FabSwingers.com forum: Coffee meet

By *lassy lady 216 OP Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

You have been chatting to a guy for a few wks just general chitchat nothing sexual anyway you both agree to meet for coffee you both agree before hand that it's just for coffee but you get to the arranged place you are both getting in like a house on fire and you decide that you would like it to turn into more than coffee how do you let the other person know lol

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By *arry and AnnCouple
over a year ago

Louth

'Pity this is just a social..'

WINK WINK

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

You'd have to actually jump me as I have been blind to every kind of signal my whole life and been jumped more than once.

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Tell them

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

“We need to take this somewhere else”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hit it with a txt something like this...! I was thinking we show jump straight to dessert

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By *llthewaysMan
over a year ago

City centre/Naas

"Tell them "

This.

We are grown ups on a swinger site. Might as well be open about things. If they aren't interested then and there they will say and it will be all good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make the first move, most guys wait until the lady makes a move, I do

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast

This happened me some years ago with someone who I met on another site, but who is now on fab. As luck had it, we met in an hotel bar but I thought it was just for coffee/drinks. Anyway, after a while, she said, to my surprise and delight, 'so will we get a room?' Which we did. And we're both still very glad she did!

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Say it straight out

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By *lassy lady 216 OP Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

"Make the first move, most guys wait until the lady makes a move, I do

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I'm useless a making the first move I like the man to take control lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I too am useless at making the first moves.

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By *lassy lady 216 OP Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

" Hit it with a txt something like this...! I was thinking we show jump straight to dessert

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I like your thinking very bold lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Hit it with a txt something like this...! I was thinking we show jump straight to dessert

I like your thinking very bold lol"
i bet he.s thinking the same.dont over think it..just go with it.and enjoy.

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By *lassy lady 216 OP Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

Will do thanks x

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By *om TangoMan
over a year ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

Surely he could read ur body language and make the move.

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By *j TruckerMan
over a year ago

monaghan

Simply tell them that it's going well and you'd be willing to take it for them

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Fancy a shag?

Guys dig chicks who don't beat around the bush

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By *om TangoMan
over a year ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

"Fancy a shag?

Guys dig chicks who don't beat around the bush

Nothing as sexy as a woman saying let’s fuck

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By *j TruckerMan
over a year ago

monaghan

As gentle as a sledgehammer lol

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

He's a lucky man classy a very lucky man

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By *j TruckerMan
over a year ago

monaghan

"He's a lucky man classy a very lucky man "
on that weekend all agree

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

Classy Lady I really hope you’re not still in the coffee shop reading these and deciding what to do?

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

As someone else wrote in a thread

Hand him your knickers and say you need a hand putting them back on

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By *amsevenMan
over a year ago

cork

Say.. 'i came for a coffee, didn't think I'd want dessert so bad' whilst doing best Sharon stone impression

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

Just jump him ..

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By *adger BrocMan
over a year ago

Co. Cork

" Hit it with a txt something like this...! I was thinking we show jump straight to dessert

Might try that line at the RDS in a couple of weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be honest and say it

Only you to find out by her reaction

All grownups here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just jump him ..

Like that one but would it work the other way around

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By *ealmc1973Man
over a year ago

Limerick, Clare, Tipperary

^^^ No, it wouldn't work the other way around.

Blokes are simple minded creatures, so gentle persuasion, like: I wanna fuck you right now, work miracles

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By *lay rock69Man
over a year ago

monaghan

So did do tell him

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By *oobopMan
over a year ago

Ballinasloe

Lol good advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you know if you have her undivided attention or vicia versa! If she/ or he is distracted and eyes wandering elsewhere it’s time to get the bill and say goodbye

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"As someone else wrote in a thread

Hand him your knickers and say you need a hand putting them back on

Would ripped tights work aswell yeno just asking like

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"As someone else wrote in a thread

Hand him your knickers and say you need a hand putting them back on

Would ripped tights work aswell yeno just asking like

Yeah that and a silk mask dropped on the floor be grand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As someone else wrote in a thread

Hand him your knickers and say you need a hand putting them back on

Would ripped tights work aswell yeno just asking like

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they would substitute for handcuffs if you came unprepared

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By *elfast_man100Man
over a year ago

Belfast

You had no problem when we met for coffee Classy

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

Yeah, as said above we're all adults. Just say it, as blatantly or as subtly as you like

last time it happened me we'd just been having the chats/cuppa and was asked "so do you want to leave this as just a social or will we take it upstairs" and it went from there.

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By *lassy lady 216 OP Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

So just a quick update the coffee social wasn't just a coffee social just spent an amazing afternoon with a very sexy and horny guy and I was just upfront and said to him so you want to come back to mine "thanks for all the comments some of them made me laugh x

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By *lay rock69Man
over a year ago

monaghan

"So just a quick update the coffee social wasn't just a coffee social just spent an amazing afternoon with a very sexy and horny guy and I was just upfront and said to him so you want to come back to mine "thanks for all the comments some of them made me laugh x"

Well that great to hear lucky guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excellent! Glad you went for it. Had the same experience recently and I'm still buzzing from it.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

"You have been chatting to a guy for a few wks just general chitchat nothing sexual anyway you both agree to meet for coffee you both agree before hand that it's just for coffee but you get to the arranged place you are both getting in like a house on fire and you decide that you would like it to turn into more than coffee how do you let the other person know lol "

Good to the bathroom

Come back out and put you knickers on the table

Not talk necessary

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

Ah everyone loves a good news story, good on ya!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just say i know where you will get a better cup.

If he asks where tell him your bra

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By *astelloWoman
over a year ago

Far far away

"You'd have to actually jump me as I have been blind to every kind of signal my whole life and been jumped more than once.

Where is my trampoline

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good for you Emma!

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By *lassy lady 216 OP Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

Thanks Mrs we need to grab another coffee sometime soon would be great to catch up x

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By *ub23Man
over a year ago

wandering

Hand on the leg usually works or just general flirty touching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Say it as it is,a lady with showing confidence is a huge turn on for me

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

"Tell them "

This

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