FabSwingers.com forum: Abusive messages

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What was the worst abusive message you ever got? Does getting abusive messages happen often to you? How did it make you feel at the time? Would you leave the site because of abusive messages?

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

They are actually my favourite kind of message. Don't get em often enough. Tons of fun to be had.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They are actually my favourite kind of message. Don't get em often enough. Tons of fun to be had."

Sarcasm by any chance?

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
over a year ago

City Centre

Never had one

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"They are actually my favourite kind of message. Don't get em often enough. Tons of fun to be had.

Sarcasm by any chance?

Lol no for a change actually. Someone on the internet acting the maggot doesn't have the ability to wind me up like they obviously think they do. It's fun to play with them. They usually aren't the sharpest tool in the box so it's not hard.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You old smoothie you, whatever turns you no!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Never really had abusive messages apart from a few nasty responses when I've turned people down.

Would I leave if I did get them? Hell no!

Some sad creature getting abusive because I won't blow smoke up her arse like she's used to?

Why would I give them the satisfaction?

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
over a year ago

kinkytown

Any nasty mails we get are generally greeted with a equally nasty reply. Quickly followed by a report and a block. Shows people for what they are in my opinion that they are pathetic/sad enough to send a person they don't know on the internet an abusive message to make themselves feel like the big person.

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

It’s very rare that it happens. My favourite reply is “I hope you find the happiness you’re clearly lacking in your life” and block. Pointless engaging and I’m not going to give them the satisfaction of rising to their nonsense.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Ye I have had abusive messages in the past. I can't even remember what they were but probably something along the lines of being a fat cow when I said no or deleted a message. I don't get many thanks to very tight filters and I can't remember the last time I got one.

I have answered some just wind them up a wee bit which is actually surprisingly easy to do without even having to get abusive in replies. It can be fun to see how long it takes them to block me.

But usually I've just deleted and blocked them.

I learnt early on not to let them get to me so no I would never leave fab because of them .If and when I leave fab it will be because I have decided it's time to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rarely...can't really remember the last time we got one.

They're usually met with disdain...a quick "oh do fuck off" followed by a profile note, report & block.

They don't affect us in the slightest but as I said, we rarely get them. Perhaps they would if it was a regular occurrence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes when I get them, I reply just to annoy them then I block so they can't answer me back

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There’s a few of you with a slight sadistic side when it comes to abusive messages who’ve posted to this thread. I’ll reply just to wind the other person up! Lmao

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford

Thankfully, I haven't got any that's very abusive. I got 1, that was a bit abusive in it. I couldn't be arsed to reply to it or interact with them.

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By *iery minxWoman
over a year ago

kildare

I think the majority of people here get them at times,my reply is block and report but I have on occassion been bored and replied just to wind them up. I personally don't understand the logic though why bother message someone that you never spoke to just to tell them what you don't like about them

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

The best one i got was from a lad who over the space of a few days repeatedly messaged me calling me a fat cow, ive cow print lingerie so i took a photo of me in it sent it to him and blocked so he couldn't reply....fun times

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The best one i got was from a lad who over the space of a few days repeatedly messaged me calling me a fat cow, ive cow print lingerie so i took a photo of me in it sent it to him and blocked so he couldn't reply....fun times

Personally this one’s a bit of a head scratcher Ms Lolly, mostly because I can’t see the fun in it. Am I simply just missing something?

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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago

city centre

"They are actually my favourite kind of message. Don't get em often enough. Tons of fun to be had.

Sarcasm by any chance?

This

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By *astelloWoman
over a year ago

Far far away

Ive had a few. Generally abusive either Im a tart or a virgin... Ive had a consistent stalker who has set up 6 different profiles now.. Plus the guy whose opening line was to tell me who I was - full name and where I worked.

Have I considered leaving.. Many times.

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By *ouplex2Couple
over a year ago

Town

"Never really had abusive messages apart from a few nasty responses when I've turned people down.

Would I leave if I did get them? Hell no!

Some sad creature getting abusive because I won't blow smoke up her arse like she's used to?

Why would I give them the satisfaction? "
read chapter 5, unfortunately due to filters thats as far as it goes lol

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

So who called you a watermelon

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By *antas_number_one_elfWoman
over a year ago

dublin

Some of them are gas. I had a random message from some lad telling me I was full of myself and he’d rather wank hahaha. There is a weirdo who keeps making new profiles and sends me essays on how sad it is I’ll never be a mother, that I’m past my use by date. I don’t know where he got the notion that he thinks I don’t have children. But, some of them can be quite funny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow… that’s a crazy amount of dedication ! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha ya fecking legend. My filters are tighter than a nuns fanny but I used to get occasional ones. I remember one in particular was so offended by me wearing nothing but see through top he had to reach out to say I should be ashamed of myself for thinking I was sexy when I was so flabby. Recently a guy did message saying OMG what happened you've gained so much weight. Let's just say neither were very happy with my responses ?? ??

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By *otass and scorpioCouple
over a year ago

limerick cork tipperary clare waterford

Just had one Friday morning accusing us of being anti gay and homophobic because we don’t play with bi/gay men ,

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By *hatCoupleNextDoorCouple
over a year ago

nearby

We don't think we have ever gotten anything abusive, nothing we can remember anyhow! Long may it last!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"There’s a few of you with a slight sadistic side when it comes to abusive messages who’ve posted to this thread. I’ll reply just to wind the other person up! Lmao"

It's a bit like forum comments.

I have the odd disagreement on here but there's a lot of fun to be had just posting in general because the very fact I'm still here is enough to wind some people up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had death threats before when I posted my kik add on my profile , of course nothing can be done as it's off site

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By *heelofTimeCouple
over a year ago

Two Rivers

At this stage I’m sure we all have received abusive, strange, odd, weird messages.

Crickey have even had some strange meets I recall one who tried to put a cigarette out on himself years ago as we played with his misses. Some very peculiar people on here!

Luckily the good outweighs the bad otherwise we wouldn’t be still here.

Xxx missy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messaging a former regular on here and she asked if i had an issue with her cheating on her husband with me (we hadn't met at this stage). I said I didn't really give a shit. She sent me a litany of abuse how people like me are the ruination of marriage in Ireland and other mad stuff about abortion, how families are being destroyed in Ireland.

Blocked. She was the one cheating on her fella and I'm the asshole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive had a few. Generally abusive either Im a tart or a virgin... Ive had a consistent stalker who has set up 6 different profiles now.. Plus the guy whose opening line was to tell me who I was - full name and where I worked.

Have I considered leaving.. Many times. "

That was creepy !!

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

"What was the worst abusive message you ever got? Does getting abusive messages happen often to you? How did it make you feel at the time? Would you leave the site because of abusive messages? "

That you Dr. PHIL ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Messaging a former regular on here and she asked if i had an issue with her cheating on her husband with me (we hadn't met at this stage). I said I didn't really give a shit. She sent me a litany of abuse how people like me are the ruination of marriage in Ireland and other mad stuff about abortion, how families are being destroyed in Ireland.

Blocked. She was the one cheating on her fella and I'm the asshole "

Maybe it was a test

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have I considered leaving.. Many times. "
.. This is really creepy. What a weirdo. I was much more active on my old profile and got weird messages (mostly would I wank into something and send them) but if I got the messages you have I think i would be gone. Mind yourself x

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By *208numeWoman
over a year ago

Navan

Have I considered leaving.. Many times. "

I’m sorry to hear that Castello - you don’t deserve that. Sometimes people can be nasty-that’s why my profile remains hidden. I’m glad you haven’t left the site but hope you report whomever it is to site administrators and the Gardai if needs be.

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By *rystalsswingCouple
over a year ago

Galway / Midlands / West

Abusive no, thankfully!

Weird absolutely

And our filters are tighter than a ducks bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had a few abusive ones mainly because I wouldn't meet them immediately or because my reply didn't suit their agenda.

This is all due to them not reading my profile.

I just take the stance that if I ignore a sore then it will go away. Am too long in the tooth for the pettiness of the immature arguements sich as 'he said she said'

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By *leasurer77Man
over a year ago

Athlone

So who called you a watermelon

Good question and when is someone going to call Lolly a pussy!

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By *oshSardineMan
over a year ago

Castleknock

I’m too old to be worried about what negative connotations someone has to say to me and I’m not a child and therefore wouldn’t be writing an abusive mail to them in return either. Being an arsehole, now that’s completely different coz that will earn you a place on my block list. That and looking for ‘party treats’, snow, white and the rest of the monikers some folk use here looking for illicit highs, although it does seem to have toned down recently.

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By * fun time couple321Couple
over a year ago

tralee

We ve had not so much abusive message but a guy who kept setting up different profile as we kept blocking him. He was insisting on meeting us that we had to do it. The last profile he set up he messaged and went mad at us for wasting his time having to constantly set up new profiles to contact us and we needed to meet him to see what a nice guy he was.....yeah like that was going to happen.

Told him we were handing over all his messages to the guards if he didn't stop. So reported and blocked. He didnt come back thank god

Definitely borderline stalker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was told one time would not fuck you cunts as you come from Ireland by a English women ,yes I did report her sad people that acts like that ,did hert but was few years when I was on,all I said was good morning with a kiss at the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on fab on and off with several profiles as a single male, a couple with herself, and she is also on here as a single female, so we get it direct in the forums at times, or in messages.

The messages are huge as well! I laugh, report, and block, she just ignores. They usually end up with bans in one shape or another, if not by us, then others they choose to have a go at. Some people are just cunts, end of.

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

city

Ive never got one.

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By *ford dudeMan
over a year ago

County

It's the internet, they are expected. Usually I'd just block and move on, easier.

I've never gotten anything here that would make me leave, I've had proper death threats. Some keyboard warrior wouldn't raise a sweat

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By *urious lillieWoman
over a year ago

Kildare

The message that stands out in my memory is a guy telling me he'd vomited looking at my pictures. How disgusting I am and I should be ashamed of myself looking like I do. He then went on to offer me a pity fuck...

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By *leasurer77Man
over a year ago

Athlone

"The message that stands out in my memory is a guy telling me he'd vomited looking at my pictures. How disgusting I am and I should be ashamed of myself looking like I do. He then went on to offer me a pity fuck... "

Innovative strategy

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By *urious lillieWoman
over a year ago

Kildare

Innovative strategy

Didn't work though lol

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Don't get any directly to my inbox but get a few every few months in the forums generally from the same two profiles and at least they're open about the fact that they hate me.

Couldn't give a fiddlers to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't get any directly to my inbox but get a few every few months in the forums generally from the same two profiles and at least they're open about the fact that they hate me.

Couldn't give a fiddlers to be honest

How could anyone hate you bog

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"Don't get any directly to my inbox but get a few every few months in the forums generally from the same two profiles and at least they're open about the fact that they hate me.

Couldn't give a fiddlers to be honest

How could anyone hate you bog

They give reasons in fairness to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't get any directly to my inbox but get a few every few months in the forums generally from the same two profiles and at least they're open about the fact that they hate me.

Couldn't give a fiddlers to be honest

How could anyone hate you bog

They give reasons in fairness to them

That's not to bad I suppose lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll bet that would’ve shut him up anyway!!

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By *ngel and EvilCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

Yea weve had them. Usually to tell me im fat and ugly and no one would want me. Usually reply "tell me something i dont know" and block them. Thankfully havent had any in a while.

Angel

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

"Sometimes when I get them, I reply just to annoy them then I block so they can't answer me back

Us too , love that

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

Far more abuse in the forums than in messages

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