FabSwingers.com forum: Why are women more into taller men?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So why are women more into taller men?

And when men are more into slimmer women, it’s perceived negative towards men for that choice?

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

For me personally given himself is a foot taller than me its a thing of feeling like he can "protect" me but also that he can pick me up and throw me around etc (consensual sexual way obvs) mind you its hard not to be taller than me so theres that.

In terms of men getting a hard time if their preference is for slimmer women, i havent personally seen it but they shouldnt. A lot of people have preference for certain bodies and what "floats our boat" and noone should get any shit for what they like and are attracted to.

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By *arrot_in_a_boxCouple
over a year ago

kinda dublin

They are two completely different things. I'm pretty sure women love fit and toned men, as much as men love it in women.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

I'm into smaller women in height to me ...sorta fit better together lying in bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a fat woman, I have no negative feelings towards men who prefer slim women.

I'm also a woman who prefers tall men. It's an aesthetic that appeals to me. I like a man to envelop me. I like when we hug to rest my head on his chest. I enjoy the protector feeling. I like looking up into a man's eyes. I like having to get up on my tiptoes to steal a kiss.

When I'm with a short man I feel like his mammy. I feel huge. I feel awkward. I feel self conscious. I feel like a (wo)man mountain.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm into smaller women in height to me ...sorta fit better together lying in bed "

How tall are you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As a fat woman, I have no negative feelings towards men who prefer slim women.

When I'm with a short man I feel like his mammy. I feel huge. I feel awkward. I feel self conscious. I feel like a (wo)man mountain."

So what’s average minimum hight guy go for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m 6”2, not just Fab 6”2 either ..

But I had a gf who was 6 foot and I loved it , loved shorter women too, and inbetween. It’s not w dealbreaker for me is my point, and for others it is and that’s just way of it.

Much rather someone says right out what they don’t like, saves time gettin invested in something that’s doomed from the get go .

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

It's evolutionary. Tall people didn't have any problem stunting their height. They could be healthy and strong and well able to hunt and gather food so they were able to grow tall. That means he is more likely to have the resources to feed and protect his mate and their kids.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m also 6’2”. I enjoy being with women of all heights, from short to tall.

Given my own height it’s usual that women are quite a bit shorter than me. I actually don’t think I’ve ever been with someone my own height- I think that would be an interesting experience!

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By *andR2019Couple
over a year ago

Nunya

As others have said height is an evolutionary trait and has that feel of protection.

Regarding men, the only time I’ve seen it as an issue is when other men are nasty or ignorant with how they make their preferences known. You don’t have to belittle someone’s weight or shape when say you prefer a slimmer person.

Ultimately it’s an each to their own choice.

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
over a year ago

kinkytown

Like.everurhing here it's a preference. I have zero interest in meeting someone shorter than me, been there done that, found it a huge disappointment every time. So my preference is for taller and won't change

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

One of the things I've learned since joining fab and meeting people of varying stature and shape is to be much for comfortable and confident in my preferences.

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By *nna and MikeCouple
over a year ago

Kildare, Laois

I'm 5'1 so everyone's taller than me lol Height has never been a thing I'm looking at before meeting someone. If the right vibe and connection is there, the body shape, the height and the age really don't matter. However, I do have a weakness for tall men with dad bods, in my experience, they give the sweetest cuddles

Anna

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny

"I'm 5'1 so everyone's taller than me lol Height has never been a thing I'm looking at before meeting someone. If the right vibe and connection is there, the body shape, the height and the age really don't matter. However, I do have a weakness for tall men with dad bods, in my experience, they give the sweetest cuddles

Anna "

We do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"However, I do have a weakness for tall men with dad bods, in my experience, they give the sweetest cuddles

Anna "

I can confirm that’s the case

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
over a year ago

The West

"I’m also 6’2”. I enjoy being with women of all heights, from short to tall.

Given my own height it’s usual that women are quite a bit shorter than me. I actually don’t think I’ve ever been with someone my own height- I think that would be an interesting experience!"

Same, I don't think I've ever been with a woman my own height.

Tall, fit women are the real unicorns!

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By *iery minxWoman
over a year ago

kildare

I don't really go looking for a guy based on his height but I do believe it could be an evolutionary thing because I do tend to end up with men at least a foot+ taller than me. To be honest im short anyway so finding a guy my height might prove difficult

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Like.everurhing here it's a preference. I have zero interest in meeting someone shorter than me, been there done that, found it a huge disappointment every time. So my preference is for taller and won't change "

What hight are you

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
over a year ago

kinkytown

What hight are you"

5'11

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m also 6’2”. I enjoy being with women of all heights, from short to tall.

Given my own height it’s usual that women are quite a bit shorter than me. I actually don’t think I’ve ever been with someone my own height- I think that would be an interesting experience!

Well I have always had girls that are shorter than me! But every relationship had shit!

Same, I don't think I've ever been with a woman my own height.

Tall, fit women are the real unicorns!"

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By *ung guyMan
over a year ago

kildare

Well I’m 6’4” and still finding it difficult on fab. Maybe the smaller men try harder to get women here. On the body shape I much rather a female with a big ass and big tits and in order for a female to have these things they need to have weight on them and I’m happy with that. So bring on the sexy curvy women

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By *llthewaysMan
over a year ago

Kildare/Dublin

Height has never been a think I was checking to be honest, unless the person states they want someone taller/shorter than them. I am fairly average height for an Irish guy, so not bothered either way.

Also OP you can just check peoples profiles for their height rather than asking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a fat woman, I have no negative feelings towards men who prefer slim women.

When I'm with a short man I feel like his mammy. I feel huge. I feel awkward. I feel self conscious. I feel like a (wo)man mountain.

So what’s average minimum hight guy go for?"

I prefer 6ft plus

Obviously there are exceptions and being tall doesn't trump everything else

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By *ung guyMan
over a year ago

kildare

Yeah but what people put on there profile here more than likely isn’t the truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah but what people put on there profile here more than likely isn’t the truth "

It often isn't. We try and factor that in here -

H minus 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure aren't we all the same height lying down

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"I'm into smaller women in height to me ...sorta fit better together lying in bed

How tall are you"

I'm 5 foot 10 so standard enough

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By *ung guyMan
over a year ago

kildare

Ha always minus never plus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's purely preference I think.

Some like taller and won't waver on that.

Some like bigger some like smaller bodies.

You can't please everyone or be everyone's cup of tea either.

Personality will attract me a lot quicker than height will.

I married a guy that's shorter than me

Em x

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Height mattered to me when I was younger. Nowadays I couldn't be bothered. There's other great characteristics that I find much more convincing.

Anyhow it always intrigues me that height is a selection criteria of first degree on here; what happened to all the 'personality' claims?

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Height isn't something I've ever really been bothered about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Height mattered to me when I was younger. Nowadays I couldn't be bothered. There's other great characteristics that I find much more convincing.

Anyhow it always intrigues me that height is a selection criteria of first degree on here; what happened to all the 'personality' claims?

I've always been open about being one of those shallow cunts who wants physical attraction first

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

"Height mattered to me when I was younger. Nowadays I couldn't be bothered. There's other great characteristics that I find much more convincing.

Anyhow it always intrigues me that height is a selection criteria of first degree on here; what happened to all the 'personality' claims?

I've always been open about being one of those shallow cunts who wants physical attraction first

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Height mattered to me when I was younger. Nowadays I couldn't be bothered. There's other great characteristics that I find much more convincing.

Anyhow it always intrigues me that height is a selection criteria of first degree on here; what happened to all the 'personality' claims?

I've always been open about being one of those shallow cunts who wants physical attraction first

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"Height mattered to me when I was younger. Nowadays I couldn't be bothered. There's other great characteristics that I find much more convincing.

Anyhow it always intrigues me that height is a selection criteria of first degree on here; what happened to all the 'personality' claims?

I've always been open about being one of those shallow cunts who wants physical attraction first

I think there's nothing wrong with that whatsoever, especially when you're looking for a nsa encounter only. We do 'eat' with all our senses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Height mattered to me when I was younger. Nowadays I couldn't be bothered. There's other great characteristics that I find much more convincing.

Anyhow it always intrigues me that height is a selection criteria of first degree on here; what happened to all the 'personality' claims?

I've always been open about being one of those shallow cunts who wants physical attraction first

I think there's nothing wrong with that whatsoever, especially when you're looking for a nsa encounter only. We do 'eat' with all our senses.

And then there is the few here that don't eat at all.

I'm keeping hydrated anyhows, but a shell of a man since I joined the site.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Ridiculous behaviour... Wanting to be attracted to the person you're having sex with.

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By *arryWhiteXxxMan
over a year ago

Midleton

I'm 5'8", and must admit to having a fascination with taller women. I love spending time in the company of a women who is taller than me.

Tall and curvy... my knees go weak!

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

Being quite tall myself, I prefer a taller guy or someone my own height at least .It wouldn't be a deal breaker tho !

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By *igkidexyMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I'm 6ft9 never find woman that wants tall guy like me

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"I'm 6ft9 never find woman that wants tall guy like me "

Looking at your picture that coukd be 2 separate measurements

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Watched that male es-cort program on channel 4 or so, there was a woman running an exclusive 'companion' service, men under 6 foot don't need to apply.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"Watched that male es-cort program on channel 4 or so, there was a woman running an exclusive 'companion' service, men under 6 foot don't need to apply.

...as in they're not tall enough.

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

I am more drawn to a guy 6ft plus but it’s not a dealbreaker.

For me, it’s about feeling enveloped by a guy. I’m taller and broader than all my friends so it’s nice to feel “small” now and then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all down to personal choice, but I prefer a lady around 5ft 6 plus but that doesn't mean I won't meet shorter than that!!!

I don't discriminate

All nationalities as I saw on a profile somewhere

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"Well I’m 6’4” and still finding it difficult on fab. Maybe the smaller men try harder to get women here. On the body shape I much rather a female with a big ass and big tits and in order for a female to have these things they need to have weight on them and I’m happy with that. So bring on the sexy curvy women "

Hello

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"I'm 6ft9 never find woman that wants tall guy like me "

Holy fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm 6ft9 never find woman that wants tall guy like me

Holy fuck

I think you broke Lolly…

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"I'm 6ft9 never find woman that wants tall guy like me

Holy fuck

I think you broke Lolly…"

That height absofuckingloutly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So why are women more into taller men?

And when men are more into slimmer women, it’s perceived negatively towards men for that choice?

It's simply down to genetics and DNA programming-women are more drawn to tall and broad men as subconsciously such are deemed as more protective and possibly more virile. In the same way, men can't help staring at a woman's breasts-its the nurturing thing as we suckled on them as babies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm 6ft9 never find woman that wants tall guy like me

Holy fuck

I think you broke Lolly…

That height absofuckingloutly

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"So why are women more into taller men?

And when men are more into slimmer women, it’s perceived negatively towards men for that choice?

Thats why the baby formula aisle gives me a hard on

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By *astelloWoman
over a year ago

Far far away

I like taller guys and more physically bigger than me. Im 5ft1 so most guys are, but my preference is 6ft... Its the practical things you see...

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south

"I'm 6ft9 never find woman that wants tall guy like me

Holy fuck

I think you broke Lolly…

That height absofuckingloutly

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I think I could miss out a amazing woman if I worried about Height weight etc personality comes in all shades all sizes all ages and we are not taking them on for life !! It’s a swinging site

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By *reyback83Man
over a year ago

BALLYMENA

I’m 6’5” and only in recent years felt comfortable in my height, was always insecure about it before.

Especially when I got attention simply for being tall.

A good question is why are tall guys like me often really into short curvy girls?

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

"For me personally given himself is a foot taller than me its a thing of feeling like he can "protect" me but also that he can pick me up and throw me around etc (consensual sexual way obvs) mind you its hard not to be taller than me so theres that.

There is a disparity when it comes to preferences.

Men are more likely to get it in the neck and challenged for having preferences.

Women can have a preference list as long as your arm and this is acceptable.

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

Some of us are just more down to earth that others…….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Height has nothing to do with it really.. plenty of room between the bed & the ceiling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Height has nothing to do with it really.. plenty of room between the bed & the ceiling.

Unless you’re in a bunk bed.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

"So why are women more into taller men?

And when men are more into slimmer women, it’s perceived negative towards men for that choice?

I would say a large part of the drive is sociological too ...

We are culturally influenced to stick with this stereotype too !

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By *rlandoMan
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"So why are women more into taller men?

And when men are more into slimmer women, it’s perceived negative towards men for that choice?

what if he s got no legs but a giant cock ?

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

"Sure aren't we all the same height lying down

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exactly

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

"So why are women more into taller men?

And when men are more into slimmer women, it’s perceived negative towards men for that

what if he s got no legs but a giant cock ?

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then he can walk on his cock

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By *yperbunnyxxxWoman
over a year ago

kilkenny

I do like taller men but at 5’2 everyone is taller than me lol

I do think it’s more of a natural attraction and you feel safer with a man who is taller than you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So why are women more into taller men?

And when men are more into slimmer women, it’s perceived negative towards men for that

what if he s got no legs but a giant cock ?

then he can walk on his cock

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's purely preference I think.

Some like taller and won't waver on that.

Some like bigger some like smaller bodies.

You can't please everyone or be everyone's cup of tea either.

Personality will attract me a lot quicker than height will.

I married a guy that's shorter than me

Em x"

Oh, cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seen you mentioned about him protect you and first pic I see on your profile is Mike mayers , scarred the sh1t out of me lol

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By *DSGCouple
over a year ago

That place in

I was into 6'3 + men but then meet my Mr who 5'6 (im 5'4)and it felt so right

Good things do come in small parcels lol

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

Men tend to be taller than women anyway so I think it's prob an evolution thing since the days we were swinging from trees and seeking mates to procreate

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

I seen you mentioned about him protect you and first pic I see on your profile is Mike mayers , scarred the sh1t out of me lol"

Yeah sorry about that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm into smaller women in height to me ...sorta fit better together lying in bed

How tall are you

I'm 5 foot 10 so standard enough "

I am 5,7 foot, but feel like not good enough! And most comments women like 6+… though shorter dude could take out a tall dude if he is very fit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I would love if all men did that and not try bite my nipple off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love been with taller men, not saying the sex is better that depends on the guy and connection. Maybe at 5ft10 I was always considered tall growing up (and in irish terms.. a big girl with child bearing hips), so it's nice to be with guy that doesn't make me feel BIG. Plus I rather keep my bending over activities for other things than kissing him.

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

"I'm into smaller women in height to me ...sorta fit better together lying in bed

How tall are you

I'm 5 foot 10 so standard enough

I am 5,7 foot, but feel like not good enough! And most comments women like 6+… though shorter dude could take out a tall dude if he is very fit."

Women who like taller men are not interested in if they are tough or not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I would love if all men did that and not try bite my nipple off! "

Certified tall, non-nipple biter here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I would love if all men did that and not try bite my nipple off!

Certified tall, non-nipple biter here

Good to know! Maybe some men weren't breast fed and don't have the natural instinct to suckle rather than bite! Think this could be another forum question!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm into smaller women in height to me ...sorta fit better together lying in bed

How tall are you

I'm 5 foot 10 so standard enough

I am 5,7 foot, but feel like not good enough! And most comments women like 6+… though shorter dude could take out a tall dude if he is very fit.

Women who like taller men are not interested in if they are tough or not!"

Is it he have bigger cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm into smaller women in height to me ...sorta fit better together lying in bed

How tall are you

I'm 5 foot 10 so standard enough

I am 5,7 foot, but feel like not good enough! And most comments women like 6+… though shorter dude could take out a tall dude if he is very fit."

I feel like

is now my default response these days

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm into smaller women in height to me ...sorta fit better together lying in bed

How tall are you

I'm 5 foot 10 so standard enough

I am 5,7 foot, but feel like not good enough! And most comments women like 6+… though shorter dude could take out a tall dude if he is very fit.

I feel like

is now my default response these days"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I would love if all men did that and not try bite my nipple off!

Certified tall, non-nipple biter here

Good to know! Maybe some men weren't breast fed and don't have the natural instinct to suckle rather than bite! Think this could be another forum question!

I do believe you’re right - that would be a good forum question

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

In a recently conducted study by Sydney University it was found that the most common word to appear on profiles in the “looking for interesting in” part of a bio was……tall…..

Harumph……

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

I find that if women want me to be taller then I just stand closer to them

This man is small, that man is far away

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