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By *apri 555 OP   Man
over a year ago

wexford or Dublin

So what do others do ?

If you see a fabber you like and want to meet or just chat , fab their pictures ,send them a Wink or just go ahead and message them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fab and wink. But most woman here don't look on that because they have that more then messages in inbox so I write message too

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
over a year ago

kinkytown

Wink sometimes but mainly mail people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what do others do ?

If you see a fabber you like and want to meet or just chat , fab their pictures ,send them a Wink or just go ahead and message them."

I'm pretty slow off the mark in that regard.Im more interested in members that use the forum. It just seems to be a more immediate process, even if the meets are not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll send a message usually as winks & fabs can go a miss

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Haven't done any of that in a few years now. I just take part in the forums and if people like what they read they contact me.

I don't fab pics of people I've never chatted to.

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By *rystalsswingCouple
over a year ago

Galway

Normally a

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

I message (herself), he takes the lazy man option and winks

I don't respond to winks, he doesn't either cos he's too lazy to

You want our attention (or mine really ), send a message

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By *riendly_fun_guyMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Most ppl say they don’t look at winks so a fab of their pictures a msg that leads to a chat…. Sometimes!

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By *rystalsswingCouple
over a year ago

Galway


"Most ppl say they don’t look at winks so a fab of their pictures a msg that leads to a chat…. Sometimes! "

Must be where I'm going wrong

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Hotlisted usually but the list just gets longer and longer

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By *uriousVoyeurMan
over a year ago

Northside

I don't view profiles in stealth mode... I'll fab pics and if I like the look of them I'll drop a wink too. It just means whoever I'm looking at can see I've viewed them and am interested. If they want to get in touch then happy days...if not,no harm done!! It really limits interaction but I'd rather that than be annoying people with unsolicited messages!!

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south


"Hotlisted usually but the list just gets longer and longer "
mostly like there pictures and wink and wank and write too but box’s are all full or I like to think that lol

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By *ewcouplesdCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

We always send a wink if we like what we see

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast

I don’t think winks generally work on women or couples. I would usually send a message and hope for the best.

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By *onderingpurposeMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Depends how much time I have. A message if I have the time. A wink if I don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a winker cos I'm shy. E will usually message.

We just fab photos that we like; there's no overture being made when we do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually wink because I am conscious that the women here are totally inundated with messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been too shy to send a first message yet

So I usually just fab or occasionally wink..and if that doesn’t work I just go back to creeping from afar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always send them a message. It shows a bit more respect to them and lets them know that at least I read their profile.

If I receive a wink, I send a message thanking them for taking the time to read my profile.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

I usually wink ... however its a lil to subtle and messages are prob more effective

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By *apri 555 OP   Man
over a year ago

wexford or Dublin

So generally there is nothing set in stone but a message seems the way to go,,,thanks all for the input,,,ye are a sound bunch

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

Wink and Fab pics myself, rarely message as I'm quite shy at first.

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By *1CorkCouple
over a year ago

London

We will fab pics quite often on friends and local updates, but we wink to indicate we’re interested in a couple. If the wink is reciprocated, we’ll definitely message. We’re more likely to message at times when we’ve no planned meets.

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By *apri 555 OP   Man
over a year ago

wexford or Dublin


"We will fab pics quite often on friends and local updates, but we wink to indicate we’re interested in a couple. If the wink is reciprocated, we’ll definitely message. We’re more likely to message at times when we’ve no planned meets."

Good morning

So the way you guys do it is like a bit of a build up to a msg , fab shows ya like a pic ,a wink shows intrest and hopfully leads to a msg ,

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By *apri 555 OP   Man
over a year ago

wexford or Dublin


"Wink and Fab pics myself, rarely message as I'm quite shy at first."

I dont normally use the wink ,

Think i will start after reading all the replys ,thank you

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford

I mainly Fab a pic or maybe a few of them, any more. I've winked & sent messages in the past & got no reply. That's there right & no harm done. So if I've winked, messaged a profile in the past & didn't get a reply, I'm not going to do it again. As I don't want to be seen as pushy or doing there headin either. There's enough of that happening with out me adding to it.

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

I fab a pic and if they fab one of mine a chat normally follows

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
over a year ago

Casa Del Fun


"We always send a wink if we like what we see "

Winks can be misconstrued, we actually had a couple of knock backs in the past after we responded to some winks so we don’t bother with them anymore (unless we get a message with it) now we either just fab or send a message

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Never look at winks if im interested in someone ill send a message

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By *exesrangerMan
over a year ago

Jameson main bar

I've no problem fabbing pics. A good picture is a good picture and deserves a fab. Apart from that if it's a profile I like but I've absolutely no interaction with before,I might show interest by sending a wink and fabbing some pics (not necessarily every single pic) if a wink happens to find it's way back to me then I'll send a msg and say hi.

I think a lot of ppl here now have come to the realisation that women and couples get bombarded with msgs that are likely to get bulk deleted or just not read anyway, so a wink can have every much a chance of being seen as a msg. It can be disheartening when you do put time and effort into writing a decent msg only for it to be ignored deleted and never read.

Tbh I kinda think it's better for the women and couples to send msgs first as you know they will be read and guys will respond. But hey,that only one dish of a varied menu and there are many other dished ppl can choose from here.

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By *adger BrocMan
over a year ago

Co. Cork


"I’ve been too shy to send a first message yet

So I usually just fab or occasionally wink..and if that doesn’t work I just go back to creeping from afar "

You shy Emm......never.

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By *adger BrocMan
over a year ago

Co. Cork

I wink, Fab, message, post on forums, perv hot pics, add to hot list, view cams, block and get blocked.

The full Fab experience.

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By *onnieBMan
over a year ago

in the middle of

In like flying.... and sent

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By *overs65Couple
over a year ago

mullingar

We've sent quiet a few messages and no reply,and seem to get more response from winks,so not sure what to think.

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By *onnieBMan
over a year ago

in the middle of

In like flynn....dam autocorrect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab pictures, and message.

Replying on Forum posts too .

So many beautiful sexy people on here that you can get lost on it all

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By *eckycd41TV/TS
over a year ago

Navan

Wink u look great

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