FabSwingers.com forum: Why do blokes perving on other blokes?

By *ealmc1973 OP Man
over a year ago

Limerick, Clare, Tipperary

Why do blokes perving on other blokes' profiles?

It puzzles me ever since I have set up my little corner on Fab and the amount of 'straight' fellas gawking on my profile is unreal.

I mean, is there any kink, I am not aware of, why 'straight' blokes are sooooo concern with other men's testicles?

If I am here to look for 'no men', why would I be spying on their profiles?

Please enlighten me, gents...

Oh, and that's all before all the 'I'll give you the best BJ in your life' message bullshoite.

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

They’re following veris trails and looking at your veris.

They’re looking at a profile of someone who is successful to get hints.

Maybe they’re bi but it’s not stated on your profile.

I would be fairly sure the majority of it is people following veri trails.

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

Although having said that you only have one veri so not much of a trail

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Could it be that they're looking to see what other male profiles are like so they can compare their own and change it if necessary to make it better

Don't forget its a competitive market

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's could also be that you're some roide ,but you're ni bog man

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By *he zephyrCouple
over a year ago

The Sol

Awk Ohpee it could be any number of reasons.

They could be following a 'verification trail' of someone they're interested in or chatting to.

They could be looking for advice and tips on various profiles like pictures, talking points within a bio etc

Or they could just like the cut of your jib! Even those that are lactose intolerant walk down the milk aisle sure

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

If you block all men that will put an end to all your concerns.

It won't stop them looking but you won't know about it.

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By *reenfrogoMan
over a year ago

nearby

Ill bet you will get a lot more views now

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By *oguish1Man
over a year ago

Carrigrohane

Maybe they like your photographic style .... maybe the want to see if you got the equipment to back up your cockiness ..... maybe they are board ..... maybe a lot of reasons ..... but don't worry about it, if you have made it publicly available it comes with the terratery....... just relax and remember women have to put up with so much more every day, here and in the real world ..... so hope this helps solve the mystery for you

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

They are just perverts.lol

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By *oguish1Man
over a year ago

Carrigrohane

"They are just perverts.lol"

Surely that covers 99% of us here

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

They’re probably looking to see how that leaf is staying in place!

It’s too small to have any hidden fixing

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By *ealmc1973 OP Man
over a year ago

Limerick, Clare, Tipperary

Thanks for the replies so far, just a few points, to clear some misunderstandings:

_ I do not, rally care, who's perving at me, just finding it...amusing

- I don't play verification game, so there is no veri-trail to follow

- I am very cocky, indeed

- I am the biggest perv of 'em all, but I do perv on my preferred 'material'

Keep your opinions coming, it's interesting read, so far

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By *panishRebelMan
over a year ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

"Thanks for the replies so far, just a few points, to clear some misunderstandings:

_ I do not, rally care, who's perving at me, just finding it...amusing

- I don't play verification game, so there is no veri-trail to follow

- I am very cocky, indeed

- I am the biggest perv of 'em all, but I do perv on my preferred 'material'

Keep your opinions coming, it's interesting read, so far

Wouldn't think of looking at ye until you posted to this thread.

Feck it,,,, nahh tis grand

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

When you started did you look at mens profiles to see what profile you should create

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By *j TruckerMan
over a year ago

monaghan

Yep 99% of who views my profile are pictures are men personally I don't get it

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By *ealmc1973 OP Man
over a year ago

Limerick, Clare, Tipperary

"Op

When you started did you look at mens profiles to see what profile you should create "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Comparing cock size

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They won't know you're not looking for men until they look at your profile?

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By *lassy 69Man
over a year ago

my town

That's exactly what I did just now anyways.

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

I blocked single guys at I didn't have to scroll down and try to figure out who was looking at me from my preferred choices

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They’re following veris trails and looking at your veris.

They’re looking at a profile of someone who is successful to get hints.

Maybe they’re bi but it’s not stated on your profile.

I would be fairly sure the majority of it is people following veri trails. "

Yes fairly sure this is the case. Though definite that straight male profiles are offering/asking straight men for sexual encounters. Be it a tactic or a fear they keep their bio as a straight man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They won't know you're not looking for men until they look at your profile?"

Correct in a general search i.e 'men online' or 'see who's near'.

My preferred search method is by preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They won't know you're not looking for men until they look at your profile?

Correct in a general search i.e 'men online' or 'see who's near'.

My preferred search method is by preference.

If they're viewing the profile from a search. Most profiles I view aren't via a search

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I haven't used the search feature in years but if I look at another man's profile it's because he has commented on the forums and if I don't recognise him or haven't seen his profile in a long time I'll have a look to get some context for his forum comment.

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

I look at guys profiles all the time. Sometimes I'm curious about a forum comment.

Sometimes I'm clicking through veri's

Sometimes I just appreciate a great photo.

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

"They are just perverts.lol

Surely that covers 99% of us here"

Excuse me?!!!I'm pure innocence..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They won't know you're not looking for men until they look at your profile?

Correct in a general search i.e 'men online' or 'see who's near'.

My preferred search method is by preference.

Don't get me wrong. Not saying i dont look. For some of the above mentioned reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also not every profile view is someone perving on you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a little context to the thread. 76/100 views on my profile were male(staight or bi)

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For a little context to the thread. 76/100 views on my profile were male(staight or bi)

Your bio mentions that your open to tv/ts so a percentage of them might be interested in you on those terms too?"

Did you look a the correct profile? Hopereads the same on my screen as others

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

People checking you out is a compliment. Don't worry about it.

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

"For a little context to the thread. 76/100 views on my profile were male(staight or bi)

Your bio mentions that your open to tv/ts so a percentage of them might be interested in you on those terms too?

Did you look a the correct profile? Hopereads the same on my screen as others"

Oops sorry the reply was meant for the OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All good

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

"Why do blokes perving on other blokes' profiles?

It puzzles me ever since I have set up my little corner on Fab and the amount of 'straight' fellas gawking on my profile is unreal.

I mean, is there any kink, I am not aware of, why 'straight' blokes are sooooo concern with other men's testicles?

If I am here to look for 'no men', why would I be spying on their profiles?

Please enlighten me, gents...

Oh, and that's all before all the 'I'll give you the best BJ in your life' message bullshoite.

Your bio mentions that your open to tv/ts so a percentage of them might be interested in you on those terms too?

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By *exy Saucy SocialsCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Yet op you have tv/TS on profile you see their pics when u perv so what's issue of men perving yours like??

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By *ealmc1973 OP Man
over a year ago

Limerick, Clare, Tipperary

"Yet op you have tv/TS on profile you see their pics when u perv so what's issue of men perving yours like??"

...and me's thinking that TV/TS would describe themselves as such? rather than 'straight male'?

BTW, this site has some limits in 'boxing' people together, so one is always choosing the closest match.

But, it is not only myself, we had a small chat about this on the Irish forum the other day and many blokes, who cared to chat, had the same issue.

I do understand, that bi-blokes are curious, fair enough, more attention to my toned body and more food for my ego

From the other hand, as it's been said already above, there are search options to narrow the scope and those certain rejections.

Oh...and I was checking some bloke's photos while taking part in the recent 'food fun photo shoot'

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By *ealmc1973 OP Man
over a year ago

Limerick, Clare, Tipperary

BTW, this is not a whingey-moany thread, as some might mistook it for.

It's curiosity and trying to find some opinions, maybe answers to the topic question.

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

The TV/TS selection really ought to be expanded

There's a plethora of genders and sexual orientations out there now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to say I would often look at Males profiles that Females I'm interested in have met, to be honest mostly it's to see if they are interested in my body type!

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

"Why do blokes perving on other blokes' profiles?

It puzzles me ever since I have set up my little corner on Fab and the amount of 'straight' fellas gawking on my profile is unreal.

I mean, is there any kink, I am not aware of, why 'straight' blokes are sooooo concern with other men's testicles?

If I am here to look for 'no men', why would I be spying on their profiles?

Please enlighten me, gents...

Oh, and that's all before all the 'I'll give you the best BJ in your life' message bullshoite.

Do you look at other men when your out and about ?

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