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By *eadpool101 OP   Man
over a year ago

Limerick

Was here before in the past and had single and couples profile with a good pal. Things happened and life takes hold and took a break all for good reasons or so. Roll on few years and back again because in fairness this place beats a lot of other websites but one thing never changes with the Irish fab site.. For every 1000 men, there are probably only 10 women. It feels like a rat race but ultimately genuine men know, it's gonna take a social most of time that gives you chance here. Women can open a profile and literally within 24hrs they have god knows how many messages. That's they way it goes. Ultimalty I feel this is a website to suit most women's ego and suit most man's fantasies. When things happen, it's amazing sex and more. Anyways, I'm back here, hoping to meet good people but at same time knowing I can live life and if I don't meet a soul, it's grand but simply wondering if a woman or man think the same? Couple's are a different topic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was here before in the past and had single and couples profile with a good pal. Things happened and life takes hold and took a break all for good reasons or so. Roll on few years and back again because in fairness this place beats a lot of other websites but one thing never changes with the Irish fab site.. For every 1000 men, there are probably only 10 women. It feels like a rat race but ultimately genuine men know, it's gonna take a social most of time that gives you chance here. Women can open a profile and literally within 24hrs they have god knows how many messages. That's they way it goes. Ultimalty I feel this is a website to suit most women's ego and suit most man's fantasies. When things happen, it's amazing sex and more. Anyways, I'm back here, hoping to meet good people but at same time knowing I can live life and if I don't meet a soul, it's grand but simply wondering if a woman or man think the same? Couple's are a different topic! "

What's the question?

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By *llthewaysMan
over a year ago

City centre/Naas

Not sure what the initial post is about.

Is it that it is harder for men on here? That is just well known fact.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I agree.

People have egos and people have fantasies and some of those people join sites like this for both reasons.

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
over a year ago

City Centre


"Was here before in the past and had single and couples profile with a good pal. Things happened and life takes hold and took a break all for good reasons or so. Roll on few years and back again because in fairness this place beats a lot of other websites but one thing never changes with the Irish fab site.. For every 1000 men, there are probably only 10 women. It feels like a rat race but ultimately genuine men know, it's gonna take a social most of time that gives you chance here. Women can open a profile and literally within 24hrs they have god knows how many messages. That's they way it goes. Ultimalty I feel this is a website to suit most women's ego and suit most man's fantasies. When things happen, it's amazing sex and more. Anyways, I'm back here, hoping to meet good people but at same time knowing I can live life and if I don't meet a soul, it's grand but simply wondering if a woman or man think the same? Couple's are a different topic! "

Yeah I'd agree. I'm in the same situation as yourself and I don't find people friendly at all. Granted I get a huge amount of messages from men but that's about it.

Like yourself I'm willing to take a seat back and bide my time to meet and enjoy the experiences this place has to offer in my own time.

To meet socially is the only way to get your profile off the ground. I've had 2 social meets for a drink and there was absolutely no connection, we just didn't click. It happens. Had a wicked night out with another fabulous female and that kinda makes up for it. That's what this place is like. Not everyone is for you but every now and again someone will be.

As for egos, there are people who will never change they will always be fabulous! They are the same people as they were starting out on their fab journey, salt of the earth as the saying goes absolute diamonds. I'm sure there's others who unfortunately believe the hype about themselves but I wouldn't hang with those types.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Both men and women have both egos and fantasies

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
over a year ago

kinkytown


"Was here before in the past and had single and couples profile with a good pal. Things happened and life takes hold and took a break all for good reasons or so. Roll on few years and back again because in fairness this place beats a lot of other websites but one thing never changes with the Irish fab site.. For every 1000 men, there are probably only 10 women. It feels like a rat race but ultimately genuine men know, it's gonna take a social most of time that gives you chance here. Women can open a profile and literally within 24hrs they have god knows how many messages. That's they way it goes. Ultimalty I feel this is a website to suit most women's ego and suit most man's fantasies. When things happen, it's amazing sex and more. Anyways, I'm back here, hoping to meet good people but at same time knowing I can live life and if I don't meet a soul, it's grand but simply wondering if a woman or man think the same? Couple's are a different topic!

Yeah I'd agree. I'm in the same situation as yourself and I don't find people friendly at all. Granted I get a huge amount of messages from men but that's about it.

Like yourself I'm willing to take a seat back and bide my time to meet and enjoy the experiences this place has to offer in my own time.

To meet socially is the only way to get your profile off the ground. I've had 2 social meets for a drink and there was absolutely no connection, we just didn't click. It happens. Had a wicked night out with another fabulous female and that kinda makes up for it. That's what this place is like. Not everyone is for you but every now and again someone will be.

As for egos, there are people who will never change they will always be fabulous! They are the same people as they were starting out on their fab journey, salt of the earth as the saying goes absolute diamonds. I'm sure there's others who unfortunately believe the hype about themselves but I wouldn't hang with those types.

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Definitely agree with your last paragraph

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was here before in the past and had single and couples profile with a good pal. Things happened and life takes hold and took a break all for good reasons or so. Roll on few years and back again because in fairness this place beats a lot of other websites but one thing never changes with the Irish fab site.. For every 1000 men, there are probably only 10 women. It feels like a rat race but ultimately genuine men know, it's gonna take a social most of time that gives you chance here. Women can open a profile and literally within 24hrs they have god knows how many messages. That's they way it goes. Ultimalty I feel this is a website to suit most women's ego and suit most man's fantasies. When things happen, it's amazing sex and more. Anyways, I'm back here, hoping to meet good people but at same time knowing I can live life and if I don't meet a soul, it's grand but simply wondering if a woman or man think the same? Couple's are a different topic! "

I kinda get where you’re coming from with the Men to Women ratio that’s what it is there’s nothing you can do there take my area for instance which is same as yours theres probably about 20 active female profiles then look at the men & theres over 200+ hence why they get loads of msgs and in them msgs there’s a load of shite that they have to Wade through dick pics insults the list is endless so that’s why you need to make your msg stand out make it different to what they normally get. As for egos it’s the internet unfortunately it’s par for the course personally I’m not a fan of the status I sometimes look and say OMG it’s like Facebook but there free to post what they want just as I’m free to ignore it ..I’ve been on and off this for a while I’d say my first time was the hardest but a few years in & a few profiles down I’ve kinda learned how to stand out in a sea of yellow.. good luck with it

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