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The inability to be civil towards some one, you don’t find attractive on the site even at a social??

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By *sp OP   Man
over a year ago

Who know's

Interested to hear opinions.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Interested to hear opinions. "

You find people being uncivil towards people they're not attracted to at socials?

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Try to be civil no matter where I am and avoid people I dont like at socials

Makes things easier all round

Its personalities I dont like not looks

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

My civility isn't based on attraction.

I'm more than capable of being civil to people I have no interest in fucking.

I draw the line at those I consider as arseholes due to previous engagement or their forum presence and rather than be two faced and civil I'll avoid them completely.

I've been told at socials that certain people are waiting on me to say hello but I've never felt the need to pretend to like them.

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
over a year ago

kinkytown

If we didn't them attractive we would be civil. No reason not to be. However if we clashed on here somewhere or they hold opinions/beliefs we find opposite to our own we wouldn't give the time of day. Saying going to a social isn't going to happen anytime soon due to circumstances beyond our control right now.

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By *osyRedLipsWoman
over a year ago

Kildare

I try to be civil to everyone I might cross paths with at a social even if I'm not attracted to them. The issue is where they take my politeness for being interested in meeting. I've had messages and verifys from guys saying they are looking forward to meeting on a more intimate basis even though I was just polite having a conversation.

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By *astelloWoman
over a year ago

Far far away

Politeness should not be misconstrued as interested in more. I try to be civil to people I meet, but like in life, not everyone you click with. This is not dependent on looks.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

It depends on your definition of civil. If you mean for them to reply to your message then no.

I've always found socials to be very friendly occasions so I'm not sure what you're getting at.

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

I’ll always be polite to people unless they don’t realise that politeness doesn’t equal interest.

Even if I was to run into someone at a social that I don’t like on here, I would still be polite. We’re all adults after all.

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By *educing_EmCouple
over a year ago

Tipperary


"I try to be civil to everyone I might cross paths with at a social even if I'm not attracted to them. The issue is where they take my politeness for being interested in meeting. I've had messages and verifys from guys saying they are looking forward to meeting on a more intimate basis even though I was just polite having a conversation. "

This is what I'd be afraid of. I chat to everyone,don't care who you are or what you look like.

Sometimes it's with interest in meeting and sometimes not.

Em x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I try to be civil to everyone I might cross paths with at a social even if I'm not attracted to them. The issue is where they take my politeness for being interested in meeting. I've had messages and verifys from guys saying they are looking forward to meeting on a more intimate basis even though I was just polite having a conversation. "

This

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By *andR2019Couple
over a year ago

Nunya

We both always try and remain polite and courteous when speaking to anyone.

However some can push you when they take civility as interest and becoming rude when it’s made clear there is none.

I never seen it at events either not to say it doesn’t, but I would imagine if you’re repeatedly being badgered at them, some may comes across that way.

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford

I always try to be polite to everybody. Afterall we're supposed to all be adult's on here.

That said if someone says something, I'm not happy with on here or at a social(when the time comes). Over time I'll keep away from them.

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

We try to be civil in any circumstances unless the person tries to cause harm to us or ours then the gloves get leaded lol. Even if we have no interest in meeting someone we will be nice and try to inform them of this in the best way possible

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