FabSwingers.com forum: How to get verified

By *agic mike 1983 OP Man
over a year ago

benidorm

Am new to the site

Learning each day I’ll admit I’ve made a few mistakes already but am turning to learn slowly.

As the title says how do I go about been verified

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

Socials would be best. If not, perhaps someone (even a fella) may meet somewhere for a non sex, meet and greet.

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By *azzandbobzeventsCouple
over a year ago

Cork

"Am new to the site

Learning each day I’ll admit I’ve made a few mistakes already but am turning to learn slowly.

As the title says how do I go about been verified "

What effort you put into fab is what you get out of it

If your prepared to spend 10 euro on 2 coffees or put a bit more then a one liner in a message and avoid asking for a ladies Snapchat 2nd/3rd message in you might have some chance.

You gotta remember women here are here to please themselves not the men writing to them. It’s not dating where she is looking for a fella. But it will still come down to whoever catches her eye. Effort and being sound goes a very long way in this game.

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By *agic mike 1983 OP Man
over a year ago

benidorm

Thank you for replying and yes

It’s a steep learning curve in here but I’m willing to try do the right things and put the effort in so hopefully it works out

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By *azzandbobzeventsCouple
over a year ago

Cork

"Thank you for replying and yes

It’s a steep learning curve in here but I’m willing to try do the right things and put the effort in so hopefully it works out "

I run events myself and we have plans to have an unverified social in November.

It will be on the forums

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By *agic mike 1983 OP Man
over a year ago

benidorm

Great thank you

And I’ll deffo be up for goin

That’ll help to get to know some of ye and also to get verified

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By *arrot_in_a_boxCouple
over a year ago

kinda dublin

Look out for a big events in the forums. Post things like "Ticket sorted, can't wait"

Afterwards, randomly mail everyone who confirmed going on the thread, saying it was great to meet you etc etc.

Ask if they can verify you.

Do this with every event, you'll eventually find one person who will feel guilty not remembering you, and will leave a vague veri.

That's what I did anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am new to the site

Learning each day I’ll admit I’ve made a few mistakes already but am turning to learn slowly.

As the title says how do I go about been verified

What effort you put into fab is what you get out of it

If your prepared to spend 10 euro on 2 coffees or put a bit more then a one liner in a message and avoid asking for a ladies Snapchat 2nd/3rd message in you might have some chance.

Fuck some of this is harsh

Some of us will happily buy our own coffee and are plenty interested in *mutual* pleasure with compatible men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Look out for a big events in the forums. Post things like "Ticket sorted, can't wait"

Afterwards, randomly mail everyone who confirmed going on the thread, saying it was great to meet you etc etc.

Ask if they can verify you.

Do this with every event, you'll eventually find one person who will feel guilty not remembering you, and will leave a vague veri.

That's what I did anyway."

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"Look out for a big events in the forums. Post things like "Ticket sorted, can't wait"

Afterwards, randomly mail everyone who confirmed going on the thread, saying it was great to meet you etc etc.

Ask if they can verify you.

Do this with every event, you'll eventually find one person who will feel guilty not remembering you, and will leave a vague veri.

That's what I did anyway."

Who could forget you in fairness

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

Post tasteful pictures of yourself regularly and join in all the forum games and flirt shamelessly with all the ladies.

That worked for me.

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

In this order for best results…..

1) search the forums.

B) read the forums.

4) learn from the forums.

5) take the advice of the forums.

D) apply the advice you receive from the forum.

E) and after all that, if you’re still feeling up to it, post on the forums, let people get to know you.

And if none of that works, send loads and loads of dic pics, people love dic pics, they’re exclusive to about 50.4% of the population don’t you know…….

Good luck OP……

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By *astelloWoman
over a year ago

Far far away

I just left a forum discussion on 9 in dicks..its been mighty educational.

Ps its on the main forum.. If ye wanna peek...

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By *agic mike 1983 OP Man
over a year ago

benidorm

Might give that a miss

But the forums have been very informative tonight that’s for sure ??

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By *XlalaXXWoman
over a year ago

tipperary

Absolute neck of some people dishin out advise on how u should treat people on fab when u really should be looking at yourself and how YOU treat people .

Just relax Mike , don’t feel bad for asking for someone’s Snapchat after a few msgs I do it after one cos I hate text and I prefer voice note .

There’s nothing wrong with that .

Once u remain respectful & understand the dynamics of how this scene works and understand all the consent aspect I’m sure you’ll be grand .

You’re eager to get involved . Which should be encouraged not disheartened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolute neck of some people dishin out advise on how u should treat people on fab when u really should be looking at yourself and how YOU treat people .

Just relax Mike , don’t feel bad for asking for someone’s Snapchat after a few msgs I do it after one cos I hate text and I prefer voice note .

There’s nothing wrong with that .

Once u remain respectful & understand the dynamics of how this scene works and understand all the consent aspect I’m sure you’ll be grand .

You’re eager to get involved . Which should be encouraged not disheartened

This

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By *agic mike 1983 OP Man
over a year ago

benidorm

Your reply has put a smile on my face

Thank you

And it’s also given me extra motivation to keep on trying and learning on here

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By *XlalaXXWoman
over a year ago

tipperary

"Your reply has put a smile on my face

Thank you

And it’s also given me extra motivation to keep on trying and learning on here "

Keep trying but don’t pay too much attention to ar5e holes on here .

They’ve put themselves on pedestals.

U just do u . If people don’t like that well that’s on them . Stay true to who u are .

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By *azzandbobzeventsCouple
over a year ago

Cork

"Am new to the site

Learning each day I’ll admit I’ve made a few mistakes already but am turning to learn slowly.

As the title says how do I go about been verified

What effort you put into fab is what you get out of it

If your prepared to spend 10 euro on 2 coffees or put a bit more then a one liner in a message and avoid asking for a ladies Snapchat 2nd/3rd message in you might have some chance.

Fuck some of this is harsh

Some of us will happily buy our own coffee and are plenty interested in *mutual* pleasure with compatible men"

May come off a bit blunt what’s the point in beating around the bush ?

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By *azzandbobzeventsCouple
over a year ago

Cork

"Am new to the site

Learning each day I’ll admit I’ve made a few mistakes already but am turning to learn slowly.

As the title says how do I go about been verified

What effort you put into fab is what you get out of it

If your prepared to spend 10 euro on 2 coffees or put a bit more then a one liner in a message and avoid asking for a ladies Snapchat 2nd/3rd message in you might have some chance.

Fuck some of this is harsh

Some of us will happily buy our own coffee and are plenty interested in *mutual* pleasure with compatible men"

I’m just trying to help him out that’s all.

I’m just going off my own experience been here 5 years and when you are asked 20 times a day for your Snapchat it get draining.

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By *azzandbobzeventsCouple
over a year ago

Cork

"Absolute neck of some people dishin out advise on how u should treat people on fab when u really should be looking at yourself and how YOU treat people .

Just relax Mike , don’t feel bad for asking for someone’s Snapchat after a few msgs I do it after one cos I hate text and I prefer voice note .

There’s nothing wrong with that .

Once u remain respectful & understand the dynamics of how this scene works and understand all the consent aspect I’m sure you’ll be grand .

You’re eager to get involved . Which should be encouraged not disheartened

I was only trying to advise Mike.

Your fully aware of some of the nasty messages that women get sent on the daily on this site comments about our bodies etc etc.

I’m always willing to help anyone no badness intended at all.

I’m straight to the point and blunt all in good faith though..

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By *apri 555Man
over a year ago

wexford or Dublin

Just be yourself pal ,dont lie and be respectful to both men and women and you wont go to far wrong ,there is a really sound bunch of people on here,,so just enjoy it

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By *aughty MilfCouple
over a year ago

Fermanagh/Monaghan Ireland , Northern Ireland

We've met some newbies and gave them there first verification as long as all are site verified male , female and couples otherwise won't waste time as a lot of fakes unfortunately

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By *aughty MilfCouple
over a year ago

Fermanagh/Monaghan Ireland , Northern Ireland

If your not meet verified keep an eye out for meet &greet events for newbies a chance to also get your first verification as you need a few to get to attend other parties

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By *lagado19Man
over a year ago

Nomad

Very informative thread it seems to be the go to thing is to keep an eye on unverified socials.

Will defo have mine peeled from now on

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"Look out for a big events in the forums. Post things like "Ticket sorted, can't wait"

Afterwards, randomly mail everyone who confirmed going on the thread, saying it was great to meet you etc etc.

Ask if they can verify you.

Do this with every event, you'll eventually find one person who will feel guilty not remembering you, and will leave a vague veri.

That's what I did anyway."

This is fucking GENIUS

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By *an I Kiss youMan
over a year ago

Manchester City Centre

"Am new to the site

Learning each day I’ll admit I’ve made a few mistakes already but am turning to learn slowly.

As the title says how do I go about been verified

What effort you put into fab is what you get out of it

If your prepared to spend 10 euro on 2 coffees or put a bit more then a one liner in a message and avoid asking for a ladies Snapchat 2nd/3rd message in you might have some chance.

Flipping heckkk, 10 quid for two coffee ?!!!!

He could put a deposit on a house in Limerick for that, bhahahaha

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By *ngel and EvilCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

Also look out for the "Help a Fabber Out" forum posts. Put in your area and see if someone can help you out.

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