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By *ornywife20 OP   Couple
over a year ago

North Cork

We had a well verified couple contact us arrange a meet messaged us twice during the day to make sure the meet was still on then no show no message and we had turned down more offers after they contacted us . So annoying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Incredibly frustrating guys hopefully it won't take from ye're weekend away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And here I am real man no time waste but still on end of the line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And here I am real man no time waste but still on end of the line "

But they wanted a different man, one who will drop everything at their beckon call, one who would stick his face and his pride and joy into every crevasse offered, don't you get it this pussy is so good it should be floated on stock markets

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

Unfortunately it happens to us all just report block and move on and remember it's their loss for missing the chance with you both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And here I am real man no time waste but still on end of the line

But they wanted a different man, one who will drop everything at their beckon call, one who would stick his face and his pride and joy into every crevasse offered, don't you get it this pussy is so good it should be floated on stock markets "

All pussy are good. But the thing is if you set up a meeting and you say you gonna be there just be there...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And here I am real man no time waste but still on end of the line

But they wanted a different man, one who will drop everything at their beckon call, one who would stick his face and his pride and joy into every crevasse offered, don't you get it this pussy is so good it should be floated on stock markets

All pussy are good. But the thing is if you set up a meeting and you say you gonna be there just be there... "

Here's hoping the message you and you go ballsdeep

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Hopefully you reported them to the site to log it against them in case the mods see a pattern

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"We had a well verified couple contact us arrange a meet messaged us twice during the day to make sure the meet was still on then no show no message and we had turned down more offers after they contacted us . So annoying. "

Have you tried to contact them to see what happened?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hopefully you reported them to the site to log it against them in case the mods see a pattern "

Suppose that's a bit like running to the teacher and crying that someone doesn't want to play with me, the teacher could put the person who doesn't want to play on the naughty step as a punishment, how dare somebody deciding last minute they don't want to play and making other plans, everything wil be ok as long as you do what they want

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Hopefully you reported them to the site to log it against them in case the mods see a pattern

Suppose that's a bit like running to the teacher and crying that someone doesn't want to play with me, the teacher could put the person who doesn't want to play on the naughty step as a punishment, how dare somebody deciding last minute they don't want to play and making other plans, everything wil be ok as long as you do what they want "

I know you just love to argue so I'll explain it a bit better and then you can shout in the wind for all I care

If someone is in the habit of organising a meet and habitually not turning up then the site wants to know ....its in the rules as set down by the mods

Its in everyone's best interests that profiles like that are taken off the site and if everyone that they do it to reports them then its not someone's vendetta ...its a real thing they do

Anyone can cancel at the last minute...life gets in the way ...shit happens ....but it's how you treat others when you have to cancel that shows your true colours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And here I am real man no time waste but still on end of the line

But they wanted a different man, one who will drop everything at their beckon call, one who would stick his face and his pride and joy into every crevasse offered, don't you get it this pussy is so good it should be floated on stock markets

All pussy are good. But the thing is if you set up a meeting and you say you gonna be there just be there...

Here's hoping the message you and you go ballsdeep "

I really don't understand your frustration

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hopefully you reported them to the site to log it against them in case the mods see a pattern

Suppose that's a bit like running to the teacher and crying that someone doesn't want to play with me, the teacher could put the person who doesn't want to play on the naughty step as a punishment, how dare somebody deciding last minute they don't want to play and making other plans, everything wil be ok as long as you do what they want

I know you just love to argue so I'll explain it a bit better and then you can shout in the wind for all I care

If someone is in the habit of organising a meet and habitually not turning up then the site wants to know ....its in the rules as set down by the mods

Its in everyone's best interests that profiles like that are taken off the site and if everyone that they do it to reports them then its not someone's vendetta ...its a real thing they do

Anyone can cancel at the last minute...life gets in the way ...shit happens ....but it's how you treat others when you have to cancel that shows your true colours "

No shows are becoming so common now it's hard to fathom why, couples seem to be getting let down badly, hire a mickey for free and complain when it let's you Down, I suppose the thoughts pounding some chaps wife in front of him can be daunting, he could offer some words of inspiration like go on lad pound my wife harder don't be a soft lad, even she could offer up some advice on what she likes and what she doesn't and you wouldn't feel used at all afterwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You gotta love the forums

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over a year ago

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
over a year ago

kinkytown


"We had a well verified couple contact us arrange a meet messaged us twice during the day to make sure the meet was still on then no show no message and we had turned down more offers after they contacted us . So annoying. "

That's just ridiculous behavior. No excuse for wasting people's time like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know when you verified you have green thick. It should be when you are cunt and time wasters it should be some red thick so everyone will know to not take this profile to serious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hopefully you reported them to the site to log it against them in case the mods see a pattern

Suppose that's a bit like running to the teacher and crying that someone doesn't want to play with me, the teacher could put the person who doesn't want to play on the naughty step as a punishment, how dare somebody deciding last minute they don't want to play and making other plans, everything wil be ok as long as you do what they want

I know you just love to argue so I'll explain it a bit better and then you can shout in the wind for all I care

If someone is in the habit of organising a meet and habitually not turning up then the site wants to know ....its in the rules as set down by the mods

Its in everyone's best interests that profiles like that are taken off the site and if everyone that they do it to reports them then its not someone's vendetta ...its a real thing they do

Anyone can cancel at the last minute...life gets in the way ...shit happens ....but it's how you treat others when you have to cancel that shows your true colours

No shows are becoming so common now it's hard to fathom why, couples seem to be getting let down badly, hire a mickey for free and complain when it let's you Down, I suppose the thoughts pounding some chaps wife in front of him can be daunting, he could offer some words of inspiration like go on lad pound my wife harder don't be a soft lad, even she could offer up some advice on what she likes and what she doesn't and you wouldn't feel used at all afterwards "

Except it was a couple who let them down...

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By *ornywife20 OP   Couple
over a year ago

North Cork

Anything can happen but it doesn't take much so send a message saying sorry can't make it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anything can happen but it doesn't take much so send a message saying sorry can't make it . "

It’s just a lack of basic manners and having no respect for other people’s time or feelings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The topic of Timewasters again, like the song says " if it ain't one thing it's another " this joint is full of Timewasters and the sad thing ..and it's really sad ..that people only find out about Timewasters when they go through all the steps of meeting..why oh why are people Timewasters ??? They just are

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By *llthewaysMan
over a year ago

City centre/Naas

So things happen, we all get that. No matter how much you want to meet someone or a couple something can come up.

... That being said you should let the people know as soon as possible. Just no shows can be an absolute mental killer.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"We had a well verified couple contact us arrange a meet messaged us twice during the day to make sure the meet was still on then no show no message and we had turned down more offers after they contacted us . So annoying.

Have you tried to contact them to see what happened? "

Just to be clear did you ask them why ?

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By *ornywife20 OP   Couple
over a year ago

North Cork

Couldn't be bothered they didn't have the decency to message.

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By *llthewaysMan
over a year ago

City centre/Naas


"Couldn't be bothered they didn't have the decency to message. "

I don't think you are the one that needs to reach out in this situation anyway. Hopefully there was just some miscommunication or some such. Hope springs eternal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately time wasters make up a large portion of this site, it's a shame because if they were filtered out then the actual genuine fun loving social folk of here would actually all get to know each other.

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By *olverineMan
over a year ago

ennis

What classes as a time waster, gad a couple look profile, I sad hi gotta massage back any pics, I said what kind..massage read so l said if ye don't ask I can't help....again massage read, I massage again saying no one puts a gun to my head anymore if ye don't want to chat block me...I was right I got blocked...is that not a form of time wastering..

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By *aneIsMyNameTV/TS
over a year ago

Dublin

Ooof! I remember starting out being really taken for a ride.

Lost €60 in taxi fees one time to a time waster one time who gave a fake address. Reported to fab and account is still up and at it. Also ditched my friends for the meet and just lost that evening off from work in general. So I’ve a real strict no KIK or snap rule. You gotta have their digits and they gotta have it be not private numbers etc.

Just gotta learn and move on and get better at sussing everyone out.

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