was just in case anyone thought I was having a go at them. All good here"

Ditto.

No offence meant previously about the Mensa Ghettos...just thought twas funny.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Oh and I'm not looking for a holocaust for below average IQ's either. Maybe just internment

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By *panishRebel OP Man
over a year ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

"Personally, I don't see sapiosexual as a genuine sexual preference, and when I used to see it on dating profiles I would roll my eyes.

It comes off a humble brag that they are ever so intelligent and can only connect with people on their level.

But come on!! You could have a high IQ and still be an asshole, or boring personality, or be physically repulsive to them.

SapioSEXUAL is not a SEXUAL preferance, its more a personality preference, and literally everyone values different aspects of personality higher than others."

I think the point for someone who is Sapiosexual is that they get sexually attracted only after being intellectually stimulated. So some need touch, smiles, laughs, fun etc but the sapiosexual need to admire the intellect first before they are able to start being aroused. Technically they could be quite dunces by some standards, it's just their process. Without which they will never be aroused and horny.

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By *on Draper2.0Man
over a year ago

Maynooth

It's amazing how many people claim the sapiosexual tag but also have "no pic no chat" type restrictions on who they talk to.

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