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Men 40+ Let's Talk about sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I wondered how you men are finding your sexual experience now that you are a little bit older. I have not being having sex myself for the last few months as my last experience was terrible. I was overweight and struggling to get an erection before that experience. So I started a healthy diet and less alcohol. I have lost some weight and things are looking up so to speak. I do have other issues besides the weight which I'd discuss privately. Anyway I feel that getting this out in the open might help men to not be afraid to say they struggle too. Talk about it with your doctor and don't be ashamed X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see that I start gain weight a bit faster but I still try to eat healthy home made food. Ibtry to live actively and think to go to gym and get some shape.

As sex I don't have problem still hard and can run

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

I'm very lucky that dispite a fairly unhealthy lifestyle I haven't suffered any sexual dysfunction. If/when I do I will be waiting at my Drs door looking for pills. I have less energy than I did in my 20s, but I have always prioritised sex so any additional effort has been put in that's been needed. Obviously age catches up with us all though in the end and so be it.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Sex has never been a priority for me at any age so it's not really much different than it ever has been.

I didn't join here until I was 52 and have always treated it as a hobby more than a necessity or lifestyle choice.

I have had a number of ongoing health issues over the last 18-20 months which is why I haven't been meeting and won't be for the foreseeable future but it's only a blip in the grand scheme of things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex has never been a priority for me at any age so it's not really much different than it ever has been.

I didn't join here until I was 52 and have always treated it as a hobby more than a necessity or lifestyle choice.

I have had a number of ongoing health issues over the last 18-20 months which is why I haven't been meeting and won't be for the foreseeable future but it's only a blip in the grand scheme of things.

"

Sad to hear about your health problems hope you will recover fast and fully join our erotic community

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By *llthewaysMan
over a year ago

City centre/Naas

Sorry you had suffered health issues, thankfully being 40+ has not adversely affected me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only think I saw is that when I pee instead of one nice long string it comes out like spray

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Joined fab in my 50's

Having the best sex of my life

So all good

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By *adger BrocMan
over a year ago

Co. Cork


"Joined fab in my 50's

Having the best sex of my life

So all good "

In my 60's and same.

Age is not just a number it's the Lotto numbers in fun terms.

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By *hilaboutMan
over a year ago

kilkenny

Early 50s here n all very positive tbh

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By *ealmc1973Man
over a year ago

Limerick, Clare, Tipperary

...as horny as ever. Now, that I know my body good enough to know what I want and what to put on my bucketlist.

Truth is, I am too lazy to go on all night long and need some time to gather my strength after hard day at work, before jumping into bed. We are not 20 anymore

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south


"...as horny as ever. Now, that I know my body good enough to know what I want and what to put on my bucketlist.

Truth is, I am too lazy to go on all night long and need some time to gather my strength after hard day at work, before jumping into bed. We are not 20 anymore

"
Waist size same as when I was 30 years ago , plus am not putting any on or I will have to purchased new leather jeans

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By *mmmm300Woman
over a year ago

cork

This is a great to read thread. Yay for all the gir and well and sexy guys

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By *llthewaysMan
over a year ago

City centre/Naas

One of the best things about aging like this is you get to know yourself, your want and your limits.

20 years ago I wouldn't have been as confident talking to a partner, but thankfully things change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything as regards Sexual well being depends on blood flow..you gotta give yourself the best chance if you want to , smoking & drinking seriously affect performance and the ability to sexually perform, if the blood flow isn't what it should be then the performance or the working isn't the same .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me the main thing is having the confidence to not beat around the bush and be straight with whoever I’m with about what works and what I want.

When they can do the same then that’s when the best sex happens

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

I can't complain

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being 40+, I'm more confident when it comes to being with a woman or in a couple situation.

As for energy, for some reasons my reserves seem to kick in, bit like the Duracell bunny

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By *otownkid1967Man
over a year ago

Portlaoise

I'm luck health wise now. Was laid up for a year but thankfully it's all behind me now and I find sex better than ever. So have to count my blessings really.

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland


"Joined fab in my 50's

Having the best sex of my life

So all good "

Show off

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By *mmmm300Woman
over a year ago

cork


"For me the main thing is having the confidence to not beat around the bush and be straight with whoever I’m with about what works and what I want.

When they can do the same then that’s when the best sex happens "

What he said

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford

Good for you & your right OP.

Men need to talk more about their Health & whatever else they want or need to talk about.

More than likely I'll do this backwards, so to speak.

Weight loss.

About 3 & half year's ago, over about a 6 week period. I lost about 2 stone, it's like it ran off me ASAP(SERIOUSLY not joking). I don't eat overly healthy. I've a fairly sweet tooth.

Over the year's I have been off the drink for a year, if not more. Can't personally say I lost weight cause of it.

Highly unlikely to go a full year without seening the Dr. I usually get a letter, call or a text to make an appointment. That usually means I need to turn into a vampire for a pit & give blood.

I've other minor health issues aswell.

That's done yearly, along with €20. Since covid ended, I've started to go 2 other times during the year, about 6 months between eachother.

Cause of the weight loss I'm back wearing size of clothes that I could wear back about 30 year's ago,thankfully. Must get my finger out & start to get more active going forward. To help keep the weight at bay, aswell as I'll be changing jobs within the next 12 month's.

If I didn't lose the weight I don't think, I'd be on here & very unlikely to have some of the pictures that I on here.

I need to more research & look over the data more, on the sex front.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good on you OP you lads need to speak out more

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford


"Good on you OP you lads need to speak out more "

Ya,that's true Lou.

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By *onny qMan
over a year ago

limerick

One word ... YOGA

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

I'm gone to fuck!

Unfortunately not literally.

Drinking and smoking more than ever, which is costing me a small fortune in both money and health. Gone very lazy and breathing getting raspy.

Think I need recommendations for a good hypnaetist or something because everything else has failed me and I'm not looking forward to next healthcheck.

Had to spell the watch waver wrong due to site rules

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