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Turned down 3sum - unprotected

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all

Just get your opinion, had where couple wanted me to join for 3sum! Sounded really good! Really wanted sex…??????

But they wanted no condoms… And my rule play safe! Do you guys think by me turning down the chance was crazy? I know cream pie is fucking awesome! But my health safety comes first. Couples please comment on what you think! Just as much wanted sex I could not compromise on this sti’s is real! Once you get it have it for life!

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By *otsoflove23Man
over a year ago

central

Safe sex always

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By *ames t kirkMan
over a year ago

cavan

He hefucking his wife / friend he hardly goin to risk her let alone u,i know fucked up logic

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By *AsexWatchCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

i think you’re just trying to get attention that’s all, like you are one in a million))

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loopers!!!!

Best to wear protection in all cases!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think you’re just trying to get attention that’s all, like you are one in a million)) "

Ouch!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i think you’re just trying to get attention that’s all, like you are one in a million)) "

Mmmm, well does it not make you the same? by making the comment you made…

Or you trying to ware the balls.

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By *anandJCouple
over a year ago

Citywest


"i think you’re just trying to get attention that’s all, like you are one in a million)) "

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee


"i think you’re just trying to get attention that’s all, like you are one in a million))

Mmmm, well does it not make you the same? by making the comment you made…

Or you trying to ware the balls.

"

To be fair, I don't think they need to look for attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely it doesn't matter if its a 2some or 3some or more some, you are either committed to wearing protection or not.

If they don't want you to wear it, then they are the same with everyone and sooner or later they are gonna be riddled. Think you dodged a bullet there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely it doesn't matter if its a 2some or 3some or more some, you are either committed to wearing protection or not.

If they don't want you to wear it, then they are the same with everyone and sooner or later they are gonna be riddled. Think you dodged a bullet there. "

No, don’t think it will be first or last to not want wear condoms. That’s where the respect comes in. But all she wants a creampie regardless! On to their own…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In any sexual encounter you shouldn't do something you're uncomfortable with or compromise your hard limits just because the other party wants it.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

I totally respect your decision to not do something you're not happy with, and I also respect their choice to want the thing that they want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I totally respect your decision to not do something you're not happy with, and I also respect their choice to want the thing that they want."

Yep this is the other side of it.

It's not scandalous or shocking, it just means you're incompatible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I totally respect your decision to not do something you're not happy with, and I also respect their choice to want the thing that they want."

This… when people say on here “discretion”… making a forum post about them is the opposite if that .. a gentleman never tells , whether he approves or no..

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By *aradiselost747Couple
over a year ago

dundonald


"i think you’re just trying to get attention that’s all, like you are one in a million)) "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s really a personal choice OP. You made your choice! People’s opinions on here are going to be different.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In any sexual encounter you shouldn't do something you're uncomfortable with or compromise your hard limits just because the other party wants it. "

Very true, you have to be comfortable.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I totally respect your decision to not do something you're not happy with, and I also respect their choice to want the thing that they want.

Yep this is the other side of it.

It's not scandalous or shocking, it just means you're incompatible "

Think 100% agree, have to be on same page

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

You stuck to your boundaries and rules and you're right to. But there is no need to knock what others do either on here and that includes people who look for bare back. You're just not right for each other so you did the right thing by not meeting if you're not happy. The same as everyone else on here who turns down a meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You stuck to your boundaries and rules and you're right to. But there is no need to knock what others do either on here and that includes people who look for bare back. You're just not right for each other so you did the right thing by not meeting if you're not happy. The same as everyone else on here who turns down a meet. "

????

Thanks

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By *ewcouple200Couple
over a year ago

dublin

Safe sex all the way.

No glove..no love

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By *heauldadventurerMan
over a year ago

City Centre

Awesome virture signalling

Did it work?

Did you get any PMs.

This always intrigues me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Safe sex all the way.

No glove..no love"

Thanks love - so not going crazy!

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"i think you’re just trying to get attention that’s all, like you are one in a million))

Mmmm, well does it not make you the same? by making the comment you made…

Or you trying to ware the balls.

"

So you admit thats what your doing...

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Surely it doesn't matter if its a 2some or 3some or more some, you are either committed to wearing protection or not.

If they don't want you to wear it, then they are the same with everyone and sooner or later they are gonna be riddled. Think you dodged a bullet there.

No, don’t think it will be first or last to not want wear condoms. That’s where the respect comes in. But all she wants a creampie regardless! On to their own…"

Respect in what regard ? Whos respect ?

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"I totally respect your decision to not do something you're not happy with, and I also respect their choice to want the thing that they want."

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i think you’re just trying to get attention that’s all, like you are one in a million))

Mmmm, well does it not make you the same? by making the comment you made…

Or you trying to ware the balls.

So you admit thats what your doing... "

Actually been sarcastic

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I totally respect your decision to not do something you're not happy with, and I also respect their choice to want the thing that they want.

This "

Yip 100% bru

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"I totally respect your decision to not do something you're not happy with, and I also respect their choice to want the thing that they want.

This

Yip 100% bru"

Maybe try being respectful by not complaining about them in a public tread in future ... just a thought..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone on here is trying to get attention from someone....

Flashing tits, cocks and ass'!!!!

Attention whores the lot of you.... XXX

Plus honesty isn't slapping 5 filters over yourself either.

But then again unsafe is pretty dumb unless you're fully prepped

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"Safe sex all the way.

No glove..no love

Thanks love - so not going crazy! "

In our (limited) experience of swing scenarios, we've only ever seen unprotected sex between couples.

It is standard (but not exclusive) practice to use condoms, if that is what you are asking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's their preference to not want to use one and yours to want to and say no if you're not comfortable. It's personal preference and just means you weren't a match.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Safe sex all the way.

No glove..no love

Thanks love - so not going crazy!

In our (limited) experience of swing scenarios, we've only ever seen unprotected sex

It is standard (but not exclusive) practice to use condoms, if that is what you are asking."

Yes, I can quite believe that! Like others have said - there was no compatible… they did not want to bound to my boundaries… And that’s way it goes. And for sure I will find a couple or single that will be compatible understandings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You totally made the right decision.

That’s just outright weird these days

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