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By *rish In Dubai OP   Man
over a year ago

Carlow

I had an interesting interaction with a couple this morning.

I fabd their photo. Then they fab mine.

I messaged them thanking then for the fab and asking how they were.

They responded thanks, have you any face pictures you are willing to share. You won't get any in return.

I told them I was all for equality and I would not share if there would not be one back. And told them I wouldn't be interested.

They then responded. Thanks. We are not interested.

I just can't compromise on that.

So with all that being said.

What's something you can't/won't compromise on?

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

Smokers/vapers

It’s just a deal breaker for me.. you can taste it from their kiss and their body.

I once met a lady who had recently given up smoking and I could still taste if from her pussy.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Women who won't lower their standards enough to have sex with me.

If they aren't prepared to have sex with me then I won't have sex with them. "Tough shit, Paddy, or rather, Patricia"

I'm nice like that.

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
over a year ago

kinkytown

Height

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By *ornywife20Couple
over a year ago

North Cork

There has to be a,connection and an attraction for us to play . We don't meet up and have sex just because we are there.

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south


"There has to be a,connection and an attraction for us to play . We don't meet up and have sex just because we are there."
Short people are unexplored

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By *angtasticallyMan
over a year ago

Drogheda

Totally agree it may be about sex but it all about connection

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By *ondalingerMan
over a year ago

City center

Condoms. Just wont risk it. 43 years old and std clear all those. I know i wasn't in action for 15 of those but still, im quite proud

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By *leasurer77Man
over a year ago

Athlone

I absolutely won't meet women above the age of 90 with both parents deceased.

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south


"I absolutely won't meet women above the age of 90 with both parents deceased."
Opposites attract height weight personality get to know people they may open your eyes to all kinds of possibilities you may only see them once after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smoke in my car after sex and condoms must be.

And very big no to people who does not have teeth or have them in poor condition

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Age. Anyone below my age filter even if only one half of a couple is a deal-breaker.

Distance. Any more than an hour away and they can meet me halfway. Not negotiable.

Accommodation. I don't go to anyone's home even if it is their preference unless I know them very well.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Kellogs crunchy nut cornflakes

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By *llthewaysMan
over a year ago

City centre/Naas

Personality, I can get past a lot of things but if they are a 10/10 looks wise but with a bad personality? No thanks.

Physical features bother me less.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Establishing a good connection initally via text, respecting discretion and having a friendly personality without drama is key to a subsequent coffee meet up. Good solid foundation to hopefully progress further for like minded shared mutual fun.

It takes time and experience to filter out messers when seeking out genuine people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexual chemistry - this includes personalities. If it's not there, no point really!

Kissing - if the kissing isn't hot and sexy, nothing else will be!

Distance - meeting half way is just manners!

Smokers - I just can't stand smokers breath!

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By *razySexyCoolCorkWoman
over a year ago

Cork


"Sexual chemistry - this includes personalities. If it's not there, no point really!

Kissing - if the kissing isn't hot and sexy, nothing else will be!

Distance - meeting half way is just manners!

Smokers - I just can't stand smokers breath!

"

All of this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smoking and face pics for starters… once we get that established we can move on and figure out the rest. It’s called out clearly in our profile but still becomes a topic people want to debate … as Maggie T once said … the lady’s not for turning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hunky Dory’s No substitutes

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By *ealmc1973Man
over a year ago

Limerick, Clare, Tipperary

My trousers will stay firmly on, if one of these is missing:

Brain...

Mental maturity...

Hygiene...

...and, yeah, ain't gonna pay for 'it' neither

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By *astelloWoman
over a year ago

Far far away


"My knickers will stay firmly on, if one of these is missing:

Brain...

Mental maturity...

Hygiene...

...and, yeah, ain't gonna pay for 'it' neither

"

Ditto

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By *adger BrocMan
over a year ago

Co. Cork


"Sexual chemistry - this includes personalities. If it's not there, no point really!

Kissing - if the kissing isn't hot and sexy, nothing else will be!

Distance - meeting half way is just manners!

Smokers - I just can't stand smokers breath!

"

Dublin it is then....

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Women who won't lower their standards enough to have sex with me.

If they aren't prepared to have sex with me then I won't have sex with them. "Tough shit, Paddy, or rather, Patricia"

I'm nice like that. "

And there was me thinking you were lowering your standards for me

I learn something new everyday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People that ask you a question and you answer their question.

But when you ask them a question they change the topic or ask a question rather than answering.

So rude!!!

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By *lueDressWoman
over a year ago

Bath

I wont compromise regarding sexual attraction and staying safe.If someone is not giving Me the right vibes I wont meet.

I get a lot of messages regarding My interest in BDSM.Some of the messengers are expecting instant attraction !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Won't compromise on my morals , ie l won't change just to suit anyone or message someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No pity fucks (sorry Mick, not even for you)

If you bore me, next!!

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By *otownkid1967Man
over a year ago

Portlaoise

Bad hygiene or bed manners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll not meet unless we've talked on the phone first.

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By *am74Man
over a year ago

inbetween north west ,sligo ,galway

Well I had had a guy last night at 2am asking me to fuck his wife ,he was on a single profile not a mention of his wife in it. I said no. He then sent me a pic of his wife's vagina I still said no . At 2am what the hell I would not compromise on to a meet or exchange pis without some sort of connection or pics of both of them he maintains they were well verified but nothing on there profile,esp because it was a single one.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"I had an interesting interaction with a couple this morning.

I fabd their photo. Then they fab mine.

I messaged them thanking then for the fab and asking how they were.

They responded thanks, have you any face pictures you are willing to share. You won't get any in return.

I told them I was all for equality and I would not share if there would not be one back. And told them I wouldn't be interested.

They then responded. Thanks. We are not interested.

I just can't compromise on that.

So with all that being said.

What's something you can't/won't compromise on?

"

Very little except honesty! And animal welfare .

Has its pros and cons

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By *ot neuteredMan
over a year ago

Kildare

Potatoes, have to have them at every meal time

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By *ifes GoodMan
over a year ago

Irelands Atlantic Way, Algarve

It starts and ends with a kiss. If that’s not right then can’t go further

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had an interesting interaction with a couple this morning.

I fabd their photo. Then they fab mine.

I messaged them thanking then for the fab and asking how they were.

They responded thanks, have you any face pictures you are willing to share. You won't get any in return.

I told them I was all for equality and I would not share if there would not be one back. And told them I wouldn't be interested.

They then responded. Thanks. We are not interested.

I just can't compromise on that.

So with all that being said.

What's something you can't/won't compromise on?

"

Condoms is must, play safe! Yeah think face pic is important. It like shows if you attracted to them or not

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford


"I had an interesting interaction with a couple this morning.

I fabd their photo. Then they fab mine.

I messaged them thanking then for the fab and asking how they were.

They responded thanks, have you any face pictures you are willing to share. You won't get any in return.

I told them I was all for equality and I would not share if there would not be one back. And told them I wouldn't be interested.

They then responded. Thanks. We are not interested.

I just can't compromise on that.

So with all that being said.

What's something you can't/won't compromise on?

"

Smokers & face pic to start with. I might have sent out a face pic with 1 or 2 messages in the past. Not anymore, it needs to go both ways.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"I'll not meet unless we've talked on the phone first."

Do you worry about giving out your number

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford


"I'll not meet unless we've talked on the phone first.

Do you worry about giving out your number "

I thought that meself aswell Bog-man.

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By *og2018Man
over a year ago

Letterkenny

If they say they're a woman named Jennifer but they're actually just your friend Johnny in a wig and a dress. After twenty times of that happening I decided to put my foot down and make it a hard no

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By *amsandwichMan
over a year ago

Oughterard

A United Ireland

Really good homemade Sourdough

High heels and stockings.

In no particular order

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By *llthewaysMan
over a year ago

City centre/Naas


"I'll not meet unless we've talked on the phone first.

Do you worry about giving out your number

I thought that meself aswell Bog-man. "

Maybe they have a burner phone or insist on being the personal calling?

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"I'll not meet unless we've talked on the phone first.

Do you worry about giving out your number

I thought that meself aswell Bog-man.

Maybe they have a burner phone or insist on being the personal calling?"

True ....always think a second phone means you're a dealer

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford


"I'll not meet unless we've talked on the phone first.

Do you worry about giving out your number

I thought that meself aswell Bog-man.

Maybe they have a burner phone or insist on being the personal calling?

True ....always think a second phone means you're a dealer "

Curvy ball here, what if they have a double sem/2 sems in the 1 phone?

That would mean no need for a second phone.

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