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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary

Shoutout to all the newbies out there that don’t really know what they r doing

But looking to get involved

Let me help u make some introductions give u an understanding of the scene

Let me extend the invitation to join us

Requirements

Sense of humour (I’m a sarcastic b)

Curiousity

Respectful

Looking for verification and or experiences

Not required

A holes

If anyone has any interest please comment below or feel free to dm

Mwah

Have a good day

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By *heershaftMan
over a year ago

Ferrybank

Not a newbie here, but seem to have trouble getting the ladies, any pointers or advice welcome???

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary


"Not a newbie here, but seem to have trouble getting the ladies, any pointers or advice welcome???"
if u want my honest opinion based on ur profile

1. Ur attached

2. Your age

I’d imagine a very small section of the fab crowd would be looking for this that’s not saying they aren’t here but ur gonna have to graft to find these women.

That’s my honest opinion

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Shoutout to all the newbies out there that don’t really know what they r doing

But looking to get involved

Let me help u make some introductions give u an understanding of the scene

Let me extend the invitation to join us

Requirements

Sense of humour (I’m a sarcastic b)

Curiousity

Respectful

Looking for verification and or experiences

Not required

A holes

If anyone has any interest please comment below or feel free to dm

Mwah

Have a good day

"

Thats sound

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary

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By *adger BrocMan
over a year ago

Co. Cork


"Not a newbie here, but seem to have trouble getting the ladies, any pointers or advice welcome???"

Your relationship status and age may not be the issue.

Many ladies on here who would not see either as a problem.

Perhaps being Bi-curious and having a preference for mf couples may be what is discouraging the "ladies" from engaging with you.

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By *ohnroy22Man
over a year ago

ennis

Having trouble meeting women

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By *amsevenMan
over a year ago

cork

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here a while but only really starting to get involved now, all tips and suggestions welcome

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary

I do wonder what single guys expect when they sign up for fab ? No disrespect intended

I’m just curious as to what u think it’s gonna be like and what it actually is like for a new bloke on here ?

Do u think it’s just gonna be horny women on tap ? Or what r ur pre conceived ideas ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do wonder what single guys expect when they sign up for fab ? No disrespect intended

I’m just curious as to what u think it’s gonna be like and what it actually is like for a new bloke on here ?

Do u think it’s just gonna be horny women on tap ? Or what r ur pre conceived ideas ? "

I think most realistic single men know it’s gonna be hard graft and genuine effort that get you meets…

however when you read some of the statuses and comments on here there’s a fair bit of delusion going on I think

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary


"I do wonder what single guys expect when they sign up for fab ? No disrespect intended

I’m just curious as to what u think it’s gonna be like and what it actually is like for a new bloke on here ?

Do u think it’s just gonna be horny women on tap ? Or what r ur pre conceived ideas ?

I think most realistic single men know it’s gonna be hard graft and genuine effort that get you meets…

however when you read some of the statuses and comments on here there’s a fair bit of delusion going on I think "

In what sense , continue ….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do wonder what single guys expect when they sign up for fab ? No disrespect intended

I’m just curious as to what u think it’s gonna be like and what it actually is like for a new bloke on here ?

Do u think it’s just gonna be horny women on tap ? Or what r ur pre conceived ideas ?

I think most realistic single men know it’s gonna be hard graft and genuine effort that get you meets…

however when you read some of the statuses and comments on here there’s a fair bit of delusion going on I think

In what sense , continue …."

As in men who can’t understand why they’re not getting meets and when you look at their profile there’s negativity or awful grammar or blurry pics of their ballsack

If you approached someone in a bar and said ‘hey I’ve no time for time wasters lol love blowjobs lol check out my blurry ballsack’ it wouldn’t work out would it so why do they think here is any different?

The main thing most lads just don’t seem to get that unless you’re literally Henry Cavill’s long lost twin it is not gonna be easy for you… so make an effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having trouble meeting women "

Probably your pics just saying

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary


"I do wonder what single guys expect when they sign up for fab ? No disrespect intended

I’m just curious as to what u think it’s gonna be like and what it actually is like for a new bloke on here ?

Do u think it’s just gonna be horny women on tap ? Or what r ur pre conceived ideas ?

I think most realistic single men know it’s gonna be hard graft and genuine effort that get you meets…

however when you read some of the statuses and comments on here there’s a fair bit of delusion going on I think

In what sense , continue ….

As in men who can’t understand why they’re not getting meets and when you look at their profile there’s negativity or awful grammar or blurry pics of their ballsack

If you approached someone in a bar and said ‘hey I’ve no time for time wasters lol love blowjobs lol check out my blurry ballsack’ it wouldn’t work out would it so why do they think here is any different?

The main thing most lads just don’t seem to get that unless you’re literally Henry Cavill’s long lost twin it is not gonna be easy for you… so make an effort "

I like u

I like men

And tbh the majority of men I have met on here have been brand new.

Ur absolutely correct in what ur saying

There’s not a woman on the planet that’s gonna look at a close up wrinkly ball sack pic and think damn I wanna pump that

I think a picture says a thousand words so make them aesthetically pleasing

Don’t send opening messages that say “hi”

Introduce urself. And not in a one message for all type msg .

I do feel sorry for the guys cos it’s a tough nut to crack

I thought about doing a social with myself and all unverified males

The mother Teresa of fab

Lol

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary


"Having trouble meeting women

Probably your pics just saying "

Ur ruthless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do wonder what single guys expect when they sign up for fab ? No disrespect intended

I’m just curious as to what u think it’s gonna be like and what it actually is like for a new bloke on here ?

Do u think it’s just gonna be horny women on tap ? Or what r ur pre conceived ideas ? "

I’ve been on this on & off 1st time was probably the hardest to get a msg read never mind a reply so I learnt straight away it wasn’t wall to wall with sex mad women .. few profiles down and a lot of lessons learnt & meeting lots of lovely people over the years. I realised It’s how you approach it learn to make your msg stand out and if your msg is read have some pics up & if you’re on it years & you haven’t met anyone then there’s obviously something wrong with your approach and if you can’t or don’t learn from it there’s no point being here … I await the backlash

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary


"I do wonder what single guys expect when they sign up for fab ? No disrespect intended

I’m just curious as to what u think it’s gonna be like and what it actually is like for a new bloke on here ?

Do u think it’s just gonna be horny women on tap ? Or what r ur pre conceived ideas ?

I’ve been on this on & off 1st time was probably the hardest to get a msg read never mind a reply so I learnt straight away it wasn’t wall to wall with sex mad women .. few profiles down and a lot of lessons learnt & meeting lots of lovely people over the years. I realised It’s how you approach it learn to make your msg stand out and if your msg is read have some pics up & if you’re on it years & you haven’t met anyone then there’s obviously something wrong with your approach and if you can’t or don’t learn from it there’s no point being here … I await the backlash "

I often see that 4 ye old profiles no veris I’m like wtf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do wonder what single guys expect when they sign up for fab ? No disrespect intended

I’m just curious as to what u think it’s gonna be like and what it actually is like for a new bloke on here ?

Do u think it’s just gonna be horny women on tap ? Or what r ur pre conceived ideas ?

I think most realistic single men know it’s gonna be hard graft and genuine effort that get you meets…

however when you read some of the statuses and comments on here there’s a fair bit of delusion going on I think

In what sense , continue ….

As in men who can’t understand why they’re not getting meets and when you look at their profile there’s negativity or awful grammar or blurry pics of their ballsack

If you approached someone in a bar and said ‘hey I’ve no time for time wasters lol love blowjobs lol check out my blurry ballsack’ it wouldn’t work out would it so why do they think here is any different?

The main thing most lads just don’t seem to get that unless you’re literally Henry Cavill’s long lost twin it is not gonna be easy for you… so make an effort

I like u

I like men

And tbh the majority of men I have met on here have been brand new.

Ur absolutely correct in what ur saying

There’s not a woman on the planet that’s gonna look at a close up wrinkly ball sack pic and think damn I wanna pump that

I think a picture says a thousand words so make them aesthetically pleasing

Don’t send opening messages that say “hi”

Introduce urself. And not in a one message for all type msg .

I do feel sorry for the guys cos it’s a tough nut to crack

I thought about doing a social with myself and all unverified males

The mother Teresa of fab

Lol "

Mother Teresa was an evil piece of work so you could be onto something there

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary


"I do wonder what single guys expect when they sign up for fab ? No disrespect intended

I’m just curious as to what u think it’s gonna be like and what it actually is like for a new bloke on here ?

Do u think it’s just gonna be horny women on tap ? Or what r ur pre conceived ideas ?

I’ve been on this on & off 1st time was probably the hardest to get a msg read never mind a reply so I learnt straight away it wasn’t wall to wall with sex mad women .. few profiles down and a lot of lessons learnt & meeting lots of lovely people over the years. I realised It’s how you approach it learn to make your msg stand out and if your msg is read have some pics up & if you’re on it years & you haven’t met anyone then there’s obviously something wrong with your approach and if you can’t or don’t learn from it there’s no point being here … I await the backlash "

Not sure why you’d get backlash for speaking the truth oh wait yeah that’s why cos ur speaking absolute facts

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary


"I do wonder what single guys expect when they sign up for fab ? No disrespect intended

I’m just curious as to what u think it’s gonna be like and what it actually is like for a new bloke on here ?

Do u think it’s just gonna be horny women on tap ? Or what r ur pre conceived ideas ?

I think most realistic single men know it’s gonna be hard graft and genuine effort that get you meets…

however when you read some of the statuses and comments on here there’s a fair bit of delusion going on I think

In what sense , continue ….

As in men who can’t understand why they’re not getting meets and when you look at their profile there’s negativity or awful grammar or blurry pics of their ballsack

If you approached someone in a bar and said ‘hey I’ve no time for time wasters lol love blowjobs lol check out my blurry ballsack’ it wouldn’t work out would it so why do they think here is any different?

The main thing most lads just don’t seem to get that unless you’re literally Henry Cavill’s long lost twin it is not gonna be easy for you… so make an effort

I like u

I like men

And tbh the majority of men I have met on here have been brand new.

Ur absolutely correct in what ur saying

There’s not a woman on the planet that’s gonna look at a close up wrinkly ball sack pic and think damn I wanna pump that

I think a picture says a thousand words so make them aesthetically pleasing

Don’t send opening messages that say “hi”

Introduce urself. And not in a one message for all type msg .

I do feel sorry for the guys cos it’s a tough nut to crack

I thought about doing a social with myself and all unverified males

The mother Teresa of fab

Lol

Mother Teresa was an evil piece of work so you could be onto something there "

Was she actually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shoutout to all the newbies out there that don’t really know what they r doing

But looking to get involved

Let me help u make some introductions give u an understanding of the scene

Let me extend the invitation to join us

Requirements

Sense of humour (I’m a sarcastic b)

Curiousity

Respectful

Looking for verification and or experiences

Not required

A holes

If anyone has any interest please comment below or feel free to dm

Mwah

Have a good day

"

Not a newb.... But still haven't a fucking clue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She was indeed, google Christopher Hitchens mother Teresa and watch the documentary

A cruel piece of work she was

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary

Ok well I’m not her I don’t have a cruel bone in me body think of another saint

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary


"Shoutout to all the newbies out there that don’t really know what they r doing

But looking to get involved

Let me help u make some introductions give u an understanding of the scene

Let me extend the invitation to join us

Requirements

Sense of humour (I’m a sarcastic b)

Curiousity

Respectful

Looking for verification and or experiences

Not required

A holes

If anyone has any interest please comment below or feel free to dm

Mwah

Have a good day

Not a newb.... But still haven't a fucking clue "

Not a clue as to why ur here or how to go about meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New this time lol but really finding it hard to get a meet any advice be welcomed

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary


"New this time lol but really finding it hard to get a meet any advice be welcomed "
welcome to u and ur ball sack Eddie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

DICK PICS

Is it working for you?

No

Try something else

That’s my advice

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary

I just noted there’s none on yours

I’m absolutely disgusted :-

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just noted there’s none on yours

I’m absolutely disgusted :- "

That was a clever ply to get you to look

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary


"I just noted there’s none on yours

I’m absolutely disgusted :-

That was a clever ply to get you to look "

I was already looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just noted there’s none on yours

I’m absolutely disgusted :-

That was a clever ply to get you to look

I was already looking "

Likewise I even counted all the Tiles in your second pic .. 12

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary


"I just noted there’s none on yours

I’m absolutely disgusted :-

That was a clever ply to get you to look

I was already looking

Likewise I even counted all the Tiles in your second pic .. 12 "

Hahahahhah

Ok u win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"New this time lol but really finding it hard to get a meet any advice be welcomed welcome to u and ur ball sack Eddie

"

thank you lala

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just noted there’s none on yours

I’m absolutely disgusted :-

That was a clever ply to get you to look

I was already looking

Likewise I even counted all the Tiles in your second pic .. 12

Hahahahhah

Ok u win "

Thank you … enjoyed bantering back and forth with ya

Think there might be a lesson here for some

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary


"I just noted there’s none on yours

I’m absolutely disgusted :-

That was a clever ply to get you to look

I was already looking

Likewise I even counted all the Tiles in your second pic .. 12

Hahahahhah

Ok u win

Thank you … enjoyed bantering back and forth with ya

Think there might be a lesson here for some "

What might that be ?

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"I do wonder what single guys expect when they sign up for fab ? No disrespect intended

I’m just curious as to what u think it’s gonna be like and what it actually is like for a new bloke on here ?

Do u think it’s just gonna be horny women on tap ? Or what r ur pre conceived ideas ?

I think most realistic single men know it’s gonna be hard graft and genuine effort that get you meets…

however when you read some of the statuses and comments on here there’s a fair bit of delusion going on I think

In what sense , continue ….

As in men who can’t understand why they’re not getting meets and when you look at their profile there’s negativity or awful grammar or blurry pics of their ballsack

If you approached someone in a bar and said ‘hey I’ve no time for time wasters lol love blowjobs lol check out my blurry ballsack’ it wouldn’t work out would it so why do they think here is any different?

The main thing most lads just don’t seem to get that unless you’re literally Henry Cavill’s long lost twin it is not gonna be easy for you… so make an effort "

This isn't a bar ... or even close

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just noted there’s none on yours

I’m absolutely disgusted :-

That was a clever ply to get you to look

I was already looking

Likewise I even counted all the Tiles in your second pic .. 12

Hahahahhah

Ok u win

Thank you … enjoyed bantering back and forth with ya

Think there might be a lesson here for some

What might that be ?

"

How to interact

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary


"I just noted there’s none on yours

I’m absolutely disgusted :-

That was a clever ply to get you to look

I was already looking

Likewise I even counted all the Tiles in your second pic .. 12

Hahahahhah

Ok u win

Thank you … enjoyed bantering back and forth with ya

Think there might be a lesson here for some

What might that be ?

How to interact "

Thought u we’re gonna say how to count tiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just noted there’s none on yours

I’m absolutely disgusted :-

That was a clever ply to get you to look

I was already looking

Likewise I even counted all the Tiles in your second pic .. 12

Hahahahhah

Ok u win

Thank you … enjoyed bantering back and forth with ya

Think there might be a lesson here for some

What might that be ?

How to interact

Thought u we’re gonna say how to count tiles "

Hahahaha not many men would be able to concentrate as much as I had to

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary


"I just noted there’s none on yours

I’m absolutely disgusted :-

That was a clever ply to get you to look

I was already looking

Likewise I even counted all the Tiles in your second pic .. 12

Hahahahhah

Ok u win

Thank you … enjoyed bantering back and forth with ya

Think there might be a lesson here for some

What might that be ?

How to interact

Thought u we’re gonna say how to count tiles

Hahahaha not many men would be able to concentrate as much as I had to "

Well thanks

Wanna fuk ?

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary

I’ve had enough of this foreplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just noted there’s none on yours

I’m absolutely disgusted :-

That was a clever ply to get you to look

I was already looking

Likewise I even counted all the Tiles in your second pic .. 12

Hahahahhah

Ok u win

Thank you … enjoyed bantering back and forth with ya

Think there might be a lesson here for some

What might that be ?

How to interact

Thought u we’re gonna say how to count tiles

Hahahaha not many men would be able to concentrate as much as I had to "

Very hard to concentrate on tiles in that pic

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary

Think he’s gone back to recount

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve had enough of this foreplay "

I thought you were here giving people advice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think he’s gone back to recount "

He's counting the flowers in the first one now

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary


"I’ve had enough of this foreplay

I thought you were here giving people advice? "

This is the best advise I can give

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The amount of views on my profile with Dick pics as profile pic since posting ..

backlash comes in many shapes and forms

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary


"The amount of views on my profile with Dick pics as profile pic since posting ..

backlash comes in many shapes and forms "

So do orgasms let’s focus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The amount of views on my profile with Dick pics as profile pic since posting ..

backlash comes in many shapes and forms

So do orgasms let’s focus "

I’m over in the other thread where you said that cock was impressive … I must rob his pics

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary


"The amount of views on my profile with Dick pics as profile pic since posting ..

backlash comes in many shapes and forms

So do orgasms let’s focus

I’m over in the other thread where you said that cock was impressive … I must rob his pics "

Maybe u should read again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The amount of views on my profile with Dick pics as profile pic since posting ..

backlash comes in many shapes and forms

So do orgasms let’s focus

I’m over in the other thread where you said that cock was impressive … I must rob his pics

Maybe u should read again "

We having out first fight

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary


"The amount of views on my profile with Dick pics as profile pic since posting ..

backlash comes in many shapes and forms

So do orgasms let’s focus

I’m over in the other thread where you said that cock was impressive … I must rob his pics

Maybe u should read again

We having out first fight "

Maybe

Look forward to the make up

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Fuck sake I leave for an hour to drive home and you two havent got a room yet

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary


"Fuck sake I leave for an hour to drive home and you two havent got a room yet "

I’m trying not to come on too strong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck sake I leave for an hour to drive home and you two havent got a room yet "

I was thinking the same .. are they a couple??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The amount of views on my profile with Dick pics as profile pic since posting ..

backlash comes in many shapes and forms

So do orgasms let’s focus

I’m over in the other thread where you said that cock was impressive … I must rob his pics

Maybe u should read again

We having out first fight

Maybe

Look forward to the make up "

Make up sex is worth fighting for

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary


"Fuck sake I leave for an hour to drive home and you two havent got a room yet

I was thinking the same .. are they a couple??"

A couple of ?

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary


"The amount of views on my profile with Dick pics as profile pic since posting ..

backlash comes in many shapes and forms

So do orgasms let’s focus

I’m over in the other thread where you said that cock was impressive … I must rob his pics

Maybe u should read again

We having out first fight

Maybe

Look forward to the make up

Make up sex is worth fighting for "

Agreed

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over a year ago


"The amount of views on my profile with Dick pics as profile pic since posting ..

backlash comes in many shapes and forms

So do orgasms let’s focus

I’m over in the other thread where you said that cock was impressive … I must rob his pics

Maybe u should read again

We having out first fight

Maybe

Look forward to the make up

Make up sex is worth fighting for

Agreed "

This is like Dogging in the Forums with all the people watching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The amount of views on my profile with Dick pics as profile pic since posting ..

backlash comes in many shapes and forms

So do orgasms let’s focus

I’m over in the other thread where you said that cock was impressive … I must rob his pics

Maybe u should read again

We having out first fight

Maybe

Look forward to the make up

Make up sex is worth fighting for

Agreed

This is like Dogging in the Forums with all the people watching "

Lol its on my bucket list .. just saying

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Fuck sake I leave for an hour to drive home and you two havent got a room yet

I’m trying not to come on too strong "

I think you're being too subtle myself ....

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary


"The amount of views on my profile with Dick pics as profile pic since posting ..

backlash comes in many shapes and forms

So do orgasms let’s focus

I’m over in the other thread where you said that cock was impressive … I must rob his pics

Maybe u should read again

We having out first fight

Maybe

Look forward to the make up

Make up sex is worth fighting for

Agreed

This is like Dogging in the Forums with all the people watching "

I didn’t even notice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The amount of views on my profile with Dick pics as profile pic since posting ..

backlash comes in many shapes and forms

So do orgasms let’s focus

I’m over in the other thread where you said that cock was impressive … I must rob his pics

Maybe u should read again

We having out first fight

Maybe

Look forward to the make up

Make up sex is worth fighting for

Agreed

This is like Dogging in the Forums with all the people watching

I didn’t even notice "

I noticed after counting the tiles

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary


"The amount of views on my profile with Dick pics as profile pic since posting ..

backlash comes in many shapes and forms

So do orgasms let’s focus

I’m over in the other thread where you said that cock was impressive … I must rob his pics

Maybe u should read again

We having out first fight

Maybe

Look forward to the make up

Make up sex is worth fighting for

Agreed

This is like Dogging in the Forums with all the people watching

I didn’t even notice

I noticed after counting the tiles "

So what now ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The amount of views on my profile with Dick pics as profile pic since posting ..

backlash comes in many shapes and forms

So do orgasms let’s focus

I’m over in the other thread where you said that cock was impressive … I must rob his pics

Maybe u should read again

We having out first fight

Maybe

Look forward to the make up

Make up sex is worth fighting for

Agreed

This is like Dogging in the Forums with all the people watching

I didn’t even notice

I noticed after counting the tiles

So what now ? "

Sell tickets or get a room

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary


"The amount of views on my profile with Dick pics as profile pic since posting ..

backlash comes in many shapes and forms

So do orgasms let’s focus

I’m over in the other thread where you said that cock was impressive … I must rob his pics

Maybe u should read again

We having out first fight

Maybe

Look forward to the make up

Make up sex is worth fighting for

Agreed

This is like Dogging in the Forums with all the people watching

I didn’t even notice

I noticed after counting the tiles

So what now ?

Sell tickets or get a room "

We have to follow through with this

It’s either gonna be mind blowing or shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The amount of views on my profile with Dick pics as profile pic since posting ..

backlash comes in many shapes and forms

So do orgasms let’s focus

I’m over in the other thread where you said that cock was impressive … I must rob his pics

Maybe u should read again

We having out first fight

Maybe

Look forward to the make up

Make up sex is worth fighting for

Agreed

This is like Dogging in the Forums with all the people watching

I didn’t even notice

I noticed after counting the tiles

So what now ?

Sell tickets or get a room

We have to follow through with this

It’s either gonna be mind blowing or shit "

Depends how much the tickets are

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary


"The amount of views on my profile with Dick pics as profile pic since posting ..

backlash comes in many shapes and forms

So do orgasms let’s focus

I’m over in the other thread where you said that cock was impressive … I must rob his pics

Maybe u should read again

We having out first fight

Maybe

Look forward to the make up

Make up sex is worth fighting for

Agreed

This is like Dogging in the Forums with all the people watching

I didn’t even notice

I noticed after counting the tiles

So what now ?

Sell tickets or get a room

We have to follow through with this

It’s either gonna be mind blowing or shit

Depends how much the tickets are "

Priceless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The amount of views on my profile with Dick pics as profile pic since posting ..

backlash comes in many shapes and forms

So do orgasms let’s focus

I’m over in the other thread where you said that cock was impressive … I must rob his pics

Maybe u should read again

We having out first fight

Maybe

Look forward to the make up

Make up sex is worth fighting for

Agreed

This is like Dogging in the Forums with all the people watching

I didn’t even notice

I noticed after counting the tiles

So what now ?

Sell tickets or get a room

We have to follow through with this

It’s either gonna be mind blowing or shit

Depends how much the tickets are

Priceless "

Ooooooooohhh … does that mean the rooms cheaper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

please follow through guys and keep us posted

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By *arryWhiteXxxMan
over a year ago

Midleton

The best approach is to have your cock in your profile picture. Women can't resist that...

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary

Thanks for the advice Barry white

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By *arryWhiteXxxMan
over a year ago

Midleton


"Thanks for the advice Barry white "

Only trying to help a brother out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the advice Barry white "

Night Gorgeous x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm heading to my bed

Goodnight all

Sweet dreams x lou

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary


"Thanks for the advice Barry white

Night Gorgeous x "

See u in ur wet dreams

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary


"I'm heading to my bed

Goodnight all

Sweet dreams x lou "

Good night doll x

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

This has been very instructive

I'm off to photograph my ballsack.

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary


"This has been very instructive

I'm off to photograph my ballsack."

please share ur technique

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By *huCullainMan
over a year ago

Rathowen


"This has been very instructive

I'm off to photograph my ballsack.please share ur technique "

And brand of antiwrinkle cream used

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary


"This has been very instructive

I'm off to photograph my ballsack.please share ur technique

And brand of antiwrinkle cream used "

The real advise people need on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This has been very instructive

I'm off to photograph my ballsack.please share ur technique

And brand of antiwrinkle cream used

The real advise people need on here "

Reminded of the Billy Connolly bit about god being told there was a bunch of elbow skin left over after creating Adam. And him going - "make a wee bag for his balls"!

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West


"This has been very instructive

I'm off to photograph my ballsack.please share ur technique

And brand of antiwrinkle cream used "

Just set a timer, place the phone on the ground and straddle after slathering on a generous knob of Kerrygold.

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary

Interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This has been very instructive

I'm off to photograph my ballsack.please share ur technique

And brand of antiwrinkle cream used

Just set a timer, place the phone on the ground and straddle after slathering on a generous knob of Kerrygold."

Don't forget to baste and rotate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This has been very instructive

I'm off to photograph my ballsack.please share ur technique

And brand of antiwrinkle cream used

Just set a timer, place the phone on the ground and straddle after slathering on a generous knob of Kerrygold.

Don't forget to baste and rotate "

Sure throw in an aul' sugar glaze there. Make it a nice and tasty teabag

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary

Not a word from him today lads I’m distraught

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin


"Not a word from him today lads I’m distraught "

In need of consolation?……

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary


"Not a word from him today lads I’m distraught

In need of consolation?…… "

Yes console me

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By *arryWhiteXxxMan
over a year ago

Midleton


"Not a word from him today lads I’m distraught "

Who are you waiting to hear from?

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By *rad25irlMan
over a year ago

Carrigaline

Not a newbie but can say it takes some time to get the intial veri in (thanks mmmmmmmm )

And even then really hard for a single guy to get any consistent interaction with a female or cpl

That said, I’m enjoying the voyeur side of it and seeing all the interactions in forums and videos and reading veris of all the fun the real fab people are having..

One of these days…..

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Not a newbie but can say it takes some time to get the intial veri in (thanks mmmmmmmm )

And even then really hard for a single guy to get any consistent interaction with a female or cpl

That said, I’m enjoying the voyeur side of it and seeing all the interactions in forums and videos and reading veris of all the fun the real fab people are having..

One of these days….. "

I think your first two lines sums up the site for alot of genuine single men.

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

[Removed by poster at 01/08/23 16:56:38]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a word from him today lads I’m distraught

In need of consolation?……

Yes console me "

Honey I’m home

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West


"Not a newbie but can say it takes some time to get the intial veri in (thanks mmmmmmmm )

And even then really hard for a single guy to get any consistent interaction with a female or cpl

That said, I’m enjoying the voyeur side of it and seeing all the interactions in forums and videos and reading veris of all the fun the real fab people are having..

One of these days….. I think your first two lines sums up the site for alot of genuine single men. "

By _electableicecreamFind posts by _electableicecream Man

just this minute!

Galway

I have to say when I started I read a lot of posts like that and genuinely set myself up for a slow burn bit in the end that hasn't been my experience at all

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By *rad25irlMan
over a year ago

Carrigaline


"Not a newbie but can say it takes some time to get the intial veri in (thanks mmmmmmmm )

And even then really hard for a single guy to get any consistent interaction with a female or cpl

That said, I’m enjoying the voyeur side of it and seeing all the interactions in forums and videos and reading veris of all the fun the real fab people are having..

One of these days….. I think your first two lines sums up the site for alot of genuine single men.

By _electableicecreamFind posts by _electableicecream Man

just this minute!

Galway

I have to say when I started I read a lot of posts like that and genuinely set myself up for a slow burn bit in the end that hasn't been my experience at all"

I guess it helps to be young(er) and fit/ripped then

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West


"

I guess it helps to be young(er) and fit/ripped then "

I could be both of those things and still banging my head against the wall!

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary


"Not a word from him today lads I’m distraught

In need of consolation?……

Yes console me

Honey I’m home "

Babe I missed u

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Not a word from him today lads I’m distraught

In need of consolation?……

Yes console me

Honey I’m home "

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

XxlalaXX

I'm not sure I ever understood your original post but if you need find you need multiple consolations...

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary


"XxlalaXX

I'm not sure I ever understood your original post but if you need find you need multiple consolations... "

Mate I dunno wtf is goin on here but I’m down for whatever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a word from him today lads I’m distraught

In need of consolation?……

Yes console me

Honey I’m home

Babe I missed u "

Aww missed you 2 ….what’s for Tea

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin


"Not a word from him today lads I’m distraught

In need of consolation?……

Yes console me

Honey I’m home

Babe I missed u

Aww missed you 2 ….what’s for Tea "

Oh FFS, I turn my back for two mins and look who turns up again…..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a word from him today lads I’m distraught

In need of consolation?……

Yes console me

Honey I’m home

Babe I missed u

Aww missed you 2 ….what’s for Tea

Oh FFS, I turn my back for two mins and look who turns up again….. "

OMG his willies longer than my leg ..I feel so inadequate

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Not a word from him today lads I’m distraught

In need of consolation?……

Yes console me

Honey I’m home

Babe I missed u

Aww missed you 2 ….what’s for Tea

Oh FFS, I turn my back for two mins and look who turns up again…..

OMG his willies longer than my leg ..I feel so inadequate "

But can he tile a bathroom

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary


"Not a word from him today lads I’m distraught

In need of consolation?……

Yes console me

Honey I’m home

Babe I missed u

Aww missed you 2 ….what’s for Tea "

Breasts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a word from him today lads I’m distraught

In need of consolation?……

Yes console me

Honey I’m home

Babe I missed u

Aww missed you 2 ….what’s for Tea

Breasts "

So that means there’s plenty for tea

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary


"Not a word from him today lads I’m distraught

In need of consolation?……

Yes console me

Honey I’m home

Babe I missed u

Aww missed you 2 ….what’s for Tea

Breasts

So that means there’s plenty for tea "

2 fried eggs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a word from him today lads I’m distraught

In need of consolation?……

Yes console me

Honey I’m home

Babe I missed u

Aww missed you 2 ….what’s for Tea

Breasts

So that means there’s plenty for tea

2 fried eggs "

Ah Cmon they must be fried Dinosaurs Eggs then

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary


"Not a word from him today lads I’m distraught

In need of consolation?……

Yes console me

Honey I’m home

Babe I missed u

Aww missed you 2 ….what’s for Tea

Breasts

So that means there’s plenty for tea

2 fried eggs

Ah Cmon they must be fried Dinosaurs Eggs then "

You’ll never be hungry with these

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a word from him today lads I’m distraught

In need of consolation?……

Yes console me

Honey I’m home

Babe I missed u

Aww missed you 2 ….what’s for Tea

Breasts

So that means there’s plenty for tea

2 fried eggs

Ah Cmon they must be fried Dinosaurs Eggs then

You’ll never be hungry with these "

Could feed a small army & some

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary


"Not a word from him today lads I’m distraught

In need of consolation?……

Yes console me

Honey I’m home

Babe I missed u

Aww missed you 2 ….what’s for Tea

Breasts

So that means there’s plenty for tea

2 fried eggs

Ah Cmon they must be fried Dinosaurs Eggs then

You’ll never be hungry with these

Could feed a small army & some "

Thanks I guess

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By *lameclubnightsWoman
over a year ago

ireland

Can u count the tiles in this one lollllllll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can u count the tiles in this one lollllllll

"

Ok you’re either switching profiles or God has sent me twins

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary


"Can u count the tiles in this one lollllllll

Ok you’re either switching profiles or God has sent me twins "

I wouldn’t wish 2 of me on ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can u count the tiles in this one lollllllll

Ok you’re either switching profiles or God has sent me twins

I wouldn’t wish 2 of me on ya "

Leave the wishing to me

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By *arl2020Man
over a year ago

ENNISKILLEN

Fab not a easy place been on it a long time and I was on it before having better luck this time around tho but still slow it hard for single guys I understand but I don't take it 2 serious just move on and take it on the chin.

What annoys me tho is women and couples complain about fakes and been messed about and no shows when myself and plenty of men up for meets but don't get the time of day like women have it up looking a meet u msg and get no reply are get a no are blocked I always be polite and send a face pic straight away I know I'm not everyone cup of tea and then I take it when I'm blocked they must know me lol fab is crazy I've had some great meets and some great nights but still very hard to get meets I get more offers from men for fun but I'm straight only into women

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary


"Fab not a easy place been on it a long time and I was on it before having better luck this time around tho but still slow it hard for single guys I understand but I don't take it 2 serious just move on and take it on the chin.

What annoys me tho is women and couples complain about fakes and been messed about and no shows when myself and plenty of men up for meets but don't get the time of day like women have it up looking a meet u msg and get no reply are get a no are blocked I always be polite and send a face pic straight away I know I'm not everyone cup of tea and then I take it when I'm blocked they must know me lol fab is crazy I've had some great meets and some great nights but still very hard to get meets I get more offers from men for fun but I'm straight only into women"

I see what ur saying

But I think what fab was originally designed for ( the swinging community) and what it’s being used for now are completely different

Unfortunately the website hasn’t progressed

There are other apps that the modern day sexually open outgoing explorative curious minds would thrive on instead of here but they just don’t know about them .

Discretion & nsa are in my opinion a given when hooking up with someone regardless of where u meet them . Online offline down the pub in the supermarket wherever .

And maybe people r happy here who knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab not a easy place been on it a long time and I was on it before having better luck this time around tho but still slow it hard for single guys I understand but I don't take it 2 serious just move on and take it on the chin.

What annoys me tho is women and couples complain about fakes and been messed about and no shows when myself and plenty of men up for meets but don't get the time of day like women have it up looking a meet u msg and get no reply are get a no are blocked I always be polite and send a face pic straight away I know I'm not everyone cup of tea and then I take it when I'm blocked they must know me lol fab is crazy I've had some great meets and some great nights but still very hard to get meets I get more offers from men for fun but I'm straight only into women

I see what ur saying

But I think what fab was originally designed for ( the swinging community) and what it’s being used for now are completely different

Unfortunately the website hasn’t progressed

There are other apps that the modern day sexually open outgoing explorative curious minds would thrive on instead of here but they just don’t know about them .

Discretion & nsa are in my opinion a given when hooking up with someone regardless of where u meet them . Online offline down the pub in the supermarket wherever .

And maybe people r happy here who knows

"

Well said lala

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab not a easy place been on it a long time and I was on it before having better luck this time around tho but still slow it hard for single guys I understand but I don't take it 2 serious just move on and take it on the chin.

What annoys me tho is women and couples complain about fakes and been messed about and no shows when myself and plenty of men up for meets but don't get the time of day like women have it up looking a meet u msg and get no reply are get a no are blocked I always be polite and send a face pic straight away I know I'm not everyone cup of tea and then I take it when I'm blocked they must know me lol fab is crazy I've had some great meets and some great nights but still very hard to get meets I get more offers from men for fun but I'm straight only into women"

Perhaps those "plenty of men up for meets" at the particular time they're looking aren't who/what they're looking for.

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary

Ur right timing is a massive thing

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By *arl2020Man
over a year ago

ENNISKILLEN

Fab is a crazy world as I said don't take it 2 serious

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By *llthewaysMan
over a year ago

City centre/Naas

There is an element of luck to it as well, message being seen at the right time, person in the right mood, etc.

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By *arl2020Man
over a year ago

ENNISKILLEN

Like I've had meets only last week I got a meet on holidays and got a few verifications but I'm just giving my opinion it's fab where all here for the same reason to have fun and social thing from it I'm a single guy and I'm discreet if I was with someone inwudnt be on this but some plp are full of shit on this looking for meets and then give out that they can't get them are place is full of time wasters myself included and friends has shown a interest for a meet only to get knocked back are blocked are slated what do plp expect it's a sex site a swingers site I just don't jump into having fun with anyone I can be very picky but I still understand it's only a fun and a swingers site all here for the same reason so it is hard for single guys

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary

It’s hard for single ladies too u know

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West


"Like I've had meets only last week I got a meet on holidays and got a few verifications but I'm just giving my opinion it's fab where all here for the same reason to have fun and social thing from it I'm a single guy and I'm discreet if I was with someone inwudnt be on this but some plp are full of shit on this looking for meets and then give out that they can't get them are place is full of time wasters myself included and friends has shown a interest for a meet only to get knocked back are blocked are slated what do plp expect it's a sex site a swingers site I just don't jump into having fun with anyone I can be very picky but I still understand it's only a fun and a swingers site all here for the same reason so it is hard for single guys "

I'm not sure I understand that sentence.

You have loads of veri's and plenty of meets but you're annoyed that some people don't want to meet other people and perhaps they should be more grateful that guys like you are available and not complain that the time they invest in other people sometimes turns out to be a disappointment?

So in a nutshell. Not everybody has the right to be annoyed but some do?

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By *panishRebelMan
over a year ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland


"Shoutout to all the newbies out there that don’t really know what they r doing

But looking to get involved

Let me help u make some introductions give u an understanding of the scene

Let me extend the invitation to join us

Requirements

Sense of humour (I’m a sarcastic b)

Curiousity

Respectful

Looking for verification and or experiences

Not required

A holes

If anyone has any interest please comment below or feel free to dm

Mwah

Have a good day

"

I am not exactly new. I also am on other sites as I live in Spain.

It was pure curiosity brought me to such sites. During Covid.

I still prefer to meet people out. However, there is great craic when you meet someone open and unafraid of being honest about what they like, want, and are willing and not willing to do. The time taken to find this out from meeting people at a bar etc is so slow. So I stayed on a site called s. D. C. (without fullstops).

Then learned that in Ireland this was the best site.

To be honest I made loads of mistakes. I was always honest, but I would often say things in a way that didn't help. I am definitely better face to face. Getting a face to face for any man on a site like this is a bit of an art form. It takes time to learn the dos and donts.

Most of us men are not wired for the social cues, the way women seem more naturaly to be. So it is a process, of observation and learning, both from mistakes and questions on places like the forum.

However there seems to be, no place for the desperate. I refuse to be desperate. But I sometimes see it in the posts on the forum.

Desperation causes people to act desperatly, say desperate things and come across badly.

That doesn't mean such fellas ate bad, they might be brilliant. They probably just need a face to face.

Anyway.... That's enough from me for now.

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary

I totally get this

I’m the worst texter

Come across like an ignorant b but I’m a talker

I like conversation banter bouncing off each other

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By *panishRebelMan
over a year ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland


"I totally get this

I’m the worst texter

Come across like an ignorant b but I’m a talker

I like conversation banter bouncing off each other

"

Sometimes could be the best texter in the world but still the most boring clod face to face.

And ultimately, face to face is where things are really at.

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

For sure the medium has a huge effect. I love to chat over messages but dislike sexting. I like video chats with new people but avoid voice calls.

Things can fizzle out pretty quickly if text chat doesn't get off the ground and there might be missed opportunities but I figure if I like chatting over messages, and they like chatting over messages that's already pretty decent common ground so ces't la vis.

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary


"For sure the medium has a huge effect. I love to chat over messages but dislike sexting. I like video chats with new people but avoid voice calls.

Things can fizzle out pretty quickly if text chat doesn't get off the ground and there might be missed opportunities but I figure if I like chatting over messages, and they like chatting over messages that's already pretty decent common ground so ces't la vis."

Just like me and damoooooooooooo lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like I've had meets only last week I got a meet on holidays and got a few verifications but I'm just giving my opinion it's fab where all here for the same reason to have fun and social thing from it I'm a single guy and I'm discreet if I was with someone inwudnt be on this but some plp are full of shit on this looking for meets and then give out that they can't get them are place is full of time wasters myself included and friends has shown a interest for a meet only to get knocked back are blocked are slated what do plp expect it's a sex site a swingers site I just don't jump into having fun with anyone I can be very picky but I still understand it's only a fun and a swingers site all here for the same reason so it is hard for single guys "

So it's ok for you to be picky but the people who you're messaging when they have a meet up can't be and shouldn't be knocking back your offer? Oooookkkkaaaayy

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary

THE HYPOCRISY ON THIS

I TELL YA

SHOCKINGGGGV

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For sure the medium has a huge effect. I love to chat over messages but dislike sexting. I like video chats with new people but avoid voice calls.

Things can fizzle out pretty quickly if text chat doesn't get off the ground and there might be missed opportunities but I figure if I like chatting over messages, and they like chatting over messages that's already pretty decent common ground so ces't la vis.

Just like me and damoooooooooooo lol"

Night Shnuckums

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By *ollingwood69Man
over a year ago

Cork


"It’s hard for single ladies too u know "
wouldn't be much use if it wasn't hard I suppose

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary


"For sure the medium has a huge effect. I love to chat over messages but dislike sexting. I like video chats with new people but avoid voice calls.

Things can fizzle out pretty quickly if text chat doesn't get off the ground and there might be missed opportunities but I figure if I like chatting over messages, and they like chatting over messages that's already pretty decent common ground so ces't la vis.

Just like me and damoooooooooooo lol

Night Shnuckums "

U what

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West


"For sure the medium has a huge effect. I love to chat over messages but dislike sexting. I like video chats with new people but avoid voice calls.

Things can fizzle out pretty quickly if text chat doesn't get off the ground and there might be missed opportunities but I figure if I like chatting over messages, and they like chatting over messages that's already pretty decent common ground so ces't la vis.

Just like me and damoooooooooooo lol

Night Shnuckums "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For sure the medium has a huge effect. I love to chat over messages but dislike sexting. I like video chats with new people but avoid voice calls.

Things can fizzle out pretty quickly if text chat doesn't get off the ground and there might be missed opportunities but I figure if I like chatting over messages, and they like chatting over messages that's already pretty decent common ground so ces't la vis.

Just like me and damoooooooooooo lol

Night Shnuckums

U what "

Hahaha you’re wired

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary


"For sure the medium has a huge effect. I love to chat over messages but dislike sexting. I like video chats with new people but avoid voice calls.

Things can fizzle out pretty quickly if text chat doesn't get off the ground and there might be missed opportunities but I figure if I like chatting over messages, and they like chatting over messages that's already pretty decent common ground so ces't la vis.

Just like me and damoooooooooooo lol

Night Shnuckums

U what

Hahaha you’re wired "

U better believe it babycakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For sure the medium has a huge effect. I love to chat over messages but dislike sexting. I like video chats with new people but avoid voice calls.

Things can fizzle out pretty quickly if text chat doesn't get off the ground and there might be missed opportunities but I figure if I like chatting over messages, and they like chatting over messages that's already pretty decent common ground so ces't la vis.

Just like me and damoooooooooooo lol

Night Shnuckums

U what

Hahaha you’re wired

U better believe it babycakes "

Oh I do .. some could learn a thing or 2 from it

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By *arl2020Man
over a year ago

ENNISKILLEN

Your getting me all wrong can't get my point across I'll be the bad guy are corrected on whatever I say so I'll shut up and say nothing I'm not a great txter either

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary


"Your getting me all wrong can't get my point across I'll be the bad guy are corrected on whatever I say so I'll shut up and say nothing I'm not a great txter either "

Calm down babe everybody has a right to their opinion we don’t have to agree or disagree

U be unapologetically u and if people do t like that well screw them

Stay true to urself

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By *arl2020Man
over a year ago

ENNISKILLEN

Thanks x

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin


"Not a word from him today lads I’m distraught

In need of consolation?……

Yes console me

Honey I’m home

Babe I missed u

Aww missed you 2 ….what’s for Tea

Oh FFS, I turn my back for two mins and look who turns up again…..

OMG his willies longer than my leg ..I feel so inadequate "

Penisextensions.turkey.com

You’re welcome…..


"But can he tile a bathroom "

Where the hell are these tiles people keep going on about?……

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Not a word from him today lads I’m distraught

In need of consolation?……

Yes console me

Honey I’m home

Babe I missed u

Aww missed you 2 ….what’s for Tea

Oh FFS, I turn my back for two mins and look who turns up again…..

OMG his willies longer than my leg ..I feel so inadequate

Penisextensions.turkey.com

You’re welcome…..

But can he tile a bathroom

Where the hell are these tiles people keep going on about?…… "

Op profile pictures.....2nd picture

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By *agic mike 1983Man
over a year ago

benidorm

I’m new here

Dunno what I’m doin to be honest

But I’ll get there hopefully

40 single limerick man ??

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By *amsevenMan
over a year ago

cork

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Fab not a easy place been on it a long time and I was on it before having better luck this time around tho but still slow it hard for single guys I understand but I don't take it 2 serious just move on and take it on the chin.

What annoys me tho is women and couples complain about fakes and been messed about and no shows when myself and plenty of men up for meets but don't get the time of day like women have it up looking a meet u msg and get no reply are get a no are blocked I always be polite and send a face pic straight away I know I'm not everyone cup of tea and then I take it when I'm blocked they must know me lol fab is crazy I've had some great meets and some great nights but still very hard to get meets I get more offers from men for fun but I'm straight only into women

I see what ur saying

But I think what fab was originally designed for ( the swinging community) and what it’s being used for now are completely different

Unfortunately the website hasn’t progressed

There are other apps that the modern day sexually open outgoing explorative curious minds would thrive on instead of here but they just don’t know about them .

Discretion & nsa are in my opinion a given when hooking up with someone regardless of where u meet them . Online offline down the pub in the supermarket wherever .

And maybe people r happy here who knows

"

Will you explain what fab was designed for originally... and in what way is it used completely differently now ?

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Shoutout to all the newbies out there that don’t really know what they r doing

But looking to get involved

Let me help u make some introductions give u an understanding of the scene

Let me extend the invitation to join us

Requirements

Sense of humour (I’m a sarcastic b)

Curiousity

Respectful

Looking for verification and or experiences

Not required

A holes

If anyone has any interest please comment below or feel free to dm

Mwah

Have a good day

I am not exactly new. I also am on other sites as I live in Spain.

It was pure curiosity brought me to such sites. During Covid.

I still prefer to meet people out. However, there is great craic when you meet someone open and unafraid of being honest about what they like, want, and are willing and not willing to do. The time taken to find this out from meeting people at a bar etc is so slow. So I stayed on a site called s. D. C. (without fullstops).

Then learned that in Ireland this was the best site.

To be honest I made loads of mistakes. I was always honest, but I would often say things in a way that didn't help. I am definitely better face to face. Getting a face to face for any man on a site like this is a bit of an art form. It takes time to learn the dos and donts.

Most of us men are not wired for the social cues, the way women seem more naturaly to be. So it is a process, of observation and learning, both from mistakes and questions on places like the forum.

However there seems to be, no place for the desperate. I refuse to be desperate. But I sometimes see it in the posts on the forum.

Desperation causes people to act desperatly, say desperate things and come across badly.

That doesn't mean such fellas ate bad, they might be brilliant. They probably just need a face to face.

Anyway.... That's enough from me for now. "

Truth be told desperation, difficulties, frustrations,mistakes whatever way you coin it ..on fab receives ridicule and belittling by large egos and even bigger lick arses.

When in actual fact it requires understanding and support.

Noone owes you understanding and support ... however I would be of the opinion we owe it to ourselves to be the better person. .

The amount if of the cuff bullshit that existed here .... well best way I can put it is its here because its not excepted irl

Onwards and upwards those finding it a wee bit difficult... your finding your way and you'll be ok if your true to yourself

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin


"Where the hell are these tiles people keep going on about?……

Op profile pictures.....2nd picture "

Nope, didn’t notice, I was too busy reading the profile……

PS, yes, I can tile a bathroom….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Newbie here and definitely don't have a clue! Not sure if one is related to the other though

To be honest, I'm not even sure what I'm looking for here, signed up on a whim and now feel like I'm in over my head, haha

Looking at the other people posting here, I'm starting to suspect I'm wearing way too much in my profile pic lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Newbie here and definitely don't have a clue! Not sure if one is related to the other though

To be honest, I'm not even sure what I'm looking for here, signed up on a whim and now feel like I'm in over my head, haha

Looking at the other people posting here, I'm starting to suspect I'm wearing way too much in my profile pic lol"

Stick with the suit brother. It's a good look, and you can tease the ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Newbie here and definitely don't have a clue! Not sure if one is related to the other though

To be honest, I'm not even sure what I'm looking for here, signed up on a whim and now feel like I'm in over my head, haha

Looking at the other people posting here, I'm starting to suspect I'm wearing way too much in my profile pic lol"

Showing off you are! That's a big gait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Newbie here and definitely don't have a clue! Not sure if one is related to the other though

To be honest, I'm not even sure what I'm looking for here, signed up on a whim and now feel like I'm in over my head, haha

Looking at the other people posting here, I'm starting to suspect I'm wearing way too much in my profile pic lol

Showing off you are! That's a big gait "

Just say you're 5ft5, usually lads use optical illusions on their cocks.Not their gait

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By *cuk4funCouple
over a year ago

city centre

As a rule we dont meet single guys, but saying that , pics and what you have to say do make a difference . We've blocked guys on here for talking shite on their profile or status . We get " hi there " messages etc which is obviously not going to get a guy anywhere. As others have said, nice, tasteful pics and a bit of effort would help with the ladies .We had a 22 yr old message a few times until we told him we have coats older than 22

Guys who say they are single but can't accommodate are a no no as are those that say they can accomodate but when asked always find a reason to not be able to. Socials would seem to be the best way to mingle and get veris .

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West


"As a rule we dont meet single guys, but saying that , pics and what you have to say do make a difference . We've blocked guys on here for talking shite on their profile or status . We get " hi there " messages etc which is obviously not going to get a guy anywhere. As others have said, nice, tasteful pics and a bit of effort would help with the ladies .We had a 22 yr old message a few times until we told him we have coats older than 22

Guys who say they are single but can't accommodate are a no no as are those that say they can accomodate but when asked always find a reason to not be able to. Socials would seem to be the best way to mingle and get veris . "

The guys that can't accommodate one is tricky. I get it but some of us are just single parents

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway


"As a rule we dont meet single guys, but saying that , pics and what you have to say do make a difference . We've blocked guys on here for talking shite on their profile or status . We get " hi there " messages etc which is obviously not going to get a guy anywhere. As others have said, nice, tasteful pics and a bit of effort would help with the ladies .We had a 22 yr old message a few times until we told him we have coats older than 22

Guys who say they are single but can't accommodate are a no no as are those that say they can accomodate but when asked always find a reason to not be able to. Socials would seem to be the best way to mingle and get veris . "

Why should a guy be expected to compromise his security by inviting strangers over to his house?

Maybe he has housemates and that’s why he doesn’t accom.

Maybe he has kids.

Maybe he lives at home or cares for someone.

There’s many reasons why someone can’t accommodate.

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By *cuk4funCouple
over a year ago

city centre


"As a rule we dont meet single guys, but saying that , pics and what you have to say do make a difference . We've blocked guys on here for talking shite on their profile or status . We get " hi there " messages etc which is obviously not going to get a guy anywhere. As others have said, nice, tasteful pics and a bit of effort would help with the ladies .We had a 22 yr old message a few times until we told him we have coats older than 22

Guys who say they are single but can't accommodate are a no no as are those that say they can accomodate but when asked always find a reason to not be able to. Socials would seem to be the best way to mingle and get veris .

The guys that can't accommodate one is tricky. I get it but some of us are just single parents "

Fair point

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By *cuk4funCouple
over a year ago

city centre


"As a rule we dont meet single guys, but saying that , pics and what you have to say do make a difference . We've blocked guys on here for talking shite on their profile or status . We get " hi there " messages etc which is obviously not going to get a guy anywhere. As others have said, nice, tasteful pics and a bit of effort would help with the ladies .We had a 22 yr old message a few times until we told him we have coats older than 22

Guys who say they are single but can't accommodate are a no no as are those that say they can accomodate but when asked always find a reason to not be able to. Socials would seem to be the best way to mingle and get veris .

Why should a guy be expected to compromise his security by inviting strangers over to his house?

Maybe he has housemates and that’s why he doesn’t accom.

Maybe he has kids.

Maybe he lives at home or cares for someone.

There’s many reasons why someone can’t accommodate. "

Compromise his security ...Jesus it's a swingers site not the Facebook page of al Qaeda..

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

I dunno I think it's a fair point. I feel like if a woman said she wouldn't compromise her safety at home it wouldn't be questioned.

My house is also my children's home. Safety first and all that. Even if they weren't there at the time their photos, names and everything else is littered (literally) all over the house.

Just my point of view.

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway


"As a rule we dont meet single guys, but saying that , pics and what you have to say do make a difference . We've blocked guys on here for talking shite on their profile or status . We get " hi there " messages etc which is obviously not going to get a guy anywhere. As others have said, nice, tasteful pics and a bit of effort would help with the ladies .We had a 22 yr old message a few times until we told him we have coats older than 22

Guys who say they are single but can't accommodate are a no no as are those that say they can accomodate but when asked always find a reason to not be able to. Socials would seem to be the best way to mingle and get veris .

Why should a guy be expected to compromise his security by inviting strangers over to his house?

Maybe he has housemates and that’s why he doesn’t accom.

Maybe he has kids.

Maybe he lives at home or cares for someone.

There’s many reasons why someone can’t accommodate.

Compromise his security ...Jesus it's a swingers site not the Facebook page of al Qaeda.."

Curious as to why ye can’t accom?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dunno I think it's a fair point. I feel like if a woman said she wouldn't compromise her safety at home it wouldn't be questioned.

My house is also my children's home. Safety first and all that. Even if they weren't there at the time their photos, names and everything else is littered (literally) all over the house.

Just my point of view."

Yeah, I tend to agree. I realise the world is inherently more dangerous for women than for men in general, but I live on my own and would be very wary of inviting anyone I didn't know into my house...

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford


"Newbie here and definitely don't have a clue! Not sure if one is related to the other though

To be honest, I'm not even sure what I'm looking for here, signed up on a whim and now feel like I'm in over my head, haha

Looking at the other people posting here, I'm starting to suspect I'm wearing way too much in my profile pic lol

Stick with the suit brother. It's a good look, and you can tease the ladies

"

Ya, exactly

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford


"As a rule we dont meet single guys, but saying that , pics and what you have to say do make a difference . We've blocked guys on here for talking shite on their profile or status . We get " hi there " messages etc which is obviously not going to get a guy anywhere. As others have said, nice, tasteful pics and a bit of effort would help with the ladies .We had a 22 yr old message a few times until we told him we have coats older than 22

Guys who say they are single but can't accommodate are a no no as are those that say they can accomodate but when asked always find a reason to not be able to. Socials would seem to be the best way to mingle and get veris . "

I'm a single guy. I live alone aswell. It's very unlikely that I'd accommodate off the bat with a woman or a couple. That might change in the future. (Why?) For my personal security & Neighbour's (the less they the better). Each to they're own.

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary

Good evening ma lovelies

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin


"Good evening ma lovelies "

Who me?

Sorry, Damo is busy on another thread at the moment…..

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary


"Good evening ma lovelies

Who me?

Sorry, Damo is busy on another thread at the moment….. "

Is he

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford


"Good evening ma lovelies "

Good evening to you aswell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good evening ma lovelies "

Ahoy there miss

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin


"Good evening ma lovelies

Who me?

Sorry, Damo is busy on another thread at the moment…..

Is he "

Ah he’ll be along in a minute, I think he’s nearly finished over there….

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By *XlalaXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

tipperary


"Good evening ma lovelies

Who me?

Sorry, Damo is busy on another thread at the moment…..

Is he

Ah he’ll be along in a minute, I think he’s nearly finished over there…. "

What’s he doin or should I say who’s he doin

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