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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do most of you (mainly aimed at women and couples) feel about younger guys on here?

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By *tudentForFunMan
over a year ago

Craigavon

In my experience you get a lot that are uncomfortable because you’re the same age as their kids

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In my experience you get a lot that are uncomfortable because you’re the same age as their kids "

Been told this before haha

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By *s SingletWoman
over a year ago

Kilkenny

I've always gone for older guys but then I got curious to know would a younger guy be interested in me so i took off my age restriction and I met a guy much younger, too young for my adult daughters even I have no regrets and we have met more than once

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

Honestly if someone is around the age of our eldest then it's a no thanks no matter how attractive or suitable they are it's just a nope

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By *otownkid1967Man
over a year ago

Portlaoise


"Honestly if someone is around the age of our eldest then it's a no thanks no matter how attractive or suitable they are it's just a nope "

This 100%

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By *ex coupleCouple
over a year ago

wexford

I find it hot but ye don’t do yourselves any favours

Ye let your side down on not showing up

Is it ye get too nervous (who knows )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems to be my experience here too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say a lot of them feel nervous and don't show up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely, younger guys love older women

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By *ex coupleCouple
over a year ago

wexford


"I'd say a lot of them feel nervous and don't show up "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find it hot but ye don’t do yourselves any favours

Ye let your side down on not showing up

Is it ye get too nervous (who knows ) "

I've never not shown up, cancelled once or twice the day before because of things out of my control. The hardest part of it ive found had been actually physically being able to get there (cant drive yet) lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say a lot of them feel nervous and don't show up "

I've only played with couples I know personally but I'd love to be the younger man to s couple on here or to a woman here, definitely would be nervous but not enough to deter me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd say a lot of them feel nervous and don't show up

I've only played with couples I know personally but I'd love to be the younger man to s couple on here or to a woman here, definitely would be nervous but not enough to deter me "

ah ofcourse we'd be nervous but once you get there and get into it, it would melt away

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Opens the door and takes a nosey around.....Ohh hello

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By *_05Man
over a year ago

dublin 7


"Definitely, younger guys love older women "

It's true!

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford


"Opens the door and takes a nosey around.....Ohh hello "

How are you doing?

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"Opens the door and takes a nosey around.....Ohh hello

How are you doing? "

Don't mind me im just having a quick nosey about

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Opens the door and takes a nosey around.....Ohh hello

How are you doing?

Don't mind me im just having a quick nosey about "

What took you so long

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Opens the door and takes a nosey around.....Ohh hello

How are you doing?

Don't mind me im just having a quick nosey about "

If you want to have a nosey in my inbox you're welcome to xx

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"Opens the door and takes a nosey around.....Ohh hello

How are you doing?

Don't mind me im just having a quick nosey about

What took you so long "

Bloody traffic was busy on the Cougar motorway this evening

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"Opens the door and takes a nosey around.....Ohh hello

How are you doing?

Don't mind me im just having a quick nosey about

If you want to have a nosey in my inbox you're welcome to xx "

Ive been known to have a cheeky slide into DM's

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford


"Opens the door and takes a nosey around.....Ohh hello

How are you doing?

Don't mind me im just having a quick nosey about "

I don't mind at ALL. TAKE YOUR time, PLEASE. Let all that traffic pass you by on the Cougar motorway.

Do you want something to eat or drink, while your visiting me?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Opens the door and takes a nosey around.....Ohh hello

How are you doing?

Don't mind me im just having a quick nosey about

If you want to have a nosey in my inbox you're welcome to xx

Ive been known to have a cheeky slide into DM's "

Please do xx

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"Opens the door and takes a nosey around.....Ohh hello

How are you doing?

Don't mind me im just having a quick nosey about

If you want to have a nosey in my inbox you're welcome to xx

Ive been known to have a cheeky slide into DM's

Please do xx"

You've got mail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Opens the door and takes a nosey around.....Ohh hello

How are you doing?

Don't mind me im just having a quick nosey about

If you want to have a nosey in my inbox you're welcome to xx

Ive been known to have a cheeky slide into DM's

Please do xx

You've got mail "

Get a room

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"Opens the door and takes a nosey around.....Ohh hello

How are you doing?

Don't mind me im just having a quick nosey about

If you want to have a nosey in my inbox you're welcome to xx

Ive been known to have a cheeky slide into DM's

Please do xx

You've got mail

Get a room "

Shruppp you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Opens the door and takes a nosey around.....Ohh hello

How are you doing?

Don't mind me im just having a quick nosey about

If you want to have a nosey in my inbox you're welcome to xx

Ive been known to have a cheeky slide into DM's

Please do xx

You've got mail

Get a room

Shruppp you "

Get your ass west and make me

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford


"Opens the door and takes a nosey around.....Ohh hello

How are you doing?

Don't mind me im just having a quick nosey about

If you want to have a nosey in my inbox you're welcome to xx

Ive been known to have a cheeky slide into DM's

Please do xx

You've got mail

Get a room

Shruppp you "

Give her, abit of time. She's lowering him in still, before she pounce on him.

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford


"Opens the door and takes a nosey around.....Ohh hello

How are you doing?

Don't mind me im just having a quick nosey about

If you want to have a nosey in my inbox you're welcome to xx

Ive been known to have a cheeky slide into DM's

Please do xx

You've got mail

Get a room

Shruppp you

Get your ass west and make me "

Now, Now, you might regret saying that later.

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By *he zephyrCouple
over a year ago

The Sol


"Definitely, younger guys love older women "

I feel like I shouldn't comment here but honestly this comment mystifies me (Rubs) ... I think it's because in the 'outside world', as an older woman, I do not feel I am looked at by younger men at all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Opens the door and takes a nosey around.....Ohh hello

How are you doing?

Don't mind me im just having a quick nosey about

If you want to have a nosey in my inbox you're welcome to xx

Ive been known to have a cheeky slide into DM's

Please do xx

You've got mail

Get a room "

Hopefully

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Definitely, younger guys love older women

I feel like I shouldn't comment here but honestly this comment mystifies me (Rubs) ... I think it's because in the 'outside world', as an older woman, I do not feel I am looked at by younger men at all.

"

You just aren't catching them

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By *he zephyrCouple
over a year ago

The Sol


"Definitely, younger guys love older women

I feel like I shouldn't comment here but honestly this comment mystifies me (Rubs) ... I think it's because in the 'outside world', as an older woman, I do not feel I am looked at by younger men at all.

You just aren't catching them "

Ha! Probably cos me eyesight is going

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Definitely, younger guys love older women

I feel like I shouldn't comment here but honestly this comment mystifies me (Rubs) ... I think it's because in the 'outside world', as an older woman, I do not feel I am looked at by younger men at all.

You just aren't catching them

Ha! Probably cos me eyesight is going "

In the real world getting caught checking out someone's wife who is double your age might get you into a bit of trouble

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford


"Definitely, younger guys love older women

I feel like I shouldn't comment here but honestly this comment mystifies me (Rubs) ... I think it's because in the 'outside world', as an older woman, I do not feel I am looked at by younger men at all.

"

Going by your pictures, I find that hard to believe that younger men aren't looking at you Rubs. Or men in general aren't doing it. I'd say it's more like very nearly a STOP & STARE, at you.

It's more likely that your not seeing them alright or they see himself, they keep the head down & keep moving.

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford


"Definitely, younger guys love older women

I feel like I shouldn't comment here but honestly this comment mystifies me (Rubs) ... I think it's because in the 'outside world', as an older woman, I do not feel I am looked at by younger men at all.

You just aren't catching them

Ha! Probably cos me eyesight is going

In the real world getting caught checking out someone's wife who is double your age might get you into a bit of trouble "

Ya,that's very true alright.

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By *apri 555Man
over a year ago

wexford or Dublin


"Definitely, younger guys love older women

I feel like I shouldn't comment here but honestly this comment mystifies me (Rubs) ... I think it's because in the 'outside world', as an older woman, I do not feel I am looked at by younger men at all.

"

I would think you get checked out a lot more than you know,,going by your pic,s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say a lot of them feel nervous and don't show up

I've only played with couples I know personally but I'd love to be the younger man to s couple on here or to a woman here, definitely would be nervous but not enough to deter me

ah ofcourse we'd be nervous but once you get there and get into it, it would melt away"

aye nervousness is part of any good new experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Opens the door and takes a nosey around.....Ohh hello "
why hello

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"Definitely, younger guys love older women

I feel like I shouldn't comment here but honestly this comment mystifies me (Rubs) ... I think it's because in the 'outside world', as an older woman, I do not feel I am looked at by younger men at all.

"

Yep, I feel the same and I think it's because Fab is where fantasies are fulfilled and an older woman is usually just a fantasy for most young guys, whether fulfilled or not. Mrs.

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By *tudentForFunMan
over a year ago

Craigavon

Older women are definitely looked at by younger guys especially when you look like that

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By *ub23Man
over a year ago

wandering

Reason I joined fab, fantasy was/is to have a fwb who is a few years older!

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By *_05Man
over a year ago

dublin 7


"Reason I joined fab, fantasy was/is to have a fwb who is a few years older!"

that's the dream right there!

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"How do most of you (mainly aimed at women and couples) feel about younger guys on here? "

A lot of younger guys are looking for a sex teacher, folks generally don't want to teach that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How do most of you (mainly aimed at women and couples) feel about younger guys on here?

A lot of younger guys are looking for a sex teacher, folks generally don't want to teach that "

wouldnt say id want that, more of a dominant older woman who knows what she wants and says it

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

Ladies I can assure you they are looking. I think every young man dreams about it.

That fantasty rarely equals the confidence to make meaningful eye contact or get caught looking though.

Has anyone ever tried deliberately teasing younger men? Those images never go away. Ah those were the days. My English teacher is still a firm favourite.

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

Id consider it for the right person.

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By *an I Kiss youMan
over a year ago

Manchester City Centre


"Opens the door and takes a nosey around.....Ohh hello

How are you doing?

Don't mind me im just having a quick nosey about

If you want to have a nosey in my inbox you're welcome to xx

Ive been known to have a cheeky slide into DM's

Please do xx

You've got mail "

.

Oooooo, she did the slide. Lolly, if this goes ahead, I will give him a lift and wait to drop him back home safely

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By *an I Kiss youMan
over a year ago

Manchester City Centre


"Definitely, younger guys love older women

I feel like I shouldn't comment here but honestly this comment mystifies me (Rubs) ... I think it's because in the 'outside world', as an older woman, I do not feel I am looked at by younger men at all.

You just aren't catching them

Ha! Probably cos me eyesight is going "

.

Need to go to Specsavers Rub ?

No problem, I will give you a lift while waiting for the lad to drop him back home.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Opens the door and takes a nosey around.....Ohh hello

How are you doing?

Don't mind me im just having a quick nosey about

If you want to have a nosey in my inbox you're welcome to xx

Ive been known to have a cheeky slide into DM's

Please do xx

You've got mail

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Oooooo, she did the slide. Lolly, if this goes ahead, I will give him a lift and wait to drop him back home safely "

the emotes at the end seem menacing

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By *an I Kiss youMan
over a year ago

Manchester City Centre


"Opens the door and takes a nosey around.....Ohh hello

How are you doing?

Don't mind me im just having a quick nosey about

If you want to have a nosey in my inbox you're welcome to xx

Ive been known to have a cheeky slide into DM's

Please do xx

You've got mail

.

Oooooo, she did the slide. Lolly, if this goes ahead, I will give him a lift and wait to drop him back home safely

the emotes at the end seem menacing "

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Oh Gosh, you scared of emojis. How are go ahead with that nerve wrecking experience then ?

.

Plus, you are paying for petrol buddy,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Opens the door and takes a nosey around.....Ohh hello

How are you doing?

Don't mind me im just having a quick nosey about

If you want to have a nosey in my inbox you're welcome to xx

Ive been known to have a cheeky slide into DM's

Please do xx

You've got mail

.

Oooooo, she did the slide. Lolly, if this goes ahead, I will give him a lift and wait to drop him back home safely

the emotes at the end seem menacing

.

Oh Gosh, you scared of emojis. How are go ahead with that nerve wrecking experience then ?

.

Plus, you are paying for petrol buddy, "

with the price of petrol now are ya mad, ill get where i need to go on my own xx

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By *an I Kiss youMan
over a year ago

Manchester City Centre


" .......

Please do xx

You've got mail

.

Oooooo, she did the slide. Lolly, if this goes ahead, I will give him a lift and wait to drop him back home safely

the emotes at the end seem menacing

.

Oh Gosh, you scared of emojis. How are go ahead with that nerve wrecking experience then ?

.

Plus, you are paying for petrol buddy,

with the price of petrol now are ya mad, ill get where i need to go on my own xx"

.

Oh dammit, another missed opportunity to fill my tank

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"How do most of you (mainly aimed at women and couples) feel about younger guys on here?

A lot of younger guys are looking for a sex teacher, folks generally don't want to teach that

wouldnt say id want that, more of a dominant older woman who knows what she wants and says it"

Your status update says otherwise, you're looking for a teacher.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Early birds catching the (younger) worm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to have some connection to enjoy good quality sex. With a young guy I don't think I'd have the right connection as I would with a more experienced gentleman

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How do most of you (mainly aimed at women and couples) feel about younger guys on here?

A lot of younger guys are looking for a sex teacher, folks generally don't want to teach that

wouldnt say id want that, more of a dominant older woman who knows what she wants and says it

Your status update says otherwise, you're looking for a teacher."

I know what I want, very easy to understand. If you have a problem or don't understand, don't reply

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
over a year ago

kinkytown

Honestly young guys can be great if (and this is rare in our experience on here) they have some maturity in them. Find that a lot don't unfortunately. Won't go into examples but that's our experience.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"How do most of you (mainly aimed at women and couples) feel about younger guys on here?

A lot of younger guys are looking for a sex teacher, folks generally don't want to teach that

wouldnt say id want that, more of a dominant older woman who knows what she wants and says it

Your status update says otherwise, you're looking for a teacher.

I know what I want, very easy to understand. If you have a problem or don't understand, don't reply "

Not easy to understand when you contradict yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How do most of you (mainly aimed at women and couples) feel about younger guys on here?

A lot of younger guys are looking for a sex teacher, folks generally don't want to teach that

wouldnt say id want that, more of a dominant older woman who knows what she wants and says it

Your status update says otherwise, you're looking for a teacher.

I know what I want, very easy to understand. If you have a problem or don't understand, don't reply

Not easy to understand when you contradict yourself "

Its more of a roleplaying kink than anything, doesnt mean I exclusively am trying to find a 'teacher' for sex lol, the dynamic of an older experienced woman taking what she wants is what I find hot.

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

I was thinking about this last night and asked myself how define an older woman when I was 20.

I was with a woman of 30 for a while and thought she was an older woman.

I certainly thought woman older than that were hot but couldn't conceive that they would even be aware of my existence.

Obviously fab wasn't around at that time so the game has changed.

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By *affacakes47Man
over a year ago

city

Yes game has changed certainly, I think personally I’m very attracted to women who are older than me

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"How do most of you (mainly aimed at women and couples) feel about younger guys on here?

A lot of younger guys are looking for a sex teacher, folks generally don't want to teach that

wouldnt say id want that, more of a dominant older woman who knows what she wants and says it

Your status update says otherwise, you're looking for a teacher.

I know what I want, very easy to understand. If you have a problem or don't understand, don't reply

Not easy to understand when you contradict yourself

Its more of a roleplaying kink than anything, doesnt mean I exclusively am trying to find a 'teacher' for sex lol, the dynamic of an older experienced woman taking what she wants is what I find hot. "

I can understand that kink. Good luck with your search

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By *ub23Man
over a year ago

wandering

Some lads letting the rest of us down on here

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By *XlalaXXWoman
over a year ago

tipperary

Speaking as someone who runs club nights I always like to give the younger unverified guys a chance to attend . And 9 times out of 10 they don’t show . Think it might be the fear of the unknown. It’s a shame cos I love the younger lads personally . Great old craic .

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By *TFandMPCouple
over a year ago

Wexford and Dublin

In our experience we have found younger people to be unreliable when it comes to meeting which is unfortunate. Last minute change of plans or cancelling or not knowing what they want to do, when they want to do it or if they want to do anything at all.

There are likely younger people on the scene that are reliable, we just haven’t found them yet. We won’t give up just yet

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We only meet with younger guys and in general we have had no problems. We suspect that this is mainly because we know what we are looking for, and won't compromise on that, making it easier to sort the wheat from the chaff.

Younger guys do get a bit of a bad press, and in fairness there is generally good reason behind that. However, there are always exeptions, and the guys we have met had been exceptional.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Speaking as someone who runs club nights I always like to give the younger unverified guys a chance to attend . And 9 times out of 10 they don’t show . Think it might be the fear of the unknown. It’s a shame cos I love the younger lads personally . Great old craic .

"

I'd like to attend a club night at some point but it does sound a bit daunting especially if these guys have never had a meet before. Not knowing what to expect, being one of the youngest people in the room is hard. Something I'll look into further down the road.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you to everyone who has contributed their opinions, very informative

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