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"Splitting the cost of a hotel room 50/50 is just good manners in my book..so why does giving or receiving cash still feel so manky..? Maybe its just me
Thank god for revolut. That is all. "We never asked for money towards the hotel as we don't allow anybody to stay over | |||
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"We don't allow people stay in our room either we treat it as a night away for ourselves. And we would never expect or ask for money towards the cost of the room ." Neither would we... I should probably have clarified that (as we meet separately) this was a one on one meet. Maybe this is less common than I thought here.. Mrs N   | |||
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"what if they booked and paid for it? would you offer half?" Yup!  | |||
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 especialy I booked ans shes paying up 
In all fairness if I meet someone one on one then we are both there for fun so yes split the bill. If u call to pay a visit to me and my fb then hell no u aint staying over and even if you do chances are we still have booked the room for ourselves and you just happened to be near and we fancied sharing | |||
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"Rather than 50/50, I prefer to negotiate based on performance "You have t qualify that with whos posting | |||
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"cash seems very sleazy though yes! " Can't see anything sleazy paying your share in cash. It's just in your heads. | |||
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"Mr lol" I like your style Mr
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"cash seems very sleazy though yes! Can't see anything sleazy paying your share in cash. It's just in your heads. "Fancy sharing the cost of a hotel room   | |||
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"cash seems very sleazy though yes! Can't see anything sleazy paying your share in cash. It's just in your heads.
Fancy sharing the cost of a hotel room "You've to share bit more than just the costs to make this attractive. | |||
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"cash seems very sleazy though yes! Can't see anything sleazy paying your share in cash. It's just in your heads. "And I don't do Revolut | |||
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"it's quite common in fairness. most folk on fab will insist on splitting the bill I find" Can't remember the last time anyone even offered to share the cost of the room with us, and that's a Dayuse room that we've booked specifically for the meet  | |||
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"cash seems very sleazy though yes! Can't see anything sleazy paying your share in cash. It's just in your heads.
Fancy sharing the cost of a hotel room
You've to share bit more than just the costs to make this attractive. "Oh are we negotiating I coukd throw in a pk of jaffa cakes or hob nobs whats ur preference | |||
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"cash seems very sleazy though yes! Can't see anything sleazy paying your share in cash. It's just in your heads.
And I don't do Revolut "Exactly. Old school, dirty cash on the table. | |||
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"cash seems very sleazy though yes! Can't see anything sleazy paying your share in cash. It's just in your heads.
And I don't do Revolut "Can u do credit | |||
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"cash seems very sleazy though yes! Can't see anything sleazy paying your share in cash. It's just in your heads.
And I don't do Revolut
Exactly. Old school, dirty cash on the table. "Up front | |||
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"I presume the problem with revolut is that you have to have a phone number to send it to " Every day's a school day (I'm obviously stuck in the dark ages ) | |||
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"cash seems very sleazy though yes! Can't see anything sleazy paying your share in cash. It's just in your heads.
And I don't do Revolut
Can u do credit "Cash, nice crisp notes and I'm happy to keep the change, ta very much | |||
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"cash seems very sleazy though yes! Can't see anything sleazy paying your share in cash. It's just in your heads.
And I don't do Revolut
Can u do credit
Cash, nice crisp notes and I'm happy to keep the change, ta very much "Love it Show me the money | |||
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"cash seems very sleazy though yes! Can't see anything sleazy paying your share in cash. It's just in your heads.
Fancy sharing the cost of a hotel room
You've to share bit more than just the costs to make this attractive.
Oh are we negotiating I coukd throw in a pk of jaffa cakes or hob nobs whats ur preference "I'm more the savoury type of person, a decent sausage or salami is my kind of snack. | |||
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"cash seems very sleazy though yes! Can't see anything sleazy paying your share in cash. It's just in your heads.
Fancy sharing the cost of a hotel room
You've to share bit more than just the costs to make this attractive.
Oh are we negotiating I coukd throw in a pk of jaffa cakes or hob nobs whats ur preference
I'm more the savoury type of person, a decent sausage or salami is my kind of snack. "Mmm would you like crackers with your sausage | |||
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"cash seems very sleazy though yes! Can't see anything sleazy paying your share in cash. It's just in your heads.
Fancy sharing the cost of a hotel room
You've to share bit more than just the costs to make this attractive.
Oh are we negotiating I coukd throw in a pk of jaffa cakes or hob nobs whats ur preference
I'm more the savoury type of person, a decent sausage or salami is my kind of snack.
Mmm would you like crackers with your sausage "I associate crackers with cheese, so no thanks, don't you worry I'll bring the bun... | |||
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"I presume the problem with revolut is that you have to have a phone number to send it to " No you don’t, you can send them your RevTag or a payment link | |||
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"I presume the problem with revolut is that you have to have a phone number to send it to No you don’t, you can send them your RevTag or a payment link" Still new to Revolut so didn't know any of this ....I'm finding it hard to work out currency never mind paying people | |||
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"I presume the problem with revolut is that you have to have a phone number to send it to " No you don't. Just use the tag. | |||
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"cash seems very sleazy though yes! Can't see anything sleazy paying your share in cash. It's just in your heads.
Fancy sharing the cost of a hotel room
You've to share bit more than just the costs to make this attractive.
Oh are we negotiating I coukd throw in a pk of jaffa cakes or hob nobs whats ur preference
I'm more the savoury type of person, a decent sausage or salami is my kind of snack.
Mmm would you like crackers with your sausage
I associate crackers with cheese, so no thanks, don't you worry I'll bring the bun..."Would u like sauce on that | |||
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"Maybe they might start asking payment for services rendered too " No thats prostuition and isnt in the interest of a healthy coumunity  | |||
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"Personally I'd offer & think it's right to split the cost 50/50. I don't use revolut or other type of money transfer app's. So it's ole Cash with me. After all cash is king, was anyway until covid. Is it not more of the case, where if 2 single people meetup. Ye're both more than likely going to be staying the might together. So the bill should be split between both parties or at least offered to be split. Compared, To where a single person is meeting a couple. Ye meetup, chat, go to their room, play, clean up, chat, then leave & let the couple have the rest of the night/day to enjoy themselves. That person might well think/feel they shouldn't have to pay at all. As their only there for a short period of time(I'm not saying they shouldn't offer to split the bill or at least, leave some cash to put towards the it). As I don't think it's that common for single people to stay the night with a couple generally. That would sorted out between both parties before the actual meetup. Unless both parties knew eachother very well before this actual meetup. Or is it just me, that think's, like this? "50-50 or call a friend, maybe ask the audience lol | |||
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"Personally I'd offer & think it's right to split the cost 50/50. I don't use revolut or other type of money transfer app's. So it's ole Cash with me. After all cash is king, was anyway until covid. Is it not more of the case, where if 2 single people meetup. Ye're both more than likely going to be staying the might together. So the bill should be split between both parties or at least offered to be split. Compared, To where a single person is meeting a couple. Ye meetup, chat, go to their room, play, clean up, chat, then leave & let the couple have the rest of the night/day to enjoy themselves. That person might well think/feel they shouldn't have to pay at all. As their only there for a short period of time(I'm not saying they shouldn't offer to split the bill or at least, leave some cash to put towards the it). As I don't think it's that common for single people to stay the night with a couple generally. That would sorted out between both parties before the actual meetup. Unless both parties knew eachother very well before this actual meetup. Or is it just me, that think's, like this? "Nope I'd be thinking along the same lines | |||
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"Personally I'd offer & think it's right to split the cost 50/50. I don't use revolut or other type of money transfer app's. So it's ole Cash with me. After all cash is king, was anyway until covid. Is it not more of the case, where if 2 single people meetup. Ye're both more than likely going to be staying the might together. So the bill should be split between both parties or at least offered to be split. Compared, To where a single person is meeting a couple. Ye meetup, chat, go to their room, play, clean up, chat, then leave & let the couple have the rest of the night/day to enjoy themselves. That person might well think/feel they shouldn't have to pay at all. As their only there for a short period of time(I'm not saying they shouldn't offer to split the bill or at least, leave some cash to put towards the it). As I don't think it's that common for single people to stay the night with a couple generally. That would sorted out between both parties before the actual meetup. Unless both parties knew eachother very well before this actual meetup. Or is it just me, that think's, like this?
Nope I'd be thinking along the same lines "Good to know | |||
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"Personally I'd offer & think it's right to split the cost 50/50. I don't use revolut or other type of money transfer app's. So it's ole Cash with me. After all cash is king, was anyway until covid. Is it not more of the case, where if 2 single people meetup. Ye're both more than likely going to be staying the might together. So the bill should be split between both parties or at least offered to be split. Compared, To where a single person is meeting a couple. Ye meetup, chat, go to their room, play, clean up, chat, then leave & let the couple have the rest of the night/day to enjoy themselves. That person might well think/feel they shouldn't have to pay at all. As their only there for a short period of time(I'm not saying they shouldn't offer to split the bill or at least, leave some cash to put towards the it). As I don't think it's that common for single people to stay the night with a couple generally. That would sorted out between both parties before the actual meetup. Unless both parties knew eachother very well before this actual meetup. Or is it just me, that think's, like this? 50-50 or call a friend, maybe ask the audience lol "
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"So a couple meeting a single per in a day use hotel 8 hours and everyone leaves so what way is €90 bill split 60 euro for the couple and 30 for the single Or 45 euro 50/50 split " We're rarely in a Dayuse room more than 4 hours with someone joining us for usually half that time - I like a wee bit of time before and after to gather myself and have a cup of tea | |||
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"So a couple meeting a single per in a day use hotel 8 hours and everyone leaves so what way is €90 bill split 60 euro for the couple and 30 for the single Or 45 euro 50/50 split We're rarely in a Dayuse room more than 4 hours with someone joining us for usually half that time - I like a wee bit of time before and after to gather myself and have a cup of tea "Could half on the room if I can have it after ye for 4 hours and ya don't mess the bed | |||
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"So a couple meeting a single per in a day use hotel 8 hours and everyone leaves so what way is €90 bill split 60 euro for the couple and 30 for the single Or 45 euro 50/50 split We're rarely in a Dayuse room more than 4 hours with someone joining us for usually half that time - I like a wee bit of time before and after to gather myself and have a cup of tea
Could half on the room if I can have it after ye for 4 hours and ya don't mess the bed "Ermmmm sorry I don't think I could guarantee that | |||
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