FabSwingers.com forum: What advice would you give a 21 year old you

By *ornywife20 OP Couple
over a year ago

North Cork

Taken from the lounge

My advice would be do it all again you will make great friends, laugh ,love, cry but by god you will enjoy yourself.

Only thing is start swinging earlier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instil the mantra - "everyone's got a plan 'til they get punched in the face"

That would cut down the self inflicted bs considerably

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By *adger BrocMan
over a year ago

Co. Cork

Be your own adviser

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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago

cork

Couldn’t see us encouraging our 20 somethings to join up here

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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago

cork

Give everything you do your best shot and be honest with yourself and those close to you.

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By *raggyjackMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Do nothing different.... Don't worry, things work out well for you

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By *ofistimacatedMan
over a year ago

cavan town

Get confidence ya stupid fuck!!!!

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By *ornywife20 OP Couple
over a year ago

North Cork

"Give everything you do your best shot and be honest with yourself and those close to you."

Great advice for everyone

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By *ixie and dixie2022Couple
over a year ago

villiage

Just be yourself do your own things that are right for you and respect your parents their there for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make yourself happy before trying to make others happy. Don't care about what others think of you and to remember you can't control the actions of others so don't let it consume you.

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
over a year ago

kinkytown

Don't stick your dick in crazy and check out the women in Kildare not the hometown

Jay

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By *onderingpurposeMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Buy shares in Microsoft. Sit back and relax.

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

Don’t beat yourself up over failure and be true to yourself. Know that you can’t fix other people and that changing your mind on things is ok.

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By *ofistimacatedMan
over a year ago

cavan town

Honestly I don't think I'd say anything, even though my 20s werent all rainbows and butterflies. Depression, anxiety attacks, a recluse for a lot of it. But I got out of it on my own terms, something I am most proud of in my life. Now I am the happiest I've ever been

love my life. Great family, friends and social life.

Actually what I would say is

" just keep doing what you are doing, cos you are fucking awesome

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By *hyted73Man
over a year ago

Millisle

Wear sunscreen

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By *hin_chillinWoman
over a year ago

secret location Cork

Others people’s opinions of me were none of my business

Listen to your gut instincts

Don’t be afraid of failure

Look after your mental health

Spend time with those that make you happy & avoid those that leave you feeling drained

Don’t compare yourself & your journey to others

You are enough

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By *huCullainMan
over a year ago

Rathowen

Always wear a condom and you won't have to celebrate father's Day

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By *ornywife20 OP Couple
over a year ago

North Cork

"Always wear a condom and you won't have to celebrate father's Day

Never a truer word spoken

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By *leasurer77Man
over a year ago

Athlone

Go live in Carlow... Hi Lolly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was far too nice not telling way more people to fuck off.

No bothers doing it now. The amount of stress and hassle it could have saved me but this is life !

You certainly live and learn

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By *adger BrocMan
over a year ago

Co. Cork

"Don’t beat yourself up over failure and be true to yourself. Know that you can’t fix other people and that changing your mind on things is ok. "

This

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By *astelloWoman
over a year ago

Far far away

It's okay to be you.

You're awesome

Be yourself.

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By *idoMan
over a year ago

dublin/meath

Go hard or go home

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

Stop squandering your money.

I'd be a rich man now. Also back Frankie Dettori and bet on The Treble 1999. Lol

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By *apri 555Man
over a year ago

wexford or Dublin

Dont suffer fools ,,everything else just do what your doing now ,,cos its all good where you are now

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By *unFellaMan
over a year ago

Derry

"Taken from the lounge

My advice would be do it all again you will make great friends, laugh ,love, cry but by god you will enjoy yourself.

Only thing is start swinging earlier. "

I am following this advice lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine would be don’t sweat the small stuff , enjoy every day , do something that makes you smile , learn what the small stuff is

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By *limfitladMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Be more confident. Bald at 21 is beautiful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Learn to say No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your friends aren’t actually your friends….drop them!!

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By *eathernsilkMan
over a year ago

armagh

Don't be so uptight and go out with her.

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By *llthewaysMan
over a year ago

City centre/Naas

Still not sure I am qualified to answer that one, come back to me another ten years.

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By *leasurer77Man
over a year ago

Athlone

"Don't be so uptight and go out with her."

Oh God yes!

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By *omDub87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Don’t stress and overthink everything

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By *otownkid1967Man
over a year ago

Portlaoise

When I was 21,my pops rang me in UK and said come home and do the entrance exam for the guards. Of course I didn't because I was having a ball of a time in London. Always regretted it. So my advice to me at 21, is listen to your parents, they only have your best interests at heart.

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"Still not sure I am qualified to answer that one, come back to me another ten years."

At your age, if you don't know it now, you won't know it in 10 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's okay to be you.

You're awesome

Be yourself. "

Love this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Listen to your gut

Take a chance

Be your true self

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep your legs closed ..

Karma..

Life does begin in your 40s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't be easily impressed.

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By *londy84Man
over a year ago

Scotstown

Nothing

I came to Ireland at that age

Met the woman I feel in love and we had the best 12 years together.

And I wouldn't change it for anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t marry somebody you hardly know….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we could only turn back time ..

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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago

gillingham

Not to worry or stress about things you can’t change and sort the things you can. Be nice enjoy life embrace the swinging lifestyle and enjoy not having hangovers and aching all over before you get to forty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust what you’re parents tell you not your so called friends

It’s a big planet go and enjoy

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By *ohnFKMan
over a year ago

Where the Streets Have No Name

It'll be grand ...

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Appreciate your youth.

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By *llthewaysMan
over a year ago

City centre/Naas

"Still not sure I am qualified to answer that one, come back to me another ten years.

At your age, if you don't know it now, you won't know it in 10 years

I will just say come back in another ten

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

Always bring a towel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strip the parts off all them cars BEFORE ya send them to the tip!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mature drinking

Balance diet

Read some good books

Choose your friends wisely.

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By *amsevenMan
over a year ago

cork

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford

Don't be so hard on yourself, when thing's don't workout.

Remove people from your life that treat you badly, even if they're family members.

Do more thing's on your own, that make you happy.

Don't be afraid to say NO, even to family members.

Try to be healthier overall.

Don't be afraid to move away, if you think your going to be better off overall, even if you've little to no money.

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

Don't be a virgin forever, some women actually like you

What can I say I was a late bloomer...

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford

"Don't be a virgin forever, some women actually like you

What can I say I was a late bloomer... "

You weren't the only 1 like that, on that front.

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By *ardyboy54321Man
over a year ago

Fermanagh

Stay away from rallycars and crazy women lol

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By *rHardCMan
over a year ago

Funtown

The lotto numbers and financial advise to google and apple etc

Tho really... take it easy n let things / people go amd chase no one

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

"Stay away from rallycars and crazy women lol "

Which have been more damaging to you Hardy?

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By *ardyboy54321Man
over a year ago

Fermanagh

"Stay away from rallycars and crazy women lol

Which have been more damaging to you Hardy?

50/50

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By *irtypair00Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

Buy up as many twincams , skyline and Sylvia's as you can and store in big she . Then sell them now and buy a house or three

Ohh and join a swinging site

Mr dirty

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By *edro50Man
over a year ago

enniskillen

Don't get depressed about your disabilities,don't drink to hide your feelings,be more honest with yourself and others,be more open to experiences and seek help for your mental health earlier!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be you and embrace what you know deep down is what you want and need. Chase your wants/desires.

Also have a lil more confidence in yourself.

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