FabSwingers.com forum: NSA

By *XlalaXX OP Woman
over a year ago

tipperary

Ok I have a question

When u see this on a bio - what are your initial thoughts ?

I know what mine are I’m just interested to see what everyone else thinks .

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Playing away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok I have a question

When u see this on a bio - what are your initial thoughts ?

I know what mine are I’m just interested to see what everyone else thinks . "

For me I feel it means they are married

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

Wouldn't read much into it by itself at all .

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

Givea vibe that they are atattched or maybe not out of the closet depending on the conext

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"Wouldn't read much into it by itself at all . "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eh, call me a cynic but people emphasising discretion on their profiles tend to be talking about it only in the context of their own activities

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

"Eh, call me a cynic but people emphasising discretion on their profiles tend to be talking about it only in the context of their own activities "

How so you know ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me it means what happens between two consenting adults remains between two consenting adults, or better still 3 or 4.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depending on what else is in the bio or the vibe of it it can sometimes be a turn off to wonder wether they are attached and playing without permission

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

I wouldn't take that to mean anything in isolation. I'd view the profile as a whole to make an opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They seen it written on other profiles and thought it sounded cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Eh, call me a cynic but people emphasising discretion on their profiles tend to be talking about it only in the context of their own activities

How so you know ? "

Experience and cynicism combined have led me to this opinion

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

"They seen it written on other profiles and thought it sounded cool

Fair point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would think married or attached. I asked about the use of the word discrete/ discretion and I would think that majority of people are but it annoys me when I get an opening message asking am I discrete,

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By *XlalaXX OP Woman
over a year ago

tipperary

To me it gives the vibe they r fukin about even tho that may not be at all

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By *XlalaXX OP Woman
over a year ago

tipperary

"I would think married or attached. I asked about the use of the word discrete/ discretion and I would think that majority of people are but it annoys me when I get an opening message asking am I discrete, "

Oh I hear ya

I feel like saying don’t worry I’ll be discrete about how much of a sh!te ride u are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok I have a question

When u see this on a bio - what are your initial thoughts ?

I know what mine are I’m just interested to see what everyone else thinks . "

Eh that they are discrete obviously,, nothing worse than a mouthpiece telling all and sundry who he or she fucked and worse going into details..the ability to keep stuff to oneself is an art in itself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok I have a question

When u see this on a bio - what are your initial thoughts ?

I know what mine are I’m just interested to see what everyone else thinks . "
lots of sex lol

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By *ddcoolnamelaterMan
over a year ago

Donegal

I had it on my profile but removed it. It was just to let woman know I wasn't looking for commitment and I wouldn't be telling everyone what we got up to. But most people think it is that you are sneaking around and you can't be trusted

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By *XlalaXX OP Woman
over a year ago

tipperary

"Ok I have a question

When u see this on a bio - what are your initial thoughts ?

I know what mine are I’m just interested to see what everyone else thinks .

Sorry forgive me for a second here

Is that not what fab is for a lot of people

Meeting people fucking them and the writing verifications to let everyone know

I’m not judging anyone btw

Just before any Karen starts

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By *XlalaXX OP Woman
over a year ago

tipperary

"I had it on my profile but removed it. It was just to let woman know I wasn't looking for commitment and I wouldn't be telling everyone what we got up to. But most people think it is that you are sneaking around and you can't be trusted "

This where I was going with this

That people may have it up and others are misinterpreting it’s meaning

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

More often than not it means they’re attached.

Unless it’s paired with “professional” and then they seem to think they can be recognised by their colleagues by their body parts which is v weird, especially if they’re a teacher

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By *otass and scorpioCouple
over a year ago

limerick cork tipperary clare waterford

NSA …. Not sexually attractive ?? Lmao

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By *XlalaXX OP Woman
over a year ago

tipperary

"More often than not it means they’re attached.

Unless it’s paired with “professional” and then they seem to think they can be recognised by their colleagues by their body parts which is v weird, especially if they’re a teacher

Another word “professional”

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

"More often than not it means they’re attached.

Unless it’s paired with “professional” and then they seem to think they can be recognised by their colleagues by their body parts which is v weird, especially if they’re a teacher

Another word “professional”

I thought professional meant that they are really good at doing the sex

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By *XlalaXX OP Woman
over a year ago

tipperary

"More often than not it means they’re attached.

Unless it’s paired with “professional” and then they seem to think they can be recognised by their colleagues by their body parts which is v weird, especially if they’re a teacher

Another word “professional”

I thought professional meant that they are really good at doing the sex"

Exactly professional what

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By *itnessFitnessMan
over a year ago

Wicklow

Usually think when they mention discreet that goes without saying -

As if anyone is going to go around handing out flyers about the meet you two have had lol

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

"More often than not it means they’re attached.

Unless it’s paired with “professional” and then they seem to think they can be recognised by their colleagues by their body parts which is v weird, especially if they’re a teacher

Another word “professional”

I thought professional meant that they are really good at doing the sex"

They’ve gotta be paid to be a professional

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

"More often than not it means they’re attached.

Unless it’s paired with “professional” and then they seem to think they can be recognised by their colleagues by their body parts which is v weird, especially if they’re a teacher

Another word “professional”

I thought professional meant that they are really good at doing the sex

They’ve gotta be paid to be a professional

I would never imply that! Not casting any aspersions here

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By *XlalaXX OP Woman
over a year ago

tipperary

"More often than not it means they’re attached.

Unless it’s paired with “professional” and then they seem to think they can be recognised by their colleagues by their body parts which is v weird, especially if they’re a teacher

Another word “professional”

I thought professional meant that they are really good at doing the sex

They’ve gotta be paid to be a professional

I would never imply that! Not casting any aspersions here"

With a name like delectable ice cream ur defo wantin paid to be licked

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

"More often than not it means they’re attached.

Unless it’s paired with “professional” and then they seem to think they can be recognised by their colleagues by their body parts which is v weird, especially if they’re a teacher

Another word “professional”

I thought professional meant that they are really good at doing the sex

They’ve gotta be paid to be a professional

I would never imply that! Not casting any aspersions here

With a name like delectable ice cream ur defo wantin paid to be licked "
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I accept payment in dessert toppings

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

"Ok I have a question

When u see this on a bio - what are your initial thoughts ?

I know what mine are I’m just interested to see what everyone else thinks .

Sorry forgive me for a second here

Is that not what fab is for a lot of people

Meeting people fucking them and the writing verifications to let everyone know

I’m not judging anyone btw

Just before any Karen starts "

Karen's

And the many Kevin's

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Professional = Middle class, and only fuck others from their own socioeconomic group

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Professional = Middle class, and only fuck others from their own socioeconomic group

A preference like any other no?

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"Professional = Middle class, and only fuck others from their own socioeconomic group

Except the professional Bankers who fucked everyone from any socioeconomic group

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Professional = Middle class, and only fuck others from their own socioeconomic group

Except the professional Bankers who fucked everyone from any socioeconomic group "

Lol

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

"Professional = Middle class, and only fuck others from their own socioeconomic group

Except the professional Bankers who fucked everyone from any socioeconomic group "

I wouldn't mind fucking the bankers in fairness. No lube either.

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By *panishRebelMan
over a year ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

"They seen it written on other profiles and thought it sounded cool

Fair point. "

I was going to make a similar point.

Did the same mistake myself when I started.

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By *panishRebelMan
over a year ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

"Professional = Middle class, and only fuck others from their own socioeconomic group

Except the professional Bankers who fucked everyone from any socioeconomic group

I wouldn't mind fucking the bankers in fairness. No lube either."

Prefer to stick a big dry stick there myself..... Apologies to any bankers on Fab!

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By *he MickMan
over a year ago

southside

Married

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By *rank7737Man
over a year ago

Isn't a person being discreet within this community totally understandable? For me it doesn't necessarily mean that the person is married or in a relationship or cheating. It could be any number of things maybe the person is a professional or has a high profile job or just wants to enjoy the lifestyle and wants to keep there personal & Fab life conpelety separate which again is totally understandable and maybe people read to much into individual profiles.

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
over a year ago

kinkytown

Avoid as more then likely attached and playing away. Don't want that drama in our lives if it goes tits up.

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By *cskinnyMan
over a year ago

near you

Discreet nsa = i want to fuck or get fucked by you in private and sex is all its going to be...

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By *XlalaXX OP Woman
over a year ago

tipperary

"Discreet nsa = i want to fuck or get fucked by you in private and sex is all its going to be...

Is that not a given

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't read much into it , I'm not that presumptuous

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Holy sweet jayus some people really have to much time on their hands

Is decression not one of the fondations of fab

Would it not be better to read the words in a profile besides,trying to put meanings to words that have no bearing on the persons personal circumstances

There are loads of people that would love to keep their private life private and use words to decribe that on their profiles if you have a suspicion that a person is not meeting your criteria ask them trust your gut and if you think its not feeling right it most likely isnt but for heaven sakes dont generalise

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By *ingerNNutsCouple
over a year ago

dublin

Whoopsie! We say both….

Didn’t realise we were possibly giving off non genuine vibes

We thought because we’re not looking for a throuple etc. situation it made sense to mention it in the bio when we created the profile as we have been approached before for those kind of long term dynamics….

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

Any time I’ve asked a guy if him saying discrete on his profile meant he was attached, he has confirmed that it does.

I’m sure there’s people who put it on their profiles and aren’t attached but that’s not been my experience in the vast majority of cases.

I don’t feel like I need to say that I’m discrete on my profile to reassure people that I won’t be splashing their identity all over chat groups. It should be a given on here but we know it’s not. However, the more people are at pains to say they’re drama free and discrete, the less I believe them

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

"Discreet nsa = i want to fuck or get fucked by you in private and sex is all its going to be...

Is that not a given "

That a given on fab ! Hardly

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

"Any time I’ve asked a guy if him saying discrete on his profile meant he was attached, he has confirmed that it does.

I’m sure there’s people who put it on their profiles and aren’t attached but that’s not been my experience in the vast majority of cases.

I won't meet anyone who discretion isn't top of the list ... I'm single !

Jeasus if you can't be discreet about your sex life ... fuck me your not my type

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

I'd question whether or not it makes a damn bit of difference whether it's written or not.

I mean this is an anonymous sex site. Discretion is built in. If someone wants to be indescrite they are clearly going against the grain and no amount of words in a bio would change it either way.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

I honestly don't get the 'NSA' bit. Does it really have to be stated on a swingers site?

You can almost smell the panic as they typed it

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

It means Bill and Ben have gone undercover.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn't a person being discreet within this community totally understandable? For me it doesn't necessarily mean that the person is married or in a relationship or cheating. It could be any number of things maybe the person is a professional or has a high profile job or just wants to enjoy the lifestyle and wants to keep there personal & Fab life conpelety separate which again is totally understandable and maybe people read to much into individual profiles."

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By *cskinnyMan
over a year ago

near you

"Discreet nsa = i want to fuck or get fucked by you in private and sex is all its going to be...

Is that not a given "

I dont know yet(I'll let you know) but people dont seem to respect privacy anymore so some may feel the need to say it.

I dont think people's profiles really reflect what they want anyway. Maybe its just what they want people to believe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nsa = no strings attached, meaning without conditions or obligations

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By *XlalaXX OP Woman
over a year ago

tipperary

"Holy sweet jayus some people really have to much time on their hands

Is decression not one of the fondations of fab

Would it not be better to read the words in a profile besides,trying to put meanings to words that have no bearing on the persons personal circumstances

R u suggesting I’ve too much time on my hands ? For asking a question

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

I take it at face value, and dont read too much into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It means Bill and Ben have gone undercover. "

Under who's covers though

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"It means Bill and Ben have gone undercover.

Under who's covers though "

Andy Pandys

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