FabSwingers.com forum: Mini rant no response from face pic

By *ido OP Man
over a year ago

dublin/meath

Happened a few times talking for a while then face pic sent then no response after.just say not interested not that hard.anyway mini rant over lol

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By *ilbearniMan
over a year ago

peninsula

"Happened a few times talking for a while then face pic sent then no response after.just say not interested not that hard.anyway mini rant over lol"

It happens, maybe they know you and don't want you to know they are also on here. Or maybe they are busy?

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

I know it doesn’t seem fair and it’s a blow to the ego but a lot of people on here retaliate if they’re sent a not interested reply.. so I’d say they were just cautious of that.

Not saying you would.. but I’ve had it myself, lads spouting off a few insults because you let them down gently.

All you can do is move on..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know it doesn’t seem fair and it’s a blow to the ego but a lot of people on here retaliate if they’re sent a not interested reply.. so I’d say they were just cautious of that.

Not saying you would.. but I’ve had it myself, lads spouting off a few insults because you let them down gently.

All you can do is move on.. "

And it’s those muppets that ruin it for the rest of us.

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By *chochamberWoman
over a year ago

Munster

I ve received a few face pics,

One guy I ve already dated a few times through Pof.... Lols. I didn't respond as we already met and nothing happened.

Another guy, I know his face from around town, as far as I know, he is bi and in a relationship with a guy. I actually saw him the following day in town. I know him in passing and I m not interested.

It's not always about looks, there can be other reasons why people don't respond.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"I know it doesn’t seem fair and it’s a blow to the ego but a lot of people on here retaliate if they’re sent a not interested reply.. so I’d say they were just cautious of that.

Not saying you would.. but I’ve had it myself, lads spouting off a few insults because you let them down gently.

All you can do is move on..

And it’s those muppets that ruin it for the rest of us. "

Actually, they're the ones that make the mediocre lads like us look even better!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know it doesn’t seem fair and it’s a blow to the ego but a lot of people on here retaliate if they’re sent a not interested reply.. so I’d say they were just cautious of that.

Not saying you would.. but I’ve had it myself, lads spouting off a few insults because you let them down gently.

All you can do is move on..

And it’s those muppets that ruin it for the rest of us.

Actually, they're the ones that make the mediocre lads like us look even better!

It is a low bar they set alright.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's perfectly normal for that to happen here. Deleted mails and/or no reply is considered and answer here too. Just move on, the worst thing you can do is to keep pushing or go on a rant

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"I know it doesn’t seem fair and it’s a blow to the ego but a lot of people on here retaliate if they’re sent a not interested reply.. so I’d say they were just cautious of that.

Not saying you would.. but I’ve had it myself, lads spouting off a few insults because you let them down gently.

All you can do is move on..

And it’s those muppets that ruin it for the rest of us.

Actually, they're the ones that make the mediocre lads like us look even better!

It is a low bar they set alright. "

I'm a bit upset now that nobody interjected (Jubal style big word there) to point out that I'm far from mediocre myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know it doesn’t seem fair and it’s a blow to the ego but a lot of people on here retaliate if they’re sent a not interested reply.. so I’d say they were just cautious of that.

Not saying you would.. but I’ve had it myself, lads spouting off a few insults because you let them down gently.

All you can do is move on..

And it’s those muppets that ruin it for the rest of us.

Actually, they're the ones that make the mediocre lads like us look even better!

It is a low bar they set alright.

I'm a bit upset now that nobody interjected (Jubal style big word there) to point out that I'm far from mediocre myself

We're still looking up mediocre in the dictionary Mick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know it doesn’t seem fair and it’s a blow to the ego but a lot of people on here retaliate if they’re sent a not interested reply.. so I’d say they were just cautious of that.

Not saying you would.. but I’ve had it myself, lads spouting off a few insults because you let them down gently.

All you can do is move on..

And it’s those muppets that ruin it for the rest of us.

Actually, they're the ones that make the mediocre lads like us look even better!

It is a low bar they set alright.

I'm a bit upset now that nobody interjected (Jubal style big word there) to point out that I'm far from mediocre myself

thought that went without saying!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know it doesn’t seem fair and it’s a blow to the ego but a lot of people on here retaliate if they’re sent a not interested reply.. so I’d say they were just cautious of that.

Not saying you would.. but I’ve had it myself, lads spouting off a few insults because you let them down gently.

All you can do is move on..

And it’s those muppets that ruin it for the rest of us.

Actually, they're the ones that make the mediocre lads like us look even better!

It is a low bar they set alright.

I'm a bit upset now that nobody interjected (Jubal style big word there) to point out that I'm far from mediocre myself

We're still looking up mediocre in the dictionary Mick"

Must be a mediocre dictionary!

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

OP it's crap when it happens, I've had it too, plenty have but you just weren't what they were after. Plenty more and all that. Chin up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens often here for various reasons. No matter the rights or wrongs of it, it's not worth getting wound up over.

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By *oc09Man
over a year ago

near u

Whats ment to be won't pass U by and all that wouldn't let it get to U

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By *huCullainMan
over a year ago

Rathowen

"I know it doesn’t seem fair and it’s a blow to the ego but a lot of people on here retaliate if they’re sent a not interested reply.. so I’d say they were just cautious of that.

Not saying you would.. but I’ve had it myself, lads spouting off a few insults because you let them down gently.

All you can do is move on..

And it’s those muppets that ruin it for the rest of us.

Actually, they're the ones that make the mediocre lads like us look even better!

It is a low bar they set alright.

I'm a bit upset now that nobody interjected (Jubal style big word there) to point out that I'm far from mediocre myself

Waiting for Jubal to reply and explain the big wordses.

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By *adger BrocMan
over a year ago

Co. Cork

Mediocrity is in the eye of the beholder.

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

"Happened a few times talking for a while then face pic sent then no response after.just say not interested not that hard.anyway mini rant over lol"

Send someone else pic the next time

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

Did they ask for you to send a face pic and it's possible that they need physical attraction before they will play. And everyone has different opinions on what is attractive and not having looked at your profile we've no idea if you are attractive or not but again it is personal opinion just never worry about it and move on

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

Sometimes it happens cause the person you send it too isn't comfortable sending face pics online and suddenly feel pressure to send one

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By *oc09Man
over a year ago

near u

Its why I show mine so they just no from the start and ur either like me or not ha

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By *amsevenMan
over a year ago

cork

It happens. Had a social meet organised lately. Without being asked I sent a face pic beforehand so as to not waste time. No reply. So no attraction obviously. Next girl was different story tho. You win some you lose some. Best to just move on

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"I know it doesn’t seem fair and it’s a blow to the ego but a lot of people on here retaliate if they’re sent a not interested reply.. so I’d say they were just cautious of that.

Not saying you would.. but I’ve had it myself, lads spouting off a few insults because you let them down gently.

All you can do is move on..

And it’s those muppets that ruin it for the rest of us.

Actually, they're the ones that make the mediocre lads like us look even better!

It is a low bar they set alright.

I'm a bit upset now that nobody interjected (Jubal style big word there) to point out that I'm far from mediocre myself

We're still looking up mediocre in the dictionary Mick"

I don't mean to be condescending, that means to look down on people, but you really should have found it by now if you were any way literate

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By *llthewaysMan
over a year ago

City centre/Naas

You can't go applying normal life standards to Fab, it is it's own world and that is ok.

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By *ddcoupleCouple
over a year ago

wex kilkenny waterford

We get it often they see her self don't look at profile only pics start chatting we just send face pic straight away sorts all the wasted messages an then the inevitable can't see profile or reply to t xt as we say on to the next page lol

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

People don't respond to you guys

They must be out of their fucking minds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes or if you do send one politely send one back in return

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

I just send one of himself and everyone runs a mile.

It's ok, I'll love him regardless

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

You didn't miss out on anything. If they don't fancy you then they don't fancy you. It was never gonna happen

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By *illow and FionnCouple
over a year ago

Cork

"Happened a few times talking for a while then face pic sent then no response after.just say not interested not that hard.anyway mini rant over lol"

Sorry man but no response is a response as such

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

"Yes or if you do send one politely send one back in return "

If you send a face pic when requested, then of course you are entitled to get one back.

However, if you send an unsolicited pic, it doesn't entitle you to one in return. People are entitled to their privacy.

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

Hence why I have my face pic on my profile page how I see it they either like the look of me or not without causing any traumatic nightmares of course

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By *arrot_in_a_boxCouple
over a year ago

kinda dublin

For better or worse, rules that apply in every day life do not apply to the online world.

It takes effort to come up to a person in real life and start a conversation. But it is super easy for anyone online to send a mail and say hello.

On the other hand, as easy as it is to say hello online, it's just as easy to walk away and block when you become disinterested.

You need to take the good with the bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know it doesn’t seem fair and it’s a blow to the ego but a lot of people on here retaliate if they’re sent a not interested reply.. so I’d say they were just cautious of that.

Not saying you would.. but I’ve had it myself, lads spouting off a few insults because you let them down gently.

All you can do is move on.. "

Move on is right, if a person isn't interested what else can you do only move on , nothing will change, put it behind you and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just send one of himself and everyone runs a mile.

It's ok, I'll love him regardless

Que the Iron Maiden song..." Run to the Hills "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I ve received a few face pics,

One guy I ve already dated a few times through Pof.... Lols. I didn't respond as we already met and nothing happened.

Another guy, I know his face from around town, as far as I know, he is bi and in a relationship with a guy. I actually saw him the following day in town. I know him in passing and I m not interested.

It's not always about looks, there can be other reasons why people don't respond. "

I agree. It’s a small enough country and the chances of meeting someone you know on here is more than likely going to happen sooner or later. It happened to me a while back on another site., a lady from down the road had shared a pic with me. I politely told her we were neighbours and it wouldn’t work without sending her my face pic to save her embarrassment. I think that was the proper thing to do!

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By *ick manMan
over a year ago

longford

"We get it often they see her self don't look at profile only pics start chatting we just send face pic straight away sorts all the wasted messages an then the inevitable can't see profile or reply to t xt as we say on to the next page lol"
in this case I’d think the lady in the couple sees that body and says too hubby no way are you getting near that sex bomb lol

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

Up until yesterday I never sent face unless on the way to a meet or one was planned.

Was asked yesterday right after the first message and I said feck it I'll just send one.

Instantly ghosted. Got me right in the ego.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"Up until yesterday I never sent face unless on the way to a meet or one was planned.

Was asked yesterday right after the first message and I said feck it I'll just send one.

Instantly ghosted. Got me right in the ego."

So you just melted

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By *ub_TMan
over a year ago

Dublin city

I’ll never do it myself. Don’t have any social accounts anyway like spambuk etc.

you’ve ppl asking you for face pics when they don’t have one themselves. I suppose there is a happy medium somewhere.

I’ll keep trying.

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By *hane99Man
over a year ago

Bettystown/Balbriggan

Comes with the territory I’m afraid mate. Frustrating I know but best just to move on.

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By *ub_TMan
over a year ago

Dublin city

It is , but I respect op’s decision to ask but if it ain’t for you , like you say move on.

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