FabSwingers.com forum: Doing the rounds

By *astello OP Woman
over a year ago

Far far away

So how many on here are on multiple sites?

Just curious as this lil ole isle of ours is tiny.

Interested to hear... Those who went from dating to swinging and vice versa.

Do daters want to be swingers or swingers be daters. Is there an in between?

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By *huCullainMan
over a year ago

Rathowen

I'm just on here. Most of the dating sites are rubbish at best of times.

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By *oo32Man
over a year ago

tipperary

"So how many on here are on multiple sites?

Just curious as this lil ole isle of ours is tiny.

Interested to hear... Those who went from dating to swinging and vice versa.

Do daters want to be swingers or swingers be daters. Is there an in between? "

Yip...on dating sites aswell,very hit and miss as regards what people want...

Some want to date..others want a quick shag

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
over a year ago

kinkytown

We're just here and the fetish place but we use the fetish place as more a kinky social network then a hook up site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on another site was told about fab so I'm only here now,I haven't the time or patience for multiple sites.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"We're just here and the fetish place but we use the fetish place as more a kinky social network then a hook up site. "

Same

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I'm only on here which is more than enough.

I don't have time for anything more or even chatgroups.

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By *otownkid1967Man
over a year ago

Portlaoise

Here and one other site but it's hit and miss the.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I've never used a dating site and fab is the only site I'm on.

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Im not looking to date or looking for a relationship so here is enough for me at the moment can't see that changing as i get what i want from here

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By *XlalaXXWoman
over a year ago

tipperary

"So how many on here are on multiple sites?

Just curious as this lil ole isle of ours is tiny.

Interested to hear... Those who went from dating to swinging and vice versa.

Do daters want to be swingers or swingers be daters. Is there an in between? "

My needs change by the hour lol

A dating site with people as open as they are on fab would be great .

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By *XlalaXXWoman
over a year ago

tipperary

"So how many on here are on multiple sites?

Just curious as this lil ole isle of ours is tiny.

Interested to hear... Those who went from dating to swinging and vice versa.

Do daters want to be swingers or swingers be daters. Is there an in between?

Yip...on dating sites aswell,very hit and miss as regards what people want...

Some want to date..others want a quick shag

What do u want ?

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

"So how many on here are on multiple sites?

Just curious as this lil ole isle of ours is tiny.

Interested to hear... Those who went from dating to swinging and vice versa.

Do daters want to be swingers or swingers be daters. Is there an in between?

My needs change by the hour lol

A dating site with people as open as they are on fab would be great .

Have you tried Feeld?

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By *XlalaXXWoman
over a year ago

tipperary

"So how many on here are on multiple sites?

Just curious as this lil ole isle of ours is tiny.

Interested to hear... Those who went from dating to swinging and vice versa.

Do daters want to be swingers or swingers be daters. Is there an in between?

My needs change by the hour lol

A dating site with people as open as they are on fab would be great .

Have you tried Feeld?"

I have a profile on it for flame

I like the idea of it

However I think it needs to be more community based social platform like ur main stream social apps . the world has evolved so much people should be allowed to have their idea of a relationship situationship fuk bud throuple whatever .

There are a lot of people that use a lot of sites the common denominator is sex .

The term “relationship” has many meanings now and I think for the better.

Having a mutual understanding with someone who u have sex with from time to time but u can also go for weekend away or to a hurling match or out to watch the football without having to be ur boyfriend or girlfriend is in my opinion where the term “relationship”is at in society.

Some people don’t want the fairytale they just wanna chill and fuk and that’s cool too

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

On this site only,found what I was looking for on here and never tried any other site as I always thought this one worked fine to be honest

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By *ufflerloverMan
over a year ago

Sligo

Just here, hoping to be verified, as far as dating, maybe coffee in Carrick on Shannon or Longford, maybe Dublin. Would date if that’s the it went.

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By *ufflerloverMan
over a year ago

Sligo

But if anyone would just meet for coffee, I would like to be verified.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"But if anyone would just meet for coffee, I would like to be verified. "

This thread is about something completely different to write on the help a fabber out thread

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By *essicaRabbit04Woman
over a year ago

Rabbit burrow

I'm single since Jesus was a baby so I'm on all the sites but I fell into Fab by accident & it's helped with the boredom & frustration. I'm open to dating if I met a very special person but I've become good at separating the 2 things at this stage

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By *oo32Man
over a year ago

tipperary

"I'm single since Jesus was a baby so I'm on all the sites but I fell into Fab by accident & it's helped with the boredom & frustration. I'm open to dating if I met a very special person but I've become good at separating the 2 things at this stage"

If you'd a partner would you be comfortable swinging?

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By *essicaRabbit04Woman
over a year ago

Rabbit burrow

If you'd a partner would you be comfortable swinging?"

Its a tough one to answer cuz ive never been in the situation, honestly I don't know, initially probably not cuz I feel like u need that honeymoon period alone as a couple. Id probably take a break from swinging and focus on the relationship then maybe come back to it but who knows

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By *adger BrocMan
over a year ago

Co. Cork

I have been on Plenty Of other sites but most of those on dating sites are women looking for boyfriend/partners with significantly less emphasis on sex than on Fab.

The men on all sites but in particular on Fab are mainly looking to get a leg over and moving on to their next conquest. Proof of this is how quickly many of them turn nasty at the first sign of being rejected.

Frustration leads to desperation and aggravation.

Fab, like everything else in life, is a long game and if you persevere you will eventually score.

Keep Fabbing Happily everyone.

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

I’m only on here, I haven’t tried any others but I get the feeling that “here’s a picture of my penis disguised as a hotdog” wouldn’t be as well received on other sites….

I haven’t tried any others but I like the anonymity here and the chance to interact with/observe others like I do here, I like the forum/community aspect of the site.

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By *essicaRabbit04Woman
over a year ago

Rabbit burrow

"I’m only on here, I haven’t tried any others but I get the feeling that “here’s a picture of my penis disguised as a hotdog” wouldn’t be as well received on other sites….

I haven’t tried any others but I like the anonymity here and the chance to interact with/observe others like I do here, I like the forum/community aspect of the site."

I did read that as "here's a picture of my penis disguised as a hedgehog" until I clicked into your profile lol

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

"I’m only on here, I haven’t tried any others but I get the feeling that “here’s a picture of my penis disguised as a hotdog” wouldn’t be as well received on other sites….

I haven’t tried any others but I like the anonymity here and the chance to interact with/observe others like I do here, I like the forum/community aspect of the site.

I did read that as "here's a picture of my penis disguised as a hedgehog" until I clicked into your profile lol

I have a good explanation , honest…..

(Enter jokes about me being a prick here)…..

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By *essicaRabbit04Woman
over a year ago

Rabbit burrow

"I’m only on here, I haven’t tried any others but I get the feeling that “here’s a picture of my penis disguised as a hotdog” wouldn’t be as well received on other sites….

I haven’t tried any others but I like the anonymity here and the chance to interact with/observe others like I do here, I like the forum/community aspect of the site.

I did read that as "here's a picture of my penis disguised as a hedgehog" until I clicked into your profile lol

I have a good explanation , honest…..

(Enter jokes about me being a prick here)…..

I remember hearing something about u and a hamster but never a hedgehog lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sometimes on a dating site..but only when that's what I'm actually looking for , but I dont frequent both simultaneously, hence being off of here for long periods.

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By *lleyCat1969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

I was previously on a site which was specifically for finding adult friends and I actually heard of Fabs in a chatroom on a site which is apparently heaven for swingers.

I've been only on Fabs for over 10 years now and, while I got more meets pre-Covid, I haven't reason to go elsewhere.

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By *astello OP Woman
over a year ago

Far far away

Thanks for all the updates. An good mix of those using just one fab or two sites.

I happened across fab from another site and yes did the usual pof, bumb, tin as out of the dating scene for 15 years..and indeed how it has changed.

My own motivation has changed also, fab has presented opportunities to engage with amazing openminded people who are more honest than many on traditional dating sites.

Am I am dating swinger or a swinging dater...? Ive yet to decide that.

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny

Just here as its the best of a bad lot

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford

(How do I say this, without getting a bashing over?

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I'm on the usual dating site's aswell. For me personally a complete waste of time. I'm thinking of getting off them altogether. If I was to take to heart the way thing's for me on them. I'd be a seriously bitter man & against women completely. I wouldn't be on here either.

For me personally there 2 different thing's, the dating site's are more a 1 on 1 thing in the form of dating. Where's here, you possible have the 1 on 1, aswell as a group of friends/like minded people.

I'm on another swinging site aswell. Hardly ever go near now. I think I'll get off it altogether.

I found out about Fab on #NSFW side of Twitter. A few profiles on here had something about Fab on them or people I was talking to on there said something about Fab.

I'm enjoying the interaction on the forum here so far anyway's. How long will I be on Fab, I can't answer that question, just yet anyway's. Nor can I say weather I'm a dater swinger or a swinger dater.

I suppose time will tell on that front.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

We're on all the swing sites with the same name but this is the only one we interact on. We're on that fetish/kink site as well but only for events and the fantastic photography.

Not on any chat groups at the moment but we join them to perve the goods coming up to events

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So how many on here are on multiple sites?

Just curious as this lil ole isle of ours is tiny.

Interested to hear... Those who went from dating to swinging and vice versa.

Do daters want to be swingers or swingers be daters. Is there an in between? "

Online dating is absolutely horrible..that's my tuppence worth anyway...it's for some people...and they do find them good but they're not for me.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

On dating too ... no luck though... there shit ...or I'm total ugo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here, 1 other swing site and 1 dating site, but I definitely find myself leaning to this the most and most user friendly

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By *elle111Woman
over a year ago

"I'm only on here which is more than enough.

I don't have time for anything more or even chatgroups. "

I’m with you Reality

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

Only on this one so far but will perhaps expand one day

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By *llthewaysMan
over a year ago

City centre/Naas

Never did online or app dating type things, so only here. Tried the fetish one but didn't find a real community in it like I do here.

Not heard of any other ones.

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By *angtasticallyMan
over a year ago

Drogheda

Only this site ppl seem more genuine compared to other sites

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

I'm only on here...more than enough

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

Im on here, mainly. I find it great for making like minded friends, and meeting. I recently re activated my FxtLxfe profile, but its too global, but ok for seeing what's going on in the world, kink wise. I've never met anyone on it.

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