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By *og-Man OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere

if you're a couple and have another single person to have sex with ye or just you on your own

If the sex was much better than what ye have as a couple would you tell your partner that or just keep it to yourself

When you talk about it afterwards do you make sure you don't use words that might make them feel bad about themselves or hold back a little or tell little white lies

PS I understand that its couples that might answer and that its the 2 of ye that might read this anyway

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By *llthewaysMan
over a year ago

City centre/Naas

I would like to hope most couples on here are secure enough for this not to be an issue, but will be interested to see responses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me at least, the connection we have plays a huge part in how good sex feels, I'm simply not going to have that with someone else, there's more to it than the mechanics - to the point where I don't even bother to meet men alone, it's a pointless activity for me, the pleasure is in doing things with Lee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me at least, the connection we have plays a huge part in how good sex feels, I'm simply not going to have that with someone else, there's more to it than the mechanics - to the point where I don't even bother to meet men alone, it's a pointless activity for me, the pleasure is in doing things with Lee."

Pretty much sums it up for me too.

It hasn't been the case thus far. If it ever was I'd like to think that I'm empathetic enough to communicate with E the things I really enjoyed without devaluing what we have

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By *arrot_in_a_boxCouple
over a year ago

kinda dublin

She was... different - Ross Gellar.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"She was... different - Ross Gellar."

Were you on a break ?

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By *og-Man OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere


"She was... different - Ross Gellar."

Nobody likes change

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By *og-Man OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere

Ok single people ....if ye play with someone and it was really good or bad would you tell them or is it not discussed at all afterwards .....just move on

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By *llthewaysMan
over a year ago

City centre/Naas

Listen Bog you were the best social I've ever had, the things you did with your lips was astounding...

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By *huCullainMan
over a year ago

Rathowen

Always tell one that the other was better. Both will try to outdo the other in future

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By *og-Man OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere


"Always tell one that the other was better. Both will try to outdo the other in future "

Thats brilliant....noted

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By *DSGCouple
over a year ago

That place in

With patner it's emotional sex

With a fab meet its just sexual

Either person could hit that right spot in a different way or build up

Could teach partner or the fab meet a new trick or two, we are very open with each other but he knows what he does for me, no problem in communication at all about all things equal

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By *amson4DelilahCouple
over a year ago

ballina


"For me at least, the connection we have plays a huge part in how good sex feels, I'm simply not going to have that with someone else, there's more to it than the mechanics - to the point where I don't even bother to meet men alone, it's a pointless activity for me, the pleasure is in doing things with Lee."

Agree 100%

I've met some fellas lately alone but send hubby some videos & go into detail when I get home & sweet devine the connection trumps any mechanics..

But I cannot imagine telling anyone that someone was better....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was never in that position of being in a couple having sex with another single person but l do know couples who had sex with singles and their relationship ended when either partner met the single person on their own cause the sex was way better and they wanted more of it, l've also known a lady that got fierce jealous because they thought their partner was giving more attention to the other woman than her.. should a couple say so if the sex was better ? Very difficult to say .. probably have more meets but a lot would depend on how the single would feel too..maybe the single mightened want to meet again cause the sex wasn't great in their eyes

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

I sometimes tell little white lies

Like ‘it’s acceptable to start multiple threads in one day ‘

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By *og-Man OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere


"I sometimes tell little white lies

Like ‘it’s acceptable to start multiple threads in one day ‘ "

I'd a lot of thoughts in my head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sometimes tell little white lies

Like ‘it’s acceptable to start multiple threads in one day ‘

I'd a lot of thoughts in my head "

You might need to talk too someone about that

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By *og-Man OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere


"I sometimes tell little white lies

Like ‘it’s acceptable to start multiple threads in one day ‘

I'd a lot of thoughts in my head

You might need to talk too someone about that"

Feck that I'm not paying...just start some threads

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By *thloneros38Man
over a year ago

athlone/roscommon

Can i ask why is it that it seem to be the same people posting on the forums the couple from down seem to be the soundest of all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can i ask why is it that it seem to be the same people posting on the forums the couple from down seem to be the soundest of all "

We know you meant the people from down south it’s ok

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By *thloneros38Man
over a year ago

athlone/roscommon

Yeah i did ye never really took into me so for that ye are sound out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah i did ye never really took into me so for that ye are sound out "

It’s not our thing everyone is on here for their own reason

Enjoy it and hopefully find what your looking for

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By *thloneros38Man
over a year ago

athlone/roscommon

But it really for the couple from county down

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By *panishRebelMan
over a year ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland


"Can i ask why is it that it seem to be the same people posting on the forums the couple from down seem to be the soundest of all

We know you meant the people from down south it’s ok "

Up the Real People!

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By *panishRebelMan
over a year ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

Comparison is a little bit of a tyrant. I try to eny the moment for what it is. Yet a real connection built up with trust and love trumps the technical ability every single time.

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By *thloneros38Man
over a year ago

athlone/roscommon

Nothing wrong with cork up the rebels as they say but really up the tribes before cork

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But it really for the couple from county down "

Us? Jaysus! I have the warm n fuzzies now

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By *thloneros38Man
over a year ago

athlone/roscommon


"But it really for the couple from county down

Us? Jaysus! I have the warm n fuzzies now "
yep its ye indeed i cant really fault ye

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Ok single people ....if ye play with someone and it was really good or bad would you tell them or is it not discussed at all afterwards .....just move on "

Not much to discuss, if it was good I go back for more, if it was bad I don't.

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By *rish In DubaiMan
over a year ago

Carlow

I always present a scorecard at the end.

It's a nice way to chill out and chat and a vigorous few hours.

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