FabSwingers.com forum: Tips to succeed/enjoy/get the ride

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

OK so noticed a few threads where guys seem to question/discuss what they are doing wrong as they don't seem to be knee deep in fanny!

OK in all seriousness though share a few tips or suggestions for this quiet Saturday night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love your profile pic OP

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By *lay rock69Man
over a year ago

monaghan

U can hope in my pm we can have fun

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford

What's new there?

Some of the typical onces.

Have patiences.

Have pictures & some info on your profile.

Interact on the forum.

Attend a social meet of somekind ASAP.

(Lastly) Fab is a Marathon, not a sprint. It all take time guy's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's new there?

Some of the typical onces.

Have patiences.

Have pictures & some info on your profile.

Interact on the forum.

Attend a social meet of somekind ASAP.

(Lastly) Fab is a Marathon, not a sprint. It all take time guy's.

The op is a lady not a guy

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Just accept that fanny blindness is incurable and be grateful for every fuck that comes your way.

Use the forums to tell every profile that catches your eye how stunning and wonderful they are and sooner or later your number will come up for the best 30 second fuck ever.

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By *lay rock69Man
over a year ago

monaghan

I do love the social side of fab the last one i was at had dinner with three hot lady's of fab

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By *huCullainMan
over a year ago

Rathowen

"Just accept that fanny blindness is incurable and be grateful for every fuck that comes your way.

Use the forums to tell every profile that catches your eye how stunning and wonderful they are and sooner or later your number will come up for the best 30 second fuck ever. "

30 seconds? You big stud

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Just accept that fanny blindness is incurable and be grateful for every fuck that comes your way.

Use the forums to tell every profile that catches your eye how stunning and wonderful they are and sooner or later your number will come up for the best 30 second fuck ever.

30 seconds? You big stud

Them not me ffs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just accept that fanny blindness is incurable and be grateful for every fuck that comes your way.

Use the forums to tell every profile that catches your eye how stunning and wonderful they are and sooner or later your number will come up for the best 30 second fuck ever. "

If men have fanny blindness what do women have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just accept that fanny blindness is incurable and be grateful for every fuck that comes your way.

Use the forums to tell every profile that catches your eye how stunning and wonderful they are and sooner or later your number will come up for the best 30 second fuck ever.

30 seconds? You big stud

I know I'd love to have tae and choc hob knobs with him

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford

What's new there?

Some of the typical onces.

Have patiences.

Have pictures & some info on your profile.

Interact on the forum.

Attend a social meet of somekind ASAP.

(Lastly) Fab is a Marathon, not a sprint. It all take time guy's.

The op is a lady not a guy "

I know that, I'm giving ideas for guy's that are throwing they're toys out of the pram, cause thing's aren't happening for them on Fab. As they'd expected it to happen for them.

I'm sure yourself Lou or other ladies, can help, the OP or other's ladies out, that have the same problem?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What's new there?

Some of the typical onces.

Have patiences.

Have pictures & some info on your profile.

Interact on the forum.

Attend a social meet of somekind ASAP.

(Lastly) Fab is a Marathon, not a sprint. It all take time guy's.

The op is a lady not a guy

I know that, I'm giving ideas for guy's that are throwing they're toys out of the pram, cause thing's aren't happening for them on Fab. As they'd expected it to happen for them.

I'm sure yourself Lou or other ladies, can help, the OP or other's ladies out, that have the same problem?"

Not saying I have a problem , I'm guite content not meeting

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By *huCullainMan
over a year ago

Rathowen

What's new there?

Some of the typical onces.

Have patiences.

Have pictures & some info on your profile.

Interact on the forum.

Attend a social meet of somekind ASAP.

(Lastly) Fab is a Marathon, not a sprint. It all take time guy's.

The op is a lady not a guy

I know that, I'm giving ideas for guy's that are throwing they're toys out of the pram, cause thing's aren't happening for them on Fab. As they'd expected it to happen for them.

I'm sure yourself Lou or other ladies, can help, the OP or other's ladies out, that have the same problem?

Not saying I have a problem , I'm guite content not meeting "

I'd be very shocked if you or Lou had any problem having the choice of men on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

class profile pic op!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's new there?

Some of the typical onces.

Have patiences.

Have pictures & some info on your profile.

Interact on the forum.

Attend a social meet of somekind ASAP.

(Lastly) Fab is a Marathon, not a sprint. It all take time guy's.

The op is a lady not a guy

I know that, I'm giving ideas for guy's that are throwing they're toys out of the pram, cause thing's aren't happening for them on Fab. As they'd expected it to happen for them.

I'm sure yourself Lou or other ladies, can help, the OP or other's ladies out, that have the same problem?

Not saying I have a problem , I'm guite content not meeting

I'd be very shocked if you or Lou had any problem having the choice of men on here "
for me I haven't met only helping on help a fabber thread .. I think I'm turning into a dry shite lol

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By *huCullainMan
over a year ago

Rathowen

What's new there?

Some of the typical onces.

Have patiences.

Have pictures & some info on your profile.

Interact on the forum.

Attend a social meet of somekind ASAP.

(Lastly) Fab is a Marathon, not a sprint. It all take time guy's.

The op is a lady not a guy

I know that, I'm giving ideas for guy's that are throwing they're toys out of the pram, cause thing's aren't happening for them on Fab. As they'd expected it to happen for them.

I'm sure yourself Lou or other ladies, can help, the OP or other's ladies out, that have the same problem?

Not saying I have a problem , I'm guite content not meeting

I'd be very shocked if you or Lou had any problem having the choice of men on here for me I haven't met only helping on help a fabber thread .. I think I'm turning into a dry shite lol"

I have asked ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's new there?

Some of the typical onces.

Have patiences.

Have pictures & some info on your profile.

Interact on the forum.

Attend a social meet of somekind ASAP.

(Lastly) Fab is a Marathon, not a sprint. It all take time guy's.

The op is a lady not a guy

I know that, I'm giving ideas for guy's that are throwing they're toys out of the pram, cause thing's aren't happening for them on Fab. As they'd expected it to happen for them.

I'm sure yourself Lou or other ladies, can help, the OP or other's ladies out, that have the same problem?

Not saying I have a problem , I'm guite content not meeting

I'd be very shocked if you or Lou had any problem having the choice of men on here for me I haven't met only helping on help a fabber thread .. I think I'm turning into a dry shite lol

I have asked ya

Yeah I'm a boring dry shite

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By *huCullainMan
over a year ago

Rathowen

What's new there?

Some of the typical onces.

Have patiences.

Have pictures & some info on your profile.

Interact on the forum.

Attend a social meet of somekind ASAP.

(Lastly) Fab is a Marathon, not a sprint. It all take time guy's.

The op is a lady not a guy

I know that, I'm giving ideas for guy's that are throwing they're toys out of the pram, cause thing's aren't happening for them on Fab. As they'd expected it to happen for them.

I'm sure yourself Lou or other ladies, can help, the OP or other's ladies out, that have the same problem?

Not saying I have a problem , I'm guite content not meeting

I'd be very shocked if you or Lou had any problem having the choice of men on here for me I haven't met only helping on help a fabber thread .. I think I'm turning into a dry shite lol

I have asked ya

Yeah I'm a boring dry shite

I'll message you again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you are the life of the forums lou! far from dry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you are the life of the forums lou! far from dry

Kyjelly for dryness

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Be yourself

Be polite

Be punctual at meets

Don't bother with messages if you're new

Don't try to belittle others to make you look better than them

Don't change yourself to suit one person you think you have a chance with

Don't be a dickhead

Don't lick arse ( unless its in the bedroom )

Apart from that enjoy yoursrlf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol

you are the best craic though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be yourself

Be polite

Be punctual at meets

Don't bother with messages if you're new

Don't try to belittle others to make you look better than them

Don't change yourself to suit one person you think you have a chance with

Don't be a dickhead

Don't lick arse ( unless its in the bedroom )

Apart from that enjoy yoursrlf "

Good man Bog .. nite all x lou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with bog

Get chatting on the forums

Don't expect a meet to always lead to fun.

Get to smaller socials.

Be urself and try go easy with drink.

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By *astelloWoman
over a year ago

Far far away

10 commandments of fab

I will not send unsolicited dick pics,

I will not turn up late for meets.

I will not engage in belittling behaviour if things don't go my way,

I will have the patience of jobe.

I will attend socials and engage with witty banter on forums,

I will not be a stingy bag on meets or play events,

I will not post regular derogatory updates on lack of female attention

I will not be a winge bag.

I will not stalk.

I will repeat these commandments regularly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"10 commandments of fab

I will not send unsolicited dick pics,

I will not turn up late for meets.

I will not engage in belittling behaviour if things don't go my way,

I will have the patience of jobe.

I will attend socials and engage with witty banter on forums,

I will not be a stingy bag on meets or play events,

I will not post regular derogatory updates on lack of female attention

I will not be a winge bag.

I will not stalk.

I will repeat these commandments regularly "

THE END

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By *huCullainMan
over a year ago

Rathowen

"10 commandments of fab

I will not send unsolicited dick pics,

I will not turn up late for meets.

I will not engage in belittling behaviour if things don't go my way,

I will have the patience of jobe.

I will attend socials and engage with witty banter on forums,

I will not be a stingy bag on meets or play events,

I will not post regular derogatory updates on lack of female attention

I will not be a winge bag.

I will not stalk.

I will repeat these commandments regularly

THE END

Wait for it. There will be some smart arse that'll argue them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OK so noticed a few threads where guys seem to question/discuss what they are doing wrong as they don't seem to be knee deep in fanny!

OK in all seriousness though share a few tips or suggestions for this quiet Saturday night

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might be quiet for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relax.

Desperation is the wrong word, but some guys are like a dog with two dicks the second a woman shows up and shows a smidgen of kindness. Just breathe and chill. It's far more attractive than metaphorically jumping up and down screaming "Pick me! Pick Me!"

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By *igtasty121Man
over a year ago

Nowhere

"OK so noticed a few threads where guys seem to question/discuss what they are doing wrong as they don't seem to be knee deep in fanny!

OK in all seriousness though share a few tips or suggestions for this quiet Saturday night

might be quiet for you

Refer to Bogs

Don’t be a dickhead..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OK so noticed a few threads where guys seem to question/discuss what they are doing wrong as they don't seem to be knee deep in fanny!

OK in all seriousness though share a few tips or suggestions for this quiet Saturday night

might be quiet for you

Doesn't bother ne

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

Edit

Your

Bio

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Edit

Your

Bio"

Mine?

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

"Edit

Your

Bio

Mine? "

Not at all. Just a tip in general

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By *atherjackhackettMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

Virtually the only way to succeed here as a guy seems to get in a click or attend socials and get loads of veris. Personally I'm not into socials at the moment. Just prefer one to one meets. Not much else seems to matter. Can accommodate, can travel, have veris, have pics, been polite, have respect etc etc etc seems not to matter.

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By *panishRebelMan
over a year ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

"10 commandments of fab

I will not send unsolicited dick pics,

I will not turn up late for meets.

I will not engage in belittling behaviour if things don't go my way,

I will have the patience of jobe.

I will attend socials and engage with witty banter on forums,

I will not be a stingy bag on meets or play events,

I will not post regular derogatory updates on lack of female attention

I will not be a winge bag.

I will not stalk.

I will repeat these commandments regularly

THE END

Hallelujah

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Be strong. If you're not sure about it then stop and think. Say no if you want to say no, including to your wife/husband. Communicate the positive AND the negative, but don't apportion blame. Think how your actions will effect those close to you and prioritise their needs over you own short term pleasure. Don't allow feeling to develop outside your partnership even if your wife/husband encourages it. Have fun, but don't have this place as your only outlet for fun. Prioritise friends and family over meets always. Take a break when you need a break. Don't believe the bullshit that comes out of someone's mouth when they are trying to fuck you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strange seeing this type of thread when the op is a woman. Surely women are inundated with messages, perhaps that’s the problem. Too many men to choose from! Too much bullshit and a never ending tidal wave of dick pics! Which one to choose! Just do what you feel comfortable with, everyone else does.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"Strange seeing this type of thread when the op is a woman. Surely women are inundated with messages, perhaps that’s the problem. Too many men to choose from! Too much bullshit and a never ending tidal wave of dick pics! Which one to choose! Just do what you feel comfortable with, everyone else does. "

Yeah women without message filters will have a massive number of crappy offers from men who probably won't turn up. It's not simple being a girl on here, for totally different reasons than it not being simple for a man.

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By *heelofTimeCouple
over a year ago

Two Rivers

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By *heelofTimeCouple
over a year ago

Two Rivers

This is a tough one. Over the years we have met some gorgeous looking men who are really nice to talk to (witty and funny). Outside of fab they have no issues meeting women and do very well from that aspect. On the flip side on fab they are lucky if they get a meet or two a year, if at all.

One thing I do note they don’t go to the socials as it’s not their cuppa whereas some of the men who are doing well meets wise do attend the socials.

Really I think this site can be tough for everyone but single men seem to have the short end of the straw, primarily due to a few bad apples which ruin things for others.

Easiest thing with the site is to take it with a pinch of salt enjoy the ride don’t expect anything to happen when a meet is arranged, see the meet as a night out with no expectations.

Essentially chillax I remember when I started online at first I was a naive 24/5 year old. I suppose as a woman I would have had the same mindset as some of the men aka “this is brilliant can just put up status and have a meet with clock of fingers”…… oh how naive I was, once I learnt that it took a while build up a connection with people prior to meets things improved for us meets wise. It took me a while to realise being online differed from bringing people home after clubs or pubs as we used to do in the old days and meeting up was never a guarantee of something occurring.

Missy xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OP wasn't asking for herself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OP wasn't asking for herself"

Yes I know.

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