FabSwingers.com forum: Sunday night for the ladies to send on the first step message

By *ockney1981 OP Man
over a year ago

Llandysul

Let’s make the second Sunday of the month for the ladies to make the first step in messaging a fella, and taking the first step.

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By *hymanforfunMan
over a year ago

athy

I’d be up for that

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By *ockney1981 OP Man
over a year ago

Llandysul

"I’d be up for that "

Would make them realise hopefully that it’s not that easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be up for that aswell.

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By *apri 555Man
over a year ago

wexford or Dublin

Sounds good to mr

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By *ake2891Man
over a year ago

cork

I'm in, whatever is happening here haha

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By *irdnBorisMan
over a year ago

meath

Good luck with that one . Its upto us men to make the effort with the lovely ladies

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Good luck with that one . Its upto us men to make the effort with the lovely ladies

I haven't sent an opening message to a lovely lady in 3½ years. They all seem happy enough to make the effort though.

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By *ockney1981 OP Man
over a year ago

Llandysul

Just imagine if all of us men did a pact that none of us will do any messages until August, the ladies won’t know what to do with themselves lol

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By *ockney1981 OP Man
over a year ago

Llandysul

In fact if any of the females would like to add anything, show us how you would rather to receive a message

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"Good luck with that one . Its upto us men to make the effort with the lovely ladies

No it's not. I've often sent first messages on here.And plenty of other women have as well. And they aren't that that easy to write I found so I think fair to men who do send first messages and do it differently for each profile. Mind you I think if I had to send them all the time I would probably end up doing a lot of copy and paste.

I'm not in though as I'm not doing new meets for the foreseeable future so there is no point .

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By *humper22Woman
over a year ago

waterford

I never have a problem messaging first if it's someone that I'm interested in

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By *astelloWoman
over a year ago

Far far away

I'll make the effort of there is something intriguing about the profile.. Blank profile, no details and dick pics won't get a message...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had an issue sending the first message. I've done it when profiles catch my attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never sent a first message .. I'm really shy

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

Sure why not. Anyone can message me any time anyway.

Just on the messages above. I've had quite a few first messages from women since I joined. Why not like?

It's not a 1950's dance hall lads

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

Ballsbridge, City Centre

Come at me ladies

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By *ildmovementMan
over a year ago

south Central

First messages aren’t all they are cracked up to be

Group chats are easier with a view to hitting a social. It’s only meeting face to face and chatting really tells someone if they are interested or attracted to each other.

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By *phrodite72Woman
over a year ago

dublin/galway

"Sure why not. Anyone can message me any time anyway.

Just on the messages above. I've had quite a few first messages from women since I joined. Why not like?

It's not a 1950's dance hall lads

I'm a 1950s kinda gal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont think i have ever received a first message from a woman on here...be intresting tho if i did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sure why not. Anyone can message me any time anyway.

Just on the messages above. I've had quite a few first messages from women since I joined. Why not like?

It's not a 1950's dance hall lads

I'm a 1950s kinda gal

Same here

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

"Sure why not. Anyone can message me any time anyway.

Just on the messages above. I've had quite a few first messages from women since I joined. Why not like?

It's not a 1950's dance hall lads

I'm a 1950s kinda gal

For you Aphrodite I'd put on my best shoes and treat you like a lady

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By *onderingpurposeMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Fire away!

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By *phrodite72Woman
over a year ago

dublin/galway

"Sure why not. Anyone can message me any time anyway.

Just on the messages above. I've had quite a few first messages from women since I joined. Why not like?

It's not a 1950's dance hall lads

I'm a 1950s kinda gal

Same here

Lou u my kinda gal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup! Hit me up

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By *phrodite72Woman
over a year ago

dublin/galway

"Sure why not. Anyone can message me any time anyway.

Just on the messages above. I've had quite a few first messages from women since I joined. Why not like?

It's not a 1950's dance hall lads

I'm a 1950s kinda gal

For you Aphrodite I'd put on my best shoes and treat you like a lady

Well the shoes are paramount

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By *onegal82Man
over a year ago

letterkenny/Belfast

feel free to,send ladies

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

"Sure why not. Anyone can message me any time anyway.

Just on the messages above. I've had quite a few first messages from women since I joined. Why not like?

It's not a 1950's dance hall lads

I'm a 1950s kinda gal

For you Aphrodite I'd put on my best shoes and treat you like a lady

Well the shoes are paramount

A whirl around the Warwick and a walk on the prom? I'll have you home by ten.

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By *ockney1981 OP Man
over a year ago

Llandysul

"I'll make the effort of there is something intriguing about the profile.. Blank profile, no details and dick pics won't get a message...

But have you ever done it? I’m sure you haven’t because you’ve probably got a tonne of messages to go through

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let’s make the second Sunday of the month for the ladies to make the first step in messaging a fella, and taking the first step.

Don't be pestering me lol

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By *ockney1981 OP Man
over a year ago

Llandysul

"Good luck with that one . Its upto us men to make the effort with the lovely ladies

I'm not in though as I'm not doing new meets for the foreseeable future so there is no point .

What kind of message would you recommend for the gentlemen of this site to send a lady?

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By *ockney1981 OP Man
over a year ago

Llandysul

"Let’s make the second Sunday of the month for the ladies to make the first step in messaging a fella, and taking the first step.

Don't be pestering me lol

Lol that wasn’t my intention at all just wanted for you to see what I had to say privately, I really appreciate your input as well as other female members. Us men don’t know it all you know lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let’s make the second Sunday of the month for the ladies to make the first step in messaging a fella, and taking the first step.

Don't be pestering me lol

Lol that wasn’t my intention at all just wanted for you to see what I had to say privately, I really appreciate your input as well as other female members. Us men don’t know it all you know lol"

I'm only yanking your chain op lol.. its called banter x

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Ok I'm in but ladies please no pussy pics with the first message

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By *ockney1981 OP Man
over a year ago

Llandysul

"Ok I'm in but ladies please no pussy pics with the first message

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok I'm in but ladies please no pussy pics with the first message

Your safe with me Bog .. my pussy is tied up for the summer

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

What kind of message would you recommend for the gentlemen of this site to send a lady? "

One that reflects shows they read her profile.

The main thing though when I get messages is not so much the message I get unless it's a dumbass faf etc type,that's just an immediate delete, but it's the persons profile for me. I look at a guys profile before I even open if I like it then I'm more likely to reply.

There is no magic formula for messages on here or profiles either. What appeals to one person will make others just delete.

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By *ockney1981 OP Man
over a year ago

Llandysul

What kind of message would you recommend for the gentlemen of this site to send a lady?

One that reflects shows they read her profile.

There is no magic formula for messages on here or profiles either. What appeals to one person will make others just delete. "

So honest answer, what do you think when you look at my profile?

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By *phrodite72Woman
over a year ago

dublin/galway

"Sure why not. Anyone can message me any time anyway.

Just on the messages above. I've had quite a few first messages from women since I joined. Why not like?

It's not a 1950's dance hall lads

I'm a 1950s kinda gal

For you Aphrodite I'd put on my best shoes and treat you like a lady

Well the shoes are paramount

A whirl around the Warwick and a walk on the prom? I'll have you home by ten."

Ten??? Thats disappointing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never a problem sending on a 1st message to a profile that Interests me

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

My god I've just been sent such a gorgeous pussy photo

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"Ok I'm in but ladies please no pussy pics with the first message

Your safe with me Bog .. my pussy is tied up for the summer

Sure I could bring it for a walk lou

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

"Sure why not. Anyone can message me any time anyway.

Just on the messages above. I've had quite a few first messages from women since I joined. Why not like?

It's not a 1950's dance hall lads

I'm a 1950s kinda gal

For you Aphrodite I'd put on my best shoes and treat you like a lady

Well the shoes are paramount

A whirl around the Warwick and a walk on the prom? I'll have you home by ten.

Ten??? Thats disappointing

What can I say, it's the 50's

Now if you want to bring it up to the naughties I could make an altogether different kind of indecent proposal.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"My god I've just been sent such a gorgeous pussy photo

Well I thought you deserved one at least.

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By *ockney1981 OP Man
over a year ago

Llandysul

"My god I've just been sent such a gorgeous pussy photo

Well I thought you deserved one at least.

I deserve one please lol

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By *r. JMan
over a year ago

Wicklow

Me too

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"My god I've just been sent such a gorgeous pussy photo

Well I thought you deserved one at least.

I deserve one please lol"

Be careful what you wish for

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By *acob12369Man
over a year ago

URPANTS

Never get messages. Send me one please , someone please

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By *apri 555Man
over a year ago

wexford or Dublin

Still no messages mine must be broken

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By *phrodite72Woman
over a year ago

dublin/galway

"Sure why not. Anyone can message me any time anyway.

Just on the messages above. I've had quite a few first messages from women since I joined. Why not like?

It's not a 1950's dance hall lads

I'm a 1950s kinda gal

For you Aphrodite I'd put on my best shoes and treat you like a lady

Well the shoes are paramount

A whirl around the Warwick and a walk on the prom? I'll have you home by ten.

Ten??? Thats disappointing

What can I say, it's the 50's

Now if you want to bring it up to the naughties I could make an altogether different kind of indecent proposal. "

My kind of proposal

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By *ondonDubMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I’m up for this, see if I can beat my previous record

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bumble for swingers! I like x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I’m game even though I’m a bit late to the party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in lol

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By *ockney1981 OP Man
over a year ago

Llandysul

I will add though lads if a lady does take time out and respond with a no thanks not interested don’t turn into a dickhead and get nasty. Just accept and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've enough messages now ladies. I'll try my best to reply to as many as I can. be patient xx

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

I'm In

Eagerly waiting all the lovely ladies

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By *otownkid1967Man
over a year ago

Portlaoise

Ahh sure why not, send away ladies

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By *huCullainMan
over a year ago

Rathowen

Ah go on then....

Lou..give the other girls a chance please

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