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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's with people who request a face pic, and when u reply saying you firts they say no.In my world if you want one you got to send one.

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

If it something that bothers you, probably best just to steer clear of profiles that state it...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It didn't state it.Was just messaging and then got requested it.

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By *ezoMan
over a year ago

The Kingdom


"What's with people who request a face pic, and when u reply saying you firts they say no.In my world if you want one you got to send one."

I agree, the anyone requesting a face pic should show theirs first. In my opinion.

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

Just cut the conversation so and move on if it's not your thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just cut the conversation so and move on if it's not your thing!"

This exactly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I did cut the conversation but if someone requests one they should be prepared to send one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just cut the conversation so and move on if it's not your thing!"

Yep this.

People will "do Fab" whatever way suits them. You can do the same. Them wanting something you're not prepared to give is just one indicator that you're not compatible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did cut the conversation but if someone requests one they should be prepared to send one "

Well, no. Obviously that's not how they operate. No-one has to do anything. And that includes you accepting their request for a face photo without providing one first.

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham


"Just cut the conversation so and move on if it's not your thing!

Yep this.

People will "do Fab" whatever way suits them. You can do the same. Them wanting something you're not prepared to give is just one indicator that you're not compatible "

You've worded it better than me! Maybe I'm a bit snappy from being awake so early

Honest to jaysus though, you'd get weary from the amount of threads started here by people simply because someone is using the site differently to them or in a way they disagree with. Unless it's causing someone harm... move on!

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By *1CorkCouple
over a year ago

Cork


"I did cut the conversation but if someone requests one they should be prepared to send one "

We request face pics from single men but we are clear we won’t send one in return. If she is attracted we will meet for coffee. We also ask for additional information from single men that we don’t ask of couples or women.

You’re from a mid size west of Ireland town OP, imagine the reaction in the local pubs to news of any single male you know had joined a site looking for sex, and now imagine the reaction to the reaction to the revelation of a married couple where the wife is shared with other men.

Life isn’t as fair as we’d wish for any of us OP, all you can do is try and understand the reasons of the other party and respect their choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different day, same old story, same type of thread. Besides that, aren’t face pics passed round fab?

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By *om TangoMan
over a year ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

Colin u do state in your bio “ discretion guaranteed pic on request”. Would that not mean you are willing to forward pictures if requested to. Sorry if I sound I’m disagreeing or having a go at u because I’m not. Just stating that u may give the world impression

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By *ohng69Man
over a year ago

athenry


"Just cut the conversation so and move on if it's not your thing!

Yep this.

People will "do Fab" whatever way suits them. You can do the same. Them wanting something you're not prepared to give is just one indicator that you're not compatible

You've worded it better than me! Maybe I'm a bit snappy from being awake so early

Honest to jaysus though, you'd get weary from the amount of threads started here by people simply because someone is using the site differently to them or in a way they disagree with. Unless it's causing someone harm... move on!"
well said, but does anyone listen?

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"What's with people who request a face pic, and when u reply saying you firts they say no.In my world if you want one you got to send one."

Asking for theirs first fixes this.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"What's with people who request a face pic, and when u reply saying you firts they say no.In my world if you want one you got to send one."

In their world if you want one you got to send one

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home


"What's with people who request a face pic, and when u reply saying you firts they say no.In my world if you want one you got to send one.

In their world if you want one you got to send one "
but they are the one's asking first

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

What people can do and what people should do out of respect and fairness are very different.

I get that you feel it would be respectful if those who asked you to commit to risking your privacy would be willing to do the same in a show of commitment and genuineness.

However as you can read above , there are some on fab who don't care about anything other than what they want , and they can choose to be this way if they want !

Your best bet is to think of it as a lucky escape from potentially meeting someone who doesn't share your views on equality of privacy .

There are plenty on fab who will meet you half way

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Such a big fuss when it's so simple to ask for theirs first

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

I will send a face pic but only when I am comfortable with that person and have chatted for a while.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Such a big fuss when it's so simple to ask for theirs first"

Now that's good thinking

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