FabSwingers.com forum: Over 45

By *hinkimfucked OP Man
over a year ago

navan

Is it just me or if a man is over 45 he isn't wanted on here anymore?

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By *avrick180Man
over a year ago

Pontypool

Wait till you hit 51 down hill then can't even get a chat on here lol

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By *hinkimfucked OP Man
over a year ago

navan

You would think we are ready for the wooden box or something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are lots of men that age and older doing grand on Fab

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By *tagandVixen30sCouple
over a year ago

Carrick

we prefer older

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By *hinkimfucked OP Man
over a year ago

navan

"There are lots of men that age and older doing grand on Fab"

Probably couples more than just a man

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By *avrick180Man
over a year ago

Pontypool

More than likely or most looking for couples or bi men

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

Lots of male 45+ profiles do well on here...

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By *hilaboutMan
over a year ago

kilkenny

53 and have no complaints doing better now than my first yr here .it takes time n patience but really lovely understanding people here once you make connection

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By *avrick180Man
over a year ago

Pontypool

I can't see that iv been on here over 6 years and only ever had one meet

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By *hinkimfucked OP Man
over a year ago

navan

"Lots of male 45+ profiles do well on here..."

I must be a special case or special fuckin needs

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By *leasurer77Man
over a year ago

Athlone

I do see the age limit for many has a max of 45. My clock I definitely ticking

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By *hinkimfucked OP Man
over a year ago

navan

"I do see the age limit for many has a max of 45. My clock I definitely ticking

In that case my clock has been fucked for a while and been thrown out the window

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I didn't join here until I was 52 and my age has never been an issue or a topic of discussion.

It's only a barrier if you make it one.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Some men no matter their age are not wanted in the first place

If you feel this place is not for you for any reason at all and its effecting you then either hide your profile or delete it

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

I'd say your posting on here might be doing your chances more harm than good if I'm being brutally honest...

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By *hinkimfucked OP Man
over a year ago

navan

An awful lot of the ladies have an age limit of 45 that's the whole point I'm trying to make

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Concentrating more on those whose criteria you do fit than those you don't will usually lead to a more positive experience

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By *hinkimfucked OP Man
over a year ago

navan

It's just an observation I made that I think more and more ladies don't want men over 40 or 45

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By *om TangoMan
over a year ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

Age is only a number. I was with a 23 year old last week. I’m 46. But I do find on here it’s impossible to get with anyone.

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By *ohng69Man
over a year ago

athenry

"An awful lot of the ladies have an age limit of 45 that's the whole point I'm trying to make"
their profile, their choice

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By *llthewaysMan
over a year ago

City centre/Naas

"Age is only a number. I was with a 23 year old last week. I’m 46. But I do find on here it’s impossible to get with anyone."

Fab can be tough for it but try not to focus on it as your aim for the site. Makes it easier. I am mainly just here for chat and when the stars align a social.

Regarding ages there are plenty of people who are not bothered by ages or even just want older.

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

Plenty of us meet guys over 45 but they generally have good profiles and don’t focus on their age as the reason they are or aren’t getting meets

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By *adger BrocMan
over a year ago

Co. Cork

Older is bolder and definitely golder.

Everyone is entitled to set their preferences but those that have filters set based on age or other criteria will never know what they may be missing out on.

I for one am very happy to engage with those on here who are a bit more broadminded and adventurous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Older is bolder and definitely golder.

Everyone is entitled to set their preferences but those that have filters set based on age or other criteria will never know what they may be missing out on.

I for one am very happy to engage with those on here who are a bit more broadminded and adventurous.

They're not missing out on anything if those filters exclude people they aren't interested in.

How can you miss out on something you don't want?

Equating someone's criteria to narrow mindedness and lack of adventure is daft at best, insulting at worst.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Older is bolder and definitely golder.

Everyone is entitled to set their preferences but those that have filters set based on age or other criteria will never know what they may be missing out on.

I for one am very happy to engage with those on here who are a bit more broadminded and adventurous.

What a load of bull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently when you hit 69 it is incredible. I have chatted to a few on here and they all tell me they love 69 so roll on with my age is what I say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is just a number , if a person is comfortable and looks forward to meeting a person at any age that's what it's all about , it's an individual thing.some people think once they're a certain age thats it .. nothing could be further from the truth

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

The trick is up having a younger hotter female partner

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By *adger BrocMan
over a year ago

Co. Cork

"Older is bolder and definitely golder.

Everyone is entitled to set their preferences but those that have filters set based on age or other criteria will never know what they may be missing out on.

I for one am very happy to engage with those on here who are a bit more broadminded and adventurous.

They're not missing out on anything if those filters exclude people they aren't interested in.

How can you miss out on something you don't want?

Equating someone's criteria to narrow mindedness and lack of adventure is daft at best, insulting at worst."

I fully understand the principle of having preferences but my point is that filters are a very crude instrument and may indeed exclude someone we might be very interested in if we got the opportunity of engaging with them. How do you know if you want it or not if you don't know that it exists.

Putting limits on how you interact on this site does narrow your possible interactions and may prevent you from participating in fun adventures that you will never know were possible.

And of course I agree that "what you never had you will never miss" but is it not the whole purpose of this site to seek adventure so why limit your possibilities.

We all have our opinions, as daft as they may be, and mine were never meant to be insulting mearly a commentary on the age old question of "age" as viewed from my mature perspective.

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By *adger BrocMan
over a year ago

Co. Cork

"Older is bolder and definitely golder.

Everyone is entitled to set their preferences but those that have filters set based on age or other criteria will never know what they may be missing out on.

I for one am very happy to engage with those on here who are a bit more broadminded and adventurous.

What a load of bull"

As a life long lover of equines I prefer the term horse manure.....

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"The trick is up having a younger hotter female partner

And not having her trade you in for a younger model at a later stage

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"The trick is up having a younger hotter female partner

And not having her trade you in for a younger model at a later stage

A good shovel of (totally unjustified) cockiness fixes worrying about that

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By *teppenwolfMan
over a year ago

Cork

Older the fiddle.....sweeter the tune

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Older is bolder and definitely golder.

Everyone is entitled to set their preferences but those that have filters set based on age or other criteria will never know what they may be missing out on.

I for one am very happy to engage with those on here who are a bit more broadminded and adventurous.

They're not missing out on anything if those filters exclude people they aren't interested in.

How can you miss out on something you don't want?

Equating someone's criteria to narrow mindedness and lack of adventure is daft at best, insulting at worst.

Putting limits on how you interact on this site does narrow your possible interactions and may prevent you from participating in fun adventures that you will never know were possible.

And of course I agree that "what you never had you will never miss" but is it not the whole purpose of this site to seek adventure so why limit your possibilities.

We all have our opinions, as daft as they may be, and mine were never meant to be insulting mearly a commentary on the age old question of "age" as viewed from my mature perspective.

My age filters are deliberately set to exclude like most are.

They will always be 10 years above my eldest child and for that reason I increase the lower limit every year.

They are not there to exclude individuals and very much there to exclude everyone of a particular age regardless of how mature or "hot" they may be.

It has nothing to do with being narrow-minded or having no spirit of adventure.

I can't lose what I don't want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Older is bolder and definitely golder.

Everyone is entitled to set their preferences but those that have filters set based on age or other criteria will never know what they may be missing out on.

I for one am very happy to engage with those on here who are a bit more broadminded and adventurous.

They're not missing out on anything if those filters exclude people they aren't interested in.

How can you miss out on something you don't want?

Equating someone's criteria to narrow mindedness and lack of adventure is daft at best, insulting at worst.

Putting limits on how you interact on this site does narrow your possible interactions and may prevent you from participating in fun adventures that you will never know were possible.

And of course I agree that "what you never had you will never miss" but is it not the whole purpose of this site to seek adventure so why limit your possibilities.

We all have our opinions, as daft as they may be, and mine were never meant to be insulting mearly a commentary on the age old question of "age" as viewed from my mature perspective.

I don't like avocado. No matter how much someone tells me I might like THIS particular avocado. I don't want to eat the avocado. Some may say I'm missing out by not eating the avocado. I say I'm happy in my avocado-free world. I get my kicks with broccoli. And cavolo nero. And kalettes. And rainbow chard. And purple carrots. My tastes are wide and varied enough to not even care that I don't like avocado.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

I'm with you. Fuck those slimy green shites with their wrinkly skin and sticky gross insides

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm with you. Fuck those slimy green shites with their wrinkly skin and sticky gross insides"

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"I'm with you. Fuck those slimy green shites with their wrinkly skin and sticky gross insides"

Was reading this thread from the bottom and assumed you were talking about people over 45

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

[Removed by poster at 30/07/23 11:58:07]

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

What a pure coincidence

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

"More than likely or most looking for couples or bi men "

Go bi

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

"Older is bolder and definitely golder.

Everyone is entitled to set their preferences but those that have filters set based on age or other criteria will never know what they may be missing out on.

I for one am very happy to engage with those on here who are a bit more broadminded and adventurous.

They're not missing out on anything if those filters exclude people they aren't interested in.

How can you miss out on something you don't want?

Equating someone's criteria to narrow mindedness and lack of adventure is daft at best, insulting at worst."

I would imagine the point being made is , you may be missing out on something you didn't realise by narrowing your options

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

"Older is bolder and definitely golder.

Everyone is entitled to set their preferences but those that have filters set based on age or other criteria will never know what they may be missing out on.

I for one am very happy to engage with those on here who are a bit more broadminded and adventurous.

They're not missing out on anything if those filters exclude people they aren't interested in.

How can you miss out on something you don't want?

Equating someone's criteria to narrow mindedness and lack of adventure is daft at best, insulting at worst.

Putting limits on how you interact on this site does narrow your possible interactions and may prevent you from participating in fun adventures that you will never know were possible.

And of course I agree that "what you never had you will never miss" but is it not the whole purpose of this site to seek adventure so why limit your possibilities.

We all have our opinions, as daft as they may be, and mine were never meant to be insulting mearly a commentary on the age old question of "age" as viewed from my mature perspective.

I think you made the ops point perfectly... you believe all people outside your limits are the same ,, like all avocados... he is saying there is a platter of different veg and berries and fruit outside your limits that you don't realise cause you wanted to avoid what you belive is a world of avocados

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By *oe Cool xxxMan
over a year ago

South Dublin

Deffo not true , plenty of gals/ couples like older.

So there’s plenty of demand

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By *oe Cool xxxMan
over a year ago

South Dublin

Very true

"Older is bolder and definitely golder.

Everyone is entitled to set their preferences but those that have filters set based on age or other criteria will never know what they may be missing out on.

I for one am very happy to engage with those on here who are a bit more broadminded and adventurous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Older is bolder and definitely golder.

Everyone is entitled to set their preferences but those that have filters set based on age or other criteria will never know what they may be missing out on.

I for one am very happy to engage with those on here who are a bit more broadminded and adventurous.

They're not missing out on anything if those filters exclude people they aren't interested in.

How can you miss out on something you don't want?

Equating someone's criteria to narrow mindedness and lack of adventure is daft at best, insulting at worst.

Putting limits on how you interact on this site does narrow your possible interactions and may prevent you from participating in fun adventures that you will never know were possible.

And of course I agree that "what you never had you will never miss" but is it not the whole purpose of this site to seek adventure so why limit your possibilities.

We all have our opinions, as daft as they may be, and mine were never meant to be insulting mearly a commentary on the age old question of "age" as viewed from my mature perspective.

No. What I actually said was there is a plethora of things for me to enjoy whilst not having to eat the avocados

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a fab problem..the number of men v the number of women or couples..i have to use filters to keep a handle on messages..I literally cant carry on the number of conversations it would take to make everyone happy..I'm here for perhaps a little fantasy in my life so generally meet younger..I meet guys my own age and older in 'real' life..Op don't judge yourself on your performance here..there's a big wide world of people out there..Best of luck x

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

"Older is bolder and definitely golder.

Everyone is entitled to set their preferences but those that have filters set based on age or other criteria will never know what they may be missing out on.

I for one am very happy to engage with those on here who are a bit more broadminded and adventurous.

They're not missing out on anything if those filters exclude people they aren't interested in.

How can you miss out on something you don't want?

Equating someone's criteria to narrow mindedness and lack of adventure is daft at best, insulting at worst.

Putting limits on how you interact on this site does narrow your possible interactions and may prevent you from participating in fun adventures that you will never know were possible.

And of course I agree that "what you never had you will never miss" but is it not the whole purpose of this site to seek adventure so why limit your possibilities.

We all have our opinions, as daft as they may be, and mine were never meant to be insulting mearly a commentary on the age old question of "age" as viewed from my mature perspective.

No. What I actually said was there is a plethora of things for me to enjoy whilst not having to eat the avocados

No what you actually said is there is a plethora of things for you to eat while ignoring all the other vegetables outside of your criteria and assuming they are all avocados.

You do you ...

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Wooosh so many missing the point. The Avocado is the person in the age range that's out of preference. Noones saying they are all the same. Just that they have a preference for younger... sorry the purple carrots or whatever lol.

Bitching and moaning isn't gonna make someone change their preferences with regards fuck partners and green whinkly fruit.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

"Wooosh so many missing the point. The Avocado is the person in the age range that's out of preference. Noones saying they are all the same. Just that they have a preference for younger... sorry the purple carrots or whatever lol.

Bitching and moaning isn't gonna make someone change their preferences with regards fuck partners and green whinkly fruit."

I think the point the op is making is that you can class everyone outside your age limits as the same ... but your probably wrong !

I don't think the op is saying you shouldn't set your own criteria, rather he feels that setting it may exclude you from something you love only you never got a chance to see it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me is mutual attention is important not age , as I have my own preferences for my fantasy so I meet who I feel like that I would have great time.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Sounds a lot like Boo hoo someone thinks I'm too old to fuck and that pisses me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Older is bolder and definitely golder.

Everyone is entitled to set their preferences but those that have filters set based on age or other criteria will never know what they may be missing out on.

I for one am very happy to engage with those on here who are a bit more broadminded and adventurous.

They're not missing out on anything if those filters exclude people they aren't interested in.

How can you miss out on something you don't want?

Equating someone's criteria to narrow mindedness and lack of adventure is daft at best, insulting at worst.

I would imagine the point being made is , you may be missing out on something you didn't realise by narrowing your options "

I don't want to fuck people the same age as my parents nor do I want to fuck people the same age as my children and their peers. I am not missing out on something I don't want in the first place.

I'm an old, fat woman. I fall outside many people's preferences and filters. I don't believe for one second they're missing out on anything because of that.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

My word of advice to those disgruntled whinklies... Is to attend events where noone asks age and so is a more even playingfield, and stop moaning on the forums

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

"Sounds a lot like Boo hoo someone thinks I'm too old to fuck and that pisses me off."

Ah come on .... everything sounds like that on here if thats how you want to hear it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bitching and moaning isn't gonna make someone change their preferences with regards fuck partners and green whinkly fruit."

Thank fuck someone understands allegory

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

"Older is bolder and definitely golder.

Everyone is entitled to set their preferences but those that have filters set based on age or other criteria will never know what they may be missing out on.

I for one am very happy to engage with those on here who are a bit more broadminded and adventurous.

They're not missing out on anything if those filters exclude people they aren't interested in.

How can you miss out on something you don't want?

Equating someone's criteria to narrow mindedness and lack of adventure is daft at best, insulting at worst.

I would imagine the point being made is , you may be missing out on something you didn't realise by narrowing your options

I don't want to fuck people the same age as my parents nor do I want to fuck people the same age as my children and their peers. I am not missing out on something I don't want in the first place.

I'm an old, fat woman. I fall outside many people's preferences and filters. I don't believe for one second they're missing out on anything because of that. "

You maybe wrong

You maybe right

With your preferences you'll never know

That came out in a song in my head

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

There is no right or wrong when you have a preference. It's just a preference. You want what you want. Out of that preference? Tough shit

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

Bitching and moaning isn't gonna make someone change their preferences with regards fuck partners and green whinkly fruit.

Thank fuck someone understands allegory

You kinda weren't getting it all right ...

You just needed to say you don't like to eat food out side the age of the food on your plate... rather than all food outside your plate is the same

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

"There is no right or wrong when you have a preference. It's just a preference. You want what you want. Out of that preference? Tough shit"

Wrong or right in reference to believing something.... not preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Older is bolder and definitely golder.

Everyone is entitled to set their preferences but those that have filters set based on age or other criteria will never know what they may be missing out on.

I for one am very happy to engage with those on here who are a bit more broadminded and adventurous.

They're not missing out on anything if those filters exclude people they aren't interested in.

How can you miss out on something you don't want?

Equating someone's criteria to narrow mindedness and lack of adventure is daft at best, insulting at worst.

Putting limits on how you interact on this site does narrow your possible interactions and may prevent you from participating in fun adventures that you will never know were possible.

And of course I agree that "what you never had you will never miss" but is it not the whole purpose of this site to seek adventure so why limit your possibilities.

We all have our opinions, as daft as they may be, and mine were never meant to be insulting mearly a commentary on the age old question of "age" as viewed from my mature perspective.

No. What I actually said was there is a plethora of things for me to enjoy whilst not having to eat the avocados

No what you actually said is there is a plethora of things for you to eat while ignoring all the other vegetables outside of your criteria and assuming they are all avocados.

You do you ...

No. Once again. Where did I say that? My post is right there above. I said "...to not even care that I don't like avocado". Stop attributing things to me that I did not say. I'm sorry that what I ACTUALLY said doesn't fit what you want it to say or mean. Did you not have a whole post on shite like this yesterday?

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

Sweet jebus.

People want to fuck who they want to fuck. If you don’t fall into that category of people, it is not their loss. It’s also not your loss because why would you want to fuck someone who doesn’t want to fuck you?

You know what is way more off putting than age? Whinging about people not wanting to fuck you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is no right or wrong when you have a preference. It's just a preference. You want what you want. Out of that preference? Tough shit"

Exactly, I am here for getting pleasure, but if no attraction and my own preferences why I should meet

I had a friend who loves large ladies and he told me if I even pay him he won’t have fun with me, so I expect it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bitching and moaning isn't gonna make someone change their preferences with regards fuck partners and green whinkly fruit.

Thank fuck someone understands allegory

You kinda weren't getting it all right ...

You just needed to say you don't like to eat food out side the age of the food on your plate... rather than all food outside your plate is the same

I understand your need to be right; your need for the last word; and your need to be so deliberately obtuse. So go ahead have it. Be my guest.

Because. I. Just. Can't. Anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sweet jebus.

You know what is way more off putting than age? Whinging about people not wanting to fuck you

Well said

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

"Older is bolder and definitely golder.

Everyone is entitled to set their preferences but those that have filters set based on age or other criteria will never know what they may be missing out on.

I for one am very happy to engage with those on here who are a bit more broadminded and adventurous.

They're not missing out on anything if those filters exclude people they aren't interested in.

How can you miss out on something you don't want?

Equating someone's criteria to narrow mindedness and lack of adventure is daft at best, insulting at worst.

Putting limits on how you interact on this site does narrow your possible interactions and may prevent you from participating in fun adventures that you will never know were possible.

And of course I agree that "what you never had you will never miss" but is it not the whole purpose of this site to seek adventure so why limit your possibilities.

We all have our opinions, as daft as they may be, and mine were never meant to be insulting mearly a commentary on the age old question of "age" as viewed from my mature perspective.

No. What I actually said was there is a plethora of things for me to enjoy whilst not having to eat the avocados

No what you actually said is there is a plethora of things for you to eat while ignoring all the other vegetables outside of your criteria and assuming they are all avocados.

You do you ...

What you said is above ... im not attributing anything don't need to clear up this post too .

Did you not have many post of this caliber yesterday and beyond?

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Ahhh finally some sense

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

Bitching and moaning isn't gonna make someone change their preferences with regards fuck partners and green whinkly fruit.

Thank fuck someone understands allegory

You kinda weren't getting it all right ...

You just needed to say you don't like to eat food out side the age of the food on your plate... rather than all food outside your plate is the same

I understand your need to be right; your need for the last word; and your need to be so deliberately obtuse. So go ahead have it. Be my guest.

Because. I. Just. Can't. Anymore."

That nasty and untrue

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
over a year ago

kinkytown

Three of the nicest guys we know/knew (one has since left the site) were in their in their fifties and put guys younger then them to shame so we wouldn't agree with the OP at all.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

"Sweet jebus.

You know what is way more off putting than age? Whinging about people not wanting to fuck you

Absolutely... and people should only meet who they want

I honestly don't read it as the op whinging... I took it as him expressing his opinion that crude filters may be a barrier to greats meets !

I don't get the feeling anyone is saying people shouldn't set criteria as they wish ...

It seems people are connecting the observation that filters may mean you miss a great connection with whinging that people use filters !

I didn't read it that way

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

A filter represents a preference. Folk outside the filter are outside a preference. Noone is missing out of fucking someone if they are out of their preferences.

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over a year ago

"Older is bolder and definitely golder.

Everyone is entitled to set their preferences but those that have filters set based on age or other criteria will never know what they may be missing out on.

I for one am very happy to engage with those on here who are a bit more broadminded and adventurous.

They're not missing out on anything if those filters exclude people they aren't interested in.

How can you miss out on something you don't want?

Equating someone's criteria to narrow mindedness and lack of adventure is daft at best, insulting at worst.

Putting limits on how you interact on this site does narrow your possible interactions and may prevent you from participating in fun adventures that you will never know were possible.

And of course I agree that "what you never had you will never miss" but is it not the whole purpose of this site to seek adventure so why limit your possibilities.

We all have our opinions, as daft as they may be, and mine were never meant to be insulting mearly a commentary on the age old question of "age" as viewed from my mature perspective.

Well if we're going down the food analogy route.. I will never ever eat porridge, for a number of reasons. And I don't care how many people blab on about it's benefits (it's actually full of sugar but hey..).

So if all that was left in the world to eat was porridge, well I guess I'd starve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Older is bolder and definitely golder.

Everyone is entitled to set their preferences but those that have filters set based on age or other criteria will never know what they may be missing out on.

I for one am very happy to engage with those on here who are a bit more broadminded and adventurous.

They're not missing out on anything if those filters exclude people they aren't interested in.

How can you miss out on something you don't want?

Equating someone's criteria to narrow mindedness and lack of adventure is daft at best, insulting at worst.

Putting limits on how you interact on this site does narrow your possible interactions and may prevent you from participating in fun adventures that you will never know were possible.

And of course I agree that "what you never had you will never miss" but is it not the whole purpose of this site to seek adventure so why limit your possibilities.

We all have our opinions, as daft as they may be, and mine were never meant to be insulting mearly a commentary on the age old question of "age" as viewed from my mature perspective.

So if all that was left in the world to eat was porridge, well I guess I'd starve."

I'll swap my avocado for your porridge

There's something for everyone on the Fab Smorgasbord!

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By *adger BrocMan
over a year ago

Co. Cork

"Older is bolder and definitely golder.

Everyone is entitled to set their preferences but those that have filters set based on age or other criteria will never know what they may be missing out on.

I for one am very happy to engage with those on here who are a bit more broadminded and adventurous.

They're not missing out on anything if those filters exclude people they aren't interested in.

How can you miss out on something you don't want?

Equating someone's criteria to narrow mindedness and lack of adventure is daft at best, insulting at worst.

Putting limits on how you interact on this site does narrow your possible interactions and may prevent you from participating in fun adventures that you will never know were possible.

And of course I agree that "what you never had you will never miss" but is it not the whole purpose of this site to seek adventure so why limit your possibilities.

We all have our opinions, as daft as they may be, and mine were never meant to be insulting mearly a commentary on the age old question of "age" as viewed from my mature perspective.

Always thought the same myself until a few years ago. Tried avo on toast while visiting Australia and discovered I really liked it. I now have avocado 3 or 4 times each week.

Just had a bagel with some avacado and pickled cucumber for lunch.

If I hadn't tried it once I would never have known what a treat I was missing.

Also like all the things you mentioned that you like so at least we have that much in common.

Looking forward to some asparagus spears, cauliflower, roasted sweet potatoes and beetroot with featherblade of beef for dinner this evening.

Meat has just gone on in the slow cooker and the veg will be al dente.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Three of the nicest guys we know/knew (one has since left the site) were in their in their fifties and put guys younger then them to shame so we wouldn't agree with the OP at all. "

Yup... Absolutely ..l agree with you.. brilliant piece of sense ....age has nothing to do with it at all ..if people

want to fuck ..they will.. age has nothing to do with it ..at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A filter represents a preference. Folk outside the filter are outside a preference. Noone is missing out of fucking someone if they are out of their preferences."

More sense ...fair kudos

..age has nothing to do with it ..a person's preference has..well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Three of the nicest guys we know/knew (one has since left the site) were in their in their fifties and put guys younger then them to shame so we wouldn't agree with the OP at all.

Yup... Absolutely ..l agree with you.. brilliant piece of sense ....age has nothing to do with it at all ..if people

want to fuck ..they will.. age has nothing to do with it ..at all."

But.. but.. but it does. If you have a preference you have a preference. It's really quite simple and doesn't need to be justified to or by anyone.