FabSwingers.com forum: Breeding

By *agnus_D OP Man
over a year ago

Belfast

Obviously its a taboo subject especially in the current times but does anyone else just gets turned on by fantasizing about breeding other people? Obviously its primal, but I feel like there's much more to it than that.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

I don't think it's taboo it's just that many women are understandably worried that a man looking for this would be expecting unprotected sex... Which most women wouldn't be into.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What exactly does breeding mean?

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford

"What exactly does breeding mean?

You've unprotected sex with a woman & she gets pregnant from it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What exactly does breeding mean?

You've unprotected sex with a woman & she gets pregnant from it.

Not at all. Yes unprotected sex. This is a kink. The desired outcome is not a pregnancy. It about the conceived risk of pregnancy, the mind set of the individuals in a particular moment.

I'm certain it's practiced safely (birth control) and with trust at the fore. Not a flippant activity done by the foolish

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By *1CorkCouple
over a year ago

Cork

Is the risk of 18 years of child support payments part of the buzz?

Apologies, that was flippant. Presumably breeding doesn’t work as a kink if female contraceptives are knowingly involved?

Are the weeks waiting (stewing?) after sex part of the thrill/ experience? If yes, we had enough of that from school and college days to know this kink isn’t for either of us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What exactly does breeding mean?

You've unprotected sex with a woman & she gets pregnant from it.

Not at all. Yes unprotected sex. This is a kink. The desired outcome is not a pregnancy. It about the conceived risk of pregnancy, the mind set of the individuals in a particular moment.

I'm certain it's practiced safely (birth control) and with trust at the fore. Not a flippant activity done by the foolish"

Where is this idyllic utopia you speak of?

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford

"What exactly does breeding mean?

You've unprotected sex with a woman & she gets pregnant from it.

Not at all. Yes unprotected sex. This is a kink. The desired outcome is not a pregnancy. It about the conceived risk of pregnancy, the mind set of the individuals in a particular moment.

I'm certain it's practiced safely (birth control) and with trust at the fore. Not a flippant activity done by the foolish"

Who said there wasn't any trust between the two people involved or that it's flippant?

Also IF birth control of some kind is used. It's highly unlikely for the rick of a pregnancy/breeding to happen. That said not all birth controls will prevent pregnancy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What exactly does breeding mean?

You've unprotected sex with a woman & she gets pregnant from it.

Not at all. Yes unprotected sex. This is a kink. The desired outcome is not a pregnancy. It about the conceived risk of pregnancy, the mind set of the individuals in a particular moment.

I'm certain it's practiced safely (birth control) and with trust at the fore. Not a flippant activity done by the foolish

Where is this idyllic utopia you speak of?

Nothing idyllic implied. Not my kink.If it was , the trust factor would need to be very strong to avoid the unwanted. An std or pregnancy

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

I'm not sure if actual pregnancy risk is necessary. That can be roleplayed. No-condomn sex is probably necessary though.

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By *adrarfjordr VoyeurMan
over a year ago

Waterford

"I'm not sure if actual pregnancy risk is necessary. That can be roleplayed. No-condomn sex is probably necessary though."

I'm pretty sure that's the whole point otherwise it's like cuckolding without the humiliation aspect, something entirely different

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By *urious4lifeCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Pregnancy fear is not on the top of my list when it comes to unprotected sex with strangers.

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford

"Pregnancy fear is not on the top of my list when it comes to unprotected sex with strangers. "

I'd say that's true with nearly everybody. I'd say it's mainly the thoughs of an STI or HIV, that's at the top of the list. When having unprotected sex with stranger's in general.

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By *agnus_D OP Man
over a year ago

Belfast

Absolutely get it, and ofcourse no one here is trying to get pregnant out of a stranger but do all guys feel the same? And do the ladies have a similar desire that is trumped by the idea of unprotected sex which is obviously risky, and the idea of children?

This is genuine question. Would like everyone's insight.

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By *agnus_D OP Man
over a year ago

Belfast

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By *agnus_D OP Man
over a year ago

Belfast

"What exactly does breeding mean?

You've unprotected sex with a woman & she gets pregnant from it.

Not at all. Yes unprotected sex. This is a kink. The desired outcome is not a pregnancy. It about the conceived risk of pregnancy, the mind set of the individuals in a particular moment.

I'm certain it's practiced safely (birth control) and with trust at the fore. Not a flippant activity done by the foolish"

Yes exactly, and Im sorry for not explaining myself a little better.

The baseline would be obviously with a trusted partner and not with randomers on fab. Its exactly as you said, the mindset of the moment and the risk but not the worry. There's of course alot to it but would make for too long of a conversation.

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By *agnus_D OP Man
over a year ago

Belfast

"I'm not sure if actual pregnancy risk is necessary. That can be roleplayed. No-condomn sex is probably necessary though."

I think for some people it is. Personally pregnancy is not the "kink" for me. Its that expression, the moan and the experience sharing with the partner. Its the forgetting every and all worries just in that moment. Again sound oretty basic but much more to it

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By *agnus_D OP Man
over a year ago

Belfast

"I'm not sure if actual pregnancy risk is necessary. That can be roleplayed. No-condomn sex is probably necessary though.

I'm pretty sure that's the whole point otherwise it's like cuckolding without the humiliation aspect, something entirely different"

That is also part of it indeed. But in this case just focusing on a TRUSTED partner where the risk of sti's isnt an issue.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"I'm not sure if actual pregnancy risk is necessary. That can be roleplayed. No-condomn sex is probably necessary though.

I'm pretty sure that's the whole point otherwise it's like cuckolding without the humiliation aspect, something entirely different

That is also part of it indeed. But in this case just focusing on a TRUSTED partner where the risk of sti's isnt an issue."

I'm pretty sure the creation of a new human being is an issue even with someone you trust.

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By *ot neuteredMan
over a year ago

Kildare

Would age become a factor in this kink if the woman involved is no longer of childbearing age, is it then just bareback sex, which some women and couples on here request.

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By *s979Man
over a year ago

same

"Pregnancy fear is not on the top of my list when it comes to unprotected sex with strangers. "

Spot on

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By *llthewaysMan
over a year ago

City centre/Naas

The fantasy of breeding is an incredible turn on for me. But that remains in fantasy only.

In real life safe sex is much more important. Plus the idea of actually getting someone pregnant and leaving them to deal with it is horrific.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to try this. Of course with some birth control. It would be more about the risk of pregnancy and fulfilling someone’s desire to be used and bred

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd assume this would be a kink for a man too. Knowing he's just left a load and that natural human instict flickers in the mind. If she holds his load, his mind knows the natural process. Similar in ways to hit wives arriving home with a load to their partner.

Though as I've said previously not my kink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That should read hot wives rather than hit. Couldn't condone hitting wives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a huge kink

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

"Is the risk of 18 years of child support payments part of the buzz?

Apologies, that was flippant. Presumably breeding doesn’t work as a kink if female contraceptives are knowingly involved?

Are the weeks waiting (stewing?) after sex part of the thrill/ experience? If yes, we had enough of that from school and college days to know this kink isn’t for either of us!"

Apologies for being flippant are surely only relevant if flippancy was an accident which couldn't possibly be the case in writing.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

To my understanding breeding isn't about getting pregnant it's about coming in someone that's why it's such a big thing in the gay scene too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Obviously its a taboo subject especially in the current times but does anyone else just gets turned on by fantasizing about breeding other people? Obviously its primal, but I feel like there's much more to it than that."

Breeding should only be with you partner, where not sleeping around! If having sex with different people you need to wear protection… STI and HIV aids is real. Don’t treat it as it won’t happen to me! Only a fool will say that

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

Thanks mammy

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"Would love to try this. Of course with some birth control. It would be more about the risk of pregnancy and fulfilling someone’s desire to be used and bred "

But there is no risk of pregnancy or birth control is used? I don't understand

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

It's not for us, but it's harsh to call the many many people who enjoy no-condom sex "fools". They have their preferences and that's ok. Their body their risk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not for us, but it's harsh to call the many many people who enjoy no-condom sex "fools". They have their preferences and that's ok. Their body their risk "

Yes it is harsh - it’s called responsibility!

Yeah with a partner and no one alse, who would want to ware a condom. I wouldn’t…

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

We are all responsible for ourselves. What others choose to do is up to them.

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By *1CorkCouple
over a year ago

Cork

"Is the risk of 18 years of child support payments part of the buzz?

Apologies, that was flippant. Presumably breeding doesn’t work as a kink if female contraceptives are knowingly involved?

Are the weeks waiting (stewing?) after sex part of the thrill/ experience? If yes, we had enough of that from school and college days to know this kink isn’t for either of us!

Apologies for being flippant are surely only relevant if flippancy was an accident which couldn't possibly be the case in writing.

? "

Sometimes we can’t resist a tongue-in-cheek comment, or part of a comment, but wish to highlight this intention in the absence of tone in the written medium. We wanted to make it clear in this particular case that it wasn’t meant to kink shame in any way. Apologies if our delivery offended you - the contributor with the most considered, wise and respectful comments in the forum. Langer.

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By *1CorkCouple
over a year ago

Cork

"To my understanding breeding isn't about getting pregnant it's about coming in someone that's why it's such a big thing in the gay scene too!"

Really! Guess the definition of breeding is ‘evolving’ if it’s a big thing in the gay community!

Keep calling us up on our comments though.

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By *adrarfjordr VoyeurMan
over a year ago

Waterford

"To my understanding breeding isn't about getting pregnant it's about coming in someone that's why it's such a big thing in the gay scene too!"

How the hell is it a thing in the gay community

Just having sex without a condom is not breeding

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"To my understanding breeding isn't about getting pregnant it's about coming in someone that's why it's such a big thing in the gay scene too!

How the hell is it a thing in the gay community

Just having sex without a condom is not breeding "

There's a huge amount of threads calling breeding that involve gay men ....usually called breeding my hole or man pussy

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By *agnus_D OP Man
over a year ago

Belfast

As I said, the premise is that its done with 1 a trusted partner and not randomers online because obviously STI isnt on the menu. Because im pretty sure we've all done it at home with our own partners.

Second the pregnancy or the risk thereof isnt really a turn on at all. The assumption seems to be breeding randomers online but its not, for sure not healthy and I wouldn't risk it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Second the pregnancy or the risk thereof isnt really a turn on at all. "

"A breeding fetish is a strong attraction to the idea of getting -- or getting someone else -- pregnant. Frequently, this fetish involves a person with a penis ejaculating into someone with a uterus, “breeding” them. People with a breeding fetish generally enjoy the “risky” feeling of potentially permanent consequences from a sexual act"

It's literally what a breeding kink is. Obviously some are only role-playing it but I'm not sure why you're at such pains to say that it's nothing to do with getting pregnant.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

I think I'd you're not turned on by the idea of getting someone pregnant or being made pregnant... Then you're not into breeding.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Sorry..

I think IF you're not turned on by the idea of getting someone pregnant or being made pregnant... Then you're not into breeding.

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By *otrod66Man
over a year ago

Letterkenny

If the lady was in her 60s is she too old for breeding ? Just asking for a friend ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the lady was in her 60s is she too old for breeding ? Just asking for a friend ??"

Those who are turned on by the idea of being bred/breeding but for whom it's a physical impossibility, often role play it. Like BM mentioned above, it's huge in gay porn

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By *o_Poseidon_o0Man
over a year ago

"Pregnancy fear is not on the top of my list when it comes to unprotected sex with strangers. "

Thanks to nowadays common contraceptive pills, diaphragms, patch or morning pills. Imagine when those weren’t existing and you had unprotected sex with a stranger which you had no idea if he was gonna pull out or not…. Pregnancy would be on top of your list then…

The breeding kink nowadays is probably more like a fantasy kink… well for most…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the lady was in her 60s is she too old for breeding ? Just asking for a friend ??"

Sick puppy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of us and the snip so it's all good

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

It's quite funny when you think about it.

The only reason we have reproductive organs is to procreate, it's the only reason we are hard wired to want sex and desire sex but it's a taboo kink.

Yet the next forum post you read could be about transvestites looking for a bareback gangbang and no one will as judgemental!

Just an observation and not being judgmental.

BTW not looking to be bred lol I've done my bit for society

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is the risk of 18 years of child support payments part of the buzz?

Apologies, that was flippant. Presumably breeding doesn’t work as a kink if female contraceptives are knowingly involved? Fantastic response

Are the weeks waiting (stewing?) after sex part of the thrill/ experience? If yes, we had enough of that from school and college days to know this kink isn’t for either of us!"
Fantastic answer I remember those days of waiting and fretting well

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By *on Juan the MADridMan
over a year ago

Lisbon/ North England/ Wales/ Madrid/

The day after pill makes feasible to go for this fantasy, finally it’s on her control and decision, it’s more risky for the guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The day after pill makes feasible to go for this fantasy, finally it’s on her control and decision, it’s more risky for the guy. "

How so?

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

"The day after pill makes feasible to go for this fantasy, finally it’s on her control and decision, it’s more risky for the guy.

How so?"

I guess the guy has to be confident that the girl will actually take the morning after pill

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

"The day after pill makes feasible to go for this fantasy, finally it’s on her control and decision, it’s more risky for the guy.

How so?

I guess the guy has to be confident that the girl will actually take the morning after pill

Or he's had the snip and there's enough trust to go for it

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

I'm trying to convince Mr to get the snip as I've the coil but want it removed. He's resistant so far.

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

"I'm trying to convince Mr to get the snip as I've the coil but want it removed. He's resistant so far."

There was a lot I didn't understand about it until I went for a consultation and it was incredibly reassuring that the only thing that would change for me is having better sex.

I have my kids, my partner at the time had hers. The coil was killing her so it was an easy decision.

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

Will happen eventually as I always get my way lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The day after pill makes feasible to go for this fantasy, finally it’s on her control and decision, it’s more risky for the guy.

How so?

I guess the guy has to be confident that the girl will actually take the morning after pill

I'm still unsure how this makes it more risky for the guy.

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

"The day after pill makes feasible to go for this fantasy, finally it’s on her control and decision, it’s more risky for the guy.

How so?

I guess the guy has to be confident that the girl will actually take the morning after pill

I'm still unsure how this makes it more risky for the guy. "

The guy is taking the risk by going bare she has no other sexual diseases like gonnorhea/HIV/etc.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"The day after pill makes feasible to go for this fantasy, finally it’s on her control and decision, it’s more risky for the guy.

How so?

I guess the guy has to be confident that the girl will actually take the morning after pill

I'm still unsure how this makes it more risky for the guy. "

He gets 18 years of child support for a start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The day after pill makes feasible to go for this fantasy, finally it’s on her control and decision, it’s more risky for the guy.

How so?

I guess the guy has to be confident that the girl will actually take the morning after pill

I'm still unsure how this makes it more risky for the guy.

The guy is taking the risk by going bare she has no other sexual diseases like gonnorhea/HIV/etc."

Is the risk not the same for her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The day after pill makes feasible to go for this fantasy, finally it’s on her control and decision, it’s more risky for the guy.

How so?

I guess the guy has to be confident that the girl will actually take the morning after pill

I'm still unsure how this makes it more risky for the guy.

He gets 18 years of child support for a start

Ah here Bog I'm still half latched on to my mother at 50 +

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over a year ago

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