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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

So the ever re-occurring threads from single men struggling to get a meet on here got me thinking

...imagine the ratio of men to women was the other way around.

What impact would that have? Would there be more meets/sex to have? How would it change behaviour on both sides?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

No different than it is now.

Supply and demand doesn't mean a quality supply.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Women would start threads

Why cant I get a meet ....

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"No different than it is now.

Supply and demand doesn't mean a quality supply.

"

Yeah not sure about that RB. Define quality in this case. Bigger supply gives you more choice and increases chance of a match.

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Women would start threads

Why cant I get a meet .... "

Wondering why 'fill me in later' as profile blurb and various vag shots don't draw the lads in.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"No different than it is now.

Supply and demand doesn't mean a quality supply.

Yeah not sure about that RB. Define quality in this case. Bigger supply gives you more choice and increases chance of a match.

"

Maybe but if it was that simple why do so many women complain they can't find decent guys or guys who suit what they are looking for?

There will always be guys who will shag any woman without much thought but for anyone who is fussy they will still have to sift through the chaff.

Even as it stands now the discussion is always about how women have choices because of the imbalance but look at it from the other side.

There may well be fewer women at the moment but that doesn't always equate to all men being attracted to them or that all women here are lovely or friendly or approachable.

Flip that around to your scenario and many women will say there isn't as great a choice and a lot of those are arseholes.

No different than now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No different than it is now.

Supply and demand doesn't mean a quality supply.

Yeah not sure about that RB. Define quality in this case. Bigger supply gives you more choice and increases chance of a match.

"

It might increase the chances but I still believe that *most* women are more discerning about who they have sex with than *many* of the men here. I think there's a perception amongst the men who blame the skewed ratios on their lack of success that more women would be an instant cure for their woes; that the only reason they have little or no luck here is simply down to there being not enough women to go round. The reality, for me/us anyway, is that if there's 10 men or 100 men, if none are what we're looking for then we'd rather do without. But yes, I'd concede that our chances of finding someone might increase but it's no guarantee

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"Ladies, it's not dial-a-ride ffs! Just cos I'm on the site, it doesn't mean I'm going to fuck every woman who sends me a photo of her axe wound. Enough with the fucking pussy pics. Also, my eyes are up here.."

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By *ofistimacatedMan
over a year ago

cavan town

Please stop sending fanny pics ladies, I know what they look like, I'm not afraid to use the block button. I'll look for you if I need you.

Jaysus, 'magine

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"No different than it is now.

Supply and demand doesn't mean a quality supply.

Yeah not sure about that RB. Define quality in this case. Bigger supply gives you more choice and increases chance of a match.

Maybe but if it was that simple why do so many women complain they can't find decent guys or guys who suit what they are looking for?

There will always be guys who will shag any woman without much thought but for anyone who is fussy they will still have to sift through the chaff.

Even as it stands now the discussion is always about how women have choices because of the imbalance but look at it from the other side.

There may well be fewer women at the moment but that doesn't always equate to all men being attracted to them or that all women here are lovely or friendly or approachable.

Flip that around to your scenario and many women will say there isn't as great a choice and a lot of those are arseholes.

No different than now. "

There's a fair amount of women on here who get in their own way of finding a suitable meet for various reasons (you could start a whole new thread on that one). A change in ratio might help with some behavioural issues.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"

There's a fair amount of women on here who get in their own way of finding a suitable meet for various reasons (you could start a whole new thread on that one). A change in ratio might help with some behavioural issues. "

I'm pretty sure there are a fair few people here, of both genders, who aren't looking to meet so much as looking for confirmation of their desirability, to know that they could meet someone if they wanted to. Mind you, I don't have an issue with that once they're upfront about it.

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"

There's a fair amount of women on here who get in their own way of finding a suitable meet for various reasons (you could start a whole new thread on that one). A change in ratio might help with some behavioural issues.

I'm pretty sure there are a fair few people here, of both genders, who aren't looking to meet so much as looking for confirmation of their desirability, to know that they could meet someone if they wanted to. Mind you, I don't have an issue with that once they're upfront about it. "

Sssshhh, stop outing us - I'm in dire need of validation

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"

There's a fair amount of women on here who get in their own way of finding a suitable meet for various reasons (you could start a whole new thread on that one). A change in ratio might help with some behavioural issues.

I'm pretty sure there are a fair few people here, of both genders, who aren't looking to meet so much as looking for confirmation of their desirability, to know that they could meet someone if they wanted to. Mind you, I don't have an issue with that once they're upfront about it.

Sssshhh, stop outing us - I'm in dire need of validation "

Ya big tease ya!

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"

There's a fair amount of women on here who get in their own way of finding a suitable meet for various reasons (you could start a whole new thread on that one). A change in ratio might help with some behavioural issues.

I'm pretty sure there are a fair few people here, of both genders, who aren't looking to meet so much as looking for confirmation of their desirability, to know that they could meet someone if they wanted to. Mind you, I don't have an issue with that once they're upfront about it. "

Everyone is here for their own reasons and no problem with that.

What I mean is that not everyone has wised up to the fact that there's no perfect man out there and too much choice can actually spoil your selection process as in the gems might be harder to spot and your tolerance levels are set very tight.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"So the ever re-occurring threads from single men struggling to get a meet on here got me thinking

...imagine the ratio of men to women was the other way around.

What impact would that have? Would there be more meets/sex to have? How would it change behaviour on both sides?

"

Yous have to figure out a way to completely shift our societies gender/sex dynamics for it to make any difference.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"

There's a fair amount of women on here who get in their own way of finding a suitable meet for various reasons (you could start a whole new thread on that one). A change in ratio might help with some behavioural issues.

I'm pretty sure there are a fair few people here, of both genders, who aren't looking to meet so much as looking for confirmation of their desirability, to know that they could meet someone if they wanted to. Mind you, I don't have an issue with that once they're upfront about it.

Everyone is here for their own reasons and no problem with that.

What I mean is that not everyone has wised up to the fact that there's no perfect man out there and too much choice can actually spoil your selection process as in the gems might be harder to spot and your tolerance levels are set very tight.

"

Sorry, what?

Let me just tell you... There is one perfect man out here!

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"

There's a fair amount of women on here who get in their own way of finding a suitable meet for various reasons (you could start a whole new thread on that one). A change in ratio might help with some behavioural issues.

I'm pretty sure there are a fair few people here, of both genders, who aren't looking to meet so much as looking for confirmation of their desirability, to know that they could meet someone if they wanted to. Mind you, I don't have an issue with that once they're upfront about it.

Everyone is here for their own reasons and no problem with that.

What I mean is that not everyone has wised up to the fact that there's no perfect man out there and too much choice can actually spoil your selection process as in the gems might be harder to spot and your tolerance levels are set very tight.

Sorry, what?

Let me just tell you... There is one perfect man out here! "

Is he on here?

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By *llthewaysMan
over a year ago

City centre/Naas

I have a vivid imagination, but such a shift on Fab breaks all the rules of reality

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"No different than it is now.

Supply and demand doesn't mean a quality supply.

Yeah not sure about that RB. Define quality in this case. Bigger supply gives you more choice and increases chance of a match.

It might increase the chances but I still believe that *most* women are more discerning about who they have sex with than *many* of the men here.

I think there's a perception amongst the men who blame the skewed ratios on their lack of success that more women would be an instant cure for their woes; that the only reason they have little or no luck here is simply down to there being not enough women to go round. The reality, for me/us anyway, is that if there's 10 men or 100 men, if none are what we're looking for then we'd rather do without. But yes, I'd concede that our chances of finding someone might increase but it's no guarantee "

I fully agree with your first paragraph and I think it's important to choose your meets wisely. And this isn't in contradiction with my other posts, sometimes too much choice can be a hindrance.

Anyhow I believe a more balanced ratio would make a difference in matching and yes there still would be the ones left on the shelf.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

interesting post miss.

over in tinder and pof the ratios are more balanced. pof might have slightly more females. from a guys point of view it's way easier score a date on pof or tinder but the girls and couples on fab are miles more fun!

nothing great in this life comes easy

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By *inxnmasterCouple
over a year ago

naughty valley


"So the ever re-occurring threads from single men struggling to get a meet on here got me thinking

...imagine the ratio of men to women was the other way around.

What impact would that have? Would there be more meets/sex to have? How would it change behaviour on both sides?

"

I think it’s reality already . Whilst all men compete for most women on the market alike, 90% of all women compete for the cream 5% of men due to their tighter selection criteria

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr just said, he'd take the grenade and let all you ladies reverse gangbang him

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By *alvin.Man
over a year ago

Cork/Dublin

Thank you kind Sir. But I'm low key about these things.

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By *alvin.Man
over a year ago

Cork/Dublin


"

There's a fair amount of women on here who get in their own way of finding a suitable meet for various reasons (you could start a whole new thread on that one). A change in ratio might help with some behavioural issues.

I'm pretty sure there are a fair few people here, of both genders, who aren't looking to meet so much as looking for confirmation of their desirability, to know that they could meet someone if they wanted to. Mind you, I don't have an issue with that once they're upfront about it.

Everyone is here for their own reasons and no problem with that.

What I mean is that not everyone has wised up to the fact that there's no perfect man out there and too much choice can actually spoil your selection process as in the gems might be harder to spot and your tolerance levels are set very tight.

Sorry, what?

Let me just tell you... There is one perfect man out here! "

Thank you kind Sir. But I'm low key about these things.

Seems I'm far from perfect when it comes to replying with a quote in forums. I'll just go back to bed so

like this thread thou...x

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Mr just said, he'd take the grenade and let all you ladies reverse gangbang him "

That's awfully kind of him

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By *ka ..Agent k ..Man
over a year ago

..


"Women would start threads

Why cant I get a meat! .... "

Fixed that for ya BM

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By *astelloWoman
over a year ago

Far far away

Does it not relate to desirability.

Imagine a room of 100 different men. Odds are that I may find 20% attractive when you get over their physical attributes it may decrease to 10% based on what appeals to me. It's not about the quantity it more of what attracts me. Likewise I'm sure the 10:1 ratio refers if the situation was reversed.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Women would start threads

Why cant I get a meat! ....

Fixed that for ya BM"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you'd see which sex is shallow. Obviously everyone has their types, but to see who gives people the time of day, has a conversation etc...

There would still be cliques

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you'd see which sex is shallow. Obviously everyone has their types, but to see who gives people the time of day, has a conversation etc...

There would still be cliques "

I want to be attracted to the people I have sex with - in all aspects that attraction encompasses. I want the people I have sex with to be attracted to me. I think that's the bare minimum to expect. If that makes me shallow then so be it. This is my body and I decide who I share it with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What impact would that have? Would there be more meets/sex to have? How would it change behaviour on both sides?

I imagine there would be more meets just due to the fact that there were more women, the behavior change I'm not so sure about. It might create a very interesting realisation about ones own importance or value, as it's really a supply and demand Market. It's not ever going to happen but it would be an interesting experiment, i for one am very open to participate in, especially if the women are of the quality of those posting on this thread.

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By *erviceDepartmentMan
over a year ago

Dublin Kildare Meath Wicklow

Consider yourself validated Cherry, that photo with the m&m’s is sublime... Ye should get an award for that one!!

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I would think there would still be lots of people giving out over the exact same things. But women would find it harder to get meets and they would probably be the ones mostly giving out about getting no replies etc.

To be honest though I don't know if I could be bothered with the agro of it all,but then maybe I would because I've never had an issue sending first messages to people on here .

I do think fair play to the men on here who make an effort with profiles and are decent guys who get ignored and keep trying on here without using the usual excuses. But then those are the men who have success on here now that I think about it.

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By *ildGroverMan
over a year ago

rathfarnham

Loads of woman and few men….

Means more women giving out about being let down

Its difficult enough as it is, our tiny brains would be melted from having to choose….

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"So the ever re-occurring threads from single men struggling to get a meet on here got me thinking

...imagine the ratio of men to women was the other way around.

What impact would that have? Would there be more meets/sex to have? How would it change behaviour on both sides?

"

I think it would be different because a greater number of men are less selective that alot of woman .

I also think men would take far more chances meeting woman they didn't know ...

I think if men had more options and woman less it may mean woman would need to put in more work

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"No different than it is now.

Supply and demand doesn't mean a quality supply.

Yeah not sure about that RB. Define quality in this case. Bigger supply gives you more choice and increases chance of a match.

Maybe but if it was that simple why do so many women complain they can't find decent guys or guys who suit what they are looking for?

There will always be guys who will shag any woman without much thought but for anyone who is fussy they will still have to sift through the chaff.

Even as it stands now the discussion is always about how women have choices because of the imbalance but look at it from the other side.

There may well be fewer women at the moment but that doesn't always equate to all men being attracted to them or that all women here are lovely or friendly or approachable.

Flip that around to your scenario and many women will say there isn't as great a choice and a lot of those are arseholes.

No different than now. "

Good points ... I personally find it difficult to find ladies within my preferences, relatively close , looking for same .

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"

There's a fair amount of women on here who get in their own way of finding a suitable meet for various reasons (you could start a whole new thread on that one). A change in ratio might help with some behavioural issues.

I'm pretty sure there are a fair few people here, of both genders, who aren't looking to meet so much as looking for confirmation of their desirability, to know that they could meet someone if they wanted to. Mind you, I don't have an issue with that once they're upfront about it. "

I would go so far as to say (unpopular as it may be) I'm pretty sure there are many on here to get that ego rubbing "aren't I great" feeling because its the only place they can get it , ratio plays a big part there for many .

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"So the ever re-occurring threads from single men struggling to get a meet on here got me thinking

...imagine the ratio of men to women was the other way around.

What impact would that have? Would there be more meets/sex to have? How would it change behaviour on both sides?

I think it’s reality already . Whilst all men compete for most women on the market alike, 90% of all women compete for the cream 5% of men due to their tighter selection criteria "

Shit dose that make me a woman

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Loads of woman and few men….

Means more women giving out about being let down

Its difficult enough as it is, our tiny brains would be melted from having to choose…."

Grove bud .... thats why we are built with dicktectors

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over


"So the ever re-occurring threads from single men struggling to get a meet on here got me thinking

...imagine the ratio of men to women was the other way around.

What impact would that have? Would there be more meets/sex to have? How would it change behaviour on both sides?

"

It would make no difference . I would still only have limited free time , I would still try to be super efficient at using it and I would still meet those who I get on with and whose calendars align with mine .

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

I’m pretty sure my sex drive would improve

If I’m constantly going to be getting messages and massaging my ego I’m eventually going to start believing it

This in turn will mean my viewpoint will change in other things

Whilst this isn’t reality in the real world ie. there isn’t a large disparity in numbers of males and females looking for partners, Fab is a whole diffeeent world in itself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wet clit will be everywhere

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