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Anatomy of a group meet

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By *asual777 OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

So you’re trying to decide if you ll turn up to a group meet you’ve been invited to or where there is a meet advertised

Other Than location and date & ensuring that there is no one you don’t like attending , what factors ultimately influence whether you ll attend or not ?

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"So you’re trying to decide if you ll turn up to a group meet you’ve been invited to or where there is a meet advertised

Other Than location and date & ensuring that there is no one you don’t like attending , what factors ultimately influence whether you ll attend or not ?

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Between paying for babysitting, fuel, entry costs, booze, taxis, hotel etc they can be expensive. The full cost should be considered. Some events can charge per person which can be a lot for a couple, while some are free. Even someone who has disposable income would look at it all and wonder is it value for money.

Date and location are very important for us, but couldn't give a monkeys on the attendees as we would talk to nearly anyone.

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By *exesrangerMan
over a year ago

out and and about

Cake. Lots and lots of cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Other than the things you've already mentioned?

Overall cost would be a big factor - travel, parking, is there an entrance fee, will we need to stay in a hotel overnight.

The type of meet and make-up of the group

If its a play meet, the venue - not just the location - would be another. Is there somewhere we can step away from the action and chill?

Numbers. If it's a play meet and we - or any of the others - decided not to participate for whatever reason, how would that affect the dynamics of the meet?

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By *exesrangerMan
over a year ago

out and and about


"Other than the things you've already mentioned?

Overall cost would be a big factor for cake - travel, parking, is there an entrance fee, will we need to stay in a hotel overnight for more cake ?

The type of cake and make-up of the cake

If its a play cake, the venue - not just the location - would be another cake ? Is there somewhere we can step away from the cake and chill?

Numbers. If it's a play cake and we - or any of the others - decided not to participate in cake for whatever reason, how would that affect the dynamics of the cake?

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Fixed that for ya.

I think I might have actually wet my pants a little bit from laughing at that.

See you all though I was joking when I say I'm a hoot but now you see it too don't you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotel costs if even not close by..

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By *anandJCouple
over a year ago

Citywest

Ratio of couples to unicorns and single lads.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

The people attending and the time available to me to attend are the only things that would influence me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Other than the things you've already mentioned?

Overall cost would be a big factor for cake - travel, parking, is there an entrance fee, will we need to stay in a hotel overnight for more cake ?

The type of cake and make-up of the cake

If its a play cake, the venue - not just the location - would be another cake ? Is there somewhere we can step away from the cake and chill?

Numbers. If it's a play cake and we - or any of the others - decided not to participate in cake for whatever reason, how would that affect the dynamics of the cake?

Fixed that for ya.

I think I might have actually wet my pants a little bit from laughing at that.

See you all though I was joking when I say I'm a hoot but now you see it too don't you? "

Roaring

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By *asual777 OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

I think if someone I wanted to attend made the presence of cake a deal breaker I would get a cake like

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By *reenfrogoMan
over a year ago

nearby

I thought there was cake at every meet and event? I felt sure i was missing out!

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By *asual777 OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

The ones I co organise have enormous amounts of food at them

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

There is always cake of some sort at ours Mr casual and I usually end up taking it home by the way you have to bring macaroons from now on they were delish lol

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By *asual777 OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

Lol

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By *olverineMan
over a year ago

ennis

Up to €300 to get to a social lately..

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By *oresumBisumCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Sexyvilla

Apart from the obvious....For me, its always been the amount of strangers attending....would I be uncomfortable or feel out of place or be overwhelmed and anxious....

Luckily enough, ive always been looked after at the tiny 3-5sum ones ive gone too and never been uncomfortable....but again, it all depends on who is in the room x A

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By *heMystroMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Showers and book discussions

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

Any good host who is worth there gold would be looking out for anyone who is possibly feeling uncomfortable or overwhelmed that is the job of a host that is why I never play when I'm hosting a party as I feel it is my job to look after my guests

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By *exbombABCMan
over a year ago

BLANCHARDSTOWN

What I’ve seen with entry costs single guys pay the same amount as a couple and women pay half what guys and couples pay which I think is ridiculous because if you’re a single guy you have to have to wait in the lounge until you have permission to go to the rooms where all the fun is but the women don’t need permission which is unfair I think. When it comes to hotels and taxi fares it all depends on where the party is based.

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