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By *ul_dmac1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Been on awhile, tried the nice messages, the interesting messages, dirty messages and just simple ones with a photo of myself, some reply but nothing more then a couple of replies then dies, is it that I’m maybe too young for woman on here or what any tips fabbers?

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

I could be wrong, but there is a smell of someone hiding from his partner off your profile

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By *ul_dmac1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin

What makes you say that

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By *oshSardineMan
over a year ago

Castleknock

I’m sure there’s a tonne of twenty six year old males here tongue deep in pussy, so don’t be worrying about your age.

Perhaps get rid of your only two pics of you in a toilet / bathroom that looks like it’s had better days. The rust around the sinks is disgusting and if that’s your gym, ask for a refund coz it looks a filthy shithole.

Perhaps rewrite your biography coz it’s not reading much at present and I mean that in a nice constructive way. Perhaps a little about what kind of lady you would like to meet. Is she local to you, local to your riding needs? Is she to be available 24/7 or just when you get the horn? Is it for life or just a ball bag empty? These are some of the questions that need answers to because you’ll either hit the block list or be the king.

And my last bit of advice to you would be, when you get all that sorted out, join the queue behind the other twenty two thousand of us here who want to be tongue deep in pussy too

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Don't bother with some of the verbal diarrhoea you've been given here, there's plenty of women looking for younger lads myself included, mabey your looking at the wrong profile take a read of the bio and see if you're what they could be looking for and get more involved on here, iv met more people through interaction on the forum page then messages alone it takes a lot to stand out there...

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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago

City Centre

OP there are plenty of women who meet younger men! You might not be chatting to the right people.

Best way to meet people is get to a social event.

Best of luck!

B x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on awhile, tried the nice messages, the interesting messages, dirty messages and just simple ones with a photo of myself, some reply but nothing more then a couple of replies then dies, is it that I’m maybe too young for woman on here or what any tips fabbers?"

It's not just young guys it's all men who have that difficulty..even getting a reply is hard work and at that it's usually a few words then any other correspondence is ignored..it's the sheer volume of men here to women 300+ men to 50 women at anytime online..300+ is probably more likey 600 so that works out at a ratio of 12:1..12 men to 1 woman so the odds are stacked against men here ..that's just basic maths

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing to do with your profile.

Get yourself to some socials.

Get a few verifications.

You will prob find it a lot easier then.

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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago

City Centre


"Been on awhile, tried the nice messages, the interesting messages, dirty messages and just simple ones with a photo of myself, some reply but nothing more then a couple of replies then dies, is it that I’m maybe too young for woman on here or what any tips fabbers?

It's not just young guys it's all men who have that difficulty..even getting a reply is hard work and at that it's usually a few words then any other correspondence is ignored..it's the sheer volume of men here to women 300+ men to 50 women at anytime online..300+ is probably more likey 600 so that works out at a ratio of 12:1..12 men to 1 woman so the odds are stacked against men here ..that's just basic maths "

Odds are stacked against guys that why the guys that do well on here attend social events. It's the easiest way to meet people for future adventures

B x

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

My first suggestion would be to put more photos on your profile, and better quality ones tbh. In one of your photos the sink is the main focal point rather than you. You are very far away in both photos so it's difficult to properly see you.

I assume every camera phone has a timer on it so use that rather then standing a mirror selfie.

Take pictures that excentuate your torso, arms, legs and ass and the auld wans will be beating down your door.

Aa suggested, socials are always a good one as well. The blue rinse bridge love their natters so there always plenty of them there.

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By *eehornyWoman
over a year ago

Mayo

Your profile says looking for 18 to 40, maybe up your age bracket and more women might be interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on awhile, tried the nice messages, the interesting messages, dirty messages and just simple ones with a photo of myself, some reply but nothing more then a couple of replies then dies, is it that I’m maybe too young for woman on here or what any tips fabbers?

It's not just young guys it's all men who have that difficulty..even getting a reply is hard work and at that it's usually a few words then any other correspondence is ignored..it's the sheer volume of men here to women 300+ men to 50 women at anytime online..300+ is probably more likey 600 so that works out at a ratio of 12:1..12 men to 1 woman so the odds are stacked against men here ..that's just basic maths

Odds are stacked against guys that why the guys that do well on here attend social events. It's the easiest way to meet people for future adventures

B x"

Can you imagine if 600 men arrived at 1 of these group social events, it's just not feasible or possible , most men on fab haven't been to a group social event for that very reason

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Been on awhile, tried the nice messages, the interesting messages, dirty messages and just simple ones with a photo of myself, some reply but nothing more then a couple of replies then dies, is it that I’m maybe too young for woman on here or what any tips fabbers?

It's not just young guys it's all men who have that difficulty..even getting a reply is hard work and at that it's usually a few words then any other correspondence is ignored..it's the sheer volume of men here to women 300+ men to 50 women at anytime online..300+ is probably more likey 600 so that works out at a ratio of 12:1..12 men to 1 woman so the odds are stacked against men here ..that's just basic maths

Odds are stacked against guys that why the guys that do well on here attend social events. It's the easiest way to meet people for future adventures

B x

Can you imagine if 600 men arrived at 1 of these group social events, it's just not feasible or possible , most men on fab haven't been to a group social event for that very reason "

You do know that numbers are limited ....how many socials have you been at

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

And also, most socials have a 50% drop out rate for single guys (prior to the event mostly, not no shows) so that’s never gonna happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on awhile, tried the nice messages, the interesting messages, dirty messages and just simple ones with a photo of myself, some reply but nothing more then a couple of replies then dies, is it that I’m maybe too young for woman on here or what any tips fabbers?

It's not just young guys it's all men who have that difficulty..even getting a reply is hard work and at that it's usually a few words then any other correspondence is ignored..it's the sheer volume of men here to women 300+ men to 50 women at anytime online..300+ is probably more likey 600 so that works out at a ratio of 12:1..12 men to 1 woman so the odds are stacked against men here ..that's just basic maths

Odds are stacked against guys that why the guys that do well on here attend social events. It's the easiest way to meet people for future adventures

B x

Can you imagine if 600 men arrived at 1 of these group social events, it's just not feasible or possible , most men on fab haven't been to a group social event for that very reason "

As a person who organises socials.

We would hardly have a social full of men and only a handful of women.

That be pointless.

Any organiser will always do their best to keep the numbers as even as possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on awhile, tried the nice messages, the interesting messages, dirty messages and just simple ones with a photo of myself, some reply but nothing more then a couple of replies then dies, is it that I’m maybe too young for woman on here or what any tips fabbers?

It's not just young guys it's all men who have that difficulty..even getting a reply is hard work and at that it's usually a few words then any other correspondence is ignored..it's the sheer volume of men here to women 300+ men to 50 women at anytime online..300+ is probably more likey 600 so that works out at a ratio of 12:1..12 men to 1 woman so the odds are stacked against men here ..that's just basic maths

Odds are stacked against guys that why the guys that do well on here attend social events. It's the easiest way to meet people for future adventures

B x

Can you imagine if 600 men arrived at 1 of these group social events, it's just not feasible or possible , most men on fab haven't been to a group social event for that very reason

You do know that numbers are limited ....how many socials have you been at "

I realize that numbers are limited yes hence why I said can you imagine

Never been to a social and have no inclination or heed in going to 1..I have enough friends in my life I'm not lonely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on awhile, tried the nice messages, the interesting messages, dirty messages and just simple ones with a photo of myself, some reply but nothing more then a couple of replies then dies, is it that I’m maybe too young for woman on here or what any tips fabbers?

It's not just young guys it's all men who have that difficulty..even getting a reply is hard work and at that it's usually a few words then any other correspondence is ignored..it's the sheer volume of men here to women 300+ men to 50 women at anytime online..300+ is probably more likey 600 so that works out at a ratio of 12:1..12 men to 1 woman so the odds are stacked against men here ..that's just basic maths

Odds are stacked against guys that why the guys that do well on here attend social events. It's the easiest way to meet people for future adventures

B x

Can you imagine if 600 men arrived at 1 of these group social events, it's just not feasible or possible , most men on fab haven't been to a group social event for that very reason

As a person who organises socials.

We would hardly have a social full of men and only a handful of women.

That be pointless.

Any organiser will always do their best to keep the numbers as even as possible. "

That's what fab is like though 600 men to 50 women ..those socials are not an accurate representation of what fab is really like in terms of ratios ..people are handpicked and everything is splendid

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

When we ran socials and parties we always invited loads more single males as we knew so many wouldn't turn up.

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By *carlett!Woman
over a year ago

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Friendly advice from a single woman on here who meets younger guys regularly.... more photos needed, be creative with photos too, visually stimulating. Longer more detailed bio. Stimulating our minds. I agree with a previous comment here that your profile reads as though you're hiding something. Also get verifications. Safety first, I (most women) would not meet unverified people outside of a social event. Simple solution is.... put more effort into your profile & put yourself out there at events. Plenty of fun to be had for those who put in the effort.

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

Having a half decent profile will already set you apart from from the majority of single make profiles.

That will get you to a social event. I would highly recommend it. All but four of my verifications are from social events.

Veri's aside. You meet people. Your sound, they are sound and you make a few friends.

Then your set. Because good guys in the scene are welcome and treated with respect.

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By *itlbeeCouple
over a year ago

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Sorry to say you just have a really uninteresting profile. Few samsey pictures and no personality in your bio.

It might help you to use people's verifications to find the profiles of men who are doing okay. It might help you get a sense of what works.

It's also not all about profiles, socials are a big part. For a lot of people profiles just aren't enough and they prefer events.

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford

Up date your pictures, as the 2 you've up are from 2022, have more than just 2 of them, put more effered into your bio. Go to a social & get meet verified. Interact on here more. Stop messaging profiles, unless it's something to do with the forum. As it stand's for you, the other profiles don't know what type of a guy are & are actually (real). Look at other's profiles, you could get something from them & try it on your own profile.

Finally Fab is a Marathon, not a sprint. So it's always on tap for some guy's on here. Whatever age you are.

Good luck with it.

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

This marathon not a sprint thing is a bit of a red herring.

I had my first coffee meet in a fortnight and as it stands I've only been here for a few months.

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford


"This marathon not a sprint thing is a bit of a red herring.

I had my first coffee meet in a fortnight and as it stands I've only been here for a few months."

For you it wasn't & good for you. Not all guy's are that lucky.

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West


"This marathon not a sprint thing is a bit of a red herring.

I had my first coffee meet in a fortnight and as it stands I've only been here for a few months.

For you it wasn't & good for you. Not all guy's are that lucky. "

It doesn't have to be luck. It can also be effort.

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford


"This marathon not a sprint thing is a bit of a red herring.

I had my first coffee meet in a fortnight and as it stands I've only been here for a few months.

For you it wasn't & good for you. Not all guy's are that lucky.

It doesn't have to be luck. It can also be effort."

Ya,that's true alright. Saying luck wasn't involved aswell is just away of thinking. As some guy's can feel that they're putting the effort in & still nothing.

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West


"This marathon not a sprint thing is a bit of a red herring.

I had my first coffee meet in a fortnight and as it stands I've only been here for a few months.

For you it wasn't & good for you. Not all guy's are that lucky.

It doesn't have to be luck. It can also be effort.

Ya,that's true alright. Saying luck wasn't involved aswell is just away of thinking. As some guy's can feel that they're putting the effort in & still nothing. "

Maybe your right. I did have four coffee meets in the first month though. All of them were through flirting and playing games in the forum here.

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford


"This marathon not a sprint thing is a bit of a red herring.

I had my first coffee meet in a fortnight and as it stands I've only been here for a few months.

For you it wasn't & good for you. Not all guy's are that lucky.

It doesn't have to be luck. It can also be effort.

Ya,that's true alright. Saying luck wasn't involved aswell is just away of thinking. As some guy's can feel that they're putting the effort in & still nothing.

Maybe your right. I did have four coffee meets in the first month though. All of them were through flirting and playing games in the forum here."

Good man.

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

My point being that it's very easy to give newcomers advice that's not necessarily based in experience.

Everyone has a different experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well known fact on any dating/swinging platform that 80% of women go for the top 5% of men. That's what's stacked against you.

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West


"Well known fact on any dating/swinging platform that 80% of women go for the top 5% of men. That's what's stacked against you. "

"Do you know the source of this claim? It originated from a 2015 article written by one incel(ish) guy. He got his data from polling 27 male Tinder users."

That was the top result in my first Google search.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for the pm about it, but no, Dr. Google would not be a citable resource. Try the actual studies as cited by researches based in accredited universities.

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West


"Thanks for the pm about it, but no, Dr. Google would not be a citable resource. Try the actual studies as cited by researches based in accredited universities. "

Sorry I got reply privately instead of quote.

Is the source of the stat you provided above from a peer reviewed study and an accredited university?

Can you provide the source? Or any source to back up that claim?

I mean other than a straw poll of 27 men on Tinder.

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By *eline5000Woman
over a year ago

dublin

Ur here over a year

Go back to T*nder

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Well known fact on any dating/swinging platform that 80% of women go for the top 5% of men. That's what's stacked against you. "

Crikey, I must up the ante, ditch himself and go for the top 5%. Can you tell me how I identify them, please?

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West


"Well known fact on any dating/swinging platform that 80% of women go for the top 5% of men. That's what's stacked against you.

Crikey, I must up the ante, ditch himself and go for the top 5%. Can you tell me how I identify them, please? "

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Well known fact on any dating/swinging platform that 80% of women go for the top 5% of men. That's what's stacked against you.

Crikey, I must up the ante, ditch himself and go for the top 5%. Can you tell me how I identify them, please? "

They usually have cute dogs for a startv

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Well known fact on any dating/swinging platform that 80% of women go for the top 5% of men. That's what's stacked against you.

Crikey, I must up the ante, ditch himself and go for the top 5%. Can you tell me how I identify them, please?

"

Is that your effort to get the job interview?

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Well known fact on any dating/swinging platform that 80% of women go for the top 5% of men. That's what's stacked against you.

Crikey, I must up the ante, ditch himself and go for the top 5%. Can you tell me how I identify them, please?

They usually have cute dogs for a startv "

And are famous for bringing donuts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well known fact on any dating/swinging platform that 80% of women go for the top 5% of men. That's what's stacked against you.

Crikey, I must up the ante, ditch himself and go for the top 5%. Can you tell me how I identify them, please?

They usually have cute dogs for a startv

And are famous for bringing donuts? "

Did someone say donuts?

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By *oman StringerMan
over a year ago

Sallynoggin

I have a cute dog. Business should be booming It's not though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a cute dog. Business should be booming It's not though "

Ah, but now we know about the dog...

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

I have a picture of me holding someone else's puppy on my tinder profile. I'm shameless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a picture of me holding someone else's puppy on my tinder profile. I'm shameless."

Now he tells us!!

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West


"Well known fact on any dating/swinging platform that 80% of women go for the top 5% of men. That's what's stacked against you.

Crikey, I must up the ante, ditch himself and go for the top 5%. Can you tell me how I identify them, please?

Is that your effort to get the job interview? "

How am I doing? I'll send the puppy photo if helps.

Also I have previous experience and know how to do sex.

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By *oman StringerMan
over a year ago

Sallynoggin

How do you sleep at night?! :D

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Well known fact on any dating/swinging platform that 80% of women go for the top 5% of men. That's what's stacked against you.

Crikey, I must up the ante, ditch himself and go for the top 5%. Can you tell me how I identify them, please?

Is that your effort to get the job interview?

How am I doing? I'll send the puppy photo if helps.

Also I have previous experience and know how to do sex."

Getting warmer

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West


"Well known fact on any dating/swinging platform that 80% of women go for the top 5% of men. That's what's stacked against you.

Crikey, I must up the ante, ditch himself and go for the top 5%. Can you tell me how I identify them, please?

Is that your effort to get the job interview?

How am I doing? I'll send the puppy photo if helps.

Also I have previous experience and know how to do sex.

Getting warmer "

I tried sending you the photo but your profile is not looking for single puppies

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West


"How do you sleep at night?! :D"

Alone. Don't even have an actual puppy to keep me warm.

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By *ul_dmac1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Updates my photos and bio, if anyone cares to have a look and help out a fabber with some advice and comments or messages lol

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

If it was my I'd remove most of your photos. Really only two of them are different and they are good enough to keep.

I think as a good rule of thumb it's good to keep all negative references or of your bio. That's just my preference.

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Updates my photos and bio, if anyone cares to have a look and help out a fabber with some advice and comments or messages lol "

The latest ones are very solid. I'd recommend remov8ng the two previous ones. They don't add much value.

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"Been on awhile, tried the nice messages, the interesting messages, dirty messages and just simple ones with a photo of myself, some reply but nothing more then a couple of replies then dies, is it that I’m maybe too young for woman on here or what any tips fabbers?

It's not just young guys it's all men who have that difficulty..even getting a reply is hard work and at that it's usually a few words then any other correspondence is ignored..it's the sheer volume of men here to women 300+ men to 50 women at anytime online..300+ is probably more likey 600 so that works out at a ratio of 12:1..12 men to 1 woman so the odds are stacked against men here ..that's just basic maths

Odds are stacked against guys that why the guys that do well on here attend social events. It's the easiest way to meet people for future adventures

B x

Can you imagine if 600 men arrived at 1 of these group social events, it's just not feasible or possible , most men on fab haven't been to a group social event for that very reason

You do know that numbers are limited ....how many socials have you been at

I realize that numbers are limited yes hence why I said can you imagine

Never been to a social and have no inclination or heed in going to 1..I have enough friends in my life I'm not lonely "

People who attend socials are far from lonely and happen to have lives outside fab

Don't go if it's not your cup of tea, don't assume that others who do are somehow below you either. You simply haven't got a clue what you're talking about if you've never been to one and have no intention of going, so why comment?

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
over a year ago

The West


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That's what fab is like though 600 men to 50 women ..those socials are not an accurate representation of what fab is really like in terms of ratios ..people are handpicked and everything is splendid "

Upu said you've never been and don't want to ever go. But you know who attends?

Any social we have ever attended has had a wide variety of people, from ages, kinks, relationship types, shapes, sizes and race.

As a man, it amazes me how many single men can't see that socials are probably the best gateway to meeting people!

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West


"

That's what fab is like though 600 men to 50 women ..those socials are not an accurate representation of what fab is really like in terms of ratios ..people are handpicked and everything is splendid

Upu said you've never been and don't want to ever go. But you know who attends?

Any social we have ever attended has had a wide variety of people, from ages, kinks, relationship types, shapes, sizes and race.

As a man, it amazes me how many single men can't see that socials are probably the best gateway to meeting people!"

This exactly.

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By *adforsexMan
over a year ago

Santry


"Well known fact on any dating/swinging platform that 80% of women go for the top 5% of men. That's what's stacked against you. "
100%

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