FabSwingers.com forum: Newbies Chat

By *XlalaXX OP Woman
over a year ago

tipperary

Hello everyone

Over the last couple of weeks I have been asked several times about restoring the newbies chat

So here goes

I’m shouting out to all the unverified no meets no kisses no anal people that are a lil scared. don’t really know what ur doing but ur a lil bit excited by it all and wanna get involved.

If you’re interested in making connections, finding out about events getting involved, etiquette , what to expect , or even if ur trying figure out how the whole meet thing goes down . Feel free to join us.

Even if your not any of the above and u still wanna join come on for the spin.

Also in October I’ll be hosting An intro night @ flame it will be open to all . Details to follow .

But for now if anyone wishes to join our chat feel free to message below or dm.

Thanks for your time x

XXlalaXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good on ya la

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By *riendly_fun_guyMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"Good on ya la

You never know some of you might win a prize o

Isn’t that right S4L

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to join the chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey

Would love to join

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By *SMARK87Man
over a year ago

Dublin

I’m all for it Lala, fair play for setting it up to help us underdogs out ha. Like the sound of the event in Oct!!

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By *ortherndanMan
over a year ago

hampshire

Would also love to join

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By *XlalaXX OP Woman
over a year ago

tipperary

"Good on ya la

Cheers babe x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Appreciate the effort, I'm "in" for what whatever it's worth.

How we all keeping?

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By *XlalaXX OP Woman
over a year ago

tipperary

I will be in touch with details

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good on ya la

Cheers babe x "

We ladies have to look out for each other .. hope you lads do the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great count me in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d be interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would like to join too

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By *an6ft7Man
over a year ago

athlone

Love to jo8n the chat sounds fun lala fairplay

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By *ailor40Man
over a year ago

wicklow

Would love to join please

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By *ony85sMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Would love to join the chat group

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By *ebel_LionMan
over a year ago

cork

would love to join the chat ty

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

Happy to assist

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By *lorentino ArizaMan
over a year ago

Killarney

Great just what I'm looking for, I'm in.

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By *apri 555Man
over a year ago

wexford or Dublin

Like to join in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy to join

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By *XlalaXX OP Woman
over a year ago

tipperary

This is looking more like a big bukake party lol

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By *ortherndanMan
over a year ago

hampshire

Whatever floats your boat

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By *j1981Man
over a year ago

cork

"This is looking more like a big bukake party lol "

And is that a bad thing lol

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By *ufflerloverMan
over a year ago

Sligo

Yes, I’d like to join too

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By *arlTy89Man
over a year ago

Wicklow

I'd love to join if possible?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is looking more like a big bukake party lol "

My kinda party

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By *XlalaXX OP Woman
over a year ago

tipperary

"This is looking more like a big bukake party lol

My kinda party

Come join it then girl

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By *oodOmensfor2Couple
over a year ago

Ennis

Sure count us in, can't hurt to get a little educated about the etiquette

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By *om TangoMan
over a year ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

I’m in and a bit credit to the OP for doing this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to join chat

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By *immmy2023Man
over a year ago

Monaghan

Yes please, hopefully my age won't exclude me

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By *ohnroy22Man
over a year ago

ennis

Would love to join

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By *arem78Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

We would be interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would like to talk to other lady newbies

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By *XlalaXX OP Woman
over a year ago

tipperary

Thanks for all your responses this will be set up tonight xX

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By *ortherndanMan
over a year ago

hampshire

"Thanks for all your responses this will be set up tonight xX

Sounds v interesting

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By *XlalaXX OP Woman
over a year ago

tipperary

After I win the rose of Tralee

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By *XlalaXX OP Woman
over a year ago

tipperary

"Thanks for all your responses this will be set up tonight xX

Sounds v interesting

I’m an interesting kinda gal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to join

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we might be interested in this

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By *ortherndanMan
over a year ago

hampshire

"Thanks for all your responses this will be set up tonight xX

Sounds v interesting

I’m an interesting kinda gal "

Most definitely are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d be interested

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By *ohng69Man
over a year ago

athenry

Add me please

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By *XlalaXX OP Woman
over a year ago

tipperary

Forwarding details now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to join

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By *rishGent82Man
over a year ago

Ireland & Beyond

Sounds interesting (and very helpful!)

I’m happy to join in if you’d take me

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By *XlalaXX OP Woman
over a year ago

tipperary

I’d like to address something if I may

Somebody made a comment to me about how many men have expressed an interest in this

Firstly , As a straight single woman I love men .

Secondly, if u have made an observation about how many men are interested and it’s not for u then jog on.

Thirdly I’m all about inclusion yes some people u may like some not and that’s cool

But Do not speak about single men like they are 2nd class citizens to me . I will not tolerate it .

I have met some many wonderful respectful men through fab . They do not deserve to be spoken about like they are surplus to requirements . Being Respectful costs nothing .

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By *cjohnny123Man
over a year ago

I'd be interested

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm interested

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

"I’d like to address something if I may

Somebody made a comment to me about how many men have expressed an interest in this

Firstly , As a straight single woman I love men .

Secondly, if u have made an observation about how many men are interested and it’s not for u then jog on.

Thirdly I’m all about inclusion yes some people u may like some not and that’s cool

But Do not speak about single men like they are 2nd class citizens to me . I will not tolerate it .

I have met some many wonderful respectful men through fab . They do not deserve to be spoken about like they are surplus to requirements . Being Respectful costs nothing .

Thank you XxlalaXX. What a very decent thing to say and do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d like to address something if I may

Somebody made a comment to me about how many men have expressed an interest in this

Firstly , As a straight single woman I love men .

Secondly, if u have made an observation about how many men are interested and it’s not for u then jog on.

Thirdly I’m all about inclusion yes some people u may like some not and that’s cool

But Do not speak about single men like they are 2nd class citizens to me . I will not tolerate it .

I have met some many wonderful respectful men through fab . They do not deserve to be spoken about like they are surplus to requirements . Being Respectful costs nothing .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Add me then banned me? Wtf

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By *XlalaXX OP Woman
over a year ago

tipperary

"Add me then banned me? Wtf"

Calm yo tits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey.. would be interested in joining this if that's cool. Aha Im Absolutely clueless here though so you'll have to tell me exactly what I need to do

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

People should do things there own way...yes advice can be good bit it could also be bad at the same time.. everyone has there own perspective on how things should and should not be done on fab..my advice is stay true to yer selfs and not go by what people say u should and shouldn't do..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Add me then banned me? Wtf

Calm yo tits "

Was entirely my own fault

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interested please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d like to address something if I may

Somebody made a comment to me about how many men have expressed an interest in this

Firstly , As a straight single woman I love men .

Secondly, if u have made an observation about how many men are interested and it’s not for u then jog on.

Thirdly I’m all about inclusion yes some people u may like some not and that’s cool

But Do not speak about single men like they are 2nd class citizens to me . I will not tolerate it .

I have met some many wonderful respectful men through fab . They do not deserve to be spoken about like they are surplus to requirements . Being Respectful costs nothing .

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By *XlalaXX OP Woman
over a year ago

tipperary

"People should do things there own way...yes advice can be good bit it could also be bad at the same time.. everyone has there own perspective on how things should and should not be done on fab..my advice is stay true to yer selfs and not go by what people say u should and shouldn't do.."

That’s all well and good if ur experienced like urself but when ur new on here it’s very daunting .

If ur suggesting that I’m gonna be dishing out advice as to how things should or should not be done couldn’t be further from the truth .

I’m giving people a platform to openly discuss how they wanna do fab who knows they may find someone that also wanna do fab the same way and before u know it bobs yer uncle .

If I help just 1 person it would have been worth it .

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By *XlalaXX OP Woman
over a year ago

tipperary

"Hey.. would be interested in joining this if that's cool. Aha Im Absolutely clueless here though so you'll have to tell me exactly what I need to do

I’ll send u the details

We are always looking for a Randy lol

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By *XlalaXX OP Woman
over a year ago

tipperary

"Add me then banned me? Wtf

Calm yo tits

Was entirely my own fault

It was lol

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By *XlalaXX OP Woman
over a year ago

tipperary

"Interested please"
will forward details

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By *ope42023Man
over a year ago

Tipp Tralee Cork Limerick clare

Would love to be added to this if ye will have me

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By *oejoe12400Man
over a year ago

Belfast

Id like to join the chat an hopefully get a meet from it

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By *igglefunWoman
over a year ago

Cork

Well done great idea

For the newbies

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By *XlalaXX OP Woman
over a year ago

tipperary

"Well done great idea

For the newbies "
thank you x

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By *ames 444Man
over a year ago

cork city

Would love to join the chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is looking more like a big bukake party lol

My kinda party

Come join it then girl "

Thank you La,La I'm taking some time out on group chat,my mouth gets me into trouble alot,not many gets a good sense of humour or witt .. again thank you x

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By *4guy1Man
over a year ago

Dublin

I’m in if you’ll have me XXlalaXX

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By *am1968Man
over a year ago

dublin

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By *am1968Man
over a year ago

dublin

Good on ya! Would love to be part of this ??

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By *illow and FionnCouple
over a year ago

Cork

"I’d like to address something if I may

Somebody made a comment to me about how many men have expressed an interest in this

Firstly , As a straight single woman I love men .

Secondly, if u have made an observation about how many men are interested and it’s not for u then jog on.

Thirdly I’m all about inclusion yes some people u may like some not and that’s cool

But Do not speak about single men like they are 2nd class citizens to me . I will not tolerate it .

I have met some many wonderful respectful men through fab . They do not deserve to be spoken about like they are surplus to requirements . Being Respectful costs nothing .

Look at our verifications for proof. There are loads of lovely single men on here. Completely agree with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really a newbie but interested in this.

Why do so many women just not reply to a message? Surely etiquette/common courtesy is to say thanks but no thanks at least?

Do I need to learn to message better?

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By *XlalaXX OP Woman
over a year ago

tipperary

"Not really a newbie but interested in this.

Why do so many women just not reply to a message? Surely etiquette/common courtesy is to say thanks but no thanks at least?

Do I need to learn to message better? "

We are just discussing this in the group

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm I'm aswell please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in as well please

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By *oreveryyoungandhungMan
over a year ago

Newick

Excellent

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By *ddies Rock HardMan
over a year ago

athlone

I’m in please

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By *obbieOMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Would love to join in

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By *agles10Man
over a year ago

Belfast

Could I please join the chat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice to see a forum for new people, id love to join if possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure, is this the forum, or is it a private chat group over an app lkke telegram?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

Always happy to chat with newbies, if they've any questions or just looking to natter for a bit

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By *XlalaXX OP Woman
over a year ago

tipperary

Sorry I was away there for a couple of days havin a good time for meself lol

I’ll go through the comments here later x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Add me please. Don't know where I'm going wrong!!!

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By *orce1Man
over a year ago

Cork

Would love to get added t.i.a

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely need this to see if I can starting moving around on the website and make friends in the lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to join

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By *enuinekildareguyMan
over a year ago

Broadford

Love to join if possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it'd be nice to join. I've no idea what im doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to join as seem to be having no luck here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hiya love to join please

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By *imeovurlifeMan
over a year ago

west cork

O yes please verify me x x x

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By *andyrackkyMan
over a year ago

South

Interested in joining the fun if possible

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By *ope42023Man
over a year ago

Tipp Tralee Cork Limerick clare

Did ye set it up lala would love invite if u have me

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By *XlalaXX OP Woman
over a year ago

tipperary

I’m back yes I will forward details

Would love more female/couple input if any would like to join

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By *ope42023Man
over a year ago

Tipp Tralee Cork Limerick clare

OK great let me know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OK great let me know

Nice peaches

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By *cskinnyMan
over a year ago

near you

Id like to join... not sure what it is but sign me up

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By *cjohnny123Man
over a year ago

I'd be interested

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By *ope42023Man
over a year ago

Tipp Tralee Cork Limerick clare

"OK great let me know

Nice peaches

Thank you

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By *educing_EmCouple
over a year ago

Tipperary

I'd be happy to join if I'm needed

Em x

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By *tudentForFunMan
over a year ago

Craigavon

Would love to join

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By *oman StringerMan
over a year ago

Sallynoggin

Would be delighted

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By *katemanMan
over a year ago

tralee

Interested thanks

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By *aydownMan
over a year ago

Craigavon

Interested to try move forward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sent you a message lala - ginger

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By *studdMan
over a year ago

wexford/dublin

I’d like to join

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By *ich DesireMan
over a year ago

Ballon

Fair play for reaching out, if your single male quota isn't full already you can pencil me in

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By *layfulpassionMan
over a year ago

Longford

would like too join if possible

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By *mudger20Man
over a year ago

kildare

I'd love to join.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to join too. I'm massive craic and love meeting new sound people!

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By *innerboy86Man
over a year ago

on the border

Is this still open for joining

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By *r.ZoidbergMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Yeap, i'm too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was this thread for real or am I missing something??

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By *itcher11Man
over a year ago

Hi,

Thanks for organising this.

Still figuring it all out here. So any advice is welcome.

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By *ig swingerMan
over a year ago

dublin

Count me in. And thanks for coming up with the idea OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can class mein the awkward not knowing what to do class.so I'm in

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By *iraeireMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Hah, I don’t really know what am doing, but I'm in

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By *ingle wex maleMan
over a year ago

Wexford Town

I'd love to be Included in this if it's still going.

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By *d790Man
over a year ago

north tipp

Would like to join chat too..

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By *imeovurlifeMan
over a year ago

west cork

Anyone want to verify me in cork please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to join if possible! Looking to be meet-verified

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By *tingray271Man
over a year ago

Sligo Donegal

Hi thanks for putting this up. I am reasonably new to this sight and yes have been finding it hard to contact with anyone.

Would love to meet some new people.

But im finding that people are reluctant to talk or meet anyone that's not verified.

How do you get verified if no one will talk or meet you.

I won't give up. Happy fabbing xx

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford

Sorry OP, for going off topic now.

The people that's not meet verified, have ye tried the Help a Faber for September thread to help ye with it?

I'm not saying that this wouldn't help ye either. Ye could try that thread aswell, ye've nothing to lose in doing so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry OP, for going off topic now.

The people that's not meet verified, have ye tried the Help a Faber for September thread to help ye with it?

I'm not saying that this wouldn't help ye either. Ye could try that thread aswell, ye've nothing to lose in doing so.

A typical sales man lol

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford

"Sorry OP, for going off topic now.

The people that's not meet verified, have ye tried the Help a Faber for September thread to help ye with it?

I'm not saying that this wouldn't help ye either. Ye could try that thread aswell, ye've nothing to lose in doing so.

A typical sales man lol"

That's funny, cause that's 1 job I'd NEVER do for a living. Whatever way I come across on here. I'd be totally USELESS in trying to sell something to someone in the Normal world.

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