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By *apri 555 OP   Man
over a year ago

wexford or Dublin

Hi all, im not sure if i missed an opportunity of it was just my imagination running away with me,,

Whats your thoughts

Yesterday i was about half an hour late getting out of work and going over to my van i noticed one of my tyres was a bit soft ,

Headed home to wexford from dublin and on the way home was debating weather or not to pull into the gorey services to top up my tyres,at the last minute i decided to pull in, as i pulled up to the air pump a lady got out of the car in front of me and said a light had come on the dash of her car and would i mind taking a look,and of corse i did ,,turned out to be the low tyre pressure symbol,so i asked her to reverse back and i would pump her tyres,,now this lady was id say mid 50s and very good looking,we introduced ourselves and chatted for a little while after that,all the time having great eye contact and smiling ,after we went our seperate ways i couldent help thinking i should of asked her to go for a coffee or asked for her number, there was defenitly something there , but i dident want to come across as a creep,,should i have just chanced it ????

Sorry for the long post

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

I'd say don't think about what could have been. It didn't happen and it wasn't meant to happen then. If she's for you, you'll bump into her again and take your opportunity then.

Remember, no regrets ever. Good luck

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

I have a similar problem I travel every day to work by train and the guy that you buy your tickets from always chats to me we have great banter he is gorgeous and I would love to go on a date with him I know he is definitely single and has a daughter I don't even know his name I would love to ask him out but I don't have the confidence then I think he probably isn't interested as he has never made any advances so is probably just being friendly but I m always happy when I see him

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By *leasurer77Man
over a year ago

Athlone

I'm vicariously raging!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a similar problem I travel every day to work by train and the guy that you buy your tickets from always chats to me we have great banter he is gorgeous and I would love to go on a date with him I know he is definitely single and has a daughter I don't even know his name I would love to ask him out but I don't have the confidence then I think he probably isn't interested as he has never made any advances so is probably just being friendly but I m always happy when I see him "

Honestly I’d say ask him for a coffee. He may feel exactly the same about you and is afraid you’d reject him!

Nothing ventured, nothing gained!

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"I have a similar problem I travel every day to work by train and the guy that you buy your tickets from always chats to me we have great banter he is gorgeous and I would love to go on a date with him I know he is definitely single and has a daughter I don't even know his name I would love to ask him out but I don't have the confidence then I think he probably isn't interested as he has never made any advances so is probably just being friendly but I m always happy when I see him "

Will you regret it on your death bed... yes you will!

JUST GO FOR IT

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

Good I would never reject him I have been having very impure thoughts about him he is sex on legs I get flutters down below everytime I see him i was thinking maybe next time I go to pay for my ticket I should give him cash and as I hand it over have a note with my number under it

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Learn to strike whilst the iron is hot

I do, never think about what could've happened because it's too late

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By *hilaboutMan
over a year ago

kilkenny


"Good I would never reject him I have been having very impure thoughts about him he is sex on legs I get flutters down below everytime I see him i was thinking maybe next time I go to pay for my ticket I should give him cash and as I hand it over have a note with my number under it "
keep us informed of progress

Its quiet interesting

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By *ruzzoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Good I would never reject him I have been having very impure thoughts about him he is sex on legs I get flutters down below everytime I see him i was thinking maybe next time I go to pay for my ticket I should give him cash and as I hand it over have a note with my number under it "

Definitely a great plan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good I would never reject him I have been having very impure thoughts about him he is sex on legs I get flutters down below everytime I see him i was thinking maybe next time I go to pay for my ticket I should give him cash and as I hand it over have a note with my number under it "

That works too! Do it

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"Good I would never reject him I have been having very impure thoughts about him he is sex on legs I get flutters down below everytime I see him i was thinking maybe next time I go to pay for my ticket I should give him cash and as I hand it over have a note with my number under it "

That sounds great and will most certainly make his week, whatever the outcome

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

Keep a pen and paper handy whenever you can, we may be living in a digital age but there’s nothing like giving someone your number.

Capri555, no point dwelling on that particular situation, or that person, but, in a similar situation, you could write down your number and give it to the lady saying something like, “give me a buzz if you’re in bother again and I’ll do my best to help out” sort of thing, if they’re interested they’ll contact you, if not then hopefully they were at the least flattered……

Classy lady 216, something like, “jeepers you always seem to be working, here’s my number, let me know if you every get a minute off for a coffee” same thing, if he’s interested he will, if not then at least you tried and sometimes that’s all we can do….

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

I feel like we know when the mutual attraction is there. I used to regret those missed opportunities and now I kind of cherish them and since then I feel like maybe they happen a little more often. Maybe I'm more open and less nervous to just enjoy the moment.

Sometimes you don't need to do anything overt. Just make time and leave the space open. Then the right thing will fill that space all by itself

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By *ild WomanWoman
over a year ago

Carlow

I had my eye on someone where go for some chips and went with eldest. she knew one of the guys and asked him about the guy. Then told him it for my mum. Both guys talked and now I can't go in as I don't know what was said and embarrassed as I blushed like a teenager.

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin


"I had my eye on someone where go for some chips and went with eldest. she knew one of the guys and asked him about the guy. Then told him it for my mum. Both guys talked and now I can't go in as I don't know what was said and embarrassed as I blushed like a teenager. "

What if they talked and and the guy you had your eye on said to the other guy, “the next time she comes in I’ll ask her for her number”?……

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By *obshortMan
over a year ago

Cork

This could end any one of two way.

A, has no chance of finding her again.

B, Every chance, If you take your chance.

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By *ublustMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"I have a similar problem I travel every day to work by train and the guy that you buy your tickets from always chats to me we have great banter he is gorgeous and I would love to go on a date with him I know he is definitely single and has a daughter I don't even know his name I would love to ask him out but I don't have the confidence then I think he probably isn't interested as he has never made any advances so is probably just being friendly but I m always happy when I see him "

This guy may fantasize about you all day and all night but he only meets you in a work capacity. He can never make an advance on anyone while at work as one unwelcome advance could be deemed gross misconduct and result in summary dismissal.

You need to try and work a scenario where you happen to bump into him outside of his job or as others have said, slip him your phone number.

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By *an25Man
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Ask him about the translink summer rail timetable and take it from there

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By *anther PurrrsWoman
over a year ago

the Shadows Purrring or Roaring


"Good I would never reject him I have been having very impure thoughts about him he is sex on legs I get flutters down below everytime I see him i was thinking maybe next time I go to pay for my ticket I should give him cash and as I hand it over have a note with my number under it "

Definitely go for it. No harm in trying and you’ll have your answer

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By *lay rock69Man
over a year ago

monaghan

Yes go for it

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

So maybe I should say Hello to the attractive dark haired woman who always smiles a little at me while we change trains at Clonsilla?

Perhaps

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford


"So maybe I should say Hello to the attractive dark haired woman who always smiles a little at me while we change trains at Clonsilla?

Perhaps "

Why not, if ye're seening eachother fairly regularly. You've nothing to lose cause of it.

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By *ublustMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"So maybe I should say Hello to the attractive dark haired woman who always smiles a little at me while we change trains at Clonsilla?

Perhaps "

Definitely smile back for a start, sometimes we all forget to do the most obvious thing.

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

Well just to keep you all updated I will be hopefully seeing my secret admirer tomorrow that's if he is working so I have decided to do what I said and give him my number will keep you all posted wish me luck lol

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By *lay rock69Man
over a year ago

monaghan

Best of luck lady x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all, im not sure if i missed an opportunity of it was just my imagination running away with me,,

Whats your thoughts

Yesterday i was about half an hour late getting out of work and going over to my van i noticed one of my tyres was a bit soft ,

Headed home to wexford from dublin and on the way home was debating weather or not to pull into the gorey services to top up my tyres,at the last minute i decided to pull in, as i pulled up to the air pump a lady got out of the car in front of me and said a light had come on the dash of her car and would i mind taking a look,and of corse i did ,,turned out to be the low tyre pressure symbol,so i asked her to reverse back and i would pump her tyres,,now this lady was id say mid 50s and very good looking,we introduced ourselves and chatted for a little while after that,all the time having great eye contact and smiling ,after we went our seperate ways i couldent help thinking i should of asked her to go for a coffee or asked for her number, there was defenitly something there , but i dident want to come across as a creep,,should i have just chanced it ????

Sorry for the long post "

The real World is different isn't it ? If both , for example , knew each other were on fab you'd have been fucking eachother 10 mins later, but the only thing that could be a consolation is that she is on fab and will read this thread tomorrow and send you a message then ye both will be fucking tomorrow night ...a guy can dream can't he ??

Tbh,l suppose you could have asked her if circumstances allowed if she wanted to go for a coffee..you'd have known there & then and there'd be no doubts..tbh l know how you feel as l was getting petrol one night and a woman pulled up beside me in a blue Audi and had trouble opening her fuel cap , she was there for the same time as l was filling up trying to open it , when l had filled up l offered to have a look at it and it was something small that wouldn't release the cap , fixed it for her, she was delighted as she had a long journey the following day , l think she was single as she had no wedding ring on her finger but hey these days that's doesn't mean anything..maybe an opportunity lost l dunno but l don't think about it tbh ..if twas ment to be it would have happened...but twas lovely to help a lady and it's great to know that she did want a guy that knew what he was at ...kinda like here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well just to keep you all updated I will be hopefully seeing my secret admirer tomorrow that's if he is working so I have decided to do what I said and give him my number will keep you all posted wish me luck lol "

Awesome !!! Way ta go lady .. sincerely hope it all works out for you..if he's not working tomorrow then the next day he is ...am looking forward to the next update...best wishes to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a similar problem I travel every day to work by train and the guy that you buy your tickets from always chats to me we have great banter he is gorgeous and I would love to go on a date with him I know he is definitely single and has a daughter I don't even know his name I would love to ask him out but I don't have the confidence then I think he probably isn't interested as he has never made any advances so is probably just being friendly but I m always happy when I see him

Honestly I’d say ask him for a coffee. He may feel exactly the same about you and is afraid you’d reject him!

Nothing ventured, nothing gained!"

It's the thing that can hold people back isn't it ...the fear of rejection..l know it's my kryptonite..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well just to keep you all updated I will be hopefully seeing my secret admirer tomorrow that's if he is working so I have decided to do what I said and give him my number will keep you all posted wish me luck lol "

How exciting! Fingers crossed for you.

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford


"I have a similar problem I travel every day to work by train and the guy that you buy your tickets from always chats to me we have great banter he is gorgeous and I would love to go on a date with him I know he is definitely single and has a daughter I don't even know his name I would love to ask him out but I don't have the confidence then I think he probably isn't interested as he has never made any advances so is probably just being friendly but I m always happy when I see him

Honestly I’d say ask him for a coffee. He may feel exactly the same about you and is afraid you’d reject him!

Nothing ventured, nothing gained!

It's the thing that can hold people back isn't it ...the fear of rejection..l know it's my kryptonite.. "

Ya,mine aswell.

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By *razySexyCoolCorkWoman
over a year ago

Cork


"Well just to keep you all updated I will be hopefully seeing my secret admirer tomorrow that's if he is working so I have decided to do what I said and give him my number will keep you all posted wish me luck lol "

So exciting!! Good luck to you

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By *apri 555 OP   Man
over a year ago

wexford or Dublin


"Well just to keep you all updated I will be hopefully seeing my secret admirer tomorrow that's if he is working so I have decided to do what I said and give him my number will keep you all posted wish me luck lol "

Best of luck with it and yes please let us know how it goes

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By *apri 555 OP   Man
over a year ago

wexford or Dublin


"Hi all, im not sure if i missed an opportunity of it was just my imagination running away with me,,

Whats your thoughts

Yesterday i was about half an hour late getting out of work and going over to my van i noticed one of my tyres was a bit soft ,

Headed home to wexford from dublin and on the way home was debating weather or not to pull into the gorey services to top up my tyres,at the last minute i decided to pull in, as i pulled up to the air pump a lady got out of the car in front of me and said a light had come on the dash of her car and would i mind taking a look,and of corse i did ,,turned out to be the low tyre pressure symbol,so i asked her to reverse back and i would pump her tyres,,now this lady was id say mid 50s and very good looking,we introduced ourselves and chatted for a little while after that,all the time having great eye contact and smiling ,after we went our seperate ways i couldent help thinking i should of asked her to go for a coffee or asked for her number, there was defenitly something there , but i dident want to come across as a creep,,should i have just chanced it ????

Sorry for the long post

The real World is different isn't it ? If both , for example , knew each other were on fab you'd have been fucking eachother 10 mins later, but the only thing that could be a consolation is that she is on fab and will read this thread tomorrow and send you a message then ye both will be fucking tomorrow night ...a guy can dream can't he ??

Tbh,l suppose you could have asked her if circumstances allowed if she wanted to go for a coffee..you'd have known there & then and there'd be no doubts..tbh l know how you feel as l was getting petrol one night and a woman pulled up beside me in a blue Audi and had trouble opening her fuel cap , she was there for the same time as l was filling up trying to open it , when l had filled up l offered to have a look at it and it was something small that wouldn't release the cap , fixed it for her, she was delighted as she had a long journey the following day , l think she was single as she had no wedding ring on her finger but hey these days that's doesn't mean anything..maybe an opportunity lost l dunno but l don't think about it tbh ..if twas ment to be it would have happened...but twas lovely to help a lady and it's great to know that she did want a guy that knew what he was at ...kinda like here "

As you say if she had of been on fab and read this things would be a lot different,

But on the same note and i know this might sound stupid,but if i asked for a coffee or even her number and came across as a creep it could put her off asking some one for help in the future if she ever needed to ,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all, im not sure if i missed an opportunity of it was just my imagination running away with me,,

Whats your thoughts

Yesterday i was about half an hour late getting out of work and going over to my van i noticed one of my tyres was a bit soft ,

Headed home to wexford from dublin and on the way home was debating weather or not to pull into the gorey services to top up my tyres,at the last minute i decided to pull in, as i pulled up to the air pump a lady got out of the car in front of me and said a light had come on the dash of her car and would i mind taking a look,and of corse i did ,,turned out to be the low tyre pressure symbol,so i asked her to reverse back and i would pump her tyres,,now this lady was id say mid 50s and very good looking,we introduced ourselves and chatted for a little while after that,all the time having great eye contact and smiling ,after we went our seperate ways i couldent help thinking i should of asked her to go for a coffee or asked for her number, there was defenitly something there , but i dident want to come across as a creep,,should i have just chanced it ????

Sorry for the long post

The real World is different isn't it ? If both , for example , knew each other were on fab you'd have been fucking eachother 10 mins later, but the only thing that could be a consolation is that she is on fab and will read this thread tomorrow and send you a message then ye both will be fucking tomorrow night ...a guy can dream can't he ??

Tbh,l suppose you could have asked her if circumstances allowed if she wanted to go for a coffee..you'd have known there & then and there'd be no doubts..tbh l know how you feel as l was getting petrol one night and a woman pulled up beside me in a blue Audi and had trouble opening her fuel cap , she was there for the same time as l was filling up trying to open it , when l had filled up l offered to have a look at it and it was something small that wouldn't release the cap , fixed it for her, she was delighted as she had a long journey the following day , l think she was single as she had no wedding ring on her finger but hey these days that's doesn't mean anything..maybe an opportunity lost l dunno but l don't think about it tbh ..if twas ment to be it would have happened...but twas lovely to help a lady and it's great to know that she did want a guy that knew what he was at ...kinda like here

As you say if she had of been on fab and read this things would be a lot different,

But on the same note and i know this might sound stupid,but if i asked for a coffee or even her number and came across as a creep it could put her off asking some one for help in the future if she ever needed to ,,"

Yes l absolutely agree with you , as things go l do think you done the right thing , people sometimes genuinely only want a hand at whatever it is and anything else happening isn't even on their mind , a lot of stuff like that only happens in the movies, but the possibilities will play on your mind ..what if etc ..you helped a damsel in distress..that itself was noble..maybe someday everything you want to happen in that situation will ...ya never know .

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By *LIVEANDKICKING100Man
over a year ago

DUBLIN


"I have a similar problem I travel every day to work by train and the guy that you buy your tickets from always chats to me we have great banter he is gorgeous and I would love to go on a date with him I know he is definitely single and has a daughter I don't even know his name I would love to ask him out but I don't have the confidence then I think he probably isn't interested as he has never made any advances so is probably just being friendly but I m always happy when I see him "
slip him a note with your name and number saying I think you are lovely.

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

Just to update you all he wasn't working the other day when I was passing through the station and as I'm not back to work until Wednesday I will just have to hope that he is on then fingers crossed

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Hi all, im not sure if i missed an opportunity of it was just my imagination running away with me,,

Whats your thoughts

Yesterday i was about half an hour late getting out of work and going over to my van i noticed one of my tyres was a bit soft ,

Headed home to wexford from dublin and on the way home was debating weather or not to pull into the gorey services to top up my tyres,at the last minute i decided to pull in, as i pulled up to the air pump a lady got out of the car in front of me and said a light had come on the dash of her car and would i mind taking a look,and of corse i did ,,turned out to be the low tyre pressure symbol,so i asked her to reverse back and i would pump her tyres,,now this lady was id say mid 50s and very good looking,we introduced ourselves and chatted for a little while after that,all the time having great eye contact and smiling ,after we went our seperate ways i couldent help thinking i should of asked her to go for a coffee or asked for her number, there was defenitly something there , but i dident want to come across as a creep,,should i have just chanced it ????

Sorry for the long post "

Sounds like you missed a prime finger bang opertunity

Sorry bud .

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"Just to update you all he wasn't working the other day when I was passing through the station and as I'm not back to work until Wednesday I will just have to hope that he is on then fingers crossed "

fingers crossed for you

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By *dlucyTV/TS
over a year ago

cork


"Just to update you all he wasn't working the other day when I was passing through the station and as I'm not back to work until Wednesday I will just have to hope that he is on then fingers crossed "

How did today? Wa she working, Hopefully you were brave enough and slipped him you're phone number

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By *ick manMan
over a year ago

longford

Watching how it went with the ticket seller

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just to update you all he wasn't working the other day when I was passing through the station and as I'm not back to work until Wednesday I will just have to hope that he is on then fingers crossed "

This is now my soap opera!!!!! You better update us - rooting for a happy and/or sexy ending (or is that beginning! ) lol xxxxx

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south


"Just to update you all he wasn't working the other day when I was passing through the station and as I'm not back to work until Wednesday I will just have to hope that he is on then fingers crossed

This is now my soap opera!!!!! You better update us - rooting for a happy and/or sexy ending (or is that beginning! ) lol xxxxx"

If you don’t ask it’s always a no , If you do ask it could have been yes! Or no ?

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By *panishRebelMan
over a year ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland


"I have a similar problem I travel every day to work by train and the guy that you buy your tickets from always chats to me we have great banter he is gorgeous and I would love to go on a date with him I know he is definitely single and has a daughter I don't even know his name I would love to ask him out but I don't have the confidence then I think he probably isn't interested as he has never made any advances so is probably just being friendly but I m always happy when I see him "

Definitely leave him a note. Simple with a number and a genuine smile.

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