FabSwingers.com forum: Meeting

By *alcom007 OP Man
over a year ago

belfast

On this 2 weeks and all am getting is fake people any kind person want to meet so I get verified

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

What are "fake people"?

Do you get there and discover that they're a cat or something?

Would that be called catfishing?

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By *leasurer77Man
over a year ago

Athlone

It's a marathon, not a sprint. The rewards are great so you must be willing to put in the hard yards. 2 weeks is a millisecond in the eon that is Fab!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

You need the x factor Malcolm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am here much longer then 2 weeks and still nothing. So it is normal. Be patient and don't let frustration take over your positive thinking...for fuck sake

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

2 whole weeks and no interest in you yet. Just remember that there are thousands of other single males trying to do the same as yourself, if you want a little advice try not having a duck pic as your profile pic,if someone wants to see it they will ask you and good luck to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe also expand on your bio, have a look through some bio’s of those guys on the forums that do have meets…

And a bit more interaction on the forums should help too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is key on here. Negativity vibes on your profile will not attract anyone to checking you out or messaging you. You have lots of competition on here so prepare for a hard slog !!

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By *ornywife20Couple
over a year ago

North Cork

Despite what some single.guys think . The most of the couples and single ladies on here are not sex starved nymphomaniacs . Thanks to fab most of the couples and ladies on here can find couples and ladies and guys to fill there needs .

I don't know the exact numbers but I'd say single guys out number ladies around 4 to one at least judging by the profiles on here and around us. So the bad news is the odds are not in your favour.

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By *ewcouple200Couple
over a year ago

dublin

Have to agree with our fellow fab couples on this thread. Check out the " Help a Fabber out" threads and there are socials for unverified. Sometimes you have to put in the graft to reap the rewards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On this 2 weeks and all am getting is fake people any kind person want to meet so I get verified "

For a single male fab can be a particularly lonely place, just accept it for what it is

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

Dick pics are dime a dozen and I've heard many times they are a turn off

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By *hett and scarlettCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"On this 2 weeks and all am getting is fake people any kind person want to meet so I get verified "

You need to put more effort into your profile. It’s very average to be direct and no different than thousands of other single males profiles. A picture of a semi sleepy willy isn’t going to appeal to many (if any) so take some more pictures, be creative, and expand your bio.

The site can be good fun, but it’s work. If you thought you’d be clicking your fingers and riding every other day then that’s simply not how it works.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

"On this 2 weeks and all am getting is fake people any kind person want to meet so I get verified "
moaning and giving out on here won't get you anywhere on here. Get on the forum and have the craic on here and it might happen for you and if it doesn't sur it's not the end of the world. There are lovely people on here just try and get to know them and you'll be grand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there is much more to the site than just meeting, if that's what you are after.

Update your profile and make it interesting to read and keep it free from typos and basic grammar mistakes.

Get involved in the Forums which has the added bonus of getting your personality out there and make you known to other. This may well help the intrepidation of setting up a meeting with you and fear you won't show up.

Other than this and the other advice tendered by fellow fabbers, the only 3 words I would add to help you are Patience, Patience and Patience.

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford

For a start you do, what you want to do OP. Nobody's making you or trying to do something that you don't want to do. People are only giving there options & some advice. It can be hard for some people to show themselves as a person on a profile with a pic or few & a written bio.

Fab is a Marathon, not a sprint & can be a fairly slow 1 at that aswell for some people. I'm here(really) 6 month's, still not verified yet. I'm not worried about it, if it's going to happen, it will do in time. Until then I'm going on the forum, trying to let people know what I'm like as a person mainly,aswell as having some fun on it also. There's a social event's thread on the forum, you should have a look at it. Have a think about going to some of them event's aswell. Whether it's a social event or meetup make sure your 100% free to go to it. If there's any doubt that you can't make it,don't ask for an invite or ask another person for a meetup. I'm not going to any event's now, as I feel that's there's a possibility that I wouldn't be free on the day of the event, at this time of the year. For a personal meetup, if the person is fairly near me & I'm 100% sure I'm free, it's only then will I say yes to that meetup. Otherwise it's not fair & it make's me look bad to other's aswell.

So OP have a look at others profiles, try to take some ideas from them, to use in your own profile. Otherwise go luck with it & Happy FABBING.

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