FabSwingers.com forum: Couples profiles - who’s the main driver?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Morning all! Just curious as to which partner is the main driver of your (mf) couples profile - the man or the woman? From observation I’d guess the majority are mainly run by the ladies but thought it would be fun to get a poll.

So, who is it?

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By *thLincsCpleCouple
over a year ago

Barton upon Humber

Male half does all the filtering/sorting and will show the lady once we have a potential meet, she really cannot be doing with the complexities of Fab, so leaves me to sort the wood from the trees so to speak, we have always done it this way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Despite it being me, the female half, on the forums 99% of the time, our profile isn't really "driven" by anyone. It really just depends which of us has free time/is in the mood/can be bothered. And although it depends on the time of day, E's more likely to reply to messages than me because, truthfully, a lot of times I can't be arsed

I look after the visuals though

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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago

Youghal

"Male half does all the filtering/sorting and will show the lady once we have a potential meet, she really cannot be doing with the complexities of Fab, so leaves me to sort the wood from the trees so to speak, we have always done it this way."

Same for us. But she does jump on the forums from time to time.

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
over a year ago

kinkytown

I do most of the status updates. She decides on pictures and videos. I would go through the mails for people for Dee to chat to. She replies to the ones that pip her interests. I'd be more active forum wise then herself but she will post as well when she has an interest in the thread.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

I'm on the Forum and he reads my contributions. We both come up with ideas for the couples photos and I then do my own pics. I answer the messages but we don't get many as we have new males blocked (it's far, far easier!).

Mrs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (the Mrs) am over the profile but we both decide on pics etc.

If we get any messages we decide between us what to reply, not that we get many cos we have males blocked as well.

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

"I'm on the Forum and he reads my contributions. We both come up with ideas for the couples photos and I then do my own pics. I answer the messages but we don't get many as we have new males blocked (it's far, far easier!).

Mrs."

Amazing pics and profile

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By *ewadventures2017Couple
over a year ago

some where near

I the man lol have to do all the work here lol

She will read all the messages

Tell me if there's a event coming up that might be of interest to us

But jasus her fingers must be broken cause she will not type a reply to a message lol

I only wish I had a more balanced responsibility here lol

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By *andR2019Couple
over a year ago

Nunya

R would post all the pictures and put up statues.

However the rest of it is both of us, we both read messages and agree a reply first etc.

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By *arry and AnnCouple
over a year ago

Louth

I (Barry) use the forums where Ann doesnt really.. but when it comes to other aspects of fab we're both as active as the other

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cheers all for the responses. Interesting to see how it changes from couple to couple with some common threads. Keep it coming!

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

We tend to use our own mostly. Our couples is just for m&g etc when we might both actually get out together for a night. Both of us use it equally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy the banter in the forums when it’s lighthearted and I’m always up at the crack of dawn so I say good morning to everyone

Both of us are usually logged in on our phones during the day so response to messages could be from either of us and we both discuss meets and events, working well for us

Cat

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

With our profile it just depends on who happens to be on at that particular time or it could be both of us

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By *odernlove2022Couple
over a year ago

Belfast

Mostly male on ours as I tend to run the planning and logistics department but constantly sharing profiles of interest, chats etc throughout the day.

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By *ORBCouple
over a year ago

Dundalk

Me.

No it's not you twat it's me!

Yeah right. Dream on

Whateva

What she said.

No. What he said.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it's me (Mrs). If there's someone of interest then I'll show Mr their profile and messages

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"Me.

No it's not you twat it's me!

Yeah right. Dream on

Whateva

What she said.

No. What he said.....

Guessing thats Bo then

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By *ORBCouple
over a year ago

Dundalk

"Me.

No it's not you twat it's me!

Yeah right. Dream on

Whateva

What she said.

No. What he said.....

Guessing thats Bo then

of course it's me

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By *ultry ZaraCouple
over a year ago

dublin

Me mainly Mrs, but I show hubbie those of interest & ultimatley we both decide who to meet.And he does answer texts too just not so much as me I guess.

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By *ngloirishcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Dundalk

I, Anglo, run the couples profile, and Pinks runs her single female profile. She isn't that keen on all the online chat, she prefers to get the feel of a person in person.

She is always up to date on anyone messaging but leaves me to the messaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both, Generally MrC in the chatrooms, Generally MrsC does the Messages, Both of us do our pics.

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

I (Mrs) post on the forums.

I'm usually the one responding to messages, of which there are few with single men blocked.

Any decisions to attend socials or otherwise are discussed.

He probably fabs pics or winks for the most part. I'll fab pics if I see a forum game thread.

I write status updates. I upload pics - in other words, I'm the driving force behind the profile.

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By *aracarMan
over a year ago

waterford

We both have access but it's generally Male half here that writes and responds to messages,I'm not bothered about the online chat etc, just not my cup of tea. I do write the odd status and upload pictures and browse the forums from time to time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I (Mrs) post on the forums.

I'm usually the one responding to messages, of which there are few with single men blocked.

Any decisions to attend socials or otherwise are discussed.

He probably fabs pics or winks for the most part. I'll fab pics if I see a forum game thread.

I write status updates. I upload pics - in other words, I'm the driving force behind the profile.

Ahhh so you wear the trousers

...or not

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"I (Mrs) post on the forums.

I'm usually the one responding to messages, of which there are few with single men blocked.

Any decisions to attend socials or otherwise are discussed.

He probably fabs pics or winks for the most part. I'll fab pics if I see a forum game thread.

I write status updates. I upload pics - in other words, I'm the driving force behind the profile.

Ahhh so you wear the trousers

...or not

God no but ssssshhhhhh, yes

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

We both have access and look at everything that comes in, Mr is usually the talker but Mrs has her input and has final say on pics and on meets

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
over a year ago

The West

Mr usually on forum and messages, although Mrs does do some messaging and observes everything.

Both make decisions on profile and activities, although I usually leave the final say to her on the who, when, where and why!

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

Missus is usually the one reading and replying to messages.

Messages usually address Dirk lol

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By *hett and scarlettCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Pretty much the same for us

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By *ornywife20Couple
over a year ago

North Cork

Pretty much the same for us

Pretty much the same as us she has the final say on who we meet but I do the searching .

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By *oleraine-coupleCouple
over a year ago

coleraine

Exactly the same for us

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By *ngel and EvilCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

Both of us have access and read messages and decide on pics. Its I Angel that replies to messages, does status updates, goes on forum and uploads pics like the good little PA that I am. Only kidding, I just have more time than he does.

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By *OCONO5Couple
over a year ago

Sensual Center

Mr looks after things on here..he enjoy the crack and banter

..mrs rather the meet in person and social sides

We both take photos together or take our own

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By *R.MandMRS.TCouple
over a year ago

lurgan

Mrs.t mostly Mr will read messages from time to time tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Casey, no interest in meeting now so we're parked up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Morning all! Just curious as to which partner is the main driver of your (mf) couples profile - the man or the woman? From observation I’d guess the majority are mainly run by the ladies but thought it would be fun to get a poll.

So, who is it?

On our profile Mr Owner is the main driver but the star of our profile is of course Titanium Tushy and in real life Titanium Tushy is Mrs Owner lol

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