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"You have verified and unverified mixed up in your initial post which confuses things a little bit People of both sexes need to feel safe when meeting others for a coffee even when its in a public place so they exercise freedom of choice as to who they meet. It doesn't matter how liberal people are meant to be or not be on the site ....safety is a basic requirement " thats fine i understand that but isnt the whole call fab june making a morckery of that if anyone who is verified can pick and choose isnt it slightly against why people are verified.there is more strick people here on the forums and im not judging the rest of fab just the forums who thing they are acut above just look at any topic its an elitist group | |||
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"If your not part of a clique you are screwed is what I get from fab" the rest of fab is grand the forums will destroy you | |||
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"You have verified and unverified mixed up in your initial post which confuses things a little bit People of both sexes need to feel safe when meeting others for a coffee even when its in a public place so they exercise freedom of choice as to who they meet. It doesn't matter how liberal people are meant to be or not be on the site ....safety is a basic requirement thats fine i understand that but isnt the whole call fab june making a morckery of that if anyone who is verified can pick and choose isnt it slightly against why people are verified.there is more strick people here on the forums and im not judging the rest of fab just the forums who thing they are acut above just look at any topic its an elitist group " What do you mean they can pick & choose? | |||
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"I/We prefer to meet only "meet verified" people who have a proven track record of showing up. It's not a cast iron guarantee but it's a decent indicator." despite what you actually know about me i am a descent person and anyone that knows me knows i dont make plans unless i can gaurantee i can meet them | |||
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"If your not part of a clique you are screwed is what I get from fab" If you're not mature enough to act like an adult and throw your toys out of the pram every few weeks then you're screwed ....or not screwed as the case may be | |||
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"If your not part of a clique you are screwed is what I get from fab the rest of fab is grand the forums will destroy you " If you feel like that about any part of the site then don't use that part of the site .....don't use this site to get destroyed | |||
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"Op ....anyone can chose who they want to meet Whether you like it or not its freedom of choice The forums are only a tiny percentage of what happens on fab People are going to private parties or having meets and have never been near the forums " i agree with you thats why i say the people i chat on her are nice genuine people its the forums where people are nasty and exclusive not all people but some | |||
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"If your not part of a clique you are screwed is what I get from fab If you're not mature enough to act like an adult and throw your toys out of the pram every few weeks then you're screwed ....or not screwed as the case may be " see your being condesending now | |||
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"I/We prefer to meet only "meet verified" people who have a proven track record of showing up. It's not a cast iron guarantee but it's a decent indicator. despite what you actually know about me i am a descent person and anyone that knows me knows i dont make plans unless i can gaurantee i can meet them" That's fair enough - and nothing I said was aimed at you. I was just explaining our particular reason for only meeting those who are verified. We meet others so infrequently that it makes sense to have mitigations in place | |||
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"Op ....anyone can chose who they want to meet Whether you like it or not its freedom of choice The forums are only a tiny percentage of what happens on fab People are going to private parties or having meets and have never been near the forums i agree with you thats why i say the people i chat on her are nice genuine people its the forums where people are nasty and exclusive not all people but some" I look at the forums like an extension of the socials and parties I go to. Of course I'm going to laugh and joke with people I've met and interacted with in real life However everyone has to find their own place on the forums...then when they're comfortable they can make others feel comfortable to interact with them and see if it can be taken further You don't have to like everyone you interact with on the forums,indeed I'm blocked by some profiles but we still chat to each other in threads on here politely | |||
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"I/We prefer to meet only "meet verified" people who have a proven track record of showing up. It's not a cast iron guarantee but it's a decent indicator. despite what you actually know about me i am a descent person and anyone that knows me knows i dont make plans unless i can gaurantee i can meet them That's fair enough - and nothing I said was aimed at you. I was just explaining our particular reason for only meeting those who are verified. We meet others so infrequently that it makes sense to have mitigations in place" and thats fine i understand that but it is the reason for the name of the topic i dont understand why when your verified and site verified and try get involved in a forum and are a site supporter why people on the forums are so quick to discredit people intentionaly.as i said im over a year on here paying my support payment i sure this is a topic that people should really think of. Iv read all types of topics on here from body shaming to social events but not one topic of inclusion is suppose to be an openminded site ..sorry about the rant but someone had to have it | |||
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"Maybe because, as in all areas of life, not everyone will like everyone, not everyone will get along, some people you can barely tolerate and some you plain can't breathe the same air as. Fab, and ergo the forums, is a microcosm of real life so all those human interactions and relationships are mirrored here " its not about getting on i talk you everyone i meet regard of who where and what sex they are iv done a lot of good for people most of my work for myself after my paid job is free work. It about decentice the forums are all rife with bad people i cant see how ye cant see it | |||
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"It is true that there are some in the forums that have an overwhelmingly negative outlook and seem intent on spreading that vibe at every opportunity. It's the most extraordinary form of self sabotage." if you know me as you dont i dont like anybody been excluded from anything it something i feel strongly about regardless fab or just life | |||
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" sorry not being smart here.. theres guys who clean up on the site without perfect english. but rife is a fairly advanced word "it twats | |||
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"Are there wise asses? Plenty. Are there some ass hats? Yep for sure. Are there some pure cunts? Yep a few. But rife with BAD people? No, that's not what I see" you wouldnt were you not the one to bring up a comment i made on a thread afew weeks beforehand | |||
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"I wouldn’t worry about it too much my friend. I’m not long here, I’ve only used the forums today but I’ve looked at it for a while now. I’ve blocked some people that I’ve seen on the forums, I’ve blocked some people I’ve seen on the who’s near feature, I’ve blocked some that I’ve messaged and they have looked at me and ignored me. I’ve blocked people that don’t fit my criteria and I’ve blocked people because I don’t fit their criteria, needs or standards they’ve set. It’s just a near fantasyland that you are on here. I don’t want to meet everyone that’s a member, I want to keep my circle small. That way, I feel I’ll get the most benefit of being here and those within my circle, will get the greatest benefit of me. You’ll never be everything to everyone. Just be yourself, do your own thing and you’ll reap the rewards you seek. " see what happens when yo call them out its gone quiet. This is probably the only thread here that has publicly called out the bullies of the site | |||
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"Are there wise asses? Plenty. Are there some ass hats? Yep for sure. Are there some pure cunts? Yep a few. But rife with BAD people? No, that's not what I see you wouldnt were you not the one to bring up a comment i made on a thread afew weeks beforehand " I did yep. I brought it up in jest. But hey, I get it, I'm one of the bad people. I can live with that. | |||
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" see what happens when yo call them out its gone quiet. This is probably the only thread here that has publicly called out the bullies of the site " It really isn't | |||
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"I wouldn’t worry about it too much my friend. I’m not long here, I’ve only used the forums today but I’ve looked at it for a while now. I’ve blocked some people that I’ve seen on the forums, I’ve blocked some people I’ve seen on the who’s near feature, I’ve blocked some that I’ve messaged and they have looked at me and ignored me. I’ve blocked people that don’t fit my criteria and I’ve blocked people because I don’t fit their criteria, needs or standards they’ve set. It’s just a near fantasyland that you are on here. I don’t want to meet everyone that’s a member, I want to keep my circle small. That way, I feel I’ll get the most benefit of being here and those within my circle, will get the greatest benefit of me. You’ll never be everything to everyone. Just be yourself, do your own thing and you’ll reap the rewards you seek. see what happens when yo call them out its gone quiet. This is probably the only thread here that has publicly called out the bullies of the site " Not sure it’s gone quiet because you’ve called them out. It’s after midnight and perhaps, many are gone to bed. Not sure either you’ve actually called anyone out but maybe I’ve read it all wrong. And like I said above, reap what you sow and you’ll get the rewards and I’ve a feeling that others are seeing the rewards for all your sowing. And off to bed I go. | |||
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"I wouldn’t worry about it too much my friend. I’m not long here, I’ve only used the forums today but I’ve looked at it for a while now. I’ve blocked some people that I’ve seen on the forums, I’ve blocked some people I’ve seen on the who’s near feature, I’ve blocked some that I’ve messaged and they have looked at me and ignored me. I’ve blocked people that don’t fit my criteria and I’ve blocked people because I don’t fit their criteria, needs or standards they’ve set. It’s just a near fantasyland that you are on here. I don’t want to meet everyone that’s a member, I want to keep my circle small. That way, I feel I’ll get the most benefit of being here and those within my circle, will get the greatest benefit of me. You’ll never be everything to everyone. Just be yourself, do your own thing and you’ll reap the rewards you seek. see what happens when yo call them out its gone quiet. This is probably the only thread here that has publicly called out the bullies of the site Not sure it’s gone quiet because you’ve called them out. It’s after midnight and perhaps, many are gone to bed. Not sure either you’ve actually called anyone out but maybe I’ve read it all wrong. And like I said above, reap what you sow and you’ll get the rewards and I’ve a feeling that others are seeing the rewards for all your sowing. And off to bed I go. " thats exactly who im on about the fact you decide to comment on what i wrote last and not understud what i was on about says it all | |||
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"If you let what goes on in the forum get to you it will drive you away from fab but if just go with the flow you'll enjoy it. There's plenty of sound people on the forums don't let a few bad apples ruin it for you OP. "thats not the case i dont like to get to involve in topics but when i do i speak my mind | |||
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"I think people understand you just fine. They might not agree with you though." do yo think so hows the fake page going btw | |||
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"If you let what goes on in the forum get to you it will drive you away from fab but if just go with the flow you'll enjoy it. There's plenty of sound people on the forums don't let a few bad apples ruin it for you OP. thats not the case i dont like to get to involve in topics but when i do i speak my mind"get involved in the fun ones too and move out to the lounge and swingers forum lots of craic there. | |||
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"If you let what goes on in the forum get to you it will drive you away from fab but if just go with the flow you'll enjoy it. There's plenty of sound people on the forums don't let a few bad apples ruin it for you OP. thats not the case i dont like to get to involve in topics but when i do i speak my mind"But when others do...? | |||
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"If you let what goes on in the forum get to you it will drive you away from fab but if just go with the flow you'll enjoy it. There's plenty of sound people on the forums don't let a few bad apples ruin it for you OP. thats not the case i dont like to get to involve in topics but when i do i speak my mindget involved in the fun ones too and move out to the lounge and swingers forum lots of craic there. "its not about me its the way forums treat people | |||
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"If you let what goes on in the forum get to you it will drive you away from fab but if just go with the flow you'll enjoy it. There's plenty of sound people on the forums don't let a few bad apples ruin it for you OP. thats not the case i dont like to get to involve in topics but when i do i speak my mindget involved in the fun ones too and move out to the lounge and swingers forum lots of craic there. its not about me its the way forums treat people"I get treated grand and I'm not verified yet. If you conduct yourself properly you'll be grand and have the craic but if you don't and I've seen it they will call you out on it. | |||
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"If you don’t enjoy the forums, but do enjoy other aspects of the site, then simply avoid the forums. Pretty simple really. " isnt that statement more or lest what im on about "smply avoid the forum" exclusion. | |||
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"If you let what goes on in the forum get to you it will drive you away from fab but if just go with the flow you'll enjoy it. There's plenty of sound people on the forums don't let a few bad apples ruin it for you OP. thats not the case i dont like to get to involve in topics but when i do i speak my mind
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"OP I may be wrong but I suspect you've had a couple of drinks and feeling a bit sorry for yourself. From your 2 verifications so far I see you've met 2 gems so Fab has been good to you. I'm most certainly not in the forum clique but I really enjoy the forums. If I give strong opinions I get strong responses. I've had loads of laughs and as yet haven't had cause to cry. Have patience with Fab and the forums and one day you might even find you've become one of said clique. Stay strong." your just on fab six months and fair play but you are been typical of what im on about | |||
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"OP I may be wrong but I suspect you've had a couple of drinks and feeling a bit sorry for yourself. From your 2 verifications so far I see you've met 2 gems so Fab has been good to you. I'm most certainly not in the forum clique but I really enjoy the forums. If I give strong opinions I get strong responses. I've had loads of laughs and as yet haven't had cause to cry. Have patience with Fab and the forums and one day you might even find you've become one of said clique. Stay strong. your just on fab six months and fair play but you are been typical of what im on about " You're the first person I've seen on the forums refer to how long someone is on Fab so you're being typical of what you're on about. Quite ironic! | |||
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"If you don’t enjoy the forums, but do enjoy other aspects of the site, then simply avoid the forums. Pretty simple really. isnt that statement more or lest what im on about "smply avoid the forum" exclusion." Not at all, it’s specific to you and your experience. People use the forum on a regular basis so they either get information, enjoyment, or potential meets from it. Your opinion is specific to you, but others clearly feel differently. If you dont like the forum, then there are other features. It’s akin to going to a restaurant and complaining that you don’t like the fish, but you love the steak. In that scenario you wouldn’t feel the need to announce to the rest of the restaurant that you hate their fish, you’d simply order that steak. Unless your the type of customer would feels the need to stand on a chair and make a public display of your loathing of the fish dish, then that is a slightly different issue and it really isn’t about the fish at all. | |||
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"If you let what goes on in the forum get to you it will drive you away from fab but if just go with the flow you'll enjoy it. There's plenty of sound people on the forums don't let a few bad apples ruin it for you OP. thats not the case i dont like to get to involve in topics but when i do i speak my mindget involved in the fun ones too and move out to the lounge and swingers forum lots of craic there. its not about me its the way forums treat people"Forums don't treat people. People treat people. It only takes a quick scan right across all the various forums on here and not just the Ireland one to see that there are threads like this one every single day with accusations of forum bullying and cliques. I don't chat to anyone on here outside the forums so any interaction I have with people is all there for everyone to see and a lot of what I say on here goes against the grain. Even so I've been accused of being part of the clique which is hilarious really because there's no fecking way they would let me in. It's difficult for one person to "gang" up on others. All I've seen above is positive advice offered that you have chosen to take offence at which is something else that happens every day on the forums. I'm blocked by lots of people including some who have commented on this thread and I've no interest in knowing why just as I've no interest in telling all the people I've blocked or won't chat to why I made that decision. I don't meet unverified people and that's my choice and I don't need to give a reason. There are many verified people I wouldn't touch with someone else's either and again that's my choice and I won't be explaining why. | |||
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"Forums are just to throw out conversations, it's helps to get to know ppl. Yes, some will be harsh, some will be funny, but isn't that life... Meet a room of people, you'll not click with everyone.. There are highly decent people but in life it takes time to figure things out. Fab is not a quick fix .. Or fuck.. " You have just about summed it up !! | |||
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Op I'm sure you've talked to plenty who don't like the forums. Only a tiny minority use the forums though,and quite often the forums are looked down on by other users. They are definitely not the be all and end all of fab. In fact in recent times they have gotten a lot quieter due to outside chat groups. I'm not in groups I've no interest in them tried them before and found them worse than the forums for unnecessary drama and not to mention info spreading so I pass on them now. That is my choice,plenty of people enjoy chat groups and I'm sure there are groups that aren't like the ones I've been in but my experience put me off so I avoid them.Just like if I felt that way about the forums I'd avoid them too.
But no one has power on here unless you let them. Some on here think they do which is actually laughable. They only have it in their own circles and those circles change all the time because people get fed up of the drama and bullshit eventually.
Concentrate on your own journey if you really don't like the forums and find that they get to you then why continue to use them ? The forums will never change posters on here come and go all the time but in the time I've been on here they don't change much,no matter how much people might want them to.
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"If you don’t enjoy the forums, but do enjoy other aspects of the site, then simply avoid the forums. Pretty simple really. isnt that statement more or lest what im on about "smply avoid the forum" exclusion. Not at all, it’s specific to you and your experience. People use the forum on a regular basis so they either get information, enjoyment, or potential meets from it. Your opinion is specific to you, but others clearly feel differently. If you dont like the forum, then there are other features. It’s akin to going to a restaurant and complaining that you don’t like the fish, but you love the steak. In that scenario you wouldn’t feel the need to announce to the rest of the restaurant that you hate their fish, you’d simply order that steak. Unless your the type of customer would feels the need to stand on a chair and make a public display of your loathing of the fish dish, then that is a slightly different issue and it really isn’t about the fish at all. "thats the worst case of logic iv heard so far trying to explain something | |||
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"To your original post op I've met unverified people in the past that I chatted to and got to know. I now though have set a filter so no one unveried can message me just to tighten filters more than anything else. And I'm not doing new meets right now so it's irrelevant anyhow,but I'm also not on here to give anyone a chance I joined here to meet people I want to meet.As for verified people having all the choices and picking who to meet,well those looking to be verified on those threads have just as much right to say no thanks as well. No one has to meet anyone they don't want to. As for people being bullied and nasty on the forums. Yes I have seen nastiness on here. I've seen pile ons on plenty of occasions,bullying not so much. I've seen people come in all guns blazing telling everyone how it is in their mind,insulting others then pulling they bully card when anyone dares to disagree. The clique word gets used a lot and yes it can be quite non inclusive on here and yes it can look cliquey at times. Usually though that is used by those who make almost no effort on here and seem to get mad because they don't get replies they want. I rarely get replies on here and I couldn't give a rat's ass. I post my opinion on here,many probably roll their eyes when they see me post but that's not my problem and I don't actually care. The clique line is also as an excuse by those who often return on here after being extremely abusive about the women on here calling them all sorts of derogatory names in a big rant before they left before. But easier to blame the 'clique'than the fact people just remember what was said.
Op I'm sure you've talked to plenty who don't like the forums. Only a tiny minority use the forums though,and quite often the forums are looked down on by other users. They are definitely not the be all and end all of fab. In fact in recent times they have gotten a lot quieter due to outside chat groups. I'm not in groups I've no interest in them tried them before and found them worse than the forums for unnecessary drama and not to mention info spreading so I pass on them now. That is my choice,plenty of people enjoy chat groups and I'm sure there are groups that aren't like the ones I've been in but my experience put me off so I avoid them.Just like if I felt that way about the forums I'd avoid them too.
But no one has power on here unless you let them. Some on here think they do which is actually laughable. They only have it in their own circles and those circles change all the time because people get fed up of the drama and bullshit eventually.
Concentrate on your own journey if you really don't like the forums and find that they get to you then why continue to use them ? The forums will never change posters on here come and go all the time but in the time I've been on here they don't change much,no matter how much people might want them to.
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"If you let what goes on in the forum get to you it will drive you away from fab but if just go with the flow you'll enjoy it. There's plenty of sound people on the forums don't let a few bad apples ruin it for you OP. thats not the case i dont like to get to involve in topics but when i do i speak my mindget involved in the fun ones too and move out to the lounge and swingers forum lots of craic there. its not about me its the way forums treat people
Forums don't treat people.
People treat people.
It only takes a quick scan right across all the various forums on here and not just the Ireland one to see that there are threads like this one every single day with accusations of forum bullying and cliques.
I don't chat to anyone on here outside the forums so any interaction I have with people is all there for everyone to see and a lot of what I say on here goes against the grain.
Even so I've been accused of being part of the clique which is hilarious really because there's no fecking way they would let me in.
It's difficult for one person to "gang" up on others.
All I've seen above is positive advice offered that you have chosen to take offence at which is something else that happens every day on the forums.
I'm blocked by lots of people including some who have commented on this thread and I've no interest in knowing why just as I've no interest in telling all the people I've blocked or won't chat to why I made that decision.
I don't meet unverified people and that's my choice and I don't need to give a reason.
There are many verified people I wouldn't touch with someone else's either and again that's my choice and I won't be explaining why."again i understand your point of view, but there is a lol of people on theses forum that can be trouble makers making someone look bad because they actually have an opinion. I know i probably am kinda blacklisted on the rest of fab because of small group of people on the forum made sure to make me look like a bad person and tbh iv seen here where people post a topic and before they get a reply they know its going to be rough | |||
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"If you let what goes on in the forum get to you it will drive you away from fab but if just go with the flow you'll enjoy it. There's plenty of sound people on the forums don't let a few bad apples ruin it for you OP. thats not the case i dont like to get to involve in topics but when i do i speak my mindget involved in the fun ones too and move out to the lounge and swingers forum lots of craic there. its not about me its the way forums treat people
Forums don't treat people.
People treat people.
It only takes a quick scan right across all the various forums on here and not just the Ireland one to see that there are threads like this one every single day with accusations of forum bullying and cliques.
I don't chat to anyone on here outside the forums so any interaction I have with people is all there for everyone to see and a lot of what I say on here goes against the grain.
Even so I've been accused of being part of the clique which is hilarious really because there's no fecking way they would let me in.
It's difficult for one person to "gang" up on others.
All I've seen above is positive advice offered that you have chosen to take offence at which is something else that happens every day on the forums.
I'm blocked by lots of people including some who have commented on this thread and I've no interest in knowing why just as I've no interest in telling all the people I've blocked or won't chat to why I made that decision.
I don't meet unverified people and that's my choice and I don't need to give a reason.
There are many verified people I wouldn't touch with someone else's either and again that's my choice and I won't be explaining why. again i understand your point of view, but there is a lol of people on theses forum that can be trouble makers making someone look bad because they actually have an opinion. I know i probably am kinda blacklisted on the rest of fab because of small group of people on the forum made sure to make me look like a bad person and tbh iv seen here where people post a topic and before they get a reply they know its going to be rough"The only person who can make you look bad is you. Let others get on with it and do your own thing. People aren't always going to agree with what others say, that's part and parcel of life not just here. If its affecting you then rethink life online or learn to move past things that you don't agree with | |||
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"If you let what goes on in the forum get to you it will drive you away from fab but if just go with the flow you'll enjoy it. There's plenty of sound people on the forums don't let a few bad apples ruin it for you OP. thats not the case i dont like to get to involve in topics but when i do i speak my mindget involved in the fun ones too and move out to the lounge and swingers forum lots of craic there. its not about me its the way forums treat people
Forums don't treat people.
People treat people.
It only takes a quick scan right across all the various forums on here and not just the Ireland one to see that there are threads like this one every single day with accusations of forum bullying and cliques.
I don't chat to anyone on here outside the forums so any interaction I have with people is all there for everyone to see and a lot of what I say on here goes against the grain.
Even so I've been accused of being part of the clique which is hilarious really because there's no fecking way they would let me in.
It's difficult for one person to "gang" up on others.
All I've seen above is positive advice offered that you have chosen to take offence at which is something else that happens every day on the forums.
I'm blocked by lots of people including some who have commented on this thread and I've no interest in knowing why just as I've no interest in telling all the people I've blocked or won't chat to why I made that decision.
I don't meet unverified people and that's my choice and I don't need to give a reason.
There are many verified people I wouldn't touch with someone else's either and again that's my choice and I won't be explaining why. again i understand your point of view, but there is a lol of people on theses forum that can be trouble makers making someone look bad because they actually have an opinion. I know i probably am kinda blacklisted on the rest of fab because of small group of people on the forum made sure to make me look like a bad person and tbh iv seen here where people post a topic and before they get a reply they know its going to be rough"I've been here almost seven years and using the forums for four. In that time I've started hundreds of threads and I've only ever had one thread that has had more than 30 replies but I don't take it personally. I have opinions and most days I can't be arsed offering them but I'm not afraid of voicing them every now and again. Lots of people respect that I have those opinions but others don't appreciate it and refuse to interact which is their perogative. The opinions of random randy people in a forum aren't going to have much impact on my day but if it makes them happy then let them off. | |||
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"If you let what goes on in the forum get to you it will drive you away from fab but if just go with the flow you'll enjoy it. There's plenty of sound people on the forums don't let a few bad apples ruin it for you OP. thats not the case i dont like to get to involve in topics but when i do i speak my mindget involved in the fun ones too and move out to the lounge and swingers forum lots of craic there. its not about me its the way forums treat people
Forums don't treat people.
People treat people.
It only takes a quick scan right across all the various forums on here and not just the Ireland one to see that there are threads like this one every single day with accusations of forum bullying and cliques.
I don't chat to anyone on here outside the forums so any interaction I have with people is all there for everyone to see and a lot of what I say on here goes against the grain.
Even so I've been accused of being part of the clique which is hilarious really because there's no fecking way they would let me in.
It's difficult for one person to "gang" up on others.
All I've seen above is positive advice offered that you have chosen to take offence at which is something else that happens every day on the forums.
I'm blocked by lots of people including some who have commented on this thread and I've no interest in knowing why just as I've no interest in telling all the people I've blocked or won't chat to why I made that decision.
I don't meet unverified people and that's my choice and I don't need to give a reason.
There are many verified people I wouldn't touch with someone else's either and again that's my choice and I won't be explaining why. again i understand your point of view, but there is a lol of people on theses forum that can be trouble makers making someone look bad because they actually have an opinion. I know i probably am kinda blacklisted on the rest of fab because of small group of people on the forum made sure to make me look like a bad person and tbh iv seen here where people post a topic and before they get a reply they know its going to be rough
The only person who can make you look bad is you. Let others get on with it and do your own thing. People aren't always going to agree with what others say, that's part and parcel of life not just here. If its affecting you then rethink life online or learn to move past things that you don't agree with"im not out to make myself look bad and no its not affecting me fab itself is a nice place the forums different story altogether. Im not saying everyone bad on the forums, aslong as im a site supporter ill be here | |||
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"If you let what goes on in the forum get to you it will drive you away from fab but if just go with the flow you'll enjoy it. There's plenty of sound people on the forums don't let a few bad apples ruin it for you OP. thats not the case i dont like to get to involve in topics but when i do i speak my mindget involved in the fun ones too and move out to the lounge and swingers forum lots of craic there. its not about me its the way forums treat people
Forums don't treat people.
People treat people.
It only takes a quick scan right across all the various forums on here and not just the Ireland one to see that there are threads like this one every single day with accusations of forum bullying and cliques.
I don't chat to anyone on here outside the forums so any interaction I have with people is all there for everyone to see and a lot of what I say on here goes against the grain.
Even so I've been accused of being part of the clique which is hilarious really because there's no fecking way they would let me in.
It's difficult for one person to "gang" up on others.
All I've seen above is positive advice offered that you have chosen to take offence at which is something else that happens every day on the forums.
I'm blocked by lots of people including some who have commented on this thread and I've no interest in knowing why just as I've no interest in telling all the people I've blocked or won't chat to why I made that decision.
I don't meet unverified people and that's my choice and I don't need to give a reason.
There are many verified people I wouldn't touch with someone else's either and again that's my choice and I won't be explaining why. again i understand your point of view, but there is a lol of people on theses forum that can be trouble makers making someone look bad because they actually have an opinion. I know i probably am kinda blacklisted on the rest of fab because of small group of people on the forum made sure to make me look like a bad person and tbh iv seen here where people post a topic and before they get a reply they know its going to be rough
The only person who can make you look bad is you. Let others get on with it and do your own thing. People aren't always going to agree with what others say, that's part and parcel of life not just here. If its affecting you then rethink life online or learn to move past things that you don't agree with im not out to make myself look bad and no its not affecting me fab itself is a nice place the forums different story altogether. Im not saying everyone bad on the forums, aslong as im a site supporter ill be here "Why do you think being a site supporter gives you any additional sway around here? It merely means that you have access to additional features like notes, the ability to post extra pics etc. You’ve mentioned it a few times like it gives you the keys to the kingdom. | |||
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"If you let what goes on in the forum get to you it will drive you away from fab but if just go with the flow you'll enjoy it. There's plenty of sound people on the forums don't let a few bad apples ruin it for you OP. thats not the case i dont like to get to involve in topics but when i do i speak my mindget involved in the fun ones too and move out to the lounge and swingers forum lots of craic there. its not about me its the way forums treat people
Forums don't treat people.
People treat people.
It only takes a quick scan right across all the various forums on here and not just the Ireland one to see that there are threads like this one every single day with accusations of forum bullying and cliques.
I don't chat to anyone on here outside the forums so any interaction I have with people is all there for everyone to see and a lot of what I say on here goes against the grain.
Even so I've been accused of being part of the clique which is hilarious really because there's no fecking way they would let me in.
It's difficult for one person to "gang" up on others.
All I've seen above is positive advice offered that you have chosen to take offence at which is something else that happens every day on the forums.
I'm blocked by lots of people including some who have commented on this thread and I've no interest in knowing why just as I've no interest in telling all the people I've blocked or won't chat to why I made that decision.
I don't meet unverified people and that's my choice and I don't need to give a reason.
There are many verified people I wouldn't touch with someone else's either and again that's my choice and I won't be explaining why. again i understand your point of view, but there is a lol of people on theses forum that can be trouble makers making someone look bad because they actually have an opinion. I know i probably am kinda blacklisted on the rest of fab because of small group of people on the forum made sure to make me look like a bad person and tbh iv seen here where people post a topic and before they get a reply they know its going to be rough
The only person who can make you look bad is you. Let others get on with it and do your own thing. People aren't always going to agree with what others say, that's part and parcel of life not just here. If its affecting you then rethink life online or learn to move past things that you don't agree with im not out to make myself look bad and no its not affecting me fab itself is a nice place the forums different story altogether. Im not saying everyone bad on the forums, aslong as im a site supporter ill be here
Why do you think being a site supporter gives you any additional sway around here?
It merely means that you have access to additional features like notes, the ability to post extra pics etc.
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"If you let what goes on in the forum get to you it will drive you away from fab but if just go with the flow you'll enjoy it. There's plenty of sound people on the forums don't let a few bad apples ruin it for you OP. thats not the case i dont like to get to involve in topics but when i do i speak my mindget involved in the fun ones too and move out to the lounge and swingers forum lots of craic there. its not about me its the way forums treat people
Forums don't treat people.
People treat people.
It only takes a quick scan right across all the various forums on here and not just the Ireland one to see that there are threads like this one every single day with accusations of forum bullying and cliques.
I don't chat to anyone on here outside the forums so any interaction I have with people is all there for everyone to see and a lot of what I say on here goes against the grain.
Even so I've been accused of being part of the clique which is hilarious really because there's no fecking way they would let me in.
It's difficult for one person to "gang" up on others.
All I've seen above is positive advice offered that you have chosen to take offence at which is something else that happens every day on the forums.
I'm blocked by lots of people including some who have commented on this thread and I've no interest in knowing why just as I've no interest in telling all the people I've blocked or won't chat to why I made that decision.
I don't meet unverified people and that's my choice and I don't need to give a reason.
There are many verified people I wouldn't touch with someone else's either and again that's my choice and I won't be explaining why. again i understand your point of view, but there is a lol of people on theses forum that can be trouble makers making someone look bad because they actually have an opinion. I know i probably am kinda blacklisted on the rest of fab because of small group of people on the forum made sure to make me look like a bad person and tbh iv seen here where people post a topic and before they get a reply they know its going to be rough
The only person who can make you look bad is you. Let others get on with it and do your own thing. People aren't always going to agree with what others say, that's part and parcel of life not just here. If its affecting you then rethink life online or learn to move past things that you don't agree with im not out to make myself look bad and no its not affecting me fab itself is a nice place the forums different story altogether. Im not saying everyone bad on the forums, aslong as im a site supporter ill be here
Why do you think being a site supporter gives you any additional sway around here?
It merely means that you have access to additional features like notes, the ability to post extra pics etc.
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"OP I can see that you feel your opinion very strongly, but I think it may be time to realize that you’re not covering yourself in glory here. I think anyone on a forum like this needs to develop a thick skin and not take things personally. Yes there are plenty of asshats on any forum, but there are plenty of decent people as well. Ignore the former as best you can and embrace the latter. " i know well im not doing myself any good here, like the last reply i had she had me blocked but still felt she could send a message on the forum. Anyway what im saying is as honest as i can put it, if it does me harm so be it | |||
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"If you let what goes on in the forum get to you it will drive you away from fab but if just go with the flow you'll enjoy it. There's plenty of sound people on the forums don't let a few bad apples ruin it for you OP. thats not the case i dont like to get to involve in topics but when i do i speak my mindget involved in the fun ones too and move out to the lounge and swingers forum lots of craic there. its not about me its the way forums treat people
Forums don't treat people.
People treat people.
It only takes a quick scan right across all the various forums on here and not just the Ireland one to see that there are threads like this one every single day with accusations of forum bullying and cliques.
I don't chat to anyone on here outside the forums so any interaction I have with people is all there for everyone to see and a lot of what I say on here goes against the grain.
Even so I've been accused of being part of the clique which is hilarious really because there's no fecking way they would let me in.
It's difficult for one person to "gang" up on others.
All I've seen above is positive advice offered that you have chosen to take offence at which is something else that happens every day on the forums.
I'm blocked by lots of people including some who have commented on this thread and I've no interest in knowing why just as I've no interest in telling all the people I've blocked or won't chat to why I made that decision.
I don't meet unverified people and that's my choice and I don't need to give a reason.
There are many verified people I wouldn't touch with someone else's either and again that's my choice and I won't be explaining why. again i understand your point of view, but there is a lol of people on theses forum that can be trouble makers making someone look bad because they actually have an opinion. I know i probably am kinda blacklisted on the rest of fab because of small group of people on the forum made sure to make me look like a bad person and tbh iv seen here where people post a topic and before they get a reply they know its going to be rough
The only person who can make you look bad is you. Let others get on with it and do your own thing. People aren't always going to agree with what others say, that's part and parcel of life not just here. If its affecting you then rethink life online or learn to move past things that you don't agree with im not out to make myself look bad and no its not affecting me fab itself is a nice place the forums different story altogether. Im not saying everyone bad on the forums, aslong as im a site supporter ill be here
Why do you think being a site supporter gives you any additional sway around here?
It merely means that you have access to additional features like notes, the ability to post extra pics etc.
You’ve mentioned it a few times like it gives you the keys to the kingdom. im not sure why you are bother have you not got me blocked the last time i checked it is a way to stop people from viewing and contacting the person would i be right "More deflecting because you don’t have a logical answer? | |||
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You've got feet "Yes. Hobbits have feet, just like humans, although admittedly a bit hairier. | |||
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"If you let what goes on in the forum get to you it will drive you away from fab but if just go with the flow you'll enjoy it. There's plenty of sound people on the forums don't let a few bad apples ruin it for you OP. thats not the case i dont like to get to involve in topics but when i do i speak my mindget involved in the fun ones too and move out to the lounge and swingers forum lots of craic there. its not about me its the way forums treat people
Forums don't treat people.
People treat people.
It only takes a quick scan right across all the various forums on here and not just the Ireland one to see that there are threads like this one every single day with accusations of forum bullying and cliques.
I don't chat to anyone on here outside the forums so any interaction I have with people is all there for everyone to see and a lot of what I say on here goes against the grain.
Even so I've been accused of being part of the clique which is hilarious really because there's no fecking way they would let me in.
It's difficult for one person to "gang" up on others.
All I've seen above is positive advice offered that you have chosen to take offence at which is something else that happens every day on the forums.
I'm blocked by lots of people including some who have commented on this thread and I've no interest in knowing why just as I've no interest in telling all the people I've blocked or won't chat to why I made that decision.
I don't meet unverified people and that's my choice and I don't need to give a reason.
There are many verified people I wouldn't touch with someone else's either and again that's my choice and I won't be explaining why. again i understand your point of view, but there is a lol of people on theses forum that can be trouble makers making someone look bad because they actually have an opinion. I know i probably am kinda blacklisted on the rest of fab because of small group of people on the forum made sure to make me look like a bad person and tbh iv seen here where people post a topic and before they get a reply they know its going to be rough
The only person who can make you look bad is you. Let others get on with it and do your own thing. People aren't always going to agree with what others say, that's part and parcel of life not just here. If its affecting you then rethink life online or learn to move past things that you don't agree with im not out to make myself look bad and no its not affecting me fab itself is a nice place the forums different story altogether. Im not saying everyone bad on the forums, aslong as im a site supporter ill be here
Why do you think being a site supporter gives you any additional sway around here?
It merely means that you have access to additional features like notes, the ability to post extra pics etc.
You’ve mentioned it a few times like it gives you the keys to the kingdom. im not sure why you are bother have you not got me blocked the last time i checked it is a way to stop people from viewing and contacting the person would i be right
More deflecting because you don’t have a logical answer?"deflecting what ? If im good enough to block why would you make contact with me its abit odd well then again its showing the type of people on here that thinks they are a cut above , its a bit like oliver twist " please sir can i have some more " | |||
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You've got feet
Yes. Hobbits have feet, just like humans, although admittedly a bit hairier.
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"OP Bullying is against the site rules and if you feel bullied you should report it and let the site admins deal with it. You can be sure someone is keeping an eye on this thread as it's the most exciting thing to happen in ages. Honestly it's better than a soap opera. We've got a soap box and everything. Also can you guys shorten your quotes please thanks I'm getting scroll trauma here. " dispite what you might think im well able to look after myself do you think they would give me a job, i see you werent to far behind the other member from galway  | |||
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"Mother of Devine jesus you are doing yourself no favors on here OP giving smart arse answers to replies " sorry if its not suiting you | |||
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"Op The forums are a debating chamber You don't have to take part at all if you don't want to You also don't have to agree with everyone or anyone on a thread Just because you're blocked by someone doesn't stop them from answering you in any forum unless they are using the forum to get around a block No one is doing that here...just normal debates You're seeing conspiracy theories everywhere and its not making sense to be honest " the blocking thing your right about but i didnt do the blocking she did so why reply to me. As for conspiracy theories, what iv said is truthfull and honest | |||
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" the blocking thing your right about but i didnt do the blocking she did so why reply to me. " Do you not understand the concept of "public forum". Anyone can post on it. I think you need to get your head around that. " As for conspiracy theories, what iv said is truthfull and honest" It's truthful and honest in your own mind. That doesn't mean it's correct. | |||
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"A quick summary tl:dr OP laments the paradox of verification despite being verified by two ladies in very good standing. This is somehow related to regular forum users Said users respond with often repeated observations that are both thoughtful and civil. OP feels bullied by 'les clique' Answers flood in OP dismisses any helpful suggestions and cites them as evidence of a conspiracy. Ad infinitum Side quest. I am a fake with a fake profile and I'm in cahoots with another member who happens to live in the same city" Perfect summation! | |||
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"A quick summary tl:dr OP laments the paradox of verification despite being verified by two ladies in very good standing. This is somehow related to regular forum users Said users respond with often repeated observations that are both thoughtful and civil. OP feels bullied by 'les clique' Answers flood in OP dismisses any helpful suggestions and cites them as evidence of a conspiracy. Ad infinitum Side quest. I am a fake with a fake profile and I'm in cahoots with another member who happens to live in the same city" im not dimissing anyones thoughts or suggestions i just havent heard a helpfull one yet. I am not a conspiracy theorist and the fact you are implying that just proves what im on about. Weather you have a 2nd page is upto you but your opinions to me hant been to positive | |||
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You told one person they were condescending.
You suggested that another had a fake "page".
You told another they shouldn't be replying to you.
...and then you say you haven't dismissed anyone's opinions!
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"Are those MY feet?
You've got feet
Yes. Hobbits have feet, just like humans, although admittedly a bit hairier.
Veet is your friend...... See what I done there
Yes, he is my friend. Do you know him? I'm meeting him for drinks later if you want to join us. "I'll bring the buns and a flask of tae ???? | |||
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"Are those MY feet?
You've got feet
Yes. Hobbits have feet, just like humans, although admittedly a bit hairier.
Veet is your friend...... See what I done there
Yes, he is my friend. Do you know him? I'm meeting him for drinks later if you want to join us.
I'll bring the buns and a flask of tae ????"I'll boil a few eggs and bring them in my pocket as week. #cantbateagoodpicnic | |||
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"OP... You have to be taking the piss
You told one person they were condescending.
You suggested that another had a fake "page".
You told another they shouldn't be replying to you.
...and then you say you haven't dismissed anyone's opinions!
Are you Leo Varadkar by any chance? "as for the 1st question im not as for the one they had being, the 3rd i wouldnt be surprised if they do. And for the 4th question why block someone if you are going to comment to them, is blocking ment to stop the opposite person from contacting them would i be wrong in saying that | |||
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"Are those MY feet?
You've got feet
Yes. Hobbits have feet, just like humans, although admittedly a bit hairier.
Veet is your friend...... See what I done there
Yes, he is my friend. Do you know him? I'm meeting him for drinks later if you want to join us.
I'll bring the buns and a flask of tae ????
I'll boil a few eggs and bring them in my pocket as week.
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"Cahoots is a great word. Anyone else want to be in cahoots with me?" I've made a couple of attempts already.... Are you excluding me?? | |||
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"Because it's an open forum and anyone can comment. The person you refer to was contributing to the thread not using the forum to bypass any block. If you feel forum rules have been broken you can report the post" Now now down with that kind of thing | |||
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You told one person they were condescending.
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You told another they shouldn't be replying to you.
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Are you Leo Varadkar by any chance? as for the 1st question im not as for the one they had being, the 3rd i wouldnt be surprised if they do. And for the 4th question why block someone if you are going to comment to them, is blocking ment to stop the opposite person from contacting them would i be wrong in saying that"They blocked you. That merely means they don't want you contacting them. It also means you're not allowed use the forum as a means of getting around that block and trying to make contact with them théigh forum pósta. It does not mean that they cannot reply to your public posts. You're reading way too much into being blocked by someone. Many people block people they know they don't, or won't, be meeting as it makes searching easier. It's not a big deal. We're all blocked by numerous profiles. Well, I say "all" but obviously I mean all of you people. I'm hardly going to be blocked by anyone | |||
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You've got feet
Yes. Hobbits have feet, just like humans, although admittedly a bit hairier.
Veet is your friend...... See what I done there
Yes, he is my friend. Do you know him? I'm meeting him for drinks later if you want to join us.
I'll bring the buns and a flask of tae ????
I'll boil a few eggs and bring them in my pocket as week.
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Your starting to spoil us now
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"Are those MY feet?
You've got feet
Yes. Hobbits have feet, just like humans, although admittedly a bit hairier.
Veet is your friend...... See what I done there
Yes, he is my friend. Do you know him? I'm meeting him for drinks later if you want to join us.
I'll bring the buns and a flask of tae ????
I'll boil a few eggs and bring them in my pocket as week.
#cantbateagoodpicnic
Your starting to spoil us now
I'll even wear my inherited orange underpants for you and all!
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You've got feet
Yes. Hobbits have feet, just like humans, although admittedly a bit hairier.
Veet is your friend...... See what I done there
Yes, he is my friend. Do you know him? I'm meeting him for drinks later if you want to join us.
I'll bring the buns and a flask of tae ????
I'll boil a few eggs and bring them in my pocket as week.
#cantbateagoodpicnic
Your starting to spoil us now
I'll even wear my inherited orange underpants for you and all!
#thesashmefatherwore
Yessssssss laddddddd #flegggggs "Can I get a yeeeeeeoooooooooo? | |||
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You told one person they were condescending.
You suggested that another had a fake "page".
You told another they shouldn't be replying to you.
...and then you say you haven't dismissed anyone's opinions!
Are you Leo Varadkar by any chance? as for the 1st question im not as for the one they had being, the 3rd i wouldnt be surprised if they do. And for the 4th question why block someone if you are going to comment to them, is blocking ment to stop the opposite person from contacting them would i be wrong in saying that
They blocked you. That merely means they don't want you contacting them.
It also means you're not allowed use the forum as a means of getting around that block and trying to make contact with them théigh forum pósta.
It does not mean that they cannot reply to your public posts.
You're reading way too much into being blocked by someone. Many people block people they know they don't, or won't, be meeting as it makes searching easier. It's not a big deal. We're all blocked by numerous profiles.
Well, I say "all" but obviously I mean all of you people. I'm hardly going to be blocked by anyone "blocking people doest give anyone the right to reply to the person they block weather its public or not its a bit two faced is it not aw if im blocked by people it doent bother me because if they are so quick to block it says alot about the person
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And good man for not been on a block list you dont know what your missing lol"You're completely wrong about the first part of that. The block has nothing to do with the forum, unless you, the blocked person, tries to get around the block by contacting the person who blocked you via the forum. You are still allowed to reply to their posts as much as you like.
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You told one person they were condescending.
You suggested that another had a fake "page".
You told another they shouldn't be replying to you.
...and then you say you haven't dismissed anyone's opinions!
Are you Leo Varadkar by any chance? as for the 1st question im not as for the one they had being, the 3rd i wouldnt be surprised if they do. And for the 4th question why block someone if you are going to comment to them, is blocking ment to stop the opposite person from contacting them would i be wrong in saying that
They blocked you. That merely means they don't want you contacting them.
It also means you're not allowed use the forum as a means of getting around that block and trying to make contact with them théigh forum pósta.
It does not mean that they cannot reply to your public posts.
You're reading way too much into being blocked by someone. Many people block people they know they don't, or won't, be meeting as it makes searching easier. It's not a big deal. We're all blocked by numerous profiles.
Well, I say "all" but obviously I mean all of you people. I'm hardly going to be blocked by anyone blocking people doest give anyone the right to reply to the person they block weather its public or not its a bit two faced is it not aw if im blocked by people it doent bother me because if they are so quick to block it says alot about the person
And good man for not been on a block list you dont know what your missing lol"You said numerous times that being blocked doesn't bother you but it clearly does because you are the only one mentioning it constantly and you keep reminding people that they have blocked you. | |||
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You've got feet
Yes. Hobbits have feet, just like humans, although admittedly a bit hairier.
Veet is your friend...... See what I done there
Yes, he is my friend. Do you know him? I'm meeting him for drinks later if you want to join us.
I'll bring the buns and a flask of tae ????
I'll boil a few eggs and bring them in my pocket as week.
#cantbateagoodpicnic
Your starting to spoil us now
I'll even wear my inherited orange underpants for you and all!
#thesashmefatherwore
Yessssssss laddddddd #flegggggs
Can I get a yeeeeeeoooooooooo?""fackin' boohoo bodywarmer" | |||
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"blocking people doest give anyone the right to reply to the person they block weather its public or not its a bit two faced is it not No its not....thats normal on here and you need to understand that aw if im blocked by people it doent bother me because if they are so quick to block it says alot about the person But it does bother you.....the whole thread is based on it bothering you It doesn't say anything good or bad about someone if they block you " no its not. The say fact about it is theres a lot of people on here that would agree with me but are to afraid to go against the people im dealing with at the moment incase they get backlash from it.im really am not bothered about speaking out even if it does me harm more people sbould be speaking out my point is starting to prove itself with the people who are thriving on it | |||
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"blocking people doest give anyone the right to reply to the person they block weather its public or not its a bit two faced is it not No its not....thats normal on here and you need to understand that aw if im blocked by people it doent bother me because if they are so quick to block it says alot about the person But it does bother you.....the whole thread is based on it bothering you It doesn't say anything good or bad about someone if they block you no its not. The say fact about it is theres a lot of people on here that would agree with me but are to afraid to go against the people im dealing with at the moment incase they get backlash from it.im really am not bothered about speaking out even if it does me harm more people sbould be speaking out my point is starting to prove itself with the people who are thriving on it
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"blocking people doest give anyone the right to reply to the person they block weather its public or not its a bit two faced is it not No its not....thats normal on here and you need to understand that aw if im blocked by people it doent bother me because if they are so quick to block it says alot about the person But it does bother you.....the whole thread is based on it bothering you It doesn't say anything good or bad about someone if they block you no its not. The say fact about it is theres a lot of people on here that would agree with me but are to afraid to go against the people im dealing with at the moment incase they get backlash from it.im really am not bothered about speaking out even if it does me harm more people sbould be speaking out my point is starting to prove itself with the people who are thriving on it" What do you mean the people you are dealing with? Are you getting abusive probate messages? Anyone who passes the slightest bit of notice to what I say will no I'm not afraid of calling people out but I don't see anything in this thread to be called out | |||
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"If you don’t enjoy the forums, but do enjoy other aspects of the site, then simply avoid the forums. Pretty simple really. isnt that statement more or lest what im on about "smply avoid the forum" exclusion. Not at all, it’s specific to you and your experience. People use the forum on a regular basis so they either get information, enjoyment, or potential meets from it. Your opinion is specific to you, but others clearly feel differently. If you dont like the forum, then there are other features. It’s akin to going to a restaurant and complaining that you don’t like the fish, but you love the steak. In that scenario you wouldn’t feel the need to announce to the rest of the restaurant that you hate their fish, you’d simply order that steak. Unless your the type of customer would feels the need to stand on a chair and make a public display of your loathing of the fish dish, then that is a slightly different issue and it really isn’t about the fish at all. thats the worst case of logic iv heard so far trying to explain something"Obviously you are dug into your opinion and that’s fine. Best of luck on your fab journey | |||
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Obviously you are dug into your opinion and that’s fine. Best of luck on your fab journey "he has dug the hole so deep now he can't get out of it. | |||
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Excluding is what I do apparently "Prove him wrong | |||
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"Iv been on fab over a year i didnt really do much on it till lately. Any of the people im talking to are genuine people but when it comes to the forums theres a lot of people set out to give a very bad impression of people. So if any can enlighten me when people wont meet verified people but yet a post goes up to help verified people, if ye are willing to do that ye wouldnt need a post to do it. My question is why is it for a so called liberal open minded site why people are so excluded of other site supporters and there opinions " I don't understand the question??? I'm going to try 
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"blocking people doest give anyone the right to reply to the person they block weather its public or not its a bit two faced is it not No its not....thats normal on here and you need to understand that aw if im blocked by people it doent bother me because if they are so quick to block it says alot about the person But it does bother you.....the whole thread is based on it bothering you It doesn't say anything good or bad about someone if they block you no its not. The say fact about it is theres a lot of people on here that would agree with me but are to afraid to go against the people im dealing with at the moment incase they get backlash from it.im really am not bothered about speaking out even if it does me harm more people sbould be speaking out my point is starting to prove itself with the people who are thriving on it What do you mean the people you are dealing with? Are you getting abusive probate messages? Anyone who passes the slightest bit of notice to what I say will no I'm not afraid of calling people out but I don't see anything in this thread to be called out" Jaysus, if he's getting probate messages then it really has taken a turn for the worst. RIP. | |||
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"blocking people doest give anyone the right to reply to the person they block weather its public or not its a bit two faced is it not No its not....thats normal on here and you need to understand that aw if im blocked by people it doent bother me because if they are so quick to block it says alot about the person But it does bother you.....the whole thread is based on it bothering you It doesn't say anything good or bad about someone if they block you no its not. The say fact about it is theres a lot of people on here that would agree with me but are to afraid to go against the people im dealing with at the moment incase they get backlash from it.im really am not bothered about speaking out even if it does me harm more people sbould be speaking out my point is starting to prove itself with the people who are thriving on it What do you mean the people you are dealing with? Are you getting abusive probate messages? Anyone who passes the slightest bit of notice to what I say will no I'm not afraid of calling people out but I don't see anything in this thread to be called out Jaysus, if he's getting probate messages then it really has taken a turn for the worst. RIP. "You're a sharp tool today. ... Blocked | |||
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"If you don’t enjoy the forums, but do enjoy other aspects of the site, then simply avoid the forums. Pretty simple really. isnt that statement more or lest what im on about "smply avoid the forum" exclusion. Not at all, it’s specific to you and your experience. People use the forum on a regular basis so they either get information, enjoyment, or potential meets from it. Your opinion is specific to you, but others clearly feel differently. If you dont like the forum, then there are other features. It’s akin to going to a restaurant and complaining that you don’t like the fish, but you love the steak. In that scenario you wouldn’t feel the need to announce to the rest of the restaurant that you hate their fish, you’d simply order that steak. Unless your the type of customer would feels the need to stand on a chair and make a public display of your loathing of the fish dish, then that is a slightly different issue and it really isn’t about the fish at all. thats the worst case of logic iv heard so far trying to explain something
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"blocking people doest give anyone the right to reply to the person they block weather its public or not its a bit two faced is it not No its not....thats normal on here and you need to understand that aw if im blocked by people it doent bother me because if they are so quick to block it says alot about the person But it does bother you.....the whole thread is based on it bothering you It doesn't say anything good or bad about someone if they block you no its not. The say fact about it is theres a lot of people on here that would agree with me but are to afraid to go against the people im dealing with at the moment incase they get backlash from it.im really am not bothered about speaking out even if it does me harm more people sbould be speaking out my point is starting to prove itself with the people who are thriving on it What do you mean the people you are dealing with? Are you getting abusive probate messages? Anyone who passes the slightest bit of notice to what I say will no I'm not afraid of calling people out but I don't see anything in this thread to be called out Jaysus, if he's getting probate messages then it really has taken a turn for the worst. RIP. "You're on the ball today Mick | |||
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"blocking people doest give anyone the right to reply to the person they block weather its public or not its a bit two faced is it not No its not....thats normal on here and you need to understand that aw if im blocked by people it doent bother me because if they are so quick to block it says alot about the person But it does bother you.....the whole thread is based on it bothering you It doesn't say anything good or bad about someone if they block you no its not. The say fact about it is theres a lot of people on here that would agree with me but are to afraid to go against the people im dealing with at the moment incase they get backlash from it.im really am not bothered about speaking out even if it does me harm more people sbould be speaking out my point is starting to prove itself with the people who are thriving on it What do you mean the people you are dealing with? Are you getting abusive probate messages? Anyone who passes the slightest bit of notice to what I say will no I'm not afraid of calling people out but I don't see anything in this thread to be called out Jaysus, if he's getting probate messages then it really has taken a turn for the worst. RIP.
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"Op ....anyone can chose who they want to meet Whether you like it or not its freedom of choice The forums are only a tiny percentage of what happens on fab People are going to private parties or having meets and have never been near the forums i agree with you thats why i say the people i chat on her are nice genuine people its the forums where people are nasty and exclusive not all people but some" Nasty people don't tend to engage in dm with people they have no interest in . If they do have an interest they are hardly going to be nasty . I think your comparing talking to one person in a room and talking to everyone in a room .no room is going to be full of people you see eye to eye with . | |||
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"Op ....anyone can chose who they want to meet Whether you like it or not its freedom of choice The forums are only a tiny percentage of what happens on fab People are going to private parties or having meets and have never been near the forums i agree with you thats why i say the people i chat on her are nice genuine people its the forums where people are nasty and exclusive not all people but some Nasty people don't tend to engage in dm with people they have no interest in . If they do have an interest they are hardly going to be nasty . I think your comparing talking to one person in a room and talking to everyone in a room .no room is going to be full of people you see eye to eye with . " Especially if you're only 4 foot 5 inches | |||
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"I/We prefer to meet only "meet verified" people who have a proven track record of showing up. It's not a cast iron guarantee but it's a decent indicator. despite what you actually know about me i am a descent person and anyone that knows me knows i dont make plans unless i can gaurantee i can meet them That's fair enough - and nothing I said was aimed at you. I was just explaining our particular reason for only meeting those who are verified. We meet others so infrequently that it makes sense to have mitigations in place and thats fine i understand that but it is the reason for the name of the topic i dont understand why when your verified and site verified and try get involved in a forum and are a site supporter why people on the forums are so quick to discredit people intentionaly.as i said im over a year on here paying my support payment i sure this is a topic that people should really think of. Iv read all types of topics on here from body shaming to social events but not one topic of inclusion is suppose to be an openminded site ..sorry about the rant but someone had to have it" So why not start what you deem an inclusive tread? Be more productive that complaining | |||
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