FabSwingers.com forum: I Still Haven't Found What I'm Looking For..

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm just looking for NSA sex, but some get feelings, Jealousy , set up new profiles,

It's a swingers n sex site, if your looking for love try first dates Ireland

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By *adrarfjordr VoyeurMan
over a year ago

Waterford

"I'm just looking for NSA sex, but some get feelings, Jealousy , set up new profiles,

It's a swingers n sex site, if your looking for love try first dates Ireland

I would have thought you'd be most guys ideal on here

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By *ot so needyMan
over a year ago

Galway

"I'm just looking for NSA sex, but some get feelings, Jealousy , set up new profiles,

It's a swingers n sex site, if your looking for love try first dates Ireland

They can't help it you are just too nice.xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm just looking for NSA sex, but some get feelings, Jealousy , set up new profiles,

It's a swingers n sex site, if your looking for love try first dates Ireland

I would have thought you'd be most guys ideal on here"

But why set up new profile to catch me out .. jealousy is a shocking thread to have .. as its a swingers n sex site .. fab ain't for everyone .. just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been away a year or two , there seems to be more psychos now than ever… also would ya be fuckin we’ll setting up multiple accounts etc…?

I struggle to keep up with one and I make very little effort

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm just looking for NSA sex, but some get feelings, Jealousy , set up new profiles,

It's a swingers n sex site, if your looking for love try first dates Ireland

They can't help it you are just too nice.xx"

Think that's my problem I'm too nice ..

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By *ot so needyMan
over a year ago

Galway

"I'm just looking for NSA sex, but some get feelings, Jealousy , set up new profiles,

It's a swingers n sex site, if your looking for love try first dates Ireland

They can't help it you are just too nice.xx

Think that's my problem I'm too nice .. "

No that's their problem.

There is nothing wrong with being nice..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello is it me ur looking for?

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By *ofistimacatedMan
over a year ago

cavan town

"I'm just looking for NSA sex, but some get feelings, Jealousy , set up new profiles,

It's a swingers n sex site, if your looking for love try first dates Ireland

I love NSA sex, and i dont get jealous ......Just saying

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hello is it me ur looking for?

Ah willie long time no chat .. how are you keeping

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm heading for a shower then my bed .. we will definitely chat 2moro .. nite all x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lou im super are u still beating them off with a stick..

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By *adrarfjordr VoyeurMan
over a year ago

Waterford

"I'm just looking for NSA sex, but some get feelings, Jealousy , set up new profiles,

It's a swingers n sex site, if your looking for love try first dates Ireland

I would have thought you'd be most guys ideal on here

But why set up new profile to catch me out .. jealousy is a shocking thread to have .. as its a swingers n sex site .. fab ain't for everyone .. just saying

True it defeats the purpose of the site but these types are probably going to act the same no matter what the context

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm just looking for NSA sex, but some get feelings, Jealousy , set up new profiles,

It's a swingers n sex site, if your looking for love try first dates Ireland

They can't help it you are just too nice.xx

Think that's my problem I'm too nice .. "
As you say to nice that’s a good thing..you’ll never get

Real satisfaction here…it’s fab…hopefully you will get the Big Bang u need…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know other girls locally that do it from sites and fun from it. Keep the feels out of it

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

"I'm just looking for NSA sex, but some get feelings, Jealousy , set up new profiles,

It's a swingers n sex site, if your looking for love try first dates Ireland

First Dates Ireland? I've seen kids on that who are literally having their first date ever! FFS! Go live a little before you rock up on the feckin tv looking for the ride

Sorry for the rant.

I'm sure there's plenty of willing men who love the idea of NSA but, as you say, then get The Feels. Seen it happening many a time, despite their bravado when asked.

Hoping that you do find a few who fit the bill and, if I ever get to Portlaoise for any reason, would love to be considered a contender, for a coffee at least, with no compulsory buns, as I'm crap at holding back on the cream

Strings

/Feels I don't entertain though. Let's just say that I lived in a much more open society for quite long enough to know how to easily distinguish between the love/lust/fucking for fun

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Surely people can use the site for whatever they want to use it for. Just concentrate on those looking for the same thing as you. And make sure ye are on the same page if you meet regularly.Usually you can tell if someone is more invested in the situation than you are and then surely it's better to chat amd sort the issue out or just end it.

Yes setting up other profiles to spy is strange and odd but so is letting something continue when you know the other person is more invested in it.

Just chalk it down to experience now and keep looking for those who want the same thing as you op .

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By *adger BrocMan
over a year ago

Co. Cork

No problem Lou, I've got your back. And dont worry I don't have a jealous bone in my body so that's something else you are feeling when I stand close behind you.

Good things come to those who wait and grab the opportunity when it arises.

Have a good one Lou.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely long since inoculated against “the feels”. Sex and love go together of course but are also very separate-able.

Just sayin’

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

Hello my name Chris and I like sex it's nice nsa nsa nsa just wanted to share that with the group I'll leave now

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By *otownkid1967Man
over a year ago

Portlaoise

To be honest, you have to leave your feelings at home when it comes to fab.Its great having friends on here but leave it at that.On the other hand I know several couples who have met on here and have solid relationships and good luck to them.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

"I'm just looking for NSA sex, but some get feelings, Jealousy , set up new profiles,

It's a swingers n sex site, if your looking for love try first dates Ireland

They can't help it you are just too nice.xx

Think that's my problem I'm too nice .. "

Glory hole sex my be the trick ... can't get attached to a pushy behind a wall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be worse Lou, you could have a stalker

Again

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By *panishRebelMan
over a year ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

"I'm just looking for NSA sex, but some get feelings, Jealousy , set up new profiles,

It's a swingers n sex site, if your looking for love try first dates Ireland

What's good for the gander is good for the goose.

I personally like a connection, even if it's nsa. Of that makes sense. But I don't do desperation, at 47 I know who and what I am, and that took a while to figure and learn from mistakes.

Hope you find your nsa.

There is a time for everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm just looking for NSA sex, but some get feelings, Jealousy , set up new profiles,

It's a swingers n sex site, if your looking for love try first dates Ireland

I am happy to help you.Nsa and drama free fun is what I am up for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hear ya.I wanna pop into someones house and have some fun and hit the road. Anyone around central Dublin hmu

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By *ohnFKMan
over a year ago

Where the Streets Have No Name

I just like the Song

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By *ohn8922Man
over a year ago

Portlaoise

In and out job lol

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"I just like the Song

Never would guessed that

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By *hrobbinHoodMan
over a year ago

ceatharlach

"I'm just looking for NSA sex, but some get feelings, Jealousy , set up new profiles,

It's a swingers n sex site, if your looking for love try first dates Ireland

First off, great song.

Secondly, I suppose different people will have differing expectations on a site like this. That's the issue I think, alot of people fail to give direct communication and often pretend they want something only to then catch feelings at a later date.

As a nation we are still quite young in our adaptation of polyamory so you're gonna have people very much thinking this is "pof" only a bit more open in terms of the type of pictures you can post here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just like the Song

So do I

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

I don’t get why people continue to harp on about fab not being for finding love.

Technically a swingers site is primarily for couples to swap partners but we all know it’s used for more than that.

While the majority are here for nsa, people do fall in love and have wonderful relationships as a result of meeting here.

If it’s nsa you’re looking for, set boundaries with any meets and be clear on what you want. If the other person ignores those boundaries, ditch them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t get why people continue to harp on about fab not being for finding love.

Technically a swingers site is primarily for couples to swap partners but we all know it’s used for more than that.

While the majority are here for nsa, people do fall in love and have wonderful relationships as a result of meeting here.

If it’s nsa you’re looking for, set boundaries with any meets and be clear on what you want. If the other person ignores those boundaries, ditch them. "

well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably....Probably.. what scares or puts people off is when those words are said " I'm starting to get feelings for you "..you meet someone here ..you think it's only gonna be for one night or a while.. BUT ..you get on like a house on fire..the sex is mind-blowing everytime .. everything is just brilliant BUT both have to want the same thing..it's no good if only one part of the equation feels that way..when only one person feels that way it can end up in heartache..and then it hurts..it can really hurt...ouch !!!

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

"Probably....Probably.. what scares or puts people off is when those words are said " I'm starting to get feelings for you "..you meet someone here ..you think it's only gonna be for one night or a while.. BUT ..you get on like a house on fire..the sex is mind-blowing everytime .. everything is just brilliant BUT both have to want the same thing..it's no good if only one part of the equation feels that way..when only one person feels that way it can end up in heartache..and then it hurts..it can really hurt...ouch !!! "

Just like real life then

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

"I don’t get why people continue to harp on about fab not being for finding love.

Technically a swingers site is primarily for couples to swap partners but we all know it’s used for more than that.

While the majority are here for nsa, people do fall in love and have wonderful relationships as a result of meeting here.

If it’s nsa you’re looking for, set boundaries with any meets and be clear on what you want. If the other person ignores those boundaries, ditch them. "

Yep yep

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

We would like to have a regular sessions with either a couple or lady

but it's difficult with childcare and travelling

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"I don’t get why people continue to harp on about fab not being for finding love.

Technically a swingers site is primarily for couples to swap partners but we all know it’s used for more than that.

While the majority are here for nsa, people do fall in love and have wonderful relationships as a result of meeting here.

If it’s nsa you’re looking for, set boundaries with any meets and be clear on what you want. If the other person ignores those boundaries, ditch them. "

That's a rather outdated definition of swinging, Jaffa but I agree with you on the rest.

Anyhow my experience with jealousy fits on here were less feelings based but some develop a kind of exclusive private parking entitlement after meeting them two or three times. You either make absolutely clear that you're into diversity, other solution is stop meeting them.

Different story with a fb, much higher chances of developing feeling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m with you DH… Fwb, there’s a whole lot of hormones happening repeatedly and over a period of time.. I don’t have the answer but I think the science of sex and orgasm and stuff is interesting.. I just don’t talk about it during meets

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

Private parking. That's a good one.

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By *llthewaysMan
over a year ago

City centre/Naas

Thanks I now have been earwormed by a title thread

that will be running through my head for the morning.

Regarding jealousy and people developing feelings on Fab , I just don't get it. I go to any social or meet with zero expectations

I suppose it depends on the personality of the person.

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

That's a rather outdated definition of swinging, Jaffa but I agree with you on the rest.

Oh I know, that’s why I said technically

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab should be whatever you want it to be. There is no right or wrong way here. We all have different wants needs and desires. Here definitely has something for everyone and isn't exclusive for those who just want casual sex. There are the couples who have met their partners here and some have recently got married. Maybe the whole term of what swinging was is a bit outdated now as more and more people are joining for different reasons. All we can do is be honest and upfront about what we are looking for and what our expectations are. If we are then there should be less problems.

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By *oc09Man
over a year ago

near u

I agree I have met couples at socials on here and they got with each other through fab and some people of here actually go to socials to try someone who would like to be in a open relationship and being honest I'd be open to it if I met the right girl I connected with on a deeper level

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