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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone here have the unfortunate experience of family finding out that you are swinging ? If so what was the outcome and how did you / they handle it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd hate if that happened. not because I'm ashamed but because it's such a taboo subject still in Ireland

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Are they on fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No it's just a general question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My son knows and he thinks it's hilarious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

he must be a well rounded open minded young man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My son knows and he thinks it's hilarious "

Good on your son he is down to earth more should be like him ..

Goodnight all x lou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nite lou xx

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

My sister knows. My mother wouldn't care in the slightest.

My life and profession seems so eccentric to my family and friends that I don't think it would surprise them at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that's a nice way to be ice cream. no shame so

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By *elticinvrpcMan
over a year ago

Dublin 10

All my family know.. iv told them all.. no shame at all.

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

All my family know

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By *outheastbyeMan
over a year ago

Waterford

My sister knows. Thinks it's cool but not for her. My best mate is also on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does that include kids if you have?

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By *outheastbyeMan
over a year ago

Waterford


"Does that include kids if you have?"

Jesus I think my kids heads wud explode. One is 20 now so nervous in case I see him on here haha

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

My kids are young but they are being raised in an age appropriate sex positive environment.

I wouldn't do anything I was ashamed of and so it follows I would have no reason to hide it.

And any teenager these days is naturally going to have a broader and more inclusive language to understand sex and sexuality.

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By *heBlowinsCouple
over a year ago

West Cork


"My kids are young but they are being raised in an age appropriate sex positive environment.

I wouldn't do anything I was ashamed of and so it follows I would have no reason to hide it.

And any teenager these days is naturally going to have a broader and more inclusive language to understand sex and sexuality.

"

We're in a similar situation with our kids.. the rest of our family and some people at work know and don't care

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Our family all know. It came with a complete lack of surprise. They know us after all

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"My kids are young but they are being raised in an age appropriate sex positive environment.

I wouldn't do anything I was ashamed of and so it follows I would have no reason to hide it.

And any teenager these days is naturally going to have a broader and more inclusive language to understand sex and sexuality.

"

this

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By *om TangoMan
over a year ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

At the moment I wouldn’t like it. But once my kids get a bit older and understand things better I’ll likely wear a shirt saying “Bull for cuckolding” or “bull for hot wife”. I’ll be in my 50’s but. So might not look so cool on me.

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By *andR2019Couple
over a year ago

Nunya

My family(G) are all back in Scotland and I rarely speak with them so they don’t know, However most of R’s know and they’re fine with it.

At first they just wanted to know why and what we were doing. We told them why and said anything we did, we can’t discuss other people as not everyone is open or comfortable as us.

Now we get the comments oh I wish I was younger or that I had the confidence to do it and the oh I would be to jealous or scared the other one would run off with someone else.

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By *oodOmensfor2Couple
over a year ago

Ennis

No one in our family knows so far but we are still new to it so could always change .

Mentioned it to some friends and turns out they've walked that path in the past and now want to be kept updated on our adventures .

Re our son, we've always talked open about sex with him. He knows we've got toys . We haven't told him about this and don't really intend to but we don't necessarily hide from him either.

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
over a year ago

kinkytown

Don't think they know and if they do they know we wouldn't really care.

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By *kinandbonesCouple
over a year ago

dublin

Doubt they'd care tbh. They both met in PDI so probably aware of the scene.

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford

Highly unlikely that, my family members know yet, that I know of anyway's.

My Brother & sister would shocked I'd say at first. Be worried,etc. I'd say my sister would be the first to come around to it & be happy for me. The brother mightn't be as easy & understanding about it. My mother would have disowned me over it, more than likely. If she had found out about it.

My Nieces & Nephews are still kid's. Only 1 of them is a teenager. I'm in no hurry to talk about it to them, anytime very soon.

As for any extended family members finding out. I couldn't be arsed if they do find out. Hardly see them,so hardly speak to them, first & formly NONE of there business, at the end of the day.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"At the moment I wouldn’t like it. But once my kids get a bit older and understand things better I’ll likely wear a shirt saying “Bull for cuckolding” or “bull for hot wife”. I’ll be in my 50’s but. So might not look so cool on me. "

Rock it anyway bud

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Highly unlikely that, my family members know yet, that I know of anyway's.

My Brother & sister would shocked I'd say at first. Be worried,etc. I'd say my sister would be the first to come around to it & be happy for me. The brother mightn't be as easy & understanding about it. My mother would have disowned me over it, more than likely. If she had found out about it.

My Nieces & Nephews are still kid's. Only 1 of them is a teenager. I'm in no hurry to talk about it to them, anytime very soon.

As for any extended family members finding out. I couldn't be arsed if they do find out. Hardly see them,so hardly speak to them, first & formly NONE of there business, at the end of the day.

"

More or less same as this

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By *olly amourousWoman
over a year ago

east cork

I'm petrified of going to an event and my parents being there, they have never said anything about the lifestyle but imagine the mortifying shame

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"I'm petrified of going to an event and my parents being there, they have never said anything about the lifestyle but imagine the mortifying shame "

Would you be ashamed to see your parents or do you think they'd be ashamed of you

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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago

Youghal

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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago

Youghal

A friend knows but he's a "help you bury the body" type friend.

We belive Mr's have suspicions following a couple of comments made. One blatant comment was "I hope you're not into wife swapping"

But we have our suspicions that they dabbled in the past.

Anyway, we don't shout it from the rooftops but wouldn't be worried if people knew either. Alot of our friends wouldn't be surprised.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if my family found out we were on fab I'd go into shut down mode. Its no ones business what my husband and I do. We are happy and thats all they need to know.Having said that I'd prefer them not to know.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"A friend knows but he's a "help you bury the body" type friend.

We belive Mr's have suspicions following a couple of comments made. One blatant comment was "I hope you're not into wife swapping"

But we have our suspicions that they dabbled in the past.

Anyway, we don't shout it from the rooftops but wouldn't be worried if people knew either. Alot of our friends wouldn't be surprised."

What about a delete the phone type friend

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By *ireannCplCouple
over a year ago

Suburbs

We had a discreet profile photo published in a tabloid news paper many years ago. Some siblings and friends saw it and recognised us. Not a great experience being honest but it's not been mentioned since.

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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago

City Centre


"I'm petrified of going to an event and my parents being there, they have never said anything about the lifestyle but imagine the mortifying shame "

Why would you be ashamed? Sure they are doing exactly the same thing!

Obviously, being your parents would be a bit of a shock but the fact that they are open minded enough to be on the scene they might not be too shocked to see you.

B x

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Just be cautious about exposing yourselves as being very sensitive to this stuff. Nasty people could use that against you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That would be awakard lol

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By *uanpacMan
over a year ago

Cork/Limerick/Dublin

I’m that wonderful position of not giving a f**k what anyone thinks.. life is for living and all that. Everyone used the site differently so everyone views it differently. May change my mind when my kids grow older but for now I don’t care who sees me haha

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By *ust M.A.IMan
over a year ago

Mullingar

My sister knows, she said I can do whatever, it's my life and no one's business

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By *ungstud730Man
over a year ago

Derry Donegal

Your son knows your swinger

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By *ushin realityCouple
over a year ago

swords

My family and inner circle know, they are real nosey and love hearing about all the orgys and human sacrifices lol,I wind them up also

However alot of them think socials are a brilliant idea and sound great fun and are even a bit jealous hearing I'm off on a weekend of fun.They don't judge but I don't care either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t mine at all. I’m out, having fun and exploring my sexual life. If they have a problem with it, that’s their business, if they want to ask questions I’m happy to answer anything they ask

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

We wouldn't like it known. What we do with out lives in private is no ones business.

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By *arrot_in_a_boxCouple
over a year ago

kinda dublin

My step sis found out I was on Fab. She said she would tell step mom if I didn't let her practice blow jobs on me. She had never given a BJ before, and wanted to learn how to do it for her new boyfriend.

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog


"My step sis found out I was on Fab. She said she would tell step mom if I didn't let her practice blow jobs on me. She had never given a BJ before, and wanted to learn how to do it for her new boyfriend. "

Were u watch cruel intentions...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My step sis found out I was on Fab. She said she would tell step mom if I didn't let her practice blow jobs on me. She had never given a BJ before, and wanted to learn how to do it for her new boyfriend. "

Did your step min come in and show her how to do it properly.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you be ok with your family knowing? Or has anyone told their family they they do it?

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny

My family know and don't care.

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By *astelloWoman
over a year ago

Far far away

Only 1 close friend knows. My family are very very conservative and even lack basic human connection. The judgement would be overwhelming. Grew up in a household of no hugs or kisses ever and sex was shameful.

Conversely I have become a hugely tactile person but its taken a long time to re progranne.

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By *onybart2404TV/TS
over a year ago

keady

Sister in law found out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's only my kids and they would blame Lee for leading me astray (he's not their dad)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We had a discreet profile photo published in a tabloid news paper many years ago. Some siblings and friends saw it and recognised us. Not a great experience being honest but it's not been mentioned since. "

Sad to read this comment, nobody should have their private lives exposed by the media.

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By *uniCouple
over a year ago

city center

It would suck. Not that's nothing of their business, but it would be a rough couple of meets. But I think that after while everything would be fine, it's not a crime.

I think that they would be more curious than judgmental, most of people are, especially when they are in a long term relationship.

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By *igkidexyMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"It would suck. Not that's nothing of their business, but it would be a rough couple of meets. But I think that after while everything would be fine, it's not a crime.

I think that they would be more curious than judgmental, most of people are, especially when they are in a long term relationship."

Well said

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By *orthern_nudieMan
36 weeks ago

leeds

Such a grown up way to tho m about it

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
36 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

Being "out" about being a swinger removes the risk completely

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

It's only taboo until it's not. Social circles are so small in Ireland, we are all tripping over each other's exes.

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By *heBlowinsCouple
36 weeks ago

West Cork


"It's only taboo until it's not. Social circles are so small in Ireland, we are all tripping over each other's exes."

It's only taboo until it's not! Well said.

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By *orthern_nudieMan
36 weeks ago

leeds


"It's only taboo until it's not. Social circles are so small in Ireland, we are all tripping over each other's exes.

It's only taboo until it's not! Well said. "

100%! Couldn’t agree more. Why make it taboo? if people are comfortable and own their what they do

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

My mum knows. She asked me if I'm ok with her telling to my dad about it haha

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By *orthern_nudieMan
30 weeks ago

leeds

I would be mind if they knew. Happy to talk to them about it

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By *am96xxMan
26 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield

No lol, this thread is interesting lol

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By *razyNippleLoverMan
26 weeks ago

Back End of Beyond

This island is so small, relatively new to this and already been in chats with persons very close to home

TBH doesn't bother me we all have our reasons for being here !!! Sure if people here are willing to put up naked pics, discuss desires etc with a veiw to a session ?? they should be grown up enough to chat it out with Family if occasion arises, but I shite no I wouldn't bring it up myself !!!!

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By *adyKarmennTVTV/TS
26 weeks ago

Dublin

I actually had one of neighbors message me to meet up but I had to tell him I couldn’t and not cause he wasn’t attractive or anything

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By *heelofTimeCouple
26 weeks ago

Two Rivers

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By *heelofTimeCouple
26 weeks ago

Two Rivers

Haven’t met relatives yet but we don’t go to many socials. There are a few of them going to weddings all over Ireland lately. They never left Mayo so, who are these people the wedding is for..?

Met loads we know socially at events. Never been an issue when meet them in normal vanilla lives chat away normal without mentioning extra curricular activities xx

Oh and if any of family are here…… Howyas ya dirty beggars. We don’t make our way anywhere as much as you’s lol lol

Xxx

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By *am96xxMan
26 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield

I haven’t but have found toys and panties before x

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By *rAndMrsRightCouple
26 weeks ago

newtownabbey

We aren't doing anything immoral or illegal, so have no issue with anyone finding either of us on fab.

It is EXTREMELY annoying when past colleagues find me here and feel the need to say "oh I wish I knew you were on fab sooner, we could have had so much fun"

No, mate, we wouldn't have had any fun regardless if I'm on fab or not. I didn't fancy you then and I still don't fancy you now.

Missus

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By *iSi74Man
26 weeks ago

Drogheda, Meath, Dublin

I did have my wifes neice try hook up with me here .

Wonder did she ever cop whoI was?

Tough one to bring up at the next family wedding

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By *orthern_nudieMan
26 weeks ago

leeds

Anyone had any awkward moments? Or rather fun moments with people they’ve found on here?

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By *heBlowinsCouple
26 weeks ago

West Cork


"We aren't doing anything immoral or illegal, so have no issue with anyone finding either of us on fab.

It is EXTREMELY annoying when past colleagues find me here and feel the need to say "oh I wish I knew you were on fab sooner, we could have had so much fun"

No, mate, we wouldn't have had any fun regardless if I'm on fab or not. I didn't fancy you then and I still don't fancy you now.

Missus "

Right?? Feel the same as y'all

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By *am96xxMan
25 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield

Ye it’s a naughty feeling x

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By *eckme70Man
25 weeks ago

Strabane

I had arranged to meet a girl,she ask for a face pic so after a lot of messages I sent it too her, next thing she txt that she was gonna tell my wife if I didn't give her money a phone and cigarettes yes cigarettes! Well I didn't pay and today I am now divorced 🤷‍♂️🙈🤬

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By *om TangoMan
25 weeks ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

About 2 months ago got chatting to girl here. Was a few miles away. Few nights of chatting. She asked for a face picture and all I got back was “shit we know each other “ and got blocked.

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By *eckme70Man
25 weeks ago

Strabane


"About 2 months ago got chatting to girl here. Was a few miles away. Few nights of chatting. She asked for a face picture and all I got back was “shit we know each other “ and got blocked. "

And the worst thing mate is you'll probably never know who she is

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By *om TangoMan
25 weeks ago

aughnacloy monaghan area


"About 2 months ago got chatting to girl here. Was a few miles away. Few nights of chatting. She asked for a face picture and all I got back was “shit we know each other “ and got blocked.

And the worst thing mate is you'll probably never know who she is"

Very true but maybe as well. It could be a customer which might have been awkward. Doesn’t bother me at all

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By *eckme70Man
25 weeks ago

Strabane


"About 2 months ago got chatting to girl here. Was a few miles away. Few nights of chatting. She asked for a face picture and all I got back was “shit we know each other “ and got blocked.

And the worst thing mate is you'll probably never know who she is

Very true but maybe as well. It could be a customer which might have been awkward. Doesn’t bother me at all"

Good man fair play to ye!!

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By *omeo-Dirty-30Man
8 weeks ago

Telford

My female cousin is on here she sent a body picture on a message I recognise her leg tattoo 🤣🤣🤣🤣

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By *ngloirishcoupleCouple
8 weeks ago

Dundalk

Our lad knows we meet other people with bi women, like a bi support group lol. He knows Pinks has been on dates with women too. We have always been sex positive and explained things to him to his maturity level.

Have had people say they know us but don't share face pics themselves. We have our faces on the profile so pretty out there. If anyone recognises us they are free to say hi, we are not ashamed of being in the lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

My brother, sister and her husband know, told them I was trying something different to meet new people since Ive been single so long hahaha. They all thought I was nutts

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By *iresmillyWoman
8 weeks ago

Dublin

Yes my whole family know. I never wanted to be in a vulnerable position where it was”held over me”. My family are very supportive and although they all are vanilla they do love hearing about my latest exploits they are happy for me as I was married to my childhood boyfriend until the last few years and are glad to see me now finally enjoying life and my freedom.

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By *eestar10Man
8 weeks ago

cavan

My mates know but family not

🙈

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By *orthern_nudieMan
8 weeks ago

leeds

Wish my family knew, I have nothing to hide, they are just very vanilla and wouldn’t understand it. Would not mind if they saw me on here at all

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By *iresmillyWoman
8 weeks ago

Dublin


"Wish my family knew, I have nothing to hide, they are just very vanilla and wouldn’t understand it. Would not mind if they saw me on here at all "

Tell them- you might actually be surprised by their reaction.

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By *s LollyWoman
8 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

I wouldn't like anyone to know, not that ive anything to be ashamed of just my young lad is very involved in sport and is very well known wouldn't want it to effect him in any way, even though he's played against someone ive met here 🙈😅

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By *orthern_nudieMan
8 weeks ago

leeds


"Wish my family knew, I have nothing to hide, they are just very vanilla and wouldn’t understand it. Would not mind if they saw me on here at all

Tell them- you might actually be surprised by their reaction. "

You think? Would love to chat to them and for them to hear about it all

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By *orthern_nudieMan
8 weeks ago

leeds


"Yes my whole family know. I never wanted to be in a vulnerable position where it was”held over me”. My family are very supportive and although they all are vanilla they do love hearing about my latest exploits they are happy for me as I was married to my childhood boyfriend until the last few years and are glad to see me now finally enjoying life and my freedom. "

Which family members like hearing your experiences?

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By *iresmillyWoman
8 weeks ago

Dublin


"Yes my whole family know. I never wanted to be in a vulnerable position where it was”held over me”. My family are very supportive and although they all are vanilla they do love hearing about my latest exploits they are happy for me as I was married to my childhood boyfriend until the last few years and are glad to see me now finally enjoying life and my freedom.

Which family members like hearing your experiences? "

My sister actually. She helped me put the restraints under my mattress

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By *iresmillyWoman
8 weeks ago

Dublin


"Wish my family knew, I have nothing to hide, they are just very vanilla and wouldn’t understand it. Would not mind if they saw me on here at all

Tell them- you might actually be surprised by their reaction.

You think? Would love to chat to them and for them to hear about it all "

You don’t have to go into details but they do have a good laugh at my expense when I get stood up, or the 6”2 lad turns out to be 5”4.

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By *ot really famousMan
8 weeks ago

monaghan


"Yes my whole family know. I never wanted to be in a vulnerable position where it was”held over me”. My family are very supportive and although they all are vanilla they do love hearing about my latest exploits they are happy for me as I was married to my childhood boyfriend until the last few years and are glad to see me now finally enjoying life and my freedom.

Which family members like hearing your experiences?

My sister actually. She helped me put the restraints under my mattress "
...do go on...

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By *ungry CatCouple
8 weeks ago

Belfast

Our family knows about fab.

We don't go into details with them as it's none of their business, but they are aware of our extra busy social life 😊

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By *om TangoMan
8 weeks ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

Few around me know I’m involved in the lifestyle after I was exposed to my ex wife. But doesn’t bother me. More will know from next spring onwards as I’ve planned to add a few swingers tattoos to my body. I’ve nothing to be ashamed of as anyone I’ve be involved with was well over the age of consent and also give their consent. It’s a lifestyle I’m very proud to be involved in and have made many good friends. There is no or very little judgement involved in this wonderful community and I intend to be a part of it for many many years

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By *ot really famousMan
8 weeks ago

monaghan


"Few around me know I’m involved in the lifestyle after I was exposed to my ex wife. But doesn’t bother me. More will know from next spring onwards as I’ve planned to add a few swingers tattoos to my body. I’ve nothing to be ashamed of as anyone I’ve be involved with was well over the age of consent and also give their consent. It’s a lifestyle I’m very proud to be involved in and have made many good friends. There is no or very little judgement involved in this wonderful community and I intend to be a part of it for many many years "
...im just gonna stick with the pampas grass in the front garden, and a few tasteful upside down pineapples on the fridge door...

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By *asuallyChilledMan
8 weeks ago

Drogheda

My ex wife is here on Fab.

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By *phrodite72Woman
8 weeks ago

dublin/galway


"Few around me know I’m involved in the lifestyle after I was exposed to my ex wife. But doesn’t bother me. More will know from next spring onwards as I’ve planned to add a few swingers tattoos to my body. I’ve nothing to be ashamed of as anyone I’ve be involved with was well over the age of consent and also give their consent. It’s a lifestyle I’m very proud to be involved in and have made many good friends. There is no or very little judgement involved in this wonderful community and I intend to be a part of it for many many years ...im just gonna stick with the pampas grass in the front garden, and a few tasteful upside down pineapples on the fridge door..."

We always had pampas grass in our front and back garden and ate a lot of pineapple so obvs subconsciously this was the lifestyle for me xx

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By *ot really famousMan
8 weeks ago

monaghan

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By *oy3333Man
8 weeks ago

lucan

Met my female cousin is on fab and met her at event !

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By *ot really famousMan
8 weeks ago

monaghan


"Few around me know I’m involved in the lifestyle after I was exposed to my ex wife. But doesn’t bother me. More will know from next spring onwards as I’ve planned to add a few swingers tattoos to my body. I’ve nothing to be ashamed of as anyone I’ve be involved with was well over the age of consent and also give their consent. It’s a lifestyle I’m very proud to be involved in and have made many good friends. There is no or very little judgement involved in this wonderful community and I intend to be a part of it for many many years ...im just gonna stick with the pampas grass in the front garden, and a few tasteful upside down pineapples on the fridge door...

We always had pampas grass in our front and back garden and ate a lot of pineapple so obvs subconsciously this was the lifestyle for me xx"
...im sure you lived up the road from me....or mabye I was dreaming...hahaha

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By *omeo-Dirty-30Man
8 weeks ago

Telford


"I wouldn't like anyone to know, not that ive anything to be ashamed of just my young lad is very involved in sport and is very well known wouldn't want it to effect him in any way, even though he's played against someone ive met here 🙈😅"

How old was the lad met lol .. imagine if he shared the pics in the changing rooms that's it you took any pics 🤣

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By *orthern_nudieMan
6 weeks ago

leeds

Wouldn’t bother me if I found family on here. All here for the same thing. I’d say hey to them.

Wouldn’t happen tho, my family are all prudes

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By *om TangoMan
6 weeks ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

I got exposed to the ex wife a few months ago and off course she then told a few of my kids. At the time it was shit but looking back it was a good thing. I’m not ashamed of being in the lifestyle. Those outside of this lifestyle thinks it’s all about riding and fucking. Anyone that really into lifestyle knows it more than sex. Personally it’s a community and friendship. Meeting like minded people with the freedom of being fit to talk to without judgement. I’ve many good friends from here that I’ve never even kissed never mind played with. I’ve 3 fab customers and soon to have a 4th customer that’s on fab. I’ll never play with any of them but I do enjoy our chats and meetings for coffee/dinner. Away to many think swinging is about meeting up for sex. Use this lifestyle right and yous can have lots of friends yous can chat to about anything. It’s not to be feeling ashamed of what anyone gets up to.

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