FabSwingers.com forum: Women having orgasms from oral sex

By *og-Man OP Man
over a year ago

somewhere

Seems to be a badge of pride from some men that they have never cum from a blowjob

So how do men and women feel about a woman not having an orgasm during oral sex

Does going down for hours on a profile just mean that your just not that good at it

Any thoughts

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By *ome_wild_girlWoman
over a year ago

Antrim Town

Sounds exhausting, is that why some fall asleep during oral?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes maybe. But if nothing was happening I'd have switched it up long before the hours mark

Sometimes, no matter how good or skilled someone is, the orgasm just isn't going to happen and that's no-ones fault

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

I think sometimes people focus too much on the orgasm as an end point.

Things can feel amazing and satisfying without there actually being an orgasm.

It’s also important to pay attention to body language but that is harder with a new person.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Doesn't bother me because it's never been a challenge and I would be working in minutes rather than hours.

I've never had any complaints even when it hasn't happened so it hasn't affected my credit score.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sounds exhausting, is that why some fall asleep during oral?"

I always fall asleep after I cum. Especially if I have cum a few times.

That’s why I always make sure a man cums 1st. Orgasms for me take up so much energy.

Need to rest my eyes for a bit

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By *og-Man OP Man
over a year ago

somewhere

"Sounds exhausting, is that why some fall asleep during oral?

I always fall asleep after I cum. Especially if I have cum a few times.

That’s why I always make sure a man cums 1st. Orgasms for me take up so much energy.

Need to rest my eyes for a bit

I too need my 5 min nap when I'm allowed

....especially if Ive to drive home

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

If it's not working after 15mins or so of my best moves then it probably not gonna happen. Time to try something different. I'd rather have it not work rather than her fake it to make it stop!

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By *oodOmensfor2Couple
over a year ago

Ennis

Oral plus toys/ fingers is actually the easiest for me to come. If I am really horny just oral does the trick

. But has to be done just the right way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oral plus toys/ fingers is actually the easiest for me to come. If I am really horny just oral does the trick

. But has to be done just the right way

Oral is like most things in life, practice practice practice and that combined with a smidging of confidence in your own abilities and hey presto it will have the desired result 9 times out of 10. With new partners the ability to read body language can be harder so open clear verbal communication also helps. If I’m honest when a partner hasn’t cum from oral most times it was my ego at fault

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By *eehornyWoman
over a year ago

Mayo

"Oral plus toys/ fingers is actually the easiest for me to come. If I am really horny just oral does the trick

. But has to be done just the right way

I could have wrote this myself

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Can honestly say it's extremely rare for me to, after a while if nothing is happening ive a enough and want to moves on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems to be a badge of pride from some men that they have never cum from a blowjob

So how do men and women feel about a woman not having an orgasm during oral sex

Does going down for hours on a profile just mean that your just not that good at it

Any thoughts

Definitely wouldn't call it a badge of pride! I wish i could it just doesn't happen

And as far as oral on a woman, if you're a good enough lover you'll know it isn't working and move on to something else! You'll both find a groove and get down to it!

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"Seems to be a badge of pride from some men that they have never cum from a blowjob

So how do men and women feel about a woman not having an orgasm during oral sex

Does going down for hours on a profile just mean that your just not that good at it

Any thoughts

Definitely wouldn't call it a badge of pride! I wish i could it just doesn't happen

And as far as oral on a woman, if you're a good enough lover you'll know it isn't working and move on to something else! You'll both find a groove and get down to it!

This 100%

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

An orgasm starts in her brain, so a relaxed ambiance, easy chat, gentle approach, teasing with tongue and lips,.. And maybe take the long way around before you even go near her clit.

Dont chase an orgasm,... as a poster above said , its nobody's fault if orgasm doesnt happen. Its an experience, an adventure, no goal,. Listen to her cues, body language, and sounds she's making.

Oh, soft tongue.. Very important.

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By *oodOmensfor2Couple
over a year ago

Ennis

"Oral plus toys/ fingers is actually the easiest for me to come. If I am really horny just oral does the trick

. But has to be done just the right way

I could have wrote this myself

Glad I am not the only one

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

"Seems to be a badge of pride from some men that they have never cum from a blowjob

So how do men and women feel about a woman not having an orgasm during oral sex

Does going down for hours on a profile just mean that your just not that good at it

Any thoughts

Hours?,if I haven't orgasmed within ten minutes ,im ready for doggy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oral plus toys/ fingers is actually the easiest for me to come. If I am really horny just oral does the trick

. But has to be done just the right way

I could have wrote this myself

Absolutely this, my other half is the master of making me cum this way, but I have to stop him as I love us cumming together anally or vaginally

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
over a year ago

kinkytown

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
over a year ago

kinkytown

Yes I have multiple times during a prolonged oral session. I may even proposed during it

Dee

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By *ichaelpMan
over a year ago

south county

I have always been successful in bringing a lady to orgasm with oral

Because I love to ????

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By *ntrigued888Woman
over a year ago

Beds

Sometimes I just can't get over the hill and my fingers come and help, usually take seconds as I'm so near

And please don't ask

"did you cum?"

My body tremble or lack of it should tell you lol

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

Hours? God the lockjaw alone should be a cue to move on.

My last partner fell asleep immediately when she orgasmed so I probably had more skill in not making her cum.

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By *oe Cool xxxMan
over a year ago

South Dublin

Well it not a problem I’ve encountered often but if oral isn’t working the woman should be able to guide you and tell you what works as she obv knows what makes her cum. , team work lol

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By *rBlue469Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I love going down but i also use my fingers for a wee rub and go back up to lick kiss and suck other body parts then return down.

I personally blow my load fast af receiving oral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"An orgasm starts in her brain, so a relaxed ambiance, easy chat, gentle approach, teasing with tongue and lips,.. And maybe take the long way around before you even go near her clit.

Dont chase an orgasm,... as a poster above said , its nobody's fault if orgasm doesnt happen. Its an experience, an adventure, no goal,. Listen to her cues, body language, and sounds she's making.

Oh, soft tongue.. Very important. "

Eloquently put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"An orgasm starts in her brain, so a relaxed ambiance, easy chat, gentle approach, teasing with tongue and lips,.. And maybe take the long way around before you even go near her clit.

Dont chase an orgasm,... as a poster above said , its nobody's fault if orgasm doesnt happen. Its an experience, an adventure, no goal,. Listen to her cues, body language, and sounds she's making.

Oh, soft tongue.. Very important.

Eloquently put

It’s how safe and comfortable you make a woman feel.

If your gonna be a c*nt chances of her climaxing will fall dramatically.

Everything comes down to energy exchange. If a woman choose not to have sexual relations or isn’t fully present with you it’s because she doesn’t feel safe in the energy / space you are providing her to her at the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody goes down for hours ..such embellished rubbish ..most are a 5 minute job

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

I do recall trying various times with a FWB who said she never has an orgasm from oral. Of course I tried on various occasions, for varying lengths of time and she said she always enjoyed it for the first 5-10mins but then wanted to move on to other stimuli.

Then one day I tried a different approach and angle. 5mins or so and she orgasmed hard and grabbed my head like a demon as she thrust into my face, probably so she didn't have to see the smug I Told You I Could grin on my face

I'm not saying there's always a way but I am saying you need to try different approaches, just in case they work and provide a new type of pleasure for a play partner

Just don't be a dick about it. That's not oral

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By *oman StringerMan
over a year ago

Sallynoggin

The only compliment I get is for my oral performance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surly it’s about both partners enjoying and going with the “Flow” so to speak

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By *om TangoMan
over a year ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

May I be the first to say if I can’t make a lady cum by oral I feel very disappointed. Yes IT’s happened and ego did get damaged. I’m not afraid to admit I’ve failed at it. But I never go back to the start, I go back to where I failed. I think I’ve it mastered now. I would rush into in to get my kick from making her cum so I believe that’s where I failed. Nowadays I like to edge the lady. Well that’s when I get a chance. Bit of a dry season at the moment with me.

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