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By *arythatsme OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

Hey everyone! Been off here for a few months and had some free time today so logged in again.

Great to hear from some old friends and see others are still active and going strong

Did I miss something though? I got a lot of messages from people I'd never spoken with before and when I read the messages but didn't reply I found that a good few of them messaged again being rude or asking for an explanation as to why I didn't "choose" them.

It wasn't many but enough for me to kind of ask if I am missing something.

Last time I was on it was a case of 'no response is a response' is that not still the case?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never be surprised by the males ability to make an absolute twat of himself ..

Jokes aside , was gone a while myself and also thought since coming back that the crazies had gotten worse ..

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

Usually once they are finished admonishing the unfortunate recipient they come in here and post a rant about how rude all the females are.

Other choice words include entitlement and clique.

Welcome to wednesday.

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By *ofistimacatedMan
over a year ago

cavan town

Think you just got lucky up until now. For as long as I've been here that's been an issue for a lot of women

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By *arythatsme OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

Uugggh seriously!!

I rarely use the block button but some ass has just been subject to it for taking his rudeness up a level

Manners cost nothing and get you places, rudeness just annoys everyone and get the big red flashing "do not go near this guy" siren going off.

Sorry, rant over

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Uugggh seriously!!

I rarely use the block button but some ass has just been subject to it for taking his rudeness up a level

Manners cost nothing and get you places, rudeness just annoys everyone and get the big red flashing "do not go near this guy" siren going off.

Sorry, rant over "

Ah God... sure I can only assume that some people think you are rude and unmannerly for not replying to them....

That siren you are referring to is probably why people worry about cliques on fabs

I'm not saying you are rude or unmannerly. I also don't have an issue if people don't reply to me.

However I do feel that it is these kind of posts that add to the perception some get of fab being full of entitled unmannerly clique heads

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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago

City Centre

OP I'm noticing a massive influx of new people..thinking that they will straight away meet someone with zero conversation and zero effort...

I'm sure I'm not the only one that has noticed this...

If I don't reply straight away...5 mails later...

Clearly they don't read my profile

B x

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
over a year ago

The West


"OP I'm noticing a massive influx of new people..thinking that they will straight away meet someone with zero conversation and zero effort...

I'm sure I'm not the only one that has noticed this...

If I don't reply straight away...5 mails later...

Clearly they don't read my profile

B x"

Yes, its definitely noticeable over the last few months. Highlighted by multiple threads by men complaining about no sex, no meets, no veris, no replies...and they'll only have been on here a few weeks and made minimal effort except spamming accounts.

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
over a year ago

kinkytown


"Hey everyone! Been off here for a few months and had some free time today so logged in again.

Great to hear from some old friends and see others are still active and going strong

Did I miss something though? I got a lot of messages from people I'd never spoken with before and when I read the messages but didn't reply I found that a good few of them messaged again being rude or asking for an explanation as to why I didn't "choose" them.

It wasn't many but enough for me to kind of ask if I am missing something.

Last time I was on it was a case of 'no response is a response' is that not still the case? "

Still the same but many seem to think they are owed a reply. Had it this morning from someone. Told them to read the profile. Something a lot can't seem to do.

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
over a year ago

The West


"Uugggh seriously!!

I rarely use the block button but some ass has just been subject to it for taking his rudeness up a level

Manners cost nothing and get you places, rudeness just annoys everyone and get the big red flashing "do not go near this guy" siren going off.

Sorry, rant over

Ah God... sure I can only assume that some people think you are rude and unmannerly for not replying to them....

That siren you are referring to is probably why people worry about cliques on fabs

I'm not saying you are rude or unmannerly. I also don't have an issue if people don't reply to me.

However I do feel that it is these kind of posts that add to the perception some get of fab being full of entitled unmannerly clique heads "

How does her warning signal going off feed into some peoples paranoia of cliques?

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"OP I'm noticing a massive influx of new people..thinking that they will straight away meet someone with zero conversation and zero effort...

I'm sure I'm not the only one that has noticed this...

If I don't reply straight away...5 mails later...

Clearly they don't read my profile

B x

Yes, its definitely noticeable over the last few months. Highlighted by multiple threads by men complaining about no sex, no meets, no veris, no replies...and they'll only have been on here a few weeks and made minimal effort except spamming accounts."

Fab ebbs and flows like this all the time . People on holidays etc

What do you think is behind it ?

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By *arythatsme OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin


" Still the same but many seem to think they are owed a reply. Had it this morning from someone. Told them to read the profile. Something a lot can't seem to do. "

Ot's a shame its still going on, it was one of the reasons I logged out for so long tbb.

Sorry it happens to you too

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Uugggh seriously!!

I rarely use the block button but some ass has just been subject to it for taking his rudeness up a level

Manners cost nothing and get you places, rudeness just annoys everyone and get the big red flashing "do not go near this guy" siren going off.

Sorry, rant over

Ah God... sure I can only assume that some people think you are rude and unmannerly for not replying to them....

That siren you are referring to is probably why people worry about cliques on fabs

I'm not saying you are rude or unmannerly. I also don't have an issue if people don't reply to me.

However I do feel that it is these kind of posts that add to the perception some get of fab being full of entitled unmannerly clique heads

How does her warning signal going off feed into some peoples paranoia of cliques?"

everyone and get the big red flashing "do not go near this guy" siren going off.

Everyone indicates more than just the just the message recipient

Don't go near this guy ... indicates advising others not to go near this guy ...

Probably a little strong to imply anyone who feels this way is paranoid

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By *farrell32Man
over a year ago

Galway

Heard this from loads of people so you're not alone unfortunately

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

If I get one more fanny picture sent to me without asking for it I promise I wont complain

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"If I get one more fanny picture sent to me without asking for it I promise I wont complain "

Just forward them on to me. You can never have enough of them yokes!

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"If I get one more fanny picture sent to me without asking for it I promise I wont complain "

Forward em

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
over a year ago

The West


"

Everyone indicates more than just the just the message recipient

Don't go near this guy ... indicates advising others not to go near this guy ...

Probably a little strong to imply anyone who feels this way is paranoid "

Your assumed inidcations could just be paranoia!

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"If I get one more fanny picture sent to me without asking for it I promise I wont complain "

What about tits?

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"If I get one more fanny picture sent to me without asking for it I promise I wont complain

What about tits? "

I'll take tits too......I'll be twice as happy

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"

Everyone indicates more than just the just the message recipient

Don't go near this guy ... indicates advising others not to go near this guy ...

Probably a little strong to imply anyone who feels this way is paranoid

Your assumed inidcations could just be paranoia! "

Just because you're paranoid doesn't mean they're not out to get you

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"

Everyone indicates more than just the just the message recipient

Don't go near this guy ... indicates advising others not to go near this guy ...

Probably a little strong to imply anyone who feels this way is paranoid

Your assumed inidcations could just be paranoia! "

I didn't say i assume it , i said it may add to reasons why some may feel this way

I honestly don't give a shit if people don't reply ... too many important things in life need that attention

Having said that I reply to all as I would think it rude of me not to . That me .

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"

Everyone indicates more than just the just the message recipient

Don't go near this guy ... indicates advising others not to go near this guy ...

Probably a little strong to imply anyone who feels this way is paranoid

Your assumed inidcations could just be paranoia!

Just because you're paranoid doesn't mean they're not out to get you "

or that your wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah its crazy on here i need a stick to keep the women away i must get at least 50 messages a day. I know brad pitt is a minger compared to me but i just can't keep up with it, life is so hard lol

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

Ballsbridge, City Centre

Too many bloody snowflakes these days

I deal with rejections in a healthy way, by burying the hurt deep down inside

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Too many bloody snowflakes these days

I deal with rejections in a healthy way, by burying the hurt deep down inside"

No amount of fire or freshness can challenge what a man will store up in his ghostly heart.

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By *ind PaddyMan
over a year ago

South County Dublin


"Hey everyone! Been off here for a few months and had some free time today so logged in again.

Great to hear from some old friends and see others are still active and going strong

Did I miss something though? I got a lot of messages from people I'd never spoken with before and when I read the messages but didn't reply I found that a good few of them messaged again being rude or asking for an explanation as to why I didn't "choose" them.

It wasn't many but enough for me to kind of ask if I am missing something.

Last time I was on it was a case of 'no response is a response' is that not still the case? "

They must have forgotten to take their medication, I'm on the white ones, which taste OK. I usually take the hint if no reply.

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