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By *om Tango OP   Man
over a year ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

This is especially for the younger lady’s. Which would u rather. Met a man for a quick f€ck or meet a man that will make love to you. From experience I find the younger lady’s seem to rush sex and nearly straight away want cock inside them or at least think that’s the normal way of sex. Not their fault. I blame young fellas for watching porn and thinking that’s what the girls want. Personally I like a long slow session. I’m a dom male. Not into the pain stuff but I take control when making out. I like to tease,I want my girl feeling like a queen, I want her to beg to be f€uck. I want the lady to earn the c€ck. if my face or at least most of my face isn’t covered in ur love juices ur not getting my c€ck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you cum at the end of writing that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did you cum at the end of writing that "

Didn’t you see the stain at the end?

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By *om Tango OP   Man
over a year ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

Hold ur horses lads. I eat pussy for my own pleasure. So until I’m finished she is going to beg me to stop licking and to f€ck her. But that’s just going to make me want to lick her more. Shaking,squirming, cumming all over my face until I feel it’s time to f€ck her pussy

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By *om Tango OP   Man
over a year ago

aughnacloy monaghan area


"Did you cum at the end of writing that "

Nope. I wasn’t even hard writing that.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I'm genuinely curious about the repeated use of the € symbol.

What's the relevance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm genuinely curious about the repeated use of the € symbol.

What's the relevance?"

Trying to avoid filters? They can be a real cock and fuck everything up I hear.

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By *om Tango OP   Man
over a year ago

aughnacloy monaghan area


"I'm genuinely curious about the repeated use of the € symbol.

What's the relevance?"

I’m not sure if I’m allowed to write the proper spelling of it incase I get a ban. So just like having sex, I’m playing safe.

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

I'm fucked this morning

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

(Im not younger but I’m female)

I definitely prefer a long slow build up.. some lads just want to get their cock straight in to you which really doesn’t work for me and I need and want to be teased and tormented before we get to that part of the fun and games. I also enjoy teasing my play partner and a quick fuck just doesn’t fulfil me.

Obviously if we are both stuck for time it can be hot and horny to do a quickie but they’re really only fulfilling with someone I’ve played with previously. I need that mental connection with someone, without it I’d be better off using my vibe at least then I’m guaranteed an orgasm..

Did that answer your question op or did I just ramble on..

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"I'm genuinely curious about the repeated use of the € symbol.

What's the relevance?

I’m not sure if I’m allowed to write the proper spelling of it incase I get a ban. So just like having sex, I’m playing safe. "

Own it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"(Im not younger but I’m female)

I definitely prefer a long slow build up.. some lads just want to get their cock straight in to you which really doesn’t work for me and I need and want to be teased and tormented before we get to that part of the fun and games. I also enjoy teasing my play partner and a quick fuck just doesn’t fulfil me.

Obviously if we are both stuck for time it can be hot and horny to do a quickie but they’re really only fulfilling with someone I’ve played with previously. I need that mental connection with someone, without it I’d be better off using my vibe at least then I’m guaranteed an orgasm..

Did that answer your question op or did I just ramble on.."

This!

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By *om Tango OP   Man
over a year ago

aughnacloy monaghan area


"(Im not younger but I’m female)

I definitely prefer a long slow build up.. some lads just want to get their cock straight in to you which really doesn’t work for me and I need and want to be teased and tormented before we get to that part of the fun and games. I also enjoy teasing my play partner and a quick fuck just doesn’t fulfil me.

Obviously if we are both stuck for time it can be hot and horny to do a quickie but they’re really only fulfilling with someone I’ve played with previously. I need that mental connection with someone, without it I’d be better off using my vibe at least then I’m guaranteed an orgasm..

Did that answer your question op or did I just ramble on.."

Answered perfectly.

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By *om Tango OP   Man
over a year ago

aughnacloy monaghan area


"(Im not younger but I’m female)

I definitely prefer a long slow build up.. some lads just want to get their cock straight in to you which really doesn’t work for me and I need and want to be teased and tormented before we get to that part of the fun and games. I also enjoy teasing my play partner and a quick fuck just doesn’t fulfil me.

Obviously if we are both stuck for time it can be hot and horny to do a quickie but they’re really only fulfilling with someone I’ve played with previously. I need that mental connection with someone, without it I’d be better off using my vibe at least then I’m guaranteed an orgasm..

Did that answer your question op or did I just ramble on.."

And with ur full permission I will message u with how I like to take control.

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By *s SingletWoman
over a year ago

Kilkenny

Firstly I would and have always said you have to feel love to make it

Secondly I agree completely, it's not race I love the teasing and playing and enjoying cumming, then fucking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes a quick sneaky shag can be great especially if it’s over the bonnet of a car or similar scenario. Then other times if you’re in a hotel room a night of exploring each others bodies and teasing the lady to many orgasms before any cock penetration occurs is always enjoyable. I think the term making love is more descriptive of a couple in a long term relationship. Anyway that’s my thruppence thrown in the mix

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By *picycouple27Couple
over a year ago

Westmeath

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By *picycouple27Couple
over a year ago

Westmeath


"Did you cum at the end of writing that "

Lol

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

There is a time and a place for different types of sex. Sometimes a quick frenetic dirty sweaty "just gotta cum" fuck is necessary. Other times a long teasing session can be had. Both are fine as long as they are done with consideration to the needs of your partner. I'm not sure that younger people are more into the quick sex, but my experience would be that they are sometimes less skilled and more concentrated on their own pleasure. Also, making love is what happens between two people who are in (or building) a relationship, rather than swinging nostrings sex. That's not to say that swingers can't be affectionate. Of course they can. I wouldn't use the word 'love' though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't use the term "making love" unless I had feelings for that person.

I don't think it's an either/or thing either...there are many ways to fuck or have sex.

It's all well and good to want a slow make-out session, to want to give extended oral sex, but if that's not what the other person wants all the time are you really a considerate sexual partner? If they never want that and you always want that then there's incompatibility. Not everyone wants the same thing.

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

I feel that it is possible to make love to someone where feelings aren't involved.

I've never slept with a woman I didn't have a very strong attraction to and I have definitely made love with women I wasn't developing feelings for or already in love with. I feel it's possible to give and feel love if the circumstances are right.

I'm not sure I can speak to OP's thesis in full as my partner have always been my own age and more recently, particularly since I joined fab, are often ten years older than me. That said, my last couple of meets got to penetration much faster than I would have done if leading. The ladies wanted it sooner rather than later.

Your mileage may vary

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

Work away…


"(Im not younger but I’m female)

I definitely prefer a long slow build up.. some lads just want to get their cock straight in to you which really doesn’t work for me and I need and want to be teased and tormented before we get to that part of the fun and games. I also enjoy teasing my play partner and a quick fuck just doesn’t fulfil me.

Obviously if we are both stuck for time it can be hot and horny to do a quickie but they’re really only fulfilling with someone I’ve played with previously. I need that mental connection with someone, without it I’d be better off using my vibe at least then I’m guaranteed an orgasm..

Did that answer your question op or did I just ramble on..

And with ur full permission I will message u with how I like to take control. "

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Obviously can't speak for the young ones but this old bitch is telling you every woman is different. Some like it fast and furious, some like it slow, some love oral some don't like it, some love it kinky, some pure and raw etc. etc.

So if you're really all about the lady you should take that into account and adapt your formula accordingly or simply just meet those who match your routine.

I've noticed there's a fair amount of women on here who love and look for penetrative sex rather than being licked for hours. And I don't think it's just a 3 minutes fuck they're looking for...

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Oh yeah forgot I find the expression 'love making' utterly cringey, what's wrong with calling a spade a spade? It's sex.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Oh yeah forgot I find the expression 'love making' utterly cringey, what's wrong with calling a spade a spade? It's sex. "

You have sex with a spade ??

Wait a min , I have to try get a handle on that

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West


"Oh yeah forgot I find the expression 'love making' utterly cringey, what's wrong with calling a spade a spade? It's sex. "

I guess I'm just a romantic. It doesn't happen very often but when it does it's devine.

I mean it's all sex but no harm to have descriptive words?

Sex me hard. Make sex to me.

We were sexing all night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh yeah forgot I find the expression 'love making' utterly cringey, what's wrong with calling a spade a spade? It's sex.

I guess I'm just a romantic. It doesn't happen very often but when it does it's devine.

I mean it's all sex but no harm to have descriptive words?

Sex me hard. Make sex to me.

We were sexing all night.

"

Don’t forget: “I wanna sex you up”!

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"Oh yeah forgot I find the expression 'love making' utterly cringey, what's wrong with calling a spade a spade? It's sex. "

Gotta agree... Even when we have sex with each other if I told her I wanted to "make love" she would laugh in my face

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway


"Oh yeah forgot I find the expression 'love making' utterly cringey, what's wrong with calling a spade a spade? It's sex. "

Gives me the ick too. Even if it was a long term partner I’d find it odd tbh

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By *adger BrocMan
over a year ago

Co. Cork


"Oh yeah forgot I find the expression 'love making' utterly cringey, what's wrong with calling a spade a spade? It's sex.

Gives me the ick too. Even if it was a long term partner I’d find it odd tbh"

Can't see the cause for ick myself.

It's just another name for the same thing with maybe a bit of respect and affection thrown in for good measure.

Like calling a jaffa cake a biscuit....

Still tastes exactly the same.

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By *panishRebelMan
over a year ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland


"Did you cum at the end of writing that "

Very cynical ????????

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By *panishRebelMan
over a year ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland


"(Im not younger but I’m female)

I definitely prefer a long slow build up.. some lads just want to get their cock straight in to you which really doesn’t work for me and I need and want to be teased and tormented before we get to that part of the fun and games. I also enjoy teasing my play partner and a quick fuck just doesn’t fulfil me.

Obviously if we are both stuck for time it can be hot and horny to do a quickie but they’re really only fulfilling with someone I’ve played with previously. I need that mental connection with someone, without it I’d be better off using my vibe at least then I’m guaranteed an orgasm..

Did that answer your question op or did I just ramble on.."

Absolutely feel the same. Quickies have to have more behind them then a random meet. Better with someone you know and even then they are just because that's the only option, which makes them satisfying.

Much prefer, the build up, time taken. Confidence in the moment. Each step explored. The final fucking can then take place which may or may not be final.

I do like the endless feel ebb and flow of making love and fucking in cycles.

This does require a connection and mutual effort with time set aside.

Rarely does it happen randomly. Although it can.

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By *aucyladMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Suggesting your gonna make love to someone on here is creepy...so are the constant random euro symbols being used !

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By *iSi74Man
over a year ago

Drogheda, Meath, Dublin


"This is especially for the younger lady’s. Which would u rather. Met a man for a quick f€ck or meet a man that will make love to you. From experience I find the younger lady’s seem to rush sex and nearly straight away want cock inside them or at least think that’s the normal way of sex. Not their fault. I blame young fellas for watching porn and thinking that’s what the girls want. Personally I like a long slow session. I’m a dom male. Not into the pain stuff but I take control when making out. I like to tease,I want my girl feeling like a queen, I want her to beg to be f€uck. I want the lady to earn the c€ck. if my face or at least most of my face isn’t covered in ur love juices ur not getting my c€ck. "

"Earn the c#ck" lol, you are so manly! Lol lol lol

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By *aucyladMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I just read his profile....fucking hell this guy is funny to be fair...check out the mission statement!!

Fair confidence man,fair play! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm I prefer to meet for rough fuck need to say has lots of love at home

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"Oh yeah forgot I find the expression 'love making' utterly cringey, what's wrong with calling a spade a spade? It's sex. "

Yep fully agree with Especially on here the term makes me groan for all the wrong reasons it's just so cringe worthy.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Oh yeah forgot I find the expression 'love making' utterly cringey, what's wrong with calling a spade a spade? It's sex.

Gives me the ick too. Even if it was a long term partner I’d find it odd tbh

Can't see the cause for ick myself.

It's just another name for the same thing with maybe a bit of respect and affection thrown in for good measure.

Like calling a jaffa cake a biscuit....

Still tastes exactly the same."

Its not the same thing ... when you truly make love its so emotionally intense that you almost cry , truly melt into one another and the intimacy overwhelms the horniness. I would argue making love , at least in my experience dosnt happen every time your intimate with someone you love... make sense?

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Suggesting your gonna make love to someone on here is creepy...so are the constant random euro symbols being used ! "

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By *astelloWoman
over a year ago

Far far away

Making love

Having intercourse

Fucking

In my mind all mean something different.

As for wanting penetration, not all women orgasm from penetrative sex, so may be most obvious end game.

As for my preference, a complete sensualist but then maybe that's cos I'm a auld Byrd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not young but love a quick fuck when in a place that is risky like outdoors, it's more the thrill and it definitely isn't as satisfying as a long night of fucking and teasing. But it has its appeal and sometimes I just need cock! So also depends on the mood!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is especially for the younger lady’s. Which would u rather. Met a man for a quick f€ck or meet a man that will make love to you. From experience I find the younger lady’s seem to rush sex and nearly straight away want cock inside them or at least think that’s the normal way of sex. Not their fault. I blame young fellas for watching porn and thinking that’s what the girls want. Personally I like a long slow session. I’m a dom male. Not into the pain stuff but I take control when making out. I like to tease,I want my girl feeling like a queen, I want her to beg to be f€uck. I want the lady to earn the c€ck. if my face or at least most of my face isn’t covered in ur love juices ur not getting my c€ck. "

Wow ...some studs on here ..us mere mortals have no chance

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By *ensualnFunCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"There is a time and a place for different types of sex. Sometimes a quick frenetic dirty sweaty "just gotta cum" fuck is necessary. Other times a long teasing session can be had. Both are fine as long as they are done with consideration to the needs of your partner. I'm not sure that younger people are more into the quick sex, but my experience would be that they are sometimes less skilled and more concentrated on their own pleasure. Also, making love is what happens between two people who are in (or building) a relationship, rather than swinging nostrings sex. That's not to say that swingers can't be affectionate. Of course they can. I wouldn't use the word 'love' though."

Exactly that. Well said

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