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"To true they ask and not return one same has some people looking to meet verified people and there not even verified on the site" Well everyone starts unverified and works from there.... That's no big deal. | |||
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"Is this a one off event or a regular occurrence? " It's a one off, I ve an OK face.... Lols.... My face doesn't scare people away.... Usually. | |||
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"Happens all the unfortunately and another thing happens not sure if happens to anyone else but happens me as I always include pic with first msg I get blocked so either they know me outside of fab are I'm not for them but it's annoying " Why is it annoying? | |||
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"I don't get the whole pic collector why would someone want to collect face pics..now if they were other type of pics that I can understand.." Same! | |||
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"Nothing annoys me more, at least reply with a face pic and say this is me sorry for wasting your time but I’m not interested " Why? Why would you need to see my face if we're never going to meet? What difference will it make? Also...why would someone apologise for wasting your time simply because they're not attracted to you?  | |||
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"I don't get the whole pic collector why would someone want to collect face pics..now if they were other type of pics that I can understand.." I can only answer from experience in that I've been sent facepics and names of well known women on here by another woman. The pics were at least 2 years old at the time from when they had initially met and verified each other. I've never met or even spoken to the other women but their "friend" decided I needed to know the type of women they really were and who they were. I've no doubt she has shared my facepic with others as well. | |||
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"Nothing annoys me more, at least reply with a face pic and say this is me sorry for wasting your time but I’m not interested " That would be an absolutely mental thing to do | |||
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"I don't get the whole pic collector why would someone want to collect face pics..now if they were other type of pics that I can understand.. I can only answer from experience in that I've been sent facepics and names of well known women on here by another woman. The pics were at least 2 years old at the time from when they had initially met and verified each other. I've never met or even spoken to the other women but their "friend" decided I needed to know the type of women they really were and who they were. I've no doubt she has shared my facepic with others as well. " I understand it from this perspective. I guess its because the "pic collectors" phrase is bandied about so much. I think they are rare - at least with regard to face photos. In most cases it's just someone who isn't interested not reciprocating. Of course the kicker is you can't know which it is. | |||
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"What's that about? I feel like naming and shaming them. Lesson learned if someone asks without giving, it hints at entitlement. If their profile is all bla bla bla my rules and smacks of entitlement, bin em off ASAP. " Yes!!!!! | |||
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"I don't get the whole pic collector why would someone want to collect face pics..now if they were other type of pics that I can understand.. I can only answer from experience in that I've been sent facepics and names of well known women on here by another woman. The pics were at least 2 years old at the time from when they had initially met and verified each other. I've never met or even spoken to the other women but their "friend" decided I needed to know the type of women they really were and who they were. I've no doubt she has shared my facepic with others as well. " This I've seen women do alright as has been done to me as well and it's only for malicious use... What I'm trying to say is for normal.meets as the op is suggesting I can't see it as a face pic collector more a person who just wasn't interested if ya get me.. | |||
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"Nothing annoys me more, at least reply with a face pic and say this is me sorry for wasting your time but I’m not interested " So you want someone who has rejected you to send you a picture of themselves? | |||
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"Nothing annoys me more, at least reply with a face pic and say this is me sorry for wasting your time but I’m not interested So you want someone who has rejected you to send you a picture of themselves?" I think it's more, If someone wants the option to reject me based on my face pic, and in an effort to procure that option they suggest swapping pics, then they should be willing to actually swap, or own the fact that they didn't uphold their side of the swap. If they want a face pic they should share one first. Not suggest an exchange and not actually exchange. | |||
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"Nothing annoys me more, at least reply with a face pic and say this is me sorry for wasting your time but I’m not interested That would be an absolutely mental thing to do"  that response. That made me lol | |||
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" If they want a face pic they should share one first. Not suggest an exchange and not actually exchange. " I agree with that 
However, some like to chance their arm at receiving one first and having the option not to reciprocate. | |||
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"What's that about? I feel like naming and shaming them. Lesson learned if someone asks without giving, it hints at entitlement. If their profile is all bla bla bla my rules and smacks of entitlement, bin em off ASAP. " Why don’t we do something completely mad and send a face pic of ourselves to each other at the stroke of midnight. No messing around getting it blown up to A4 size on canvas in Harvey Norman. | |||
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"Nothing annoys me more, at least reply with a face pic and say this is me sorry for wasting your time but I’m not interested So you want someone who has rejected you to send you a picture of themselves? I think it's more, If someone wants the option to reject me based on my face pic, and in an effort to procure that option they suggest swapping pics, then they should be willing to actually swap, or own the fact that they didn't uphold their side of the swap. If they want a face pic they should share one first. Not suggest an exchange and not actually exchange. " Well in future you'll know to tell them to go first  | |||
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"Nothing annoys me more, at least reply with a face pic and say this is me sorry for wasting your time but I’m not interested So you want someone who has rejected you to send you a picture of themselves?" That isn't the point...........the point is having the integrity to follow through with what was agreed. Too much fucking entitlement on this site. | |||
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"I know, but the request is do you want to share, then I do, then they don't keep up to their half of their suggested reciprocal sharing. And then poof, no explanation. It is rude. " If some one asks to share a picture then they should be the 1st to do so. That's how I always do it . If they don't then I certainly won't | |||
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"Nothing annoys me more, at least reply with a face pic and say this is me sorry for wasting your time but I’m not interested So you want someone who has rejected you to send you a picture of themselves? That isn't the point...........the point is having the integrity to follow through with what was agreed. Too much fucking entitlement on this site. " I'm still not sure what is to be gained by them "following through". | |||
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"Ass h0ley behaviour!!  "In fairness everyone knows what feckin JarJar looks like | |||
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"Nothing annoys me more, at least reply with a face pic and say this is me sorry for wasting your time but I’m not interested So you want someone who has rejected you to send you a picture of themselves? That isn't the point...........the point is having the integrity to follow through with what was agreed. Too much fucking entitlement on this site. " Yes, I get that, and I agree, but unfortunately not everyone’s moral compass points in the same direction. My point is, people are unlikely to send a face pic to a person they’re rejecting, while some may appreciate it and it’s a nice thing to do, others may not take the rejection so well and I’m sure that’s not the type of person you would want to have a face pic of you. | |||
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"Nothing annoys me more, at least reply with a face pic and say this is me sorry for wasting your time but I’m not interested So you want someone who has rejected you to send you a picture of themselves? That isn't the point...........the point is having the integrity to follow through with what was agreed. Too much fucking entitlement on this site. Yes, I get that, and I agree, but unfortunately not everyone’s moral compass points in the same direction. My point is, people are unlikely to send a face pic to a person they’re rejecting, while some may appreciate it and it’s a nice thing to do, others may not take the rejection so well and I’m sure that’s not the type of person you would want to have a face pic of you." My understanding is it isn't about the rejection it's the feeling of being duped into a situation. Asking if she wanted to share face pics and them not fulfilling their part of the agreement. I'd be pissed too. This is very much what face pic collector's do.  | |||
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"Nothing annoys me more, at least reply with a face pic and say this is me sorry for wasting your time but I’m not interested So you want someone who has rejected you to send you a picture of themselves? That isn't the point...........the point is having the integrity to follow through with what was agreed. Too much fucking entitlement on this site. Yes, I get that, and I agree, but unfortunately not everyone’s moral compass points in the same direction. My point is, people are unlikely to send a face pic to a person they’re rejecting, while some may appreciate it and it’s a nice thing to do, others may not take the rejection so well and I’m sure that’s not the type of person you would want to have a face pic of you. My understanding is it isn't about the rejection it's the feeling of being duped into a situation. Asking if she wanted to share face pics and them not fulfilling their part of the agreement. I'd be pissed too. This is very much what face pic collector's do. "Yes, I get that, and it’s a very unpleasant situation, personally if I’m at the stage of swapping face pics I follow through, but like I say, not everyone’s moral compass points in the same, or right direction. But guess that’s the difference between collectors and genuine people. | |||
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"What's that about? I feel like naming and shaming them. Lesson learned if someone asks without giving, it hints at entitlement. If their profile is all bla bla bla my rules and smacks of entitlement, bin em off ASAP. " Well said. Same experience n views here | |||
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" What we won't do is send them on when the other side has put face pics in their opening message, plenty of single lads and especially couples who's profile seems a bit sus do this, that's the only time we won't reciprocate "This is an example of a face pic collector. They send a fake face pic in their opening message so you'll feel obliged to return the favour, esp when the pic is of a good-looking couple. They usually only have one or two veris. The message is long, written by the 'female' and every line ends in a load of xxxxxx (kisses). I suggest that you don't reciprocate with your face pic  | |||
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" What we won't do is send them on when the other side has put face pics in their opening message, plenty of single lads and especially couples who's profile seems a bit sus do this, that's the only time we won't reciprocate
This is an example of a face pic collector. They send a fake face pic in their opening message so you'll feel obliged to return the favour, esp when the pic is of a good-looking couple. They usually only have one or two veris. The message is long, written by the 'female' and every line ends in a load of xxxxxx (kisses).
I suggest that you don't reciprocate with your face pic "Cheers! Learned that early enough into the journey here, always verified too which is what caught us out in the very beginning but came to learn that like you said they're pic collectors. When we say sus couples profile this is a primary example of what we would be on about. Few have popped up around our way lately too. | |||
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" What we won't do is send them on when the other side has put face pics in their opening message, plenty of single lads and especially couples who's profile seems a bit sus do this, that's the only time we won't reciprocate
This is an example of a face pic collector. They send a fake face pic in their opening message so you'll feel obliged to return the favour, esp when the pic is of a good-looking couple. They usually only have one or two veris. The message is long, written by the 'female' and every line ends in a load of xxxxxx (kisses).
I suggest that you don't reciprocate with your face pic
Cheers! Learned that early enough into the journey here, always verified too which is what caught us out in the very beginning but came to learn that like you said they're pic collectors. When we say sus couples profile this is a primary example of what we would be on about. Few have popped up around our way lately too."Sorry, I wasn't aiming the comment at you, it was more a general comment to anyone who may be getting these mails. It was when it happened a few times and we noticed a pattern that the penny finally dropped  | |||
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"What's that about? I feel like naming and shaming them. Lesson learned if someone asks without giving, it hints at entitlement. If their profile is all bla bla bla my rules and smacks of entitlement, bin em off ASAP. " Women are the same I'm afraid they say send a pic or no reply or send to let them know your serious,it's in there profile that they would send back but nothing happen to me a few times. It's bs mostly and not genuine. | |||
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"Maybe they thought u weren't for them and didn't see any point in continuing and sending there's.." Proper rude though. Its a really annoying thing. Swap face pics surely means swap. Its not the end of the world if theres no attraction. Imo | |||
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" What we won't do is send them on when the other side has put face pics in their opening message, plenty of single lads and especially couples who's profile seems a bit sus do this, that's the only time we won't reciprocate
This is an example of a face pic collector. They send a fake face pic in their opening message so you'll feel obliged to return the favour, esp when the pic is of a good-looking couple. They usually only have one or two veris. The message is long, written by the 'female' and every line ends in a load of xxxxxx (kisses).
I suggest that you don't reciprocate with your face pic
Cheers! Learned that early enough into the journey here, always verified too which is what caught us out in the very beginning but came to learn that like you said they're pic collectors. When we say sus couples profile this is a primary example of what we would be on about. Few have popped up around our way lately too.
Sorry, I wasn't aiming the comment at you, it was more a general comment to anyone who may be getting these mails.
It was when it happened a few times and we noticed a pattern that the penny finally dropped "Ah no bother, great point though about the pattern | |||
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" What we won't do is send them on when the other side has put face pics in their opening message, plenty of single lads and especially couples who's profile seems a bit sus do this, that's the only time we won't reciprocate
This is an example of a face pic collector. They send a fake face pic in their opening message so you'll feel obliged to return the favour, esp when the pic is of a good-looking couple. They usually only have one or two veris. The message is long, written by the 'female' and every line ends in a load of xxxxxx (kisses).
I suggest that you don't reciprocate with your face pic
Cheers! Learned that early enough into the journey here, always verified too which is what caught us out in the very beginning but came to learn that like you said they're pic collectors. When we say sus couples profile this is a primary example of what we would be on about. Few have popped up around our way lately too.
Sorry, I wasn't aiming the comment at you, it was more a general comment to anyone who may be getting these mails.
It was when it happened a few times and we noticed a pattern that the penny finally dropped
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" Well said. Same experience n views here "what do you mean? | |||
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"Ass h0ley behaviour!!
In fairness everyone knows what feckin JarJar looks like "guess I should delete my account, and learn to knit | |||
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"Ass h0ley behaviour!!
In fairness everyone knows what feckin JarJar looks like guess I should delete my account, and learn to knit"Sorry that was a star wars joke in case you didnt get it | |||
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"The person who suggested swapping photos should be the first to produce photos. " | |||
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"Ass h0ley behaviour!!
In fairness everyone knows what feckin JarJar looks like guess I should delete my account, and learn to knit
Sorry that was a star wars joke in case you didnt get it "sorry learning to knit was a joke | |||
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"The person who suggested swapping photos should be the first to produce photos. "I still wouldn't share, meet up for a cuppa first see how yis get on | |||
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"The person who suggested swapping photos should be the first to produce photos.
I still wouldn't share, meet up for a cuppa first see how yis get on "does that mean you would expect face from them? | |||
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"The person who suggested swapping photos should be the first to produce photos.
I still wouldn't share, meet up for a cuppa first see how yis get on does that mean you would expect face from them? "No I'd meet them first tell them what I was wearing, those who know me I never share a picture on line it's to dangerous as people share pics, and people asking for pics or no reply I just keep scrolling | |||
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"The person who suggested swapping photos should be the first to produce photos. " Have to agree here. Also if someone just randomly sends me a face pic in the first few messages that doesn't mean that they are entitled to one back. | |||
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"Face is the most attractive part of a woman. I respect ladies who never want to share face pictures, I just think they are uglies. " Really? I didn't share a face pic you | |||
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"Face is the most attractive part of a woman. I respect ladies who never want to share face pictures, I just think they are uglies. " Yes, that must be the reason we won't share them, we're pure ugly | |||
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"Face is the most attractive part of a woman. I respect ladies who never want to share face pictures, I just think they are uglies. Really? I didn't share a face pic you "You did and I liked a lot … exactly as you are in flesh | |||
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"Face is the most attractive part of a woman. I respect ladies who never want to share face pictures, I just think they are uglies. Yes, that must be the reason we won't share them, we're pure ugly "2 hotties in person though  | |||
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"Face is the most attractive part of a woman. I respect ladies who never want to share face pictures, I just think they are uglies. Yes, that must be the reason we won't share them, we're pure ugly
2 hotties in person though "Thanks, you're a ride yourself missus | |||
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