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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok folks i am just after having an experience i really don't want a repeat of, i got contacted by the male part of a couple who wanted to have a threesome, naturally being the red blooded male that i am i agreed to meet the couple so we swapped pics and when i seen a pic of his partner it transpired that she is also on the site as a single that i have already met, A) Do i make am excuse to not meet, B ) Do i meet and pretend i don't know her. I am left in the situation of not knowing if they are honest wit each other and as her profile is deleted i have no way of contacting her. Pls can i have some good advice on this as i have already committed to something i am not sure i can go through with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's their business if they have separate Profiles or maybe she went online with a solo profile as I have here and we have a joint one on another site ! If you don't want to meet them I'm sure they will easily get another male ! Plenty of fish in the sea !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U should say u want to chat to fem on phone then let her know who u r and ask wots going on,if she knows about the 3sum she must know its you,dont think id meet them tho as he may have found out about you from her profile !stay clear.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

good point, yes i see its a bit more of a coincidence than it should be. Fuck it if he reads the forum i certainly let the cat out of the bag now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It might teach people to be a lot more honest on here, that way you won't learn anything embarrassing about anyone on the forums, might make them a little boring but honesty is the best policy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if the woman is playing away who is anyone here to judge them just look at the amount of men who want fun but can't accom ! Oh yes I forgot they are either single fathers or have to share because they are Not working ! BOLLOCKS thats what that is

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well if the woman is playing away who is anyone here to judge them just look at the amount of men who want fun but can't accom ! Oh yes I forgot they are either single fathers or have to share because they are Not working ! BOLLOCKS thats what that is "

I actually take offence to that comment as i do have a child who stays with me full time, do you not think that men actually look after children, i am a full time dad, run my own business and i think that a comment like that is not warranted, My point being was i do not want to le faced wit am awkward moment if the male doesn't know, i don't judge other ppls actions but i do judge actions that can effect me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well if the woman is playing away who is anyone here to judge them just look at the amount of men who want fun but can't accom ! Oh yes I forgot they are either single fathers or have to share because they are Not working ! BOLLOCKS thats what that is

I actually take offence to that comment as i do have a child who stays with me full time, do you not think that men actually look after children, i am a full time dad, run my own business and i think that a comment like that is not warranted, My point being was i do not want to le faced wit am awkward moment if the male doesn't know, i don't judge other ppls actions but i do judge actions that can effect me."
I'm also a full time father but am unemployed . We do exist and do a great job of looking after our children

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well if the woman is playing away who is anyone here to judge them just look at the amount of men who want fun but can't accom ! Oh yes I forgot they are either single fathers or have to share because they are Not working ! BOLLOCKS thats what that is

I actually take offence to that comment as i do have a child who stays with me full time, do you not think that men actually look after children, i am a full time dad, run my own business and i think that a comment like that is not warranted, My point being was i do not want to le faced wit am awkward moment if the male doesn't know, i don't judge other ppls actions but i do judge actions that can effect me."

people are always quick to stereotype on here unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well if the woman is playing away who is anyone here to judge them just look at the amount of men who want fun but can't accom ! Oh yes I forgot they are either single fathers or have to share because they are Not working ! BOLLOCKS thats what that is "

I find your statement confusing, one the one hand you say who are we to judge and you then go on to do just that in your assumptions on why people can't accomodate. Odd logic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well if the woman is playing away who is anyone here to judge them just look at the amount of men who want fun but can't accom ! Oh yes I forgot they are either single fathers or have to share because they are Not working ! BOLLOCKS thats what that is "

Hold on you said you shouldn't judge women playing away but yet your judging men who can't accomadate due to recession or the fact their single fathers? You make loadsa sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well if the woman is playing away who is anyone here to judge them just look at the amount of men who want fun but can't accom ! Oh yes I forgot they are either single fathers or have to share because they are Not working ! BOLLOCKS thats what that is "

Since both comments are contradictatory am I to presume that both male and female left a comment albeit opposing opinions but it's the only reason I can see for you saying one thing and in the next breath negating it lol

I do wish sometimes would just give people a break on here

I don't feel it's anyone's place to comment on whether people can or cannot accommodate in fact it's a secondary issue

Personally even if I were living totally on my own I wouldn't relish the idea of bringing meets to my home

I much prefer a neutral ground for a meet it allows both parties to be more at ease I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well if the woman is playing away who is anyone here to judge them just look at the amount of men who want fun but can't accom ! Oh yes I forgot they are either single fathers or have to share because they are Not working ! BOLLOCKS thats what that is

Since both comments are contradictatory am I to presume that both male and female left a comment albeit opposing opinions but it's the only reason I can see for you saying one thing and in the next breath negating it lol

I do wish sometimes would just give people a break on here

I don't feel it's anyone's place to comment on whether people can or cannot accommodate in fact it's a secondary issue

Personally even if I were living totally on my own I wouldn't relish the idea of bringing meets to my home

I much prefer a neutral ground for a meet it allows both parties to be more at ease I think "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if u feel u dont want to meet say so end of story

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

already done, was not comfortable wit the situation and not going to put myself in a strange predicament.

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By *randub69Man
over a year ago

city


"Well if the woman is playing away who is anyone here to judge them just look at the amount of men who want fun but can't accom ! Oh yes I forgot they are either single fathers or have to share because they are Not working ! BOLLOCKS thats what that is "

well actually your wrong in my case. The reason i cannot always accom is because one of my kids still live with me. So really every persons situtation is different.

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By *ougarbelfastWoman
over a year ago

belfast


"Ok folks i am just after having an experience i really don't want a repeat of, i got contacted by the male part of a couple who wanted to have a threesome, naturally being the red blooded male that i am i agreed to meet the couple so we swapped pics and when i seen a pic of his partner it transpired that she is also on the site as a single that i have already met, A) Do i make am excuse to not meet, B ) Do i meet and pretend i don't know her. I am left in the situation of not knowing if they are honest wit each other and as her profile is deleted i have no way of contacting her. Pls can i have some good advice on this as i have already committed to something i am not sure i can go through with"
It struck me that perhaps they have an arrangement where she meets guys first and if she likes you then perhaps they as a couple then want to meet you. And it is/was all part of a game a lot of people do strange things but it could be (note could be) that because she enjoyed your company she would be more relaxed around meeting you with her partner/husband. It's a possibility you never know.

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