FabSwingers.com forum: How Long ......??

By *hatCoupleNextDoor OP Couple
over a year ago

nearby

Not that question ye dirty things

We were watching Open House last night and it got us thinking about our own experiences...

We were nearly 2years on here before we actually had a meet (covid didnt help)

How long are/were you on the site before taking the plunge either socially or otherwise? Did it live up to expectations or did you feel a little unsure about the whole idea that first time? Would you do anything differently if starting out again!?

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

A couple weeks was all it took for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a social meet a couple of weeks after we joined.. then took us well over a year to "take the plunge" and well... we never looked back

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Five days

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By *educing_EmCouple
over a year ago

Tipperary

A week or 2 I think

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By *hatCoupleNextDoor OP Couple
over a year ago

nearby

We were obviously just chicken sh**s

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By *ild_flowersCouple
over a year ago

Bukkakevile

A few weeks....not long....we tried a different site first and it was terrible....what would we do differently? Good question....not much....takes time to get relaxed about this approach to Debauchery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not that question ye dirty things

We were watching Open House last night and it got us thinking about our own experiences...

We were nearly 2years on here before we actually had a meet (covid didnt help)

Well been in isolation for so long it takes time to get back to normal. I battled at first with busy shops and work. Never mind the dirty fun things. Worst was traveling, I had no choice to travel over seas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on here about 5 months and getting a bit disillusioned. Went to Lanzarote for a weeks holiday and updated my status to “In PDC Lanzarote, Anyone interested?” Got a message within a few minutes which resulted in a great sweaty afternoon off sex . Sadly she headed back to Newcastle the following morning.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Had my first social about 3 weeks after joining and my second a couple of weeks after that.

Looking back I would have changed a lot of things and have done since because they led to the first and worst play meet.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Joined one weekend, took a few days to get photo verified before we could view the site, went to the RVC social the following weekend.

A baptism of fire but we have stayed friends with those who took us under their wing that night.

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By *UIETELLE2052Couple
over a year ago

Dundrum/Rathfarnham

We joined around this time last year. We were experienced club swingers from Paris and NL but Sue found the idea of sex with strangers in daylight more personal and daunting than dimly lit clubs. Took until February this year to take the plunge. Now Sue finds it very exciting. A great community for sure

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By *irdyxWoman
over a year ago

dublin/ Birmingham

Took a couple of days . Not what we expected .left came back and now here on and off for 6 years we use fab suit us .we've met some seriously lovely people and had some great experience.

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By *andR2019Couple
over a year ago

Nunya

We had a meet arranged after a week on here but they ghosted us. Managed a quick coffee meet to replace it instead and then within the first month we went to Vanilla Club and haven’t looked back.

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford

I'm on here 7 month's, no meets of any kind yet anyway's. I'll be freaking out some what when or if they happen.

Can't say what I'd change or not change yet.

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
over a year ago

kinkytown

When we were in here as singles it was within a couple of weeks of joining. When we started the couple's profile think it was about a month (was an old meet of Dee's and only took a month because we had to sync up schedules

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By *ondalingerMan
over a year ago

City center

3 months i think. I was very disappointed that just by setting up a profile and putting up pics of me fabulous willy didn't draw attention in. I was like wtf are these people blind. Sadly it doesn't seem to work like that for the average looking guy. But eventually it started to fall into place. After my first meet i got a meet with a friend of my first meet. Women talk thank god

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By *hatCoupleNextDoor OP Couple
over a year ago

nearby

"When we were in here as singles it was within a couple of weeks of joining. When we started the couple's profile think it was about a month (was an old meet of Dee's and only took a month because we had to sync up schedules

Schedules are definitely difficult at times, especially when it's 2 couples, between work and family and that, thanks for the reply

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By *hatCoupleNextDoor OP Couple
over a year ago

nearby

"3 months i think. I was very disappointed that just by setting up a profile and putting up pics of me fabulous willy didn't draw attention in. I was like wtf are these people blind. Sadly it doesn't seem to work like that for the average looking guy. But eventually it started to fall into place. After my first meet i got a meet with a friend of my first meet. Women talk thank god"

Once you get one veri it gets easier to set up more meets, people are skeptical

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By *hatCoupleNextDoor OP Couple
over a year ago

nearby

"I'm on here 7 month's, no meets of any kind yet anyway's. I'll be freaking out some what when or if they happen.

Can't say what I'd change or not change yet.

Oh we all freak out the first time, wouldn't be human if ye weren't nervous/excited

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford

"I'm on here 7 month's, no meets of any kind yet anyway's. I'll be freaking out some what when or if they happen.

Can't say what I'd change or not change yet.

Oh we all freak out the first time, wouldn't be human if ye weren't nervous/excited

Ya,that's true.

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By *wing_4_funxCouple
over a year ago

mayo

Took us a couple of months but our first meet was with the loveliest people ,then COVID hit and nothing for 2 years ,came back and went to socials & some parties & have not looked back since .

Would we do anything different probably not as everything is a learning experience & an experience we are enjoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was here 4 months before I actually got a reply back from a lady which wasn't a "I'm not interested".

Took at least another 2 months of chatting before we consummated our friendship.

That was over 7 years ago.

She still might message me an odd time but that's it

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By *yperbunnyxxxWoman
over a year ago

kilkenny

"I'm on here 7 month's, no meets of any kind yet anyway's. I'll be freaking out some what when or if they happen.

Can't say what I'd change or not change yet.

The wall of text on your profile is a lot to go through

Use meet a fabber to help get you verified

Hopefully that will help with getting a meeting

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By *ornywife20Couple
over a year ago

North Cork

"I'm on here 7 month's, no meets of any kind yet anyway's. I'll be freaking out some what when or if they happen.

Can't say what I'd change or not change yet.

The wall of text on your profile is a lot to go through

Use meet a fabber to help get you verified

Hopefully that will help with getting a meeting

Must agree its like reading an essay not going to do you any favours .

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By *ornywife20Couple
over a year ago

North Cork

I think we were on about a month got our first meet and play on the same night then covid made total shite of everything for about a year and a half .

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By *s louWoman
over a year ago

Enniskillen

"Five days

SLUT!!!

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By *s louWoman
over a year ago

Enniskillen

I was on for about 6 months before I actually jumped in at the deep end and went to the venue. Never looked back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few chats but no meet yet. First step seems to be the hardest even though I get the impression a lot of people here are genuine and nice

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"Five days

SLUT!!!

Dont u know it

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