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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello everyone,

I'm new here and I've been having some difficulty getting involved in the community. It's been over three months, and I still haven't been able to make any friends or connections. It's a bit disheartening.

If anyone has any advice or tips, I'd greatly appreciate it. I'm also open to casual chats and getting to know new people, so please feel free to say hi or hello. Everyone is welcome.

Thank you in advance for any help!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello everyone,

I'm new here and I've been having some difficulty getting involved in the community. It's been over three months, and I still haven't been able to make any friends or connections. It's a bit disheartening.

If anyone has any advice or tips, I'd greatly appreciate it. I'm also open to casual chats and getting to know new people, so please feel free to say hi or hello. Everyone is welcome.

Thank you in advance for any help!"

You have a profile pic .. and a verification

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

It's here on the forums you'll make connections.Just be honest about yourself don't be cocky and show respect to others and you'll be grand on here.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

What efforts have you made so far to become involved in the community?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's here on the forums you'll make connections.Just be honest about yourself don't be cocky and show respect to others and you'll be grand on here."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Absolutely, making connections on forums is a great approach. Being genuine, humble, and respectful towards others goes a long way in fostering positive interactions and building relationships in these online communities.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well at the moment looking for a social meet up. That’s would be a start I believe.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ve a one verification so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely, making connections on forums is a great approach. Being genuine, humble, and respectful towards others goes a long way in fostering positive interactions and building relationships in these online communities. "
exactly. I'm the Queen of killing threads as you can see lol

Goodnight x Louise

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for inputs I really appreciate it

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"Well at the moment looking for a social meet up. That’s would be a start I believe. "

Why not attend an organised social? They are all advertised here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is there next meet up in Dublin ?

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By *astelloWoman
over a year ago

Far far away

Agreed, socials is a great way to break the ice and meet some nice ppl plus opportunity to get additional veris.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Trying to catch one

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"Trying to catch one "

Keep an eye on the forums

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By *an I Kiss youMan
over a year ago

Manchester City Centre

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/ireland/1483798

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Keep an eye on DV8 next social. It is a great place to start.

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

Forums, socials, , prioritising meeting up with people and having unique selling points all important .

On a side note , everything about the profile screams out ‘bicurious’ yet it says straight on the profile . This paragraph is a whole load of code :

‘ My versatile personality allows me to adapt to any situation, always valuing discretion. I'm excited to connect with captivating individuals, including women and couples, and eager to explore a variety of delightful experiences together ‘

I think you need to be clear about that , especially given your veri. One way or another .

Your video is with a woman who hasn’t verified you . Does she know her genitals are on fab ? This and the above are the sort of questions people wondering whether to meet you will be asking in my opinion. I know I would be.

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

Funny how they moan about meets but willing to do nothing to get into that called community cracks me up...I've offered coffee meets numerous times...but all I hear back...if there is no shag why would I meet?!or I'm not gonna waste my time just for a coffee meet

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home


"Funny how they moan about meets but willing to do nothing to get into that called community cracks me up...I've offered coffee meets numerous times...but all I hear back...if there is no shag why would I meet?!or I'm not gonna waste my time just for a coffee meet "
I don't know how you can expect sex to a first meet. there's no guarantee you will like a person when you meet them.

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By *ifes GoodMan
over a year ago

Irelands Atlantic Way, Algarve


"Funny how they moan about meets but willing to do nothing to get into that called community cracks me up...I've offered coffee meets numerous times...but all I hear back...if there is no shag why would I meet?!or I'm not gonna waste my time just for a coffee meet "

I didn’t even get a coffee out of you never mind a shag

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
over a year ago

kinkytown


"Funny how they moan about meets but willing to do nothing to get into that called community cracks me up...I've offered coffee meets numerous times...but all I hear back...if there is no shag why would I meet?!or I'm not gonna waste my time just for a coffee meet "

Got that a few times ourselves

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

Social events are the way to go. Everyone is friendly. You'll meet men and women and maybe make a few friends. That's when doors start to open if you're interested in taking part in swinging as a community.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Apologies.. if you have next coffee .. I am down to attend it … I would like to stand out ..

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By *llthewaysMan
over a year ago

City centre/Naas

Socials and coffee/tea meets are good to see if you click with people anyway.

I haven't found posting on the forums has made me any friends but I enjoy it. Hopefully it contributes to things.

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

[Removed by poster at 08/08/23 13:23:12]

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

Your profile reads like a linkedin blurb and is jam-packed with cliches….

ps - “Impeccable sense of style ” is in the eye of the beholder.

Be yourself !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forums, socials, , prioritising meeting up with people and having unique selling points all important .

On a side note , everything about the profile screams out ‘bicurious’ yet it says straight on the profile . This paragraph is a whole load of code :

‘ My versatile personality allows me to adapt to any situation, always valuing discretion. I'm excited to connect with captivating individuals, including women and couples, and eager to explore a variety of delightful experiences together ‘

I think you need to be clear about that , especially given your veri. One way or another .

Your video is with a woman who hasn’t verified you . Does she know her genitals are on fab ? This and the above are the sort of questions people wondering whether to meet you will be asking in my opinion. I know I would be. "
Having just read your post I took a look at the the video. I was thinking I had seen it before so I checked on my Skype chats and there it was! Sent to me by a supposedly female I’d been chatting with on Skype !

Dodgy profiles everywhere

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway


"Forums, socials, , prioritising meeting up with people and having unique selling points all important .

On a side note , everything about the profile screams out ‘bicurious’ yet it says straight on the profile . This paragraph is a whole load of code :

‘ My versatile personality allows me to adapt to any situation, always valuing discretion. I'm excited to connect with captivating individuals, including women and couples, and eager to explore a variety of delightful experiences together ‘

I think you need to be clear about that , especially given your veri. One way or another .

Your video is with a woman who hasn’t verified you . Does she know her genitals are on fab ? This and the above are the sort of questions people wondering whether to meet you will be asking in my opinion. I know I would be. Having just read your post I took a look at the the video. I was thinking I had seen it before so I checked on my Skype chats and there it was! Sent to me by a supposedly female I’d been chatting with on Skype !

Dodgy profiles everywhere "

Another one busted!

Even it wasn’t fake, a bareback fucking vid or pic on a single guys profile is not a good look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forums, socials, , prioritising meeting up with people and having unique selling points all important .

On a side note , everything about the profile screams out ‘bicurious’ yet it says straight on the profile . This paragraph is a whole load of code :

‘ My versatile personality allows me to adapt to any situation, always valuing discretion. I'm excited to connect with captivating individuals, including women and couples, and eager to explore a variety of delightful experiences together ‘

I think you need to be clear about that , especially given your veri. One way or another .

Your video is with a woman who hasn’t verified you . Does she know her genitals are on fab ? This and the above are the sort of questions people wondering whether to meet you will be asking in my opinion. I know I would be. Having just read your post I took a look at the the video. I was thinking I had seen it before so I checked on my Skype chats and there it was! Sent to me by a supposedly female I’d been chatting with on Skype !

Dodgy profiles everywhere

Another one busted!

Even it wasn’t fake, a bareback fucking vid or pic on a single guys profile is not a good look"

Previous poster it correct! Does that unfortunate woman know she has been recorded and posted online? I doubt it very much !

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin


"Your profile reads like a linkedin blurb and is jam-packed with cliches….

ps - “Impeccable sense of style ” is in the eye of the beholder.

Be yourself !! "

While I agrees with others that there are certainly aspects of the profile what may arouse suspicion and perhaps put some people off we should also probably be mindful that English may not be the OP’s first language.

Having said that, saying you’re clean shaven in your bio while you appear to have a beard in your pics is confusing, unless you weren’t talking about your face of course.

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

City Centre, Dublin


"Absolutely, making connections on forums is a great approach. Being genuine, humble, and respectful towards others goes a long way in fostering positive interactions and building relationships in these online communities. "

It’s not Linkedin, take it easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely, making connections on forums is a great approach. Being genuine, humble, and respectful towards others goes a long way in fostering positive interactions and building relationships in these online communities.

It’s not Linkedin, take it easy"

Maybe he's looking for deeper market penetrations?

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

Reads like ChatGPT wrote it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I am trying

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West


"I know "

If you use the Reply and Quote button on the post you want to reply to we'll know what you are referencing

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford

You say on this post that your on here over 3 months. Your pictures & verification are 8 to 10 month's old. Your profile says you joined 10 month's ago aswell. Like which is it 3, 8 or 10 month's?

I'm not having a go at you, far from it. You need to be clearer with all of that, along with the other problems that's already said by the other's in the different posts above. As they could be red flags & keep people away from you.

Be yourself on every front from the forum to social meets. Interact more on the forum. There's threads about socials that's happening in or around Dublin. Don't be waiting for a social to come up, just around Dublin, if you can at all.

Be thankful you've got 1 meet verified. Loads on here don't even have that yet.

Good with everything OP.

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford


"Funny how they moan about meets but willing to do nothing to get into that called community cracks me up...I've offered coffee meets numerous times...but all I hear back...if there is no shag why would I meet?!or I'm not gonna waste my time just for a coffee meet "

You've never offered a coffee meet to me.

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane


"Funny how they moan about meets but willing to do nothing to get into that called community cracks me up...I've offered coffee meets numerous times...but all I hear back...if there is no shag why would I meet?!or I'm not gonna waste my time just for a coffee meet

I didn’t even get a coffee out of you never mind a shag "

Tough Shit.lol

Can't have it all...Next time you won't get a thing for this.

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane


"Funny how they moan about meets but willing to do nothing to get into that called community cracks me up...I've offered coffee meets numerous times...but all I hear back...if there is no shag why would I meet?!or I'm not gonna waste my time just for a coffee meet

You've never offered a coffee meet to me. "

You never wanted.lol

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane


"Funny how they moan about meets but willing to do nothing to get into that called community cracks me up...I've offered coffee meets numerous times...but all I hear back...if there is no shag why would I meet?!or I'm not gonna waste my time just for a coffee meet I don't know how you can expect sex to a first meet. there's no guarantee you will like a person when you meet them."

Plenty of them who are looking for a shag on a first meet...sad that really must be real desperate

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Funny how they moan about meets but willing to do nothing to get into that called community cracks me up...I've offered coffee meets numerous times...but all I hear back...if there is no shag why would I meet?!or I'm not gonna waste my time just for a coffee meet I don't know how you can expect sex to a first meet. there's no guarantee you will like a person when you meet them.

Plenty of them who are looking for a shag on a first meet...sad that really must be real desperate "

In fairness there's plenty of both sexes that will have sex on a first meet if there's some sort of a spark....don't mean desperation

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford


"Funny how they moan about meets but willing to do nothing to get into that called community cracks me up...I've offered coffee meets numerous times...but all I hear back...if there is no shag why would I meet?!or I'm not gonna waste my time just for a coffee meet

You've never offered a coffee meet to me.

You never wanted.lol"

How can I want it, (IF) it's never offered to me in the first place(hand to ear)?

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