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"Would like some advice on this. I am a single gut, not the best body, can't accom, not much to stand me out from the mass of single guys looking for a MF couple, until we get a chance to meet. I am not giving any luck getting responses and have put a pic of my cock on my profile as I genuinely think it is my best chance of getting noticed, but absolutely get why couples feel they have seen enough of them. Any advice, keep it up or take it down?" Everyman has a dick pic on this site but only the clever ones keep them private ..that’s my advice from a man | |||
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"I personally don't get turned on by them, you could literally put a picture of your hand up. Try to get fit though, lots of the guys are, so the boys are up against it, maybe try to exude a little sexuality through your body. " Fab needs a Fav button for comments | |||
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"Would like some advice on this. I am a single gut, not the best body, can't accom, not much to stand me out from the mass of single guys looking for a MF couple, until we get a chance to meet. I am not giving any luck getting responses and have put a pic of my cock on my profile as I genuinely think it is my best chance of getting noticed, but absolutely get why couples feel they have seen enough of them. Any advice, keep it up or take it down?" To be fair, it's a pretty impressive cock! | |||
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"Would like some advice on this. I am a single gut, not the best body, can't accom, not much to stand me out from the mass of single guys looking for a MF couple, until we get a chance to meet. I am not giving any luck getting responses and have put a pic of my cock on my profile as I genuinely think it is my best chance of getting noticed, but absolutely get why couples feel they have seen enough of them. Any advice, keep it up or take it down?" You may think you don't have the best body, but you might be surprised how many women prefer a 'dad bod' over an athletic one. I can't see much bar your dick in first pic but from what I can see you aren't coming from as bad a place as you think. As for dick pics, I'll admit I put one on public now and again. I try steer clear of close ups tho but some probably like them | |||
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"I personally don't get turned on by them, you could literally put a picture of your hand up. Try to get fit though, lots of the guys are, so the boys are up against it, maybe try to exude a little sexuality through your body. " Try to get fit Can you imagine if a guy set that to a curvy woman Bud you do you . Put up the pics your comfortable with ... teasing pics like silhouette of cock or shirt with no pants from behind etc . Tend to go well . Have a look in the pics section and see what you think you my like to try. Good luck | |||
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"I personally don't get turned on by them, you could literally put a picture of your hand up. Try to get fit though, lots of the guys are, so the boys are up against it, maybe try to exude a little sexuality through your body. Fab needs a Fav button for comments " Affs lad ... I tried to ignore this but honestly it'd be wrong if I did. We have spent decades trying to guess the world to stop making women feel like they have to be a certain way and now it's seeping into men feeling the same, And you actually want to be a part of that? The world is hard enough without making people self-conscious | |||
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"Thanks, practical hints there." Press the reply+quote button underneath the message you're replying to makes it's easier to see who your answering | |||
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"... now if only they felt the same way about my cock!!!" Lols, do ya like my fanjo???.... Sexy innit? | |||
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"... now if only they felt the same way about my cock!!!" Ah Barry thats a grand cock Not too sure about the thong though Love it thought ..... you do you | |||
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"I personally don't get turned on by them, you could literally put a picture of your hand up. Try to get fit though, lots of the guys are, so the boys are up against it, maybe try to exude a little sexuality through your body. Fab needs a Fav button for comments Affs lad ... I tried to ignore this but honestly it'd be wrong if I did. We have spent decades trying to guess the world to stop making women feel like they have to be a certain way and now it's seeping into men feeling the same, And you actually want to be a part of that? The world is hard enough without making people self-conscious " We may disagree a lot of the time but not on this occasion | |||
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"... now if only they felt the same way about my cock!!! Lols, do ya like my fanjo???.... Sexy innit? " Fanjo is a new word for me! I'm sure that your fanjo is very nice | |||
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"I personally don't get turned on by them, you could literally put a picture of your hand up. Try to get fit though, lots of the guys are, so the boys are up against it, maybe try to exude a little sexuality through your body. " so the cuddly people on here haven't a chance in your eyes I take it. | |||
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"Would like some advice on this. I am a single gut, not the best body, can't accom, not much to stand me out from the mass of single guys looking for a MF couple, until we get a chance to meet. I am not giving any luck getting responses and have put a pic of my cock on my profile as I genuinely think it is my best chance of getting noticed, but absolutely get why couples feel they have seen enough of them. Any advice, keep it up or take it down?" OP, your being to hard on yourself. Nothing wrong with a cock pic on a profile, maybe add a few pictures with it. You'll get a better response with a profile pic alright. I personally am far from ripped/fit meself. If people don't like it/me. No harm done, I'm being meself. Do whatever you want to do OP. It's your profile, at the end of the day. | |||
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"I personally don't get turned on by them, you could literally put a picture of your hand up. Try to get fit though, lots of the guys are, so the boys are up against it, maybe try to exude a little sexuality through your body. so the cuddly people on here haven't a chance in your eyes I take it. " No in fairness, I often find curvy women attractive and I m a big believer in bright, sparkly, fun, engaging people. But I guess the reality is we all look at pictures and we are visual and it's usually the pictures that grab our attention. I like a ripped man, but I m also nervous with them, because I m curve and have wobbly bits myself. | |||
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"I personally don't get turned on by them, you could literally put a picture of your hand up. Try to get fit though, lots of the guys are, so the boys are up against it, maybe try to exude a little sexuality through your body. so the cuddly people on here haven't a chance in your eyes I take it. No in fairness, I often find curvy women attractive and I m a big believer in bright, sparkly, fun, engaging people. But I guess the reality is we all look at pictures and we are visual and it's usually the pictures that grab our attention. I like a ripped man, but I m also nervous with them, because I m curve and have wobbly bits myself. " The problem is when people like me who are carrying a little bit of weight read comments like yours we ask ourselves are we really wasting our time on here.just let you know word's hurt. I'll leave it there and hopefully in the future people will think a little before they comment. | |||
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"For me a profile with no profile pic is a no As for a cock and fanny pic and cock up your arse it really is a turn off, that's just my opinion, less is more " I agree cock pic turn off I no pic but we met back in day old friend | |||
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"I personally don't get turned on by them, you could literally put a picture of your hand up. Try to get fit though, lots of the guys are, so the boys are up against it, maybe try to exude a little sexuality through your body. so the cuddly people on here haven't a chance in your eyes I take it. No in fairness, I often find curvy women attractive and I m a big believer in bright, sparkly, fun, engaging people. But I guess the reality is we all look at pictures and we are visual and it's usually the pictures that grab our attention. I like a ripped man, but I m also nervous with them, because I m curve and have wobbly bits myself. The problem is when people like me who are carrying a little bit of weight read comments like yours we ask ourselves are we really wasting our time on here.just let you know word's hurt. I'll leave it there and hopefully in the future people will think a little before they comment." . I m sorry, I didn't mean to hurt your feelings, I m sure you are very sexy. | |||
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"Would like some advice on this. I am a single gut, not the best body, can't accom, not much to stand me out from the mass of single guys looking for a MF couple, until we get a chance to meet. I am not giving any luck getting responses and have put a pic of my cock on my profile as I genuinely think it is my best chance of getting noticed, but absolutely get why couples feel they have seen enough of them. Any advice, keep it up or take it down?" If you think your cock is the best way to get noticed then you’ve a lot to learn | |||
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"I personally don't get turned on by them, you could literally put a picture of your hand up. Try to get fit though, lots of the guys are, so the boys are up against it, maybe try to exude a little sexuality through your body. so the cuddly people on here haven't a chance in your eyes I take it. No in fairness, I often find curvy women attractive and I m a big believer in bright, sparkly, fun, engaging people. But I guess the reality is we all look at pictures and we are visual and it's usually the pictures that grab our attention. I like a ripped man, but I m also nervous with them, because I m curve and have wobbly bits myself. The problem is when people like me who are carrying a little bit of weight read comments like yours we ask ourselves are we really wasting our time on here.just let you know word's hurt. I'll leave it there and hopefully in the future people will think a little before they comment.. I m sorry, I didn't mean to hurt your feelings, I m sure you are very sexy. " ya I would go that far | |||
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"I think he is being hard on himself, OP S body looks fit to me. I put up a profile pic of a roasted leg of lamb, and it got attention.... People thought it was a turd and I was hinting at wanting to poop on them.Fab is a pretty mad place at times.... Lols " Now I feel like just putting random shit up to see the reaction ???????? | |||
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"I think he is being hard on himself, OP S body looks fit to me. I put up a profile pic of a roasted leg of lamb, and it got attention.... People thought it was a turd and I was hinting at wanting to poop on them.Fab is a pretty mad place at times.... Lols Now I feel like just putting random shit up to see the reaction ????????" Do it, for the laugh.... Lols x | |||
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"For me a profile with no profile pic is a no As for a cock and fanny pic and cock up your arse it really is a turn off, that's just my opinion, less is more I agree cock pic turn off I no pic but we met back in day old friend " You never let me put on your garda hat on lol | |||
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"I think he is being hard on himself, OP S body looks fit to me. I put up a profile pic of a roasted leg of lamb, and it got attention.... People thought it was a turd and I was hinting at wanting to poop on them.Fab is a pretty mad place at times.... Lols Now I feel like just putting random shit up to see the reaction ????????" Put ya g string up | |||
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"Let's have a cock and fanjo amnesty day. Everyone get them up on their profile pictures for 24 hours!!!" You start | |||
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"I personally don't get turned on by them, you could literally put a picture of your hand up. Try to get fit though, lots of the guys are, so the boys are up against it, maybe try to exude a little sexuality through your body. so the cuddly people on here haven't a chance in your eyes I take it. No in fairness, I often find curvy women attractive and I m a big believer in bright, sparkly, fun, engaging people. But I guess the reality is we all look at pictures and we are visual and it's usually the pictures that grab our attention. I like a ripped man, but I m also nervous with them, because I m curve and have wobbly bits myself. " I don't think you need to worry about your little wobbly bits. And yer man doesn't need to worry about his bod. Being comfortable and confident with what you have is the most attractive thing. In the end, in person and a profile are hard to match right. | |||
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"I think he is being hard on himself, OP S body looks fit to me. I put up a profile pic of a roasted leg of lamb, and it got attention.... People thought it was a turd and I was hinting at wanting to poop on them.Fab is a pretty mad place at times.... Lols Now I feel like just putting random shit up to see the reaction ???????? Do it, for the laugh.... Lols x" It's a pity it takes so long to get through the pending.... I have 3 on from earlier. But yeah I will see if random shit can work. Maybe I will start a new thread of random shit... | |||
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"I think he is being hard on himself, OP S body looks fit to me. I put up a profile pic of a roasted leg of lamb, and it got attention.... People thought it was a turd and I was hinting at wanting to poop on them.Fab is a pretty mad place at times.... Lols Now I feel like just putting random shit up to see the reaction ???????? Put ya g string up " Feck no too uncomfortable..... A pice of strip will do the same | |||
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"Let's have a cock and fanjo amnesty day. Everyone get them up on their profile pictures for 24 hours!!! You start " Ladies first, surely? | |||
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"If its not too personal a question Was there roasties and gravy with the lamb " No just the meat | |||
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"Let's have a cock and fanjo amnesty day. Everyone get them up on their profile pictures for 24 hours!!! You start Ladies first, surely?" I asked first | |||
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"Shocking lack of high quality pics of good, hard, well groomed cocks on here in my opinion. OP if you've got it flaunt it. Make me drool. But if it's a hairy limp thing hanging over an unflushed toilet, you can keep that on private. " straight to the point you know what you like | |||
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"Let's have a cock and fanjo amnesty day. Everyone get them up on their profile pictures for 24 hours!!! You start Ladies first, surely? I asked first " It's rude not to let a lady go first | |||
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"Let's have a cock and fanjo amnesty day. Everyone get them up on their profile pictures for 24 hours!!! You start Ladies first, surely? I asked first It's rude not to let a lady go first" Gowan .. I'm not a lady .. well I am | |||
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"Let's have a cock and fanjo amnesty day. Everyone get them up on their profile pictures for 24 hours!!! You start Ladies first, surely? I asked first It's rude not to let a lady go first Gowan .. I'm not a lady .. well I am" Well, if you are one then off you go. It'll be a chance to be more "Grrrr!" | |||
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"Let's have a cock and fanjo amnesty day. Everyone get them up on their profile pictures for 24 hours!!! You start Ladies first, surely? I asked first It's rude not to let a lady go first Gowan .. I'm not a lady .. well I am Well, if you are one then off you go. It'll be a chance to be more "Grrrr!" " I'm going to me leaba .. got a pic my eyes are hurting a pic of a cheap hobknob lol.. Great banter ya mad shit x | |||
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"Let's have a cock and fanjo amnesty day. Everyone get them up on their profile pictures for 24 hours!!! You start Ladies first, surely? I asked first It's rude not to let a lady go first Gowan .. I'm not a lady .. well I am Well, if you are one then off you go. It'll be a chance to be more "Grrrr!" I'm going to me leaba .. got a pic my eyes are hurting a pic of a cheap hobknob lol.. Great banter ya mad shit x " Sleep tight | |||
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"I wonder what % of male fab members have gym bodies vs dad bods? I imagine most fab males would be dad bods. If a gym bod (male or female) reckons a dad bod should "get fit", that screams to me (Mr) that a) they're shallow, and b) they don't understand or haven't experienced that it isn't the gym body that's the turn on - it's far more than that. When browsing fab profiles, I (Mr) almost always scroll past a "perfect" gym body profile pic without having a look at the profile. It'll be the half-dressed, teasing or playful pic that catches my eye. Perhaps women on fab care more about male's body shapes than sex appeal - chubby men can have very impressive charisma and personality and sex appeal. After being on here a while now, I can see how cock pics would prompt disinterest in a woman - a modest/average sized cock on a man with huge charisma will surely appeal more than a huge cock on a dull man? Yes, we have a cock pic in our profile pics, but I (Mr) see P as being the sexier half of our couple, so there are more pics of her than me. A cock is a cock is a cock... no? A group of pics can't really present the fullest picture of how sexy and sexual a person or couple can be, can they? " Well said.. | |||
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"What is a man? Only a cock o a pair of legs!!!! Joke, night xxxx to all those lovely gabby cocks and fanjos, nighty x" If a man said this about a woman all hell would break loose... Men shouldn't condemn these kinda comments either... | |||
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"What is a man? Only a cock o a pair of legs!!!! Joke, night xxxx to all those lovely gabby cocks and fanjos, nighty x If a man said this about a woman all hell would break loose... Men shouldn't condemn these kinda comments either..." these types of comments are not on whether you are joking or not | |||
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"What is a man? Only a cock o a pair of legs!!!! Joke, night xxxx to all those lovely gabby cocks and fanjos, nighty x If a man said this about a woman all hell would break loose... Men shouldn't condemn these kinda comments either... these types of comments are not on whether you are joking or not " No there not..if a man had said a woman was a fanny on legs I guarantee u there would be hell from everyone | |||
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"What is a man? Only a cock o a pair of legs!!!! Joke, night xxxx to all those lovely gabby cocks and fanjos, nighty x If a man said this about a woman all hell would break loose... Men shouldn't condemn these kinda comments either... these types of comments are not on whether you are joking or not No there not..if a man had said a woman was a fanny on legs I guarantee u there would be hell from everyone " 100% correct | |||
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"Sorry I'm a newbie here, does OP mean original poster? If so thank everyone for your comments, makes more sense now." It means exactly that. | |||
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"Sorry I'm a newbie here, does OP mean original poster? If so thank everyone for your comments, makes more sense now. It means exactly that. " Most people think we are cocky and that’s far enough without having to look at them too ! | |||
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"What is a man? Only a cock o a pair of legs!!!! Joke, night xxxx to all those lovely gabby cocks and fanjos, nighty x" You set the bar fairly low for yourself don't ya ? | |||
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"OP look at other guys profiles, look at those that have verifications, those that don’t, see if there is a pattern or what those that are successful do. Not all will be Greek gods. It not easy out there but where there’s a will there’s a way." Absolutely. Think of the time spent looking at profiles and messaging that feels absolutely fruitless and instead invest that time in your profile and your social interactions and see what happens. | |||
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"No harm in having them if you wanna, but only 1 and make the rest something classier." What could possibly be classier than a big hard cock? | |||
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"OP look at other guys profiles, look at those that have verifications, those that don’t, see if there is a pattern or what those that are successful do. Not all will be Greek gods. It not easy out there but where there’s a will there’s a way. Absolutely. Think of the time spent looking at profiles and messaging that feels absolutely fruitless and instead invest that time in your profile and your social interactions and see what happens." Wise man | |||
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