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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ideally if I was meeting someone it would be at a hotel. Can anyone advise any hotel recommendations in Dublin or just give advice in general relating to this?

Is there an etiquette about paying? I assume that bc im the one propositioning a hotel meet that I'm the one paying?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a ladies playground here so it will cost you I’m afraid. If it was a more regular thing maybe split the costs. Make a day out of it and enjoy

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By *rish In DubaiMan
over a year ago

Carlow


"Ideally if I was meeting someone it would be at a hotel. Can anyone advise any hotel recommendations in Dublin or just give advice in general relating to this?

Is there an etiquette about paying? I assume that bc im the one propositioning a hotel meet that I'm the one paying?"

Ya haven't a chance mate. No one is going to agree to spend a night in a hotel with a single fella they have never met before.

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

Well that is where you are wrong have done it a few times you best bet is to book a dayuse hotel plenty of them about in Dublin while it is nice to be treated I always insist on paying half it's only fair as I'm getting the use out of the room as well

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By *ornyandwellhungMan
over a year ago

belfast


"Well that is where you are wrong have done it a few times you best bet is to book a dayuse hotel plenty of them about in Dublin while it is nice to be treated I always insist on paying half it's only fair as I'm getting the use out of the room as well "

Yes Classy is right, I have spent quite a few first nights in hotels with girls I just met. Very enjoyable too.

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By *ohng69Man
over a year ago

athenry


"Ideally if I was meeting someone it would be at a hotel. Can anyone advise any hotel recommendations in Dublin or just give advice in general relating to this?

Is there an etiquette about paying? I assume that bc im the one propositioning a hotel meet that I'm the one paying?

Ya haven't a chance mate. No one is going to agree to spend a night in a hotel with a single fella they have never met before. "
where did he say that he never met them before?

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By *rish In DubaiMan
over a year ago

Carlow


"Ideally if I was meeting someone it would be at a hotel. Can anyone advise any hotel recommendations in Dublin or just give advice in general relating to this?

Is there an etiquette about paying? I assume that bc im the one propositioning a hotel meet that I'm the one paying?

Ya haven't a chance mate. No one is going to agree to spend a night in a hotel with a single fella they have never met before. where did he say that he never met them before?"

"ideally if I was meeting someone it would be at a hotel"

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By *rish In DubaiMan
over a year ago

Carlow


"Well that is where you are wrong have done it a few times you best bet is to book a dayuse hotel plenty of them about in Dublin while it is nice to be treated I always insist on paying half it's only fair as I'm getting the use out of the room as well

Yes Classy is right, I have spent quite a few first nights in hotels with girls I just met. Very enjoyable too. "

Did you meet them at the hotel for the first time?

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

Yes met at the bar had a few drinks had some chat then up to the room it very much depends on the person and the vibe that you have with them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes met at the bar had a few drinks had some chat then up to the room it very much depends on the person and the vibe that you have with them "

This!!! the ideal version of how it goes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I wouldn't agree to a meet at a hotel without meeting socially first, I prefer to meet for a social coffee, no expectations, if there's a mutual attraction will arrange to meet again.

As for paying for room I would always pay my half of room

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By *razySexyCoolCorkWoman
over a year ago

Cork

If it was agreed between both parties to meet at a hotel the cost should be split.

Personally I'd prefer a social meet first before possibly wasting money on a room that wasn't used.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we'd met socially, got along and agreed on a hotel meet for sex, I would be paying my share of the room cost

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

Unless one person already has a hotel booked for work or whatever, hotel costs should be split.

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

If i book the hotel and look for company ill pay, if it's for a pre organised meet id insist paying half of everything including the room it's only fair, usually id meet at the bar, few drinks and chat just see where the night takes you

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

If I'm away with work then the hotel is paid for anyway

One thing to watch out for that has happened a few times to men on the forums

They're askdd to book a hotel,they pay for the room and the other person never shows and its too late to cancel.

To be honest if I was new on here I'd only organise a coffee social first when meeting someone

If there's a spark then you can make arrangements to meet again

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"If I'm away with work then the hotel is paid for anyway

One thing to watch out for that has happened a few times to men on the forums

They're askdd to book a hotel,they pay for the room and the other person never shows and its too late to cancel.

To be honest if I was new on here I'd only organise a coffee social first when meeting someone

If there's a spark then you can make arrangements to meet again "

Not just men ive been stung more than once having to pay full cost of the room and one was a very expensive hotel

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

definitely cant afford that happening to me, social meet first definitely

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By *am74Man
over a year ago

inbetween north west ,sligo ,galway


"Ideally if I was meeting someone it would be at a hotel. Can anyone advise any hotel recommendations in Dublin or just give advice in general relating to this?

Is there an etiquette about paying? I assume that bc im the one propositioning a hotel meet that I'm the one paying?

Ya haven't a chance mate. No one is going to agree to spend a night in a hotel with a single fella they have never met before. "

It's true I can vouch for that ,I have had many hotel stays ,no one took me up a few time wasters and one no show,forget the hotel not happening.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It will be someone who I have chatted to and met socially definitely so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Work hotel stays are a godsend with the price of accommodation! You wouldn't be up to much work the day after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ideally if I was meeting someone it would be at a hotel. Can anyone advise any hotel recommendations in Dublin or just give advice in general relating to this?

Is there an etiquette about paying? I assume that bc im the one propositioning a hotel meet that I'm the one paying?"

Is there not where can go to motel? It’s just rock up there no booking and book room with guest same time. So if the meet does not go ahead not left with a bill that not going to use.

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By *om TangoMan
over a year ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

I’d never ask or want the lady to pay half or any of the bill. Never. I just wouldn’t feel manly. I’m a kinda dom so a lady paying her way would just take all that power away from me. Not saying I am a power controlling freak. But just wouldn’t feel like respected if she paid. Respect is so important to me because of my pass so sorry if I come across as a cunt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If we'd met socially, got along and agreed on a hotel meet for sex, I would be paying my share of the room cost"

As a couple we've met loads of guys in hotels and from memory not one has ever offered to share costs.

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By *angtasticallyMan
over a year ago

Drogheda

Hotels are ideal meeting in a safe environment and splitting the cost is always nice but I believe a treat for a treat so paying wouldn't bother me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if I’m already staying in a hotel for work etc Was burned once

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By *am74Man
over a year ago

inbetween north west ,sligo ,galway


"Ideally if I was meeting someone it would be at a hotel. Can anyone advise any hotel recommendations in Dublin or just give advice in general relating to this?

Is there an etiquette about paying? I assume that bc im the one propositioning a hotel meet that I'm the one paying?"

Hilton garden in very central on the quayside

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