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By *o strings but a G-string OP   Man
over a year ago

city

Hi all,

So the choice to shave or not shave downstairs is a personal one. I dont shave upstairs or downstairs because I get beard rash.

I get that some people dont like the unshaven. But today a lady saw a picture of it on my profile and messaged to say I was dirty and blocked me.

I thought it an extreme reaction and wanted to point out that not all people can shave.

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By *o strings but a G-string OP   Man
over a year ago

city

Its like body shaming

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Unfortunately op some people believe that body shaming is a one way street.

Others see nothing wrong in instructing a man in how he should dress or present himself but would circle the other wagons if the same comment was aimed at them.

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By *otownkid1967Man
over a year ago

Portlaoise

It's a personal choice OP. I shave regularly top and bottom as I find it more hygienic and prefer if the ladies do the same. As for the body shaming, it's part of life here on fab. There was a thread about a couple of days ago. But you do what you want to OP

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City

It's a myth that unshaven is less hygienic. The hair growth is actually part of your bodies way to protect from outside bacteria. I wax monthly myself because it is a personal preference. You are entitled to do whatever you like with your own body.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"It's a personal choice OP. I shave regularly top and bottom as I find it more hygienic and prefer if the ladies do the same. As for the body shaming, it's part of life here on fab. There was a thread about a couple of days ago. But you do what you want to OP"

Leaving aside the whole issue of personal choice, it is not more hygienic to shave the nether regions.

Shaving leaves you way more open to skin to skin infections. Yes, it eliminates the risk of picking up pubic lice but you run an increased risk of picking up much worse. You can buy shampoo which will easily kill lice. Some skin infections may be a little trickier.

A well washed garden is the ideal in terms of hygiene.

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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago

City Centre

It is personal choice OP.

I'm not a fan of body hair but everyone is different and I certainly wouldn't let that woman put you off...what a horrible message to get! Says more about her!

B x

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey


"It is personal choice OP.

I'm not a fan of body hair but everyone is different and I certainly wouldn't let that woman put you off...what a horrible message to get! Says more about her!

B x"

Exactly, why anyone sends a message to a stranger to tell them they don't like something is beyond me

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By *tmostakiss1Man
over a year ago

DC

You do you OP.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

I just think the smooth effect (not fully smooth for me) but tightly trimmed looks better. It’s like the hair on my head. Short at the sides with a bit of length on top but nothing 2 scraggy

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

But you can trim at least?!

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By *atekeeperAndKeymasterCouple
over a year ago

Derry/Donegal

you can , some people prefer not to and that's fine surely ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep my balls and surrounding area smooth with everywhere else neatly trimmed .

You do Whatever you are comfortable with OP

Feck the begrudges

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By *adger BrocMan
over a year ago

Co. Cork

Manscaping may be a chore but the smooth dude result is always worth the effort.

Just be careful down there!

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By *rishOak12Man
over a year ago

D

I would have told that woman to do one lol, it’s your body and your choice , see if you wanted to have dreads hanging from your gouch so be it.

Personal I shave the the sack & crack then drop don’t the lawn mower and tidy the rest. Everyone is different and some like hairy Mary’s some don’t it’s just the way the word is .

Wouldn’t let it get to you as their can be some mega douche bags about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not into a bush looks gross lads but take out hedge Strimmer keep it neat n tidy .. as we ladies do .. hair in your teeth

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By *rishOak12Man
over a year ago

D


"I'm not into a bush looks gross lads but take out hedge Strimmer keep it neat n tidy .. as we ladies do .. hair in your teeth "

Dental floss lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not into a bush looks gross lads but take out hedge Strimmer keep it neat n tidy .. as we ladies do .. hair in your teeth

Dental floss lol "

My teeth are soaking ina glass atm

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

Southport


"Hi all,

So the choice to shave or not shave downstairs is a personal one. I dont shave upstairs or downstairs because I get beard rash.

I get that some people dont like the unshaven. But today a lady saw a picture of it on my profile and messaged to say I was dirty and blocked me.

I thought it an extreme reaction and wanted to point out that not all people can shave."

Maybe a bit of trimming then could work wonders...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems a bit over the top alright OP… You do you boo, never gonna be everyone’s cup of tea and not worth worrying about mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a personal choice OP. I shave regularly top and bottom as I find it more hygienic and prefer if the ladies do the same. As for the body shaming, it's part of life here on fab. There was a thread about a couple of days ago. But you do what you want to OP

Leaving aside the whole issue of personal choice, it is not more hygienic to shave the nether regions.

Shaving leaves you way more open to skin to skin infections. Yes, it eliminates the risk of picking up pubic lice but you run an increased risk of picking up much worse. You can buy shampoo which will easily kill lice. Some skin infections may be a little trickier.

A well washed garden is the ideal in terms of hygiene. "

Is pubic lice an actual thing? Afraid to goole it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a personal choice OP. I shave regularly top and bottom as I find it more hygienic and prefer if the ladies do the same. As for the body shaming, it's part of life here on fab. There was a thread about a couple of days ago. But you do what you want to OP

Leaving aside the whole issue of personal choice, it is not more hygienic to shave the nether regions.

Shaving leaves you way more open to skin to skin infections. Yes, it eliminates the risk of picking up pubic lice but you run an increased risk of picking up much worse. You can buy shampoo which will easily kill lice. Some skin infections may be a little trickier.

A well washed garden is the ideal in terms of hygiene.

Is pubic lice an actual thing? Afraid to goole it "

Used to be more of a problem but not so much now.. also called crabs.. don’t google it, it’ll just make you itchy

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south


"It's a personal choice OP. I shave regularly top and bottom as I find it more hygienic and prefer if the ladies do the same. As for the body shaming, it's part of life here on fab. There was a thread about a couple of days ago. But you do what you want to OP

Leaving aside the whole issue of personal choice, it is not more hygienic to shave the nether regions.

Shaving leaves you way more open to skin to skin infections. Yes, it eliminates the risk of picking up pubic lice but you run an increased risk of picking up much worse. You can buy shampoo which will easily kill lice. Some skin infections may be a little trickier.

A well washed garden is the ideal in terms of hygiene.

Is pubic lice an actual thing? Afraid to goole it

Used to be more of a problem but not so much now.. also called crabs.. don’t google it, it’ll just make you itchy "
Hot weather bit of shaving, Cold weather bit of bush and as lady said above hair is actually more hygienic , Just not if you get it stuck in your teeth lol

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By *rishOak12Man
over a year ago

D


"I'm not into a bush looks gross lads but take out hedge Strimmer keep it neat n tidy .. as we ladies do .. hair in your teeth

Dental floss lol

My teeth are soaking ina glass atm "

Gummy all the way lol

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"It's a personal choice OP. I shave regularly top and bottom as I find it more hygienic and prefer if the ladies do the same. As for the body shaming, it's part of life here on fab. There was a thread about a couple of days ago. But you do what you want to OP

Leaving aside the whole issue of personal choice, it is not more hygienic to shave the nether regions.

Shaving leaves you way more open to skin to skin infections. Yes, it eliminates the risk of picking up pubic lice but you run an increased risk of picking up much worse. You can buy shampoo which will easily kill lice. Some skin infections may be a little trickier.

A well washed garden is the ideal in terms of hygiene.

Is pubic lice an actual thing? Afraid to goole it

Used to be more of a problem but not so much now.. also called crabs.. don’t google it, it’ll just make you itchy Hot weather bit of shaving, Cold weather bit of bush and as lady said above hair is actually more hygienic , Just not if you get it stuck in your teeth lol "

"a lady"

How fucking dare you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

harsh alright

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By *ultry ZaraCouple
over a year ago

dublin

Sorry OP to hear that , its silly really & narrow minded. Dosent bother me wheter a man is shaven down below or not, its your own body & choice. And I actually prefer sometimes it not shaven as we ladies can get a stubble rash which is frickin horrible. So neat n tidy all the way with Hairs ha...live &, let live !!

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By *umon337Man
over a year ago

Offaly


"It is personal choice OP.

I'm not a fan of body hair but everyone is different and I certainly wouldn't let that woman put you off...what a horrible message to get! Says more about her!

B x"

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By *ultry ZaraCouple
over a year ago

dublin


"It's a personal choice OP. I shave regularly top and bottom as I find it more hygienic and prefer if the ladies do the same. As for the body shaming, it's part of life here on fab. There was a thread about a couple of days ago. But you do what you want to OP

Leaving aside the whole issue of personal choice, it is not more hygienic to shave the nether regions.

Shaving leaves you way more open to skin to skin infections. Yes, it eliminates the risk of picking up pubic lice but you run an increased risk of picking up much worse. You can buy shampoo which will easily kill lice. Some skin infections may be a little trickier.

A well washed garden is the ideal in terms of hygiene.

Is pubic lice an actual thing? Afraid to goole it

Used to be more of a problem but not so much now.. also called crabs.. don’t google it, it’ll just make you itchy Hot weather bit of shaving, Cold weather bit of bush and as lady said above hair is actually more hygienic , Just not if you get it stuck in your teeth lol

"a lady"

How fucking dare you! "

Disagree !! Its called sexual health checks reguarly & choosing a partner who does the same . And for Body shameing people who wants them anyway lol, thats just egotistical people who sit on their high horse thinking their better than others, believe u me they Fall pretty hard!!

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By *ultry ZaraCouple
over a year ago

dublin


"It's a myth that unshaven is less hygienic. The hair growth is actually part of your bodies way to protect from outside bacteria. I wax monthly myself because it is a personal preference. You are entitled to do whatever you like with your own body. "

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a personal choice OP. I shave regularly top and bottom as I find it more hygienic and prefer if the ladies do the same. As for the body shaming, it's part of life here on fab. There was a thread about a couple of days ago. But you do what you want to OP

Leaving aside the whole issue of personal choice, it is not more hygienic to shave the nether regions.

Shaving leaves you way more open to skin to skin infections. Yes, it eliminates the risk of picking up pubic lice but you run an increased risk of picking up much worse. You can buy shampoo which will easily kill lice. Some skin infections may be a little trickier.

A well washed garden is the ideal in terms of hygiene.

Is pubic lice an actual thing? Afraid to goole it

Used to be more of a problem but not so much now.. also called crabs.. don’t google it, it’ll just make you itchy "

I feel itchy without googling it

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By *o strings but a G-string OP   Man
over a year ago

city

Thanks for all the replies. I have taken the leap and tried a shave. So far so good... just two nicks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You body your choice to do what you want with it op.

Try a hair clipper with a guard to trim it back if you've problems with fully shaving. Or try feet for men if you'd like it bare.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You body your choice to do what you want with it op.

Try a hair clipper with a guard to trim it back if you've problems with fully shaving. Or try feet for men if you'd like it bare."

A rock of sense as usual Wendi veet for men all the way

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"But you can trim at least?! "

Sure he can if he wants.. or choose not to. There is nothing gross or dirty about having hair on your body... And using words like that to describe someone else's body is really shitty.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"I'm not into a bush looks gross lads but take out hedge Strimmer keep it neat n tidy .. as we ladies do .. hair in your teeth "
Jeasus christ ... why would you say some people look gross... and tell people what to do ?

How is that any different than someone saying to you

I'm not into cheap looking blondish hair looks gross girls but take yourself to a good hairdresser, keep it looking good ...as we guy do ....

Pretty shitty no ?

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By *llthewaysMan
over a year ago

City centre/Naas

Different strokes for different folks. I wouldn't be changing myself for other people, especially not for a meet off fab.

But then I also wouldn't go shaming people for their choices or bodies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

much cleaner and,wont be any nasties lingering down there,hair smells with sweat,just think on,yuk!!!!!

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"much cleaner and,wont be any nasties lingering down there,hair smells with sweat,just think on,yuk!!!!!"

Dose that mean you smell alot when sweating given your a mount of body hair ?

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By *he zephyrCouple
over a year ago

The Sol

Imagine, I managed nearly 30 years of sex with full bush and no self-consciousness. Happy days.

In all that time only 1 man made the (unsolicited) suggestion that I should trim, and he got a swift ejection from the love-nest lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some woman like bush some of them don't. The point is how you feel with your bushes or without them. I don't know have them and I like it but in other manner I would love to have some nice trimmed bushes.

Point of view depends on point when you are down...( Shit hope it's translate as I wanted )

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By *o strings but a G-string OP   Man
over a year ago

city

Applied veet to smooth things off.

I wish i did this years ago

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